Zeal0000007:
For a serious relationship leading to marriage , do you encourage going through your partner's phone for trust to be built ?.

I discovered my partner has been flirting with other guys online, thanks to the fact that I always go through her phone when she's asleep. I have done alot for this gal, just disappointed while gals wouldn't be faithful in their relationships.

This is someone I wanted to wife next year, and I love her so much despite her flaws .

I swallow alot of her flaws, like whenever we have issues she will abuse me from head to toe, on occasions like that I will ask her out of my life and my house but she'll be so bent in staying that nothing can separate us after how many years according to her "over her dead body" she wants to eat her cake and have it back.

I'm really stalk, after abusing me up and down at night I find it very difficult resist her body, I will still try to have sex with her especially when I see her nudes, I be flesh and blood.

I can't continue like this 2023, Guys please don't cohabit with a gal you haven't married.
Now I have issues of driving her way or I relocate to somewhere far just to have peace of mind. I can't continue like this next year, God forbid.

If she was coming and going ending this toxic relationship would have been effective. This is someone I have paid two sessions school fees for, care for her like she was my wife in my own little way, as we speak I have written her final year project for her chapter one to five, its just left for her to type it and present it.

I don tire for this relationship I really need a way out, I want to leave her cos its no longer healthy for me, though I really love her. She lacks respect for me , she still flirts online, she's very abusive . I have told her if you feel you have seen someone better than me, kindly move on or you feel we have stayed long enough and you can't wait anymore kindly move on, I won't hold anything against u. But you can't be staying in my house and be seeing someone else, frustrating me all round.

Sometimes when we want to have sex , neighbours must hear us because of fight over sex, but she has her good side, she wasn't like this when we started. I'm really tire, God help me next year, cos I can't continue like this.

patwilly:
I enjoin all forum members to actively contribute
my budget is 4.5M
the choices I am looking at are these :

1. Toyota Rav 4, (2011) Nigerian used. A friend is actually convinced this is the car I should buy as it fits nicely in terms of prestige and functionality. However, I'm not fully convinced as per buying a Nigerian used car and also because I'm not really taken to the RAV4 as I see it as not a masculine car.

2. Toyota Camry 2011 or 2012 (muscle) : I like this car and if it falls within my budget I'd happily buy it. The only negative here is I've been wanting an SUV to be my first car considering Lagos roads etc so I'm not totally sold on the idea of getting this car.

3. Toyota Highlander full option (2007) Direct Belgium or Nigerian used: Now this is the car I I'm most taken to. However, Friends are of the opinion that it is an old car (being 2007) and is gradually being phased out. Also the fact the car does not exactly convey much in terms of prestige etc.

So that's it. I'd appreciate if forum members advice correctly on any of these three car models or recommend something else. Kindly highlight the merits/demerits of buying the foreign used or Nigerian used version of any car you'd recommend.

The attributes I'm looking out for are Functionality, ease of Maintenance, prestige/aesthetics of the car.

I appreciate you all.

Naijaisshitho:
Women look down at me all the time. I've never successfully dated a girl before. I usually beg my way in to see without success . However, this afternoon, this girl I've been on her case pretty much belittled me and I've been unhappy since. I just need to rant here. Below is our chat.

Note : I've sent her more than #200k within two months of knowing her.

Roger3D:
Mumu man. What took him there in the first place?

Divoc19:
Happy Boxing Day Y'all.

I have been in a dire need of a good laptop to kick start my career as a Front End Developer and Video/Graphics Editing... But it's been over a year now. I've not been able to save that much.

Relocation has taken it's toll on me, life here in Lagos has not been easy because the only field am conversant with is the tech world.
A lot has advanced since I dropped off.

I feel it's high time I ask my Nairaland family this Boxing/Gift Day, to Sow a Seed of Laptop into my life to help me add more value to life.

Thanks in advance

EvilRampage:
This girl came over for business, after all done and dusted, she still hang around to charge her phone till 7pm when she decided to go. After 10min she came back that she couldn't get a bike, that she'd be staying till the next morning.
Free bj and banging. Ok no wahala.
Later aunty enter kitchen, carry food, siddon dey watch movie. I told her that i have arranged for a ride for her as early as 7am, she said okay.

This morning, aunty don change dress wear my one of my shirt dey watch music video.
Won't you go back? The ride is on the way. She said i should cancel it that she'd stay till monday and she wont bill me.
Abi this one dey whine me ni. Na your papa huz?

Come dey go. No.

Come dey go. No

For her front i call like five niggas if dem go bang free pvssy and mouth for 2days. Na aunty hissed carry her ataya and before she left, i made sure she wash the plate she used.

I no get time for nonsense.

LadyRosa:
Hmm...
All the foodstuffs I got still lying idle.
Feeling a bit sick.

God1000:
12k for just one small chicken, the astronomical price is unprecedented.

I prefer buying plenty cow meat or frozen chicken, All na meat

Frugality is very necessary now.

Merry Christmas folks, wishing all of you a peaceful and blissful celebration.

Instead of buying chicken N12,000 add money and find someone to share goat with at N35,000 each .

BrendanJo:
There is this girl whom I so much loved and I decided to let her know my feelings and ofcause she knows as well and her closeness with everyone around the work place knew she likes me but after talking to her, she never said yes neither did she said no.
She is actually cute which makes most guys to want to have her as well and also, she is jovial as well. As a result of that,she flirt around with guys even when I'm around her, she will stir at me and said I'm too jealous.
I have never thought of having sex with her, but most times we do kiss. Some months back she withdraw herself from me all in the guess of i just want to have sex with her, as a result of such statement I stopped associating with her because that's was never my intentions. Of recent she started coming close and we were good again.
Just last week we were together in a room playing and kissing, but I was been careful the way I touched her. All of a sudden she told me she needed sex. I was astonished. I was like what do u say, she repeated it that she is tired of kissing and that she wants sex. I told her I don't want to cross my boundary.
She became provoked and walked out. Since then our relationship or friendship is going down the drain. She keeps her distance from me.
Note: this person never said yes to me neither did she said no. So I don't know if she belongs to me or not, she chat up alot of guys with love emoji.
Whats her reasons for being angry?

AppleMusicPlug:
Lmao she legit taught she could whine me to send money
she added me up through link and I just saved her contact and left her there she actually lives in my community.
So yesterday I posted a funny video I got from twitter, and she replied, we got talking I asked for her pics and sent her mine also…
this morning now she don Dey call me baby immediately I saw that warhead I knew what was to follow so I prepared my Defence
I wan snub her life till she told herself I was snubbing that was when I replied
Abeg make Ona observe the chat

Note: any foolish wannabe feminist who come here to pour out her frustration will be replied accordingly because there’s always one

ENGINEERG:
Before Apc government,Peak milk was N130, but now its N500.
Yesterday I was talking with some people, and most of them said this year they have not bought it, and some said they don't even know when last they took it.
It's really painful, most Nigerians can't afford milk like this again.

Airforce1:
Thanks Peeps

Lifeless2018:


Distinguished ladies and gentlemen, I am very and absolutely excited. Thanks gentlemen for your kind wishes

Lifeless2018:


Let the goals rain. My 115k coming close. I stakd 37k

Lifeless2018:


Thanks so much

Lifeless2018:


I played Netherlands to qualify, Argentina to win USA, Croatia win or draw and Brazil to win. It was 3 odds. I bet 37k for over 100k. Remaining Croatia and Brazil. Please pray for me

Lifeless2018:


That's not their job. Stingy people that don't want cleaners to make money. I played Croatia win or draw