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Ideservebetter:
I understand that most parents want the best for their children but at the same time, they should understand certain things that are beyond one's control.

My parents, relatives even family friends won't stop troubling me about marriage. I can't have healthy conversations with my people without them bringing up the marriage topic and worse off in a controversial manner. They always accuse me of being too selective and other talks like that, making me feel awful.

I desire to get married someday even though I don't see it as a "do or die" thing. I've been in relationships that didn't work out and I'm being blamed for it or asked why I didn't just manage. My God!

I've been thinking of how to get away from all these talk, maybe leaving home or changing my line. I really don't know what to do.
I'm someone people know as happy and bubbly outside but when I'm with my people, it's the complete opposite, minimal joy because they won't stop stressing me. For now, I've stopped attending family events since they'll be gathered there and I don't want anyone messing with my mental health.

I'm fed up, I need advice from matured minds please.

ChiefSosa:
I really feel bad for Muslim women. They're mostly treated like slaves. They don't enjoy the kind of freedom, women from other sides of the world enjoy. The men control them both physically, emotionally and mentally. If the women decided they want to leave Islam now; they'll start hunting and killing them.
Can you define freedom? Is this Freedom, where Boma had sex with Tega on live TV, women dressing in nudity in public places, men sleeping with men, ladies having sex with fellow ladies. please define freedom.

You can hear what this one is saying now. How does this relate to Nedu's wife saga? You people will constantly use stupid things to defend your actions; you'll never want to admit and take responsibilities even when you know DEEP down you're wrong!

How EXACTLY does them being pornstars affect you?? Every human being has a right to live their life as they deem fit, as long as it's not illegal, which may lead to arrest. Your men that have control, have they not become terrorists, perverts, pedophiles, suicide bombers, etc The way some Muslims reason, always disgust me! As if say na cobweb dey una head instead of brain.

Father lord!!! Another nonsense. You DO NOT have the right to tell anyone how to dress or if the person wants to act porn! WHAT EXACTLY IS YOUR BUSINESS THERE? In a country like Nigeria, we're NOT meant to have Sharia law. Our 'Nigerian Constitution' superceeds all kinds of law.

This one has turned it to Gender war. He is claiming Muslim women are maltreated, even with guns because they're ALL feminists! Can you imagine the nonsense that is coming out of a human being's mouth??!! Go through this moniker's comments regarding this thread, i swear e go shock u reach muscle! E be like say dis one sniff gum before e login Nland this morning.

WHAT EXACTLY IS YOUR BUSINESS IF A GROWN WOMAN DECIDES TO GO NAKED OR ENGAGE IN PROSTITUTION??!!! Upon all the NUMEROUS problems wey una get, so na porn and indecent dressing be una main concern??You people have misplaced priorities.

wifeesnatcher:
Please help a friend get to this address from ikorodu.

plot 12 redemption crescent, 1st Pedro bus stop along gbagada expressway


Which bus can he enter from ikorodu

starring:
Why is Nigerian youth not looking at Sowore for crying out loud? you sure say dem never swear for us so ? May God help us ooo

FarahAideed:
Another evidence of the hopelessness the Buhari govt has plunged Nigeria into

Abjay97:
UNIMAID just officially entered 21st century..
Islam has a way of undermining civilisation