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Awww this is so sweet, hope she saw/sees it
If only my male friends were like this and not have other agendas

jennyching: Forgiveness is not just about when it happen. If your forgive doesn't matter if it happen before or after.

Refusing to forgive is a sin. If we receive forgiveness from God, we must give it to others who hurt us. We cannot hold grudges or seek revenge. We are to trust God for justice and forgive the person who offended us. That does not mean we must forget the offense, however; usually that's beyond our power. Forgiveness means releasing the other from blame, leaving the event in God's hands, and moving on.
"We may resume a relationship with the person if we had one, or we may not". Its the essence of forgiveness.

Personally, would you forgive the person and get back with them? It's want thing to preach and another to practice what you preach

Dey chop your fish, I dey chop my garri

Alyricist★Laura:
I have no desire to Suppress my Lady, via force

If a Man Has to Forcibly retrain his Woman from Cheating, then your relationship isn't really worth a damn Imo

Restraint should be out of Loyalty & Natural Emotional Commitment, not Force, if she still has the desires to cheat, and does not act on it, Imo that is the same as actual cheating.

Her Mind should Marvel at the Perplexing Enigma That You May Appear to Be. If she is thinking of cheating, that means you just aren't Exciting Enough for her {Anymore/Never Were}

I am my Own Harshest Critic

I Critique Myself to a Level & Standard in Life that is nearly unable to ever be Achieved

All Great Men Strive to Become or Be What they Can not Be, Because the Level Slightly Below Immortal is Still Divine

Wow

addicted268: Yes I can.what I can't stand is d lies.cheating on me is bad enough,lying about it shows he's not ready to stop and it would feel like trying to play on my intelligence.

I totally understand you! One thing I can't stand is a lying man, makes me feel like they think I'm so stupid that I don't know they're blatantly lying!

ifebosco: nigerian runs girl as usual

Jumping to conclusions as usual. Maybe if your broke ass was able to provide for her, she would not see the need to be with an alhaji to provide for you both.

greg_o: For a lady or even a man to cheat on you while dating/ courting is a clear indication that he or she must cheat on you even after marriage. That is one of the major reasons why u shouldn't rush to marry someone u don't know very well. Don't allow useless feelings to ruin you.

I honestly don't think if someone is truly sorry and remorseful that they would do it again? People change right?

REALITY101: No offense I've been meaning to ask you.. Are you a tranny? Once again no offense

Funny how people always say no offence when their question is clearly offensive! Yes I'm a tranny na, mschew!

@tjololade:
Why are you always awake Princessmel?

A future president should not sleep until dream becomes reality

Mynd_44: He might have lied to you. Or perhaps he was bi

Good point about him being bi, but I doubt a gay guy would lie just to pretend to be straight, last I heard was that they hated women.

Moji12: It won't hurt an inch compared to if he left me for fellow woman. Good riddiance!

So if it was a woman, would you fight to get him back?

Monicasque: it wouldn't hurt much because i certainly do not have what the other man will give him but if it was him living me for another girl. I would really be hurt because we are both woman. I would rather he dumps me for a man than a woman

I would not be hurt,or do anything at at all.If he likes men... he likes men and there is nothing i can do about it.Other than that i know he dumped me solely on my gender which is not my fault

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I perfectly understand what you both are saying, personally I will feel very bad because when I met him he was straight and then we break up so he can be with a guy, I would think I had something to do with it or I didn't do enough in the relationship

big-t:
im now princesmel by fire by thunder!

Hahahahaha

All of you saying no, why not? What If they promise never to do it again? Or maybe they even cheated to provide for you from alhaji?

Ajibel: Lol
It was that time i do watch mojo that i prefer lez not nau. I love changes buh it'd only do you good if you'd only have a female as a playmate then when you're ready to marry, GO FOR A MALE!!! Just a dirty advice from me

Lol thanks for your 'dirty' advice

Mynd_44: I would find another girl.....if you fall off a horse, you get on another one

Just like that?! Won't you feel like you let down the male species?

I can understand a guy leaving a girl for another girl but if he left you so he could be with another guy, what would you do? And how would you feel? And vice versa, if she left you so she could be with another girl? Keep the answers rolling

If your partner cheated on you before marriage, can you forgive them and take them back? And if it was after marriage, can you?

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Thank you

Thanks love

goshen26: 'm sure you don't want the number of your posters to be more than voters

Was that meant to be a sensible comment because darling, that didn't make sense to me

Ajibel: I just hope you aren't serious Curiosity killed the cat. You may want to attempt a girl then you'd loose yourself and later find it difficult to break away from your new found love/addiction. By then, your "political" dream is over
#infact try it sef i dnt want a female presido

You need to embrace change darling

ozo_emeka: not a problem as long as you have a logical manifesto to present

Thanks, all of you have made me more confident, I have so many great plans for Nigeria, just need to start putting things into action

autumn.flower:
Don't take it personal.. Its against law of nature for a woman to lead when there are able men.. God did not make it that way so, if you have any issues you know who to take it up with.

However, I believe this is a joke because someone who truly want to aspire for the post of a president can not think of doing that in the near future if they do not have a political career already.. I mean thoes who are well know (atiku, buhari etc) already finding it difficult to make it as persident talk more of a nonentity(no offence)

this is nigerian politics. You have to start from somewhere, climb up the ladder.



Finally, FP is not a ticket to heaven, its meant for VIP topics, but lately that's scarce so they just picking topics from 2years ago, topics that has already graced FP just to generate traffic, the mods don't give a rat what your aspirations are, they just looking for traffic so if you there thinking your dumbass topic has quality then you're tripping on something.

Sorry I couldn't be bothered to read all that trash so just skipped to the end and I see no reason why you should refer to my topic as dumbass.

Just cause your aspirations may be to remain in the kitchen and slave for a man, gives you no right to put down my aspiration.

Anyway, you have just displayed your stupidity so I won't engage in this foolery of yours any longer !

Ajibel: Err...ermm..our "future first female president" is a les***bian
Imagine i link this thread 2ur ambitious thread,fowl yansh go open

I have nothing to hide and I wouldn't call myself a lesbian, more like bi-curious I guess but hey whatever floats your boat

benalvino: lol... are you on kik? Line? whatsapp?

Whatsapp

FLYGERIAN91: I will whole heartedly vote for a Lady the day any runs for presidency. I don tire 4 all these lie lie men wey dey hustle to chop money and handle power! M'Lady, I dont know you but i want u to keep that dream alive!

I will, thank you

benalvino: yeah... 800 pounds and its actually run all your windows application... and all android application plus its as small as the ipad can connect it to 3 monitors at once... you can place call of duty on it. its just a great piece of machine... sony Samsung and other companies have their own also so you have lots of choice.

You're tempting me by the moment, the more I look at it, the more I want to just buy it, lol

benalvino: yeah... 800 pounds and its actually run all your windows application... and all android application plus its as small as the ipad can connect it to 3 monitors at once... you can place call of duty on it. its just a great piece of machine... sony Samsung and other companies have their own also so you have lots of choice.

You're tempting me by the moment, the more I look at it, the more I want to just but it, lol

It's pretty cool actually

To each his own I guess, to all those who have supported me and have no problem voting for me, thank you very much and know that today the journey has begun for me and you were all part of creating your future 1st female president of Nigeria, I shall not forget you and thanks for all your advice. Much love, Mel

saintneo: [size=18pt]Most comments here stupid. Why reject a female? Just because she doesn't have balls doesn't mean she can't grow two. On the kitchen comment, must I remind you that M Thachter served her guests tea sometimes.

I will vote a logically reasonable woman.[/size]

Thank you

blink182: do not be discouraged. Start from somewhere, align with a political ideology that pleases you. Get funding and start small, probably councillor or Lg chairman. Join or form a powerful pressure group and be known in your immediate community. If you are a non-resident of your state then just relocate home or forget the dream.

If you really got money to blow, then to hell with all I said, buy a presidential ticket come 2015 and watch things unfold.

Haha thanks, believe me I'm far from discouraged, if anything I'm more determined, thanks for your support