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This is about my marriage.I LIVE IN LAGOS NIGERIA..I met my husband in a bus on my way to LAGOS..What attracted me was his gentle looks and his sense of humour during our discussion..he acted to be God Fearing..he took me to a beach and proposed to me..my families didnt want me to marry him.but i prevail..with God intervention and prayers..cos he was consistent and never gave up...I have been married for 10years.. our wedding and honeymoon was actually unique..things were really moving fine but i think i made a big mistake marrying him... A

fter my first son's birth and my daughters...but problems starts cripping in when my husband started making money..right now my marriage is crumbling.and i think i need an advice on this issue...he beats me,,,throw my things out of the house...he makes some statements like...me not succeeding..that i do not like my fineface..and even telling me if i remeber how a man slaughterd his wife...i dont understand the meaning of the..i have never been unfaithfull to my husband though am beautiful..i believe that when one is married you dont need to be unfaithful but focused.

why i said i made a mistake is becos..i have tried to achieve so many thing but he wouldnt allow me cos he thinks am beautiful and that other men might see me if am too expose..thats why he stopped me school.cos there are lots of men there...closed down my shop cos they pentronize me and even seized my handset.he is quite jealous..and so many others..he has turned me into full time house wife..the worst of all is that he doesnt provide me with money even for the kidz cos he feels i will go out if he is not around..

please my fellow friends i do not know the reason for all this..how can you leave with a wife or woman if you cant trust her.. the owrst of all is that i have caught him several times with womwn even up to going to the hotel where he lodged..he come back feeling cool and telling me that only men are allowed to do that...Pls how can i love so a man..i even got an inormation that he is in a cult...he keeps late night and bad friends..he is not even a christian as he claimed..

PLEASE IS IT RIGHT TO PULLOUT BEFORE HE KILLS ME IF WITHIN THE BREAK OUT CAN I REMARRY..WHAT HAPPENS TO MY FOUR KIDS..THEIR SCHOOL..HOW AM I SURE THEY WILL BE TAKING CARE OF PROPERY AND NIN GOOD SCHOOLSHOULD I GO TO THE WELFARE??

Right now..am feed up and tired of the whole thing and need a break..

I think we need a break...

please i need all of your advice Soon??

CILLIA

my only advise for the woman is that his husband was not actually going to abuja or if i may ask did she see the airline ticket..?her husband only used abuja as an excuse..cant someone go into the departuren louge and chnage his mind..even though he bought a ticket..well i will advise the woman to just keep calm and ignore the husband..he will chnage with time if not learn another leason the hard way that by Gods grace wont take his life.

The seed he is reaping now was sown long time ago..(evil seeds) The Bible says one will reap what he/she sows..thou it may tarry..but must come in one way or the other..We should always be good to everyone as much as we give not out of neccessity but free will..the Governor has been caught..he was suppose to be many (ijaw) youth models..Many of our Heads claim to be fighting against corruption to me i feel they are using it to deceive us..so that they will not be suspected in anyway but..within the truth is that they are decivers and thieves. The bible says we should first remove the speck in our eyes before noticing other..Our Head of State or rather those in authority has a lot of speck to take off their eyes..and put their houses in order..every Nigerian could have been a million but one person would always say NO.. cos he wants to have the money alone..the money found in the governors haus if each nigerian including the poor, rich, jobless etc are given 1million naira..there would still be excess remaining. My prayer is that everyone that says the poor..widow..helpless.jobless wont survive..they too will not survive or prosper in every crooked or evil way or business they involve in.for they are definately reeping what they ve sown long time ago..many are yet to be exposed for i believe God hears the prayers of his children..