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Autos / Re: COTONOU CARS BUYERS FORUM, ORDER FOR YOU CAR(S) NOW @ AFFORDABLE PRICE by proficienc(m): 2:47am On Feb 15, 2015 |
Hi, What's the price for Toyota Corolla 03-06 S? |
Business / Re: Safe Daily Betting On 2/3odds That Guarantees Success by proficienc(m): 11:24pm On Feb 12, 2015 |
ibecima:We all are!!! 1 Like |
Business / Re: Safe Daily Betting On 2/3odds That Guarantees Success by proficienc(m): 1:09am On Feb 09, 2015 |
USgadgets:Correct!!! |
Business / Re: Safe Daily Betting On 2/3odds That Guarantees Success by proficienc(m): 4:36pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
USgadgets:Yea mehn... I cant find the El Salvador games... Greening up hopefully |
Business / Re: Safe Daily Betting On 2/3odds That Guarantees Success by proficienc(m): 10:38am On Feb 08, 2015 |
When is ur free game coming na... we that showed up late to the party can have a bite too. at least enough to pay subscription. Please consider reducing it a bit Cheers |
Investment / Re: #100,000 To Earn #120,000 Per Match(very Sure) by proficienc(m): 11:23pm On Feb 06, 2015 |
Bros, all this suspense and you are gonna come here to say Betfair, Betdaq and WBX. There are more betting exchange out there, yeah, I know cos I know. Share your formulas,strategy whatever u av in stock jare. Cheers |
Literature / Re: Bleep And Run by proficienc(m): 2:03pm On Feb 06, 2015 |
losprince:Perhaps ur infrequent update is to blame. I am very much with u tho, ride on. |
Romance / Re: 7 Wonders Of A Typical Nigerian Girl by proficienc(m): 1:06pm On Jan 19, 2015 |
chibwike:I had this exact same experience with a girl I met in bus that said she didn't have change so I offered to pay for the fare. she collected my number and the next day I got a txt say I should borrow her 5k for something urgent. I just shook my head |
Romance / Re: Life Oh Life!!! Girls Be Careful. by proficienc(m): 7:34pm On Jan 18, 2015 |
MrCork:Niggur u r hilarious! That's ur only concern, light skin... |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: PWC Nigeria Graduate Recruitment 2015 by proficienc(m): 6:29pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
ednut1:Bros u still wan run this PWC parol ni? abi make we run am together |
Travel / Re: Applying For Nigerian Passport Online Or Through NIS Office Which Is Advisable? by proficienc(m): 10:23pm On Jan 15, 2015 |
How much does it cost? |
Nairaland / General / 10 Toxic People You Shouldn’t Bring With You Into The New Year by proficienc(m): 2:48pm On Jan 14, 2015 |
Can you believe that it’s already December? This year has flown by in the blink of an eye and we’re on the verge of yet another year — a year full of possibility. What you will accomplish next year greatly depends on the people you surround yourself with. Or, in other words, it greatly depends on which people you decide not to surround yourself with. When bringing in the new year, be sure not to bring all your garbage with you. Leave these toxic individuals in 2014; you’ll feel much lighter, allowing you to get a great running start on the year to come. 1. The people who make your life more stressful.[/i] Stress isn’t necessarily a bad thing — in fact, it’s what you make it out to be. If you believe stress is bad for you, then it will be bad for you. If you use stress as the motivator it is, to motivate you to act, then stress can actually be rather healthy. However, you should aim to only be stressed by situations and not by people. If you have people in your life who are constantly managing to stress you out, that’s your mind telling you — and trying to motivate you — to remove them from your life. Life is stressful as it is. You don’t need someone making it more so. 2. The people who use you.[i] To be fair, everyone uses everyone — and usually it’s OK. We interact with others because we find that it will benefit us in some way. If we didn’t believe it would, then we wouldn’t find sufficient reason to interact with them. Sometimes we find people in our lives who use us in ways that end up hurting us. Most people will use us and by doing so, either maintain or improve our wellbeing. Then you have those toxic individuals who use you and leave you worse off, sucking you dry and feeding off you like a parasite. These sorts of people have no place in your life; don’t bring them into 2015. 3. The people who don’t respect you.[/i] Every respectful person deserves to be respected in return; that’s how respect works. If you find that you have a person or people in your life who have difficulty giving you the respect you give them, tell them to buzz off. Have enough respect for yourself to never allow others to disrespect you and remain a part of your life. 4. The people who always manage to hurt you.[i] People can be silly sometimes. The people we keep a part of our lives are the people we care about — or at least, that ought to be the case. Some of these individuals, sadly, end up hurting us and causing us pain. The problem is that when others cause us pain, we’re reminded of how much those people mean to us. If they could hurt us emotionally, we must care for them and what they think of us a great deal — so we allow them to remain a part of our lives. Often, we’ll even allow these individuals to take up more room. People hurt other people — it’s just the way the world works. But if you have someone in your life who can’t manage to stop hurting you, do yourself a favor and cut that person off. Pain is only good if it teaches you a lesson. In this case, the lesson is to stop allowing others to use you as a punching bag. 5. The people who can’t seem to stop lying to you.[/i] Everyone lies. In fact, within the first few minutes of meeting a new person, that person is likely to lie to you a handful of times. Most lies are harmless, but that all changes when the people who are lying to you are the people you trust. Fill your life with trustworthy people and you’ll be far better off. You can find lies just about anywhere. Finding the truth, on the other hand, is much more rare. 6. The people who smile to your face and then insult you behind your back.[i] These are the scum of the scum, cowards that don’t have the guts to speak their minds. These individuals enjoy pretending to be your friend while telling the rest of the world that you’re a piece of sh*t. These people will ruin your reputation and, as most of us now know, reputation matters a whole lot in the world we live in. Only idiots would start a new year with these sorts of individuals in their life. 7. The people who don’t care about you, but love to pretend they do.[/i] We’ve all had people in our lives who act like our friends only when it’s convenient for them. These toxic individuals are “pseudo friends” — a lot of fun to hang out with, and more than willing to accept help, but when you need their help they’re miraculously nowhere to be found. These individuals are especially toxic because they give you the illusion of a safety net. You think you can lean on them for support, but when you reach for their shoulder, you fall over and hit the ground. 8. The people who drag you back into your old lifestyle.[i] Life is only interesting and exciting if it’s constantly progressing. Only when we’re constantly moving forward, constantly improving ourselves and our surroundings, are we able to find contentment and happiness. Most people always manage to keep people in their lives who are holding on to the life you once had. You have worked hard to progress and make changes, but these individuals prefer life the way it used to be, and do their best to bring you back to the cave you just crawled out of. Be wary of these folks, they’re often difficult to pinpoint and always manage to revert the progress you worked so hard to make. 9. The people who hold you back.[/i] There’s a fact to life that I’ve grown to accept over the past few years — a fact that isn’t especially pleasant, but nonetheless necessary to accept as truth: Many people in your life, the people you call friends, shouldn’t be a part of your life. As time passes, we change as individuals. Our hopes and goals change, often leaving the relationships we have in place outdated. Many of the people in your life likely don’t want to live the life you’re building for yourself. Because they’re egocentric, they’ll do their best to create their version of their ideal life and drag you into it. Most times, people fail to create the life of their dreams because they surround themselves with people aiming for something entirely different. If your goals aren’t aligned, your lives aren’t either. 10. The people just taking up space.[i] Everything in life is limited. Resources are limited. Time is limited. Space is limited. What you can accomplish within a lifetime is limited. We can’t, and never will be able to, have it all. This is why you have to be very careful with not only what you choose to do, but with whom you choose to do it with. You can only maintain a handful of strong relationships at any given time — you just don’t have the time, energy or mental focus to handle more. If you’re filling your life with half-assed individuals, you’re bound to create a half-assed life. If someone isn’t adding to your life, then, by default, they’re taking away from it. Leave them in 2014 and build a better inner circle. |
Literature / Re: Bleep And Run by proficienc(m): 8:35pm On Jan 13, 2015 |
as along as you update promptly, I'll stay to the end. |
Literature / Re: Bleep And Run by proficienc(m): 6:29pm On Jan 13, 2015 |
Great piece... Been long since I have seen a new work like this one on NL. |
Romance / Re: Guys Mention 3 Nairalanders You'll Love To Date by proficienc(m): 6:59am On Jan 05, 2015 |
AgapeCharis: |
Career / Re: ICAN November Diet 2014 (new Syllabus) by proficienc(m): 10:51pm On Jan 04, 2015 |
It doesn't seem anybody is willing to help anybody here mehn... I'm out |
Nairaland / General / Re: An Open Letter From Introverts To Everyone Else by proficienc(m): 11:06am On Jan 04, 2015 |
I can relate... it's not such a bad thing, the call ish sha |
Autos / Re: Pre-order Cars/Suv With 50% Deposit, 7 Weeks Delivery by proficienc(m): 10:16am On Jan 04, 2015 |
It is a bit on the high, that's probably cos of the exchange rate. Way above my budget. |
Autos / Re: Pre-order Cars/Suv With 50% Deposit, 7 Weeks Delivery by proficienc(m): 8:45am On Jan 04, 2015 |
ednut1:Monitoring spirit How work nau... u don stop to dy comment for all FP topics |
Autos / Re: Pre-order Cars/Suv With 50% Deposit, 7 Weeks Delivery by proficienc(m): 7:55am On Jan 04, 2015 |
Hi How much would a corolla 03-05 SE go for? |
Health / Re: Healthy Dieting And Weight Loss Tips by proficienc(m): 9:12pm On Jan 03, 2015 |
Wonderful write up. A bit of those easier said than done things. I'd appreciate the ebook; olumideiyan@gmail.com Thanks! |
Romance / Re: Guys Mention 3 Nairalanders You'll Love To Date by proficienc(m): 1:47am On Jan 03, 2015 |
Marieolae Dechandel Kika23 2 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: Picture Of A Masquerade Withdrawing Money From ATM by proficienc(m): 5:42pm On Dec 31, 2014 |
Nice one |
Career / Re: ICAN November Diet 2014 (new Syllabus) by proficienc(m): 5:05pm On Dec 31, 2014 |
FriedPlantain:Good job sire, I'd appreciate if you could sent the knowledge stage material to me @ olumideiyan@gmail.com Thanks in advance... btw Happy nu year in advance |
Career / Re: ICAN November Diet 2014 (new Syllabus) by proficienc(m): 9:40pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
Hi there I would really appreciate the knowledge stage material. Please send to olumideiyan@gmail.com Many thanks! |
Technology Market / Re: Enter to Buy cheap and affordable MTN, AIRTEL & ETISALAT DATA PLAN EVER.!! by proficienc(m): 11:36am On Dec 30, 2014 |
How much is 500mb of Etisalat? |
Technology Market / Re: Enter to Buy cheap and affordable MTN, AIRTEL & ETISALAT DATA PLAN EVER.!! by proficienc(m): 8:05am On Nov 02, 2014 |
marcjoe:Got one word for you, Excellent! Speedy delivery of service. Keep it up, you r the best out there. Got my data in a matter of seconds |
Technology Market / Re: Enter to Buy cheap and affordable MTN, AIRTEL & ETISALAT DATA PLAN EVER.!! by proficienc(m): 9:43pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
marcjoe:Sure about the roll over thingy? I'll like to ask, assuming I buy a GB from u and u re-subcribe, would my validity date continue to extend as u do? Lemme av ur bank details nd fone number |
Phone/Internet Market / Re: Luluosas MTN SME Data Share Updated Price Regime by proficienc(m): 9:40pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
I would like to buy 1GB worth. Account details, plus I wanna know when u purchased so I can enjoy full 30 days validity. |
Phone/Internet Market / Re: llll by proficienc(m): 3:04pm On Oct 24, 2014 |
You don't do etisalat? |
Business / Re: Easiest Way To Send Money from Nigeria to US? by proficienc(m): 7:49am On Oct 14, 2014 |
[quote author=niyisky post=26211699][/quote] Did you ever use Betfair cos I'm having issues sending thru Bank Wire. I don't think I want to send via wire anymore as the cost is just a rip off. |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: PWC Or KPMG Which One Should I Choose? by proficienc(m): 10:13am On Jul 29, 2014 |
richarts: How can a Sociology graduate join these firms. Not as an auditor, tax or financial employee as the case may be.You have to know what you want first, then send your CV to the recruitment team(HR) with a very impressive Cover letter stating why you chose a department and how great an addition you'd be to the team. This would work with majority of these firms esp if you are young. Hope this helps you. Cheers! 3 Likes 1 Share |
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