₦airaland Forum

SlayQueenSlayer:
How your preek wan take stand when you no see the sexual attractiveness of the person?

I ask again, nobi people dey sleep with those old prostitutes with stretch marks?

blacknp:
You sound rather obnoxiously incoherent? Please stop exhibiting your lack of common sense I beg u.

Are you done?

With your common sense, what impact have you made that is of any usefulness compared to his?

blacknp:
Bravery without common sense will eventually lead to destruction.

Let the judge decide if truly he no get common sense.

You wey get common sense, why are you not the judge or our president?

ellalina:
The dan an litrate faced a SAN in court
One thing is sure, VDM is going back to jail

He was never afraid of going to jail, so what?

SlayQueenSlayer:
Even the prostitute has to be attractive in the eyes of the client. I am not talking about love here.

Wetin concern attractiveness with prostitutes?

Nobi people dey sleep with old prostitutes with all the stretch marks here and there?

Twoclans:
The annoying thing is that if she looses her life in the process they will start shedding crocodile tears.

No shame or dignity at all.

Poverty is a hydra headed disease.I don't wish it for anybody honestly.

It's pure poverty. The guy is not needed for anything but for what he can provide for the extended family irrespective of how their daughter/sister is fairing

Blackdisciple:
But I was furious because no single bill went to her sister's baby father's, absolutely nothing was listed for them

Probably since they did not come to do the right thing that's why they are not recognized in the family yet. So reminding your wife every time una fight that she forced you into married is killing her gradually. So fix it bro and as for your inlaws you might need to apologize to the mama, they never knew that their daughter was never a virgin as they thought hence you spending likely 4m for a wedding of a camouflage virgin..

Reasons he's feeling cheated and now trapped for doing the right thing by marrying her legally instead of doing like every other men that abandoned her sistes and half sisters.

DEXTROVERT:
Just imagine

Someone acts this way to your own daughter

You blasted her
You deflated her
You detest her
You think she forced herself on you
You disrespected her

I'm sore sad

If you have a daughter
And
A man did all these to her
Will you be ever happy on her behalf

Women have their short comings
But, you are man and wiser
Learn to keep those hurtful words away

I can't imagine everyday you tell my daughter, you hate her and she forced herself on you.

Better honorably divorce her,
She has gone through alot
No wonder she will reply you harshly

Let me tell you
No matter what she says to you
If you are sick today, the only one that will be by your bed is your wife, all those side chicks will run.

Pls give what you can, and if you don't have
Humbly tell them.
Start respecting your wife, your family will be blessed

Shouldn't a respectable family take back their daughter after all the aforementioned atrocities until this so called bad inlaw apologize?

Twoclans:
Heavens knows I have no problem with you or your outbursts,my headache is with the woman calling herself your wife.

I can't even imagine the trauma of been around a man who doesn't want me .It is enough trouble been with a man let alone the one who despises you.This is automatic mental breakdown.

Africa and nonsense,must the man be buried with goats ? Can't we just bury and mourn the dead peacefully without all this sherere .

The family is with no shame, leaving their daughter with a man who clearly showed he's not interested in her.

It's a failed family looking for meal tickets.

SlayQueenSlayer:
How you manage impregnate a woman you are not attracted to? You better accept your wife and take care of your family.

But people sleep with prostitutes they have nothing for.

Asking the above question is not logical.

Alot of men can sleep with whatever as long as he's in the mood and the whatever is available and a female

Overmars36:
You acted childish honestly. You dare not try that with my sister. You didn't only insult your wife but her entire lineage. You goofed big time!
Nothing wrong in you refusing to be pressured into doing what u wouldn't want to do. But to say it in that manner particularly in the public, means u are a kid. Nobody forced u into marriage. Nobody.
I pity that innocent lady. She didn't choose the family she came from. Nobody ever chose the family they come from cos we don't have such right by nature. It wasn't her fault that the dad had several concubines and perhaps lived an irresponsible Life. You're a disgrace honestly. You had better go your separate ways since u don't love her. By now I am sure you are already cheating on that innocent beautiful lady.

Shouldn't a family with respect take back their daughter (which he wants) after the so called embarrassment?

idahme:
Why una dey always talk trash? Is he more of a child than the children of the deceased? The man has plethora of children but an outsider (in-law) will be the one to carry more load than the children that's absurd, if I am in his shoes I won't for a single second.

If it comes to liabilities they know a man is an in-law to share with the liabilities but if it comes to assets (property sharing) the man is never invited. Children should have the responsibility of taking care of their parents in health and in death inlaws can assist but that's not their primary responsibilities.

I have two in-laws married to my sisters, we only informed them that mum will be going under knife, the information was to give them that respect of been in the know but the expenses has been borne already by us the children. If they decide to help that's fine but it's an error for we the children to give them the lion share of the bills never and I will also reject anyone who ever does that to me.

We should learn to take accountability and responsibilities for ourselves and family and not shift it to others because they got married to someone in the family.

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Foolish people too plenty for this thread I swear.

Just imagine what that one posted.

Prettychild:
Oga you did wrong. First of all, I don’t believe that a woman would force you into marrying her. If you don’t want her, never date her so you won’t accuse her of forcing you into marriage. Your in-laws can’t bill the baby fathers cos those children are traditionally not theirs. You are the legitimate in-laws and so would receive billing which is normal. It’s you that would use your discretion to decide which one you would prefer to do in the list

What kind of "normal" are you talking about?

Name just 3 ethnic group that it's normal for their inlaws to foot burial expenses.

Just 3

I'm waiting.

Angelawhite:
I’m sorry but Wetin carry you go family full of baby mamas ?

You have two choices, quit the marriage or foot the expenses. As long as you are married, you are still entitled to some expenses by tradition

Entitled according to what tradition?

Prophetkelly:
Baba, your outburst at your In-law place wasn't necessary and a very hurtful one to your wife. If she has any dignity, this should be the deal breaker and everyone should go on their own.

I can only imagine the kind of trauma your child will be going through everyday seeing that his/her parents are always quarrelling to the extent of beating eachother; holding shirt/slapping.

If you pack out of the house and never return, will she hold you like you're claiming? If you're not longer interested..pack out of the house, notify her people to return bride price and if they don't, that's their problem.

Because what is this? You people are now disgracing Una sef for outside.

His outbursts should tell you that he's in the wrong family.

If he wasn't seen as a meal ticket, they would have asked for their daughter to return home but because they know they're the ones gaining from the so called marriage, they saw it as nothing.

Someone insulted the whole family showing how displeased he's to all that partains to the family, yet they are still expecting him to bring whatever they want from him, is that a family with anything like dignity?

The day any Ukrainian decide to build a nuclear bomb is the start of countdown to their demise.

Even their fellow European would do the job for the world.

BlindAngel:
I have a family. Just that I'm the fearful type, small sound dey even dey shock me and my heart wound be racing rapidly, how much more something spiritual. Nevertheless, I fully understand now and know what to do, thank you so much.

Nothing is obliged of you as an in-law (Not even a title you want self)

occfx:
Monaco

Technically, Monaco is not a country, it's similar to Vatican city. They're best called an autonomous region within a country.

BlindAngel:
Money dey my hand that time, after everything I was left with 130k. And on the morning of the marriage I went and hurried to get extra drinks, because they drank lots of drinks I bought for reception on the day of the traditional marriage. Back to the fact, I was left work just 9k after buying the drinks. If u see frustration and regret after the marriage?? Thank God say I later bounced back.

You gave them the idea you were an ATM.

madridguy:
If you know what is good for you just go and apologize to your wife, mother-inlaw and the entire family.

If you know you cannot do their culture, why marry their daughter?

While you were sleeping with their daughter without protection, pouring your seed in her body what result are you expecting?

After that, did they put a gun on your head to pay and bride price and marry her?

I will suggest you don't make unnecessary enemies, just try and calm down and see what you could do.... Life na gently no be everything be gra gra my brother.

Abeg go park one place!

BlindAngel:
Exactly what a friend told me this morning.

But they're claiming that it's their culture and traditions and that's how it is. I really wish to know if not donating or giving a dime would affect me spiritually, that's my only fear right now since they said it's their tradition.

Wetin concern money with spiritual bla bla bla?

That should be for his biological children, not in-laws if it ever exist.

It's the duty of his children to bury him, not the inlaws. There's no tribe in Nigeria that expects inlaws to bury their parents.

NO TRIBE or ETHNIC group!

Don't let anyone use spiritual whatever to scare or intimidate you.

Are you without a family that you're this naive?

Tinubu
Atiku
Obasanjo
Orju Kalu
Yaya Bello and the likes can comfortably contribute this so called $10b from their various loots.

Make we hear word jare .

By the way, what about the $16b Obasanjo and Elumelu wasted on this same power rubbish about 20yrs+ ago?

adeoyekay:
Good evening sir, please kindly help me with anything no hope of what to eat tonight

I'm not in a position to do such right now but ..


God will provide

occfx:
So a population of 36k is a country in Europe and Britain thought 70m people are not supposed to be country.

Which European country is 36k?

Why should any group of people with less than 1 million people be allowed to call themselves a country?

Imagine 11k people claiming to be a country.

11,000 is not even up to the population of some council areas in alot of countries.

ednut1:
Blame your foolish mother for making poor choices in life. Fighting everyone including her own family members in usa that could have helped him. I know a popular man on twitter married to Kemis sister.

Your mother also had to flee USA after threatening a judge who was handling her child custody case. Yeye dey smell

Have you looked in the mirror lately?

I actually do not see peace in the next 5 years.

The middle east is going to get hotter and it'll spiral into other parts.

We are going to be seeing clear division between the East and West in the next 5yrs.

WrriterNg:
⚡Large explosion in Louisville, Kentucky leaves people 'missing, trapped' - reports.

"There has been a hazardous materials incident at1901Payne St. A shelter in place order has been issued for those in a one mile radius," Emergency services say

This looks like a reaction caused by the result of the election

She's more interested in the video she's making than attend to crying babies.

Misfits making babies up and down.

What exactly is she going to instill into these children when they're growing up?

4 out of 5 named after slave masters!

AntiChristian:


The total Populations of all these countries put together is not even up to half of that of Lagos!

Costa Rica: 5,137,751
Palau: 17,683
Mauritius: 1,270,123
Iceland: 395,160
Liechtenstein: 39,964
Monaco: 38,525
Panama: 4,515,577
Vatican City: 496
Kiribati: 135,231
Samoa: 218,483
Total= 6,724,954.

Jigawa state alone - 6,979,080 - 2023
Lagos state - 15,772,884 - 2023

Your math is not mathing.

Only 2 countries from the list alone is almost 10m already.

Only Vatican city and Mauritius can be said to be fully neutral, the rest are indirectly partial since those you signed defence agreements with belong to the global West.