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LadiIshola:
It's Ijaodola family. And mama is dead now, been a few years now since she died. The guy you're talking about is Shared, not Saidu. He's my very good friend. They're lovely people.

Thank you so much for the correction, I knew I didn’t get the surname correctly, but I wrote what I remembered it as.
Ewoo!! Mama’s soul keep resting in peace Amen
For the Shared you sure that’s the name? He’s fair in complexion and there’s another of his brother driving a black Camry either fish or pencil light that’s dark.
Extend my greetings to the second son please.

The first bike man I entered from my PPA then in Alaro community high school Iraye Oke-Epe who told me, how good their father was while alive. He said he was very popular also.

Tunde Taiwo street in Epe comes to mind during my NYSC days in 2016
Heaven Bless the Iyadola family that rented their apartment for me
Their mother as well though aged but she’s quite a delight
Not forgetting Saidu the second son
Babamina of blessed memory
All made the Sallah a memorable one for me

oarowosola:
Honestly, you guys are funny as hell. Some of the roasts had me laughing, some were annoying, but overall I enjoyed reading the comments.

But one thing I need people to understand is this, I didn’t come here because I was looking for relationship advice. At the point I made that first post, my mind was already made up. I was already mentally done with the relationship long before I even typed anything.

The reason I shared the story was mostly because I was exhausted mentally, and I also wanted people to see how extreme certain situations can get in relationships. Sometimes people think you’re exaggerating until you start explaining the details.

Truth be told, this breakup didn’t happen overnight.

I had already been thinking about ending things for a very long time. The only thing holding me back was the fact that she is actually an amazing person in some ways. She has a soft heart, and I knew breaking up with her was going to hurt her deeply, so I kept trying to find the best possible way to do it without completely destroying her emotionally.

But the events of that final weekend just pushed me over the edge.

The way she left my kitchen after staying over, combined with everything that happened the night before, was what finally made me snap internally. It wasn’t that I suddenly realized all the issues that day. No. Those things had been building up in my mind for months.

Before I eventually sent the breakup message, I had already started emotionally withdrawing from the relationship. I stopped calling as much, stopped texting often, and stopped engaging the way I used to. She noticed it too. She kept asking what was wrong, and I would just say I’m fine, even though she knew something was clearly off.

Eventually I realized I couldn’t keep dragging it out forever. I didn’t want to keep pretending while mentally checking out. So I finally sent her a message telling her I was no longer interested in continuing the relationship.

At first, she was shocked.

She kept asking how someone could end a relationship of over a year through text without explanation. She asked if there was another person involved. She begged me not to ignore her. She said she was trying to stay calm because she was outside in public.

Honestly, reading those messages affected me because despite everything, I’m still human. I’m not heartless.

So instead of completely shutting her out, I told her we could talk later because I was busy with work at that moment.

Later that night, I finally picked up her call.

And for the first time, I explained everything fully.

I explained how draining the relationship had become for me mentally. I explained how uncomfortable I constantly felt because of the difference in our lifestyles, hygiene, responsibilities, communication patterns, effort, and overall approach to life.

I explained the incidents that stayed in my head for months, the constant untidiness, the dirty environments, the financial imbalance, the times I felt taken for granted, the moments I cleaned her entire house just to prove that basic cleanliness was not impossible.

And no, cleaning her house was never a sign of weakness or simping to me.

I did it because I loved her.

I genuinely believed maybe if I showed her how simple it was to maintain a clean environment, things would improve. That was all. But instead, things kept repeating themselves over and over again.

I also explained how frustrating it felt to constantly give financially, emotionally, and physically while feeling like the same level of thoughtfulness wasn’t being returned consistently.

By the end of the call, she broke down crying and started apologizing repeatedly. She begged me to give her another chance. She promised she would change. She promised she would work on herself and become better.

And honestly… I softened.

Maybe because deep down, despite everything, I still cared about her.

So I gave her another chance, but I made myself very clear.

I told her this wasn’t about pretending for one week or acting differently temporarily because she got called out. I told her real change has to become natural. Cleanliness, responsibility, effort, and self awareness cannot be something you perform temporarily just to save a relationship.

I told her:

“Please change for yourself, for your future kids, and for me too. Don’t just act differently now and later return to old habits. Let it become part of you naturally.

As a lady, I honestly expected you to even be correcting me on certain things, not the other way around. I’m putting a lot on the line emotionally, and I don’t want to regret my decisions later in life.

I’m not saying this like I’m doing you a favor. There are billions of men better than me, just like there are women better than you. Nobody is irreplaceable. But while two people are trying to build something meaningful together, both people should be actively working on themselves.

You are free to call out my own flaws too because I’m not a perfect human being. Relationships are supposed to be about growth, accountability, and complementing each other. The moment two people stop growing and start merely tolerating bad patterns, the relationship slowly becomes exhausting instead of peaceful.”


So yeah… that’s the full update.

Some people roasted me in the first post. Some understood me immediately. Some thought I was overreacting. Some thought I was being too soft.

But at the end of the day, nobody truly understands how emotionally draining a relationship can become until they experience living inside that reality themselves.

Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/8677133/cleaned-girlfriends-house-instantly-wanted

She deserves a second chance with a different person not you changing your mind,
Working on herself is what will take time not an immediate fix
I can’t tolerate a dirty female around me like the girl described in the passage
Eww eww

fergie001:
The GOAT stands tall with a sublime free kick


SOURCE

CR7 for a reason
He doesn’t take defeat as the end but continues trying to win
His hunger for trophies will make you think he hasn’t won anything in his football career

Your opinion is invalid
Our star boy has completed everything he desires
We love him that way
CR7 always

Kalatium:
What’s your opinion on this one?

He should have told the girlfriend to get lost, the first time after revealing she planned it with her friend.

What is he begging her for?

As a user of both Acura MDX and RDX, the MDX is your berth for that.
The RDX in our compound is usually used when within the locality and it still answers without issue

Get the MDX for peace of mind

IronCondemned:
How old are you? I don't think you have witnessed any major conflicts. Perhaps you were much younger during the first Gulf War, let me start from there....maybe you were not even born by then (no insults intended).

War is not what many of your kind think of. You need partners and allies to fight a stubborn country or regime like Iran. Why do you think Russia haven't defeated Ukraine, it's because they can't do it alone.

Israel needs support and it's not a crime or something like being weak. It is strategic partnerships.

Another noisy response full of nonsense like previous one, don’t tell me what war is. A country under sanction since 1979 Israel can’t go toe to toe with it? With all the advanced weaponry they get from the West they still failed? German chancellor called them out for their failure.
He said Iran would long be gone, yet twice they failed to achieve it in June 2025 and Feb to March 2026. You really a clown without knowing

IronCondemned:
How come all the Iranian supporters and Jihadists terrorists supporters and sympathisers come to comment on this thread all at once, something is not right. This is a well coordinated propaganda to drive a narrative.

The US and Isreal have destroyed Iran and they'll never rise to pre 28th February again. Know that war cost lives and assets and whatever the US and Israel suffered is their own part of the loss for going to war, however someone must bear the brunt which Iran did.

Left for Israel, the regime would have been long gone. Israel is combat ready even if Trump gives the order this midnight.

Iran should be grateful to Trump, they are allowed to exist because of him and Israel is not happy for that. Netanyahu will surely stir up another conflict soonest and destroy the regime completely.

You made much noise without saying anything, if Israel is wishing for Iran to be gone as you said, why are they waiting for order from Trump?
If they are well equipped as the noise of yours why haven’t they continued from where they left it?
Such an abysmal outcome

Nothing new was said by her
Such a waste of data listening to this

Mercisharelove:
Unprecedented. We are observing

There's no crossing of such nature that happened

Fake fake news

Mod push to FP without verification

GreatrAnalyst:
A general ooo

US deployed 100 soldiers to go and rescue a colonel in Iran days ago, and they did galantly.
Trust the devilish rulers, there won't even be a statement release.
No way their end is supposed to end well

US didn't rescue anyone
It was a cover up operation to steal the enriched uranium
Family of the so called rescued pilot still don't know his whereabout

Flows001:
Iran was FIGHTING USA/ISRAEL, but USA/ISRAEL were not fighting IRAN, they were fighting the IRGC and its military capabilities. And yes they successfully sent quite a handful of the hardened IRGC folks to allah.

The real fight against IRAN would have commenced last night, but for the ceasefire...

I don't take people who claimed Hamas won the war against Israel seriously sha 😂

So much cry in vain
Is this the type of sending to Allah you crying for?
For a nation that's happy to be martyred?
You will need lots of people to console you

jpmoriarti:
After Iran had been decimated. Iran was fortunate they had to use the Strait of Hormuz to bargain, otherwise US and Israel would have reduced them to rubble.

Rubbish terrorists state sponsor, who has nothing good to offer anyone except terrorism and Islamic violence.

Why are you crying in vain? Nothing you inscribed above happened. Is too difficult to swallow the shame.

zegxy:
I pity you. You dey swear on top nothing. Are you a Muslim or Christian?Trump and the US don't need to use nukes to obliterate Iran if he wants to. Iran na baby where US army and Israel are in Operation.
Did you see how the Naval Seal entered into Iran to save the pilot ?
That one ought to have taught you a lesson, that US fit enter Iran, Bleep and penetrate Iran as e sweet them🤣🤣🤣

No pilot was saved
Trump wanted to steal the enriched uranium in Isfahan by deception, but it ended in failure with the special forces he sent all killed.

A

dederocs:
Am not consoled, am happy Khomeini and his demonic barbaric hordes are dead.

Trump is not crazy, he is instilling discipline into the rabid heads of Islamic extremists

Death to all jihadists.

Khomeini has been dead for how many decades?
You don't even know the name of the person you trolling?
They are not afraid of death but welcome it with open hands unlike those fighting them who hide in bunkers because of their cowardice.
Hope US-ISRAEL is teaching RUSSIA how to win a war in two days?
The bully hasn't seen anything yet

HacheNoire:
Trump lost it after that disastrous rescue in Iran!

He tried to claim it as successful but the rage in his post says it all that, it was a disaster.

No videos to post about rescue mission or face of rescued pilot really hurt Trump.

Media houses showing the massive devastation of US aircraft’s was a big pain he could not handle.

His phone and laptop should have been taken away from him after the brief of the failed operation.

Another news said no pilot was rescued rather it was a cover up operation to extract the uranium from Isfahan which ended up in failure. The special forces were all killed in the operation.

umulobi:
What do you mean by toe to toe? I presume you aren't aware the extent of damage Iran has suffered. No single govt infrastructure is standing tall in Tehran yet you are saying toe toe. Iranian Intelligence officer kpaied this morning plus other top military echelon kpaied within this war. Aren't you aware Iran has been without internet for more than 30 days counting? Streets of Tehran are looking similar to Gaza yet you are still saying toe to toe.
I am aware in war that both sides must sustain loses but that doesn't mean toe to toe.
Ukraine is pulling a strong defense against Russia but Russians are mercilessly dealing with them,do you call it toe to toe?
Biafra made Nigerian soldiers sustain casualties, do you call it toe to toe? More Biafran soldiers and civilians kpaied,and more destruction in Biafra so it isn't toe to toe.
For your info, Iran has suffered great losses that would take them decade to rebuild and that's why they are including "restitution" in any deal with US.
Any one winning in a war does not request for a restitution. Biafra lost in the civil war and requested for restitution.
Restitution means payment or compasation for losses. Iran is requesting for that. I guess you know who is winning.
Wars aren't won on internet or social media. That Iran shot down an F15 jet after more than 31 days in a war doesn't signify "victory ". Many of those jets and other jets have been flying and dropping bombs in the Iranian airpace before now. Do you know that Biafran soldiers shot down Nigerian jets during the Civil War? Does that make them victorious? Such things are expected in a war.
Iranian strength is their missiles and they are using it effectively despite DT and Isreal destroying much of it and their launchers, but that doesn't make it seem like toe to toe. Iran is bleeding including their economy.

Weep for your country Iran didn't ask for your sympathy
Jos and Gwer in Benue state is boiling with many death yet you can't extend sympathy to them?
Allow Iran fight their war and cry for your country

A country sanctioned for 47 years is still standing yet your country without sanction have many people crying for hardship.

dederocs:
This is discipline...Iran is like bokoharam using terrorists tactics. After this due notice, you will see the real war. Don't cry genocide...I hope the nation is leveled to dust. Death to all religious extremists.

Consolation in progress
Shifting of goal post continues
See real war is the next excuse?
What a disgrace lying to yourself with "see real war"
He thought he was crazy that everyone will tremble and do his bidding? He never know what he got himself into

You will find another excuse once he tweet

Danisaint112:
You dey mind ignoramuses. Imagine U.S saying the would start targeting IRAN schools because IRAN did so. This is what some M-O-R-U-N-S up there are supporting.

Think before you write, US-ISRAEL already bombed some universities in IRAN. This isn't a recent happening but nairaland is reporting it as one.
IRAN is only doing an eye for an eye.
Think before you write, they only return the favour of what's bombed inside their country

mikeapollo:
Is Netanyshu still alive? We thought he was dead as the clueless and useless pro- Iran liars and propagandists claimed.

He's dead and gone forever
No propaganda will bring him back to life

Leilanjleeane:
Supporters of terrorism don see wetin to talk

Weep not, child... Israel is the terrorist, what they did in Gaza and Lebanon is returning back to them as they never expected.

When cases of Fulani herdsmen attack were reported, we saw how natives who tried to retaliate was handled.
This exactly what Israel and US has been doing to Iran since February 28th 2026. But, you expect Iran to fold their hands and not defend themselves?
You need to be flogged under hot sun ☀️

ceejay80s:
If Iran can fire at residential home , I think Israel should do same,
2 can play the game, no Iran sympathetic nairalander is saying anything, but let Israel or USA fire back at Iran,
Their mouth will start foaming

Iran's IRGC didn't fire at residential home, rather a bunker housing Israeli nuclear scientists in Arad 10km from Dimona the region housing their undeclared nuclear power plant in Negev that's also used for nuclear weapons production.
The blast from the targeted bunker resulted in what you saw. All accusations Israel used against Gaza is exactly what they are into. Residential houses were built around this area, 20 buildings were affected from impact of the ballistic missiles.
Cry no more any accusations from Israel against Gaza is actually pointing a finger back to what they do.
Thanks and have a lovely Sunday.
There are many casualties both dead and injured
NB: Iran IRGC are merciful not to engage in double tap by striking the health personnels evacuating the casualties from the rubbles. This what Israel usually do to health personnels in Gaza and Lebanon by bombing them.

So much noise over what has happened which can't be changed
Reality is dawning on many delusional people but oops they still argue blindly

He's gone forever probably, wasn't thinking they get to him as they did
The more Ai videos they create the more stupid they appear
Next will be another Ai video from 2024 showing him meeting some female soldiers oops

Another person added himself into same background he was in
NL mods quit allowing fake news here

Danisaint112:
IRAN cannot win this war. I guess this is the first time they are fighting a war on two fronts unlike Israel who does so on 7 fronts for months.

IRAN is just building experience with their over compromised army.

Over hyping in progress
Israel were only striking those without means of retaliation, those who can't manufacture their weapon

Iran is totally different from anything they engaged in
A country under sanction since 1979, believed in themselves and ventured into weapons production to secure their land? Give honour when you witness such courage.

PM of Israel is dead already with his war generals and intelligence officer and some ministers

Persia isn't by word of mouth

US air tanker refuelling aircraft destroyed in Saudi Arabia airbase

Iran should take their flowers, I didn't expect they withstand this far with all arrogant speeches from US and Israel leaders?

Truly is not by weapons but dedication to service

NB: Deluded ones will tell us they fighting for regime change and not at war with Iran. They already humbled is expected they switch narrative

So much for US-Israel the deluded ones were saying they will teach Russia how to perpuate war. With their narrative of after two days Iran is toast to a new beginning

They never seen anything

So much wailing by Trump fans on this thread. Trump and Bibi said two days to finish Iran. Is over a week there's no exit path of saving face.
They were warned that Supreme Leader Ali Khamanei is the one that is restraining Iran military all this while, they scoffed at it. All their air bases in Saudi Arabia, Bahrain, Kuwait, Jordan, Iraq, UAE, Qatar destroyed by a country under sanction for 47 years. Imagine what Iran will do if there's no sanction on them. What a shame US-Israel having the shocking of their life

https://www.threads.com/@jr._johnpatrick/post/DVlwYylEkY1?xmt=AQF06izrHJiYEd0yJqVglOONBuy24WxuPGij5aqPY3t_t536BG1ZlBhiFU7gn7ycOpOrqq8&source_surface=35&slof=1

https://www.threads.com/@terreross/post/DVk_RL3FDAV?xmt=AQF0BJCJaGnWMRtckAnchCeeqerxBljK4Kiq49NEBb8T5-b66GRal2lgcbQ8BMUxRIzLG2_p&source_surface=35&slof=1

https://www.threads.com/@rohaniroop/post/DVlp4hBFOdx?xmt=AQF0BtCA_QVO9m15LdXBoqnrLgoaEsVm9va_0WdYesneWKCgn1_0slsxeFvq_CvfD9rOpXPk&source_surface=35&slof=1

https://www.threads.com/@chegu/post/DVmUhVzE1Ur?xmt=AQF0JAPXsopv4HQWH6mtH2wXZezAyw9cbmvG_JO-jckpQhRs1a7nPOASqSW9f0KAv3SSi3s&source_surface=35&slof=1

Chucks13:
I think at this point US should give isreal the go-ahead to rubbish these I d I o t s called Iran.

Israel can't do anything, they have been collecting on a steady from Iran

https://www.threads.com/@jr._johnpatrick/post/DVlwYylEkY1?xmt=AQF06izrHJiYEd0yJqVglOONBuy24WxuPGij5aqPY3t_t536BG1ZlBhiFU7gn7ycOpOrqq8&source_surface=35&slof=1

https://www.threads.com/@terreross/post/DVk_RL3FDAV?xmt=AQF0BJCJaGnWMRtckAnchCeeqerxBljK4Kiq49NEBb8T5-b66GRal2lgcbQ8BMUxRIzLG2_p&source_surface=35&slof=1

https://www.threads.com/@rohaniroop/post/DVlp4hBFOdx?xmt=AQF0BtCA_QVO9m15LdXBoqnrLgoaEsVm9va_0WdYesneWKCgn1_0slsxeFvq_CvfD9rOpXPk&source_surface=35&slof=1

iichidodo:
It's a simple stuffs, America has complete air supremacy over Iranian airspace, just place boots on the ground, say like 10,000 man expeditionary force around that Strait of Hormuz. This should come with a full complement of their war gear which includes tanks, Bradley fighting vehicles, Apache gunships, A-10 warthogs, FPV drone operators and AC-103s. The strategy is not to take over iran but to draw out those terrorist IRGC for a pitched battle, in a pitched land battle of Hormuz where the sky and sea in Iran belongs to the Americans, the IRGC will be completely decimated by stratofortress B-52s, F/A 18 growlers,B-1s, B-2s, it will be a massacre....at every massacre they suffer their morale will plummet, at this point the real and original people of Iran will have no choice but to rise up against their oppressors the IRGC and take over the government.....They will sue for peace, Donald Temitope Chigozie Trump will give them peace and win Nobel peace prize....

Before you chest beat, watch the video and see the true information on what's happening between US - Israel and Iran.
Is not by cho cho , you don't know more than the three persons that talked

https://www.threads.com/@jr._johnpatrick/post/DVlwYylEkY1?xmt=AQF06izrHJiYEd0yJqVglOONBuy24WxuPGij5aqPY3t_t536BG1ZlBhiFU7gn7ycOpOrqq8&source_surface=35&slof=1

https://www.threads.com/@terreross/post/DVk_RL3FDAV?xmt=AQF0BJCJaGnWMRtckAnchCeeqerxBljK4Kiq49NEBb8T5-b66GRal2lgcbQ8BMUxRIzLG2_p&source_surface=35&slof=1

https://www.threads.com/@rohaniroop/post/DVlp4hBFOdx?xmt=AQF0BtCA_QVO9m15LdXBoqnrLgoaEsVm9va_0WdYesneWKCgn1_0slsxeFvq_CvfD9rOpXPk&source_surface=35&slof=1

[quote author=CyynthiaKiss post=138585100]Imam Khamenei's response to a young Iranian kid's request

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Imam Khamenei's response to a young Iranian kid's request

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— Iran Screenshot (@iranscreenshot) February 25, 2026

recycling old news of last two years as though it happened yesterday
Moderators should do their work on what they approve for posting.

Wolverhampton equalises
Oops 🤐

Nwaikpe:
Exactly how you guys whined Hamas to loose 60,000
Exactly how you whined Iran to lose 90 generals in 12 days.

Oga, leave me with my co ward.
All your heroes are now martyrs.

Is not 150 Generals Iran lost in the 12 days war again?
You have switched to 90 Generals?
Increase it more , nobody is fooled except your kind

USA did more to Iran when they supported Iraq to invade their country which lasted from 1980 to 1988 what happened after?

Attack a country who are not afraid of dying let's see which people will blink first

A country sanctioned since 1979 has nothing to fear , yet they still waxing strong

Cry for the citizens of your country they need your empathy more
There's an attack in Kwara state that killed many people but you kept mute because you ain't brave like the Iran nation is to confront them