I'm telling you dear

woman, identified as Mrs. Chiamaka Okechi from Ezeama Mgbagbuowa, Enugu State, has been seriously injured by her abusive husband, Mr. Obinwanne Chiafo.

It was gathered that the victim who was forced to marriage at the age of 13 and started giving birth early, has not had it peaceful in her 13-year-old marriage as she has had to endure several forms of violence and abuses from her spouse.



According to an NGO, Women Aid Collective (WACOL), Obinwanne had severely battered his wife and forcefully ejected her from their matrimonial home in 2015, including taking custody of six out of their eight children .

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The Delta State Police Command has arrested a 22-year-old woman identified as Hope David for allegedly stabbing her lover, Justice Esiri, 24, to death.

It was gathered that the incident occurred at about 1 pm on Thursday, September 3, in Abraka, Ethiope East council area of the state.


According to reports, Kingsparo Blog learnt that the lovers had a misunderstanding, which later led to a fight during which Hope stabbed Justice with a kitchen knife.

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A convicted sex offender was today, 3rd August, 2020 jailed for at least 38 years without parole after being convicted of murdering two women whose bodies were found inside a freezer in his flat.


When police caught up with Younis, they found the bodies had been frozen for so long at his flat in Canning Town, East London, that they had become fused together.

The manipulative killer has a history of preying on the vulnerable women(the homeless, stranded women, prostitutes, drug addicts), abusing then and was previously jailed for getting a child bride pregnant when she was 14 after marrying her in a mosque.

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A female talented makeup artist has gotten social media users talking as the photos of her handiwork pops up online.

The makeup artist who has been identified a Jane Richard has shocked many as she used her talent along with her make up kits to transform herself to late movie star Chadwick Boseman.

Jane Richard took to social media to share photos of how she transitioned from being herself to the American actor, Chadwick Boseman with her make up kits.


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Title: Make Up Your Mind
Artiste: Ice Prince ft Tekno
Year: 2020
Format: Video
Genre: Pop

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A three-year-old girl has been r*ped and strangled in India as part of an on-going feud between rival families, the victim’s father claims.
This is the third such similar incident in the Lakhimpur Kher district, of Uttar Pradesh, of India, in the last 20 days.

In the latest incident the child, who had been missing since Wednesday, was found near to her village in the Lakhimpur Kher district, of Uttar Pradesh.

A man from the child's village has since been arrested based upon her father's complaint.

The child's father alleges that the arrested man kidnapped and killed his daughter due to an old rivalry.

The suspect was arrested after the police formed four teams to search for him.

She was found in a field on Thursday just 1,600ft from her home and the police said that she had been r*ped and strangled.

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It's terrible

In Egbe Area of Ikotun, Lagos state, A man identified as Felix Ezike allegedly stabbed a 19-year-old boy, Deji Animashaun to death.

Reports reveals that the 27yrs old Felix was invited by the deceased father, Mr. Dada Animashaun to discipline his son after he was allegedly caught stealing and refused to change his ways.

The Boy resisted the punishment and was stabbed in the head. He collapsed and was rushed to hospital were he was confirmed dead.

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Mass-selling newspaper Bild reported that 5 dead bodies of little children was found in an apartment in the western town of Solingen, Germany.

The grandmother of the deceased called the Police to inform them that her daughter who happened to be the mother of the children has allegedly killed her five children and went away with one other.

According to Bild reports, the Police came and saw the dead bodies of children aged 1, 2, 3, 6 and 8.

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This concept of chances is one that’s come up lately with couples in my office practice. How many chances should you get? How many chances should you give? How loving and longsuffering should one person be? How many times should we forgive our partners? Does it depend on the severity of the offense, or the magnitude of the mistake? Where does it say that we’re supposed to punish each other for real or imagined wrongdoing?

If you thought about it, you might be surprised at how many chances you need. In a long-term relationship, it’s all about the long haul. Yet so many couples get hung up on these little issues and escalate them into nearly insurmountable situations that stall them where they are. What if instead, we simply gave each other another chance to make it right?



What would you consider as a deal breaker?
If your partner makes a mistake, can you love them enough to allow them to get a do-over; to give them another chance to the right thing? Many clashes that happen in relationships are over perceived wrongs. We get an impression or an idea that our partner is in the wrong about something, so they must be wrong about something else. If your partner told a lie or made an error in judgment, would you consider that a deal breaker? You shouldn’t.



Mistakes help you grow. So learn to forgive
On this journey you’re sharing, you’re both in the process of becoming who you’re meant to be. You don’t always grow and evolve at the same rate at the same time. We’re all only human and we all make mistakes. The trick is not to let those mistakes be your undoing. Instead, find the ways to learn from those mistakes and give each other the room to be human without being punished for it. Recognize that neither of you is perfect, you’re simply people. These mistakes and detours off the path along the way are opportunities for you to grow as people, to grow your relationship and to deepen your connection. How different would things look if you took those opportunities not to blame or judge, but to forgive and learn how to be better partners for each other?


Give yourself and your partner as many chances as you need to get it right
Granted, it’s not always easy, and you sometimes have to deal with hurt feelings and ego. Our decisions and mistakes carry consequences. We have to be prepared for that. The main thing is to decide to go all in for the long haul. Realize this is a journey of a lifetime and you’re in this with the one person with whom you can evolve and grow into a love story for the ages. So give each other, yourselves, and your future, as many chances as you need to get it right. Keep allowing your partner the room they need to grow, get better and get it right. You’ll be pleasantly surprised at who you’ll both become.

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American actor Jada Pinkett Smith has revealed that she was having an affair with singer August Alsina, while she was married to Will Smith. She said that about four and a half years ago when their marriage was going through a rough patch, and she was separated from Smith with the intention to divorce, she had a relationship with Alsina.



During a conversation with her husband Will Smith on his Facebook Watch series, ‘Red Table Talk’, Pinkett explained, “I started a friendship with August and we actually became really, really good friends.” She added that she wanted to help the musician with his mental state and found resources to help pull him through a troubling time.

The actor revealed, “I got into a different kind of entanglement with August. It was a relationship, absolutely. I was in a lot of pain. I was very broken. In the process of that relationship, I definitely realized you can’t find happiness outside of yourself. I would definitely say we did everything that we could to get away from each other, only to realize that that wasn’t possible.”

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One of the most discouraging and worrisome things to men is the inability to marvel one’s spouse in bed. It is as shitty as waste.



Aside from time, care and other luxuries, your spouse needs you to make her feel like a real woman in bed. She wants you to mishandle her and beat her imagination with your sexual dexterity; that makes her feel better and accrues reverence to you.

However, if all these are not met; put yourself in her shoes, obviously, it is worrisome and a big disappointment on her side and a big shame on your side.




People spend millions on medications to enhance their sexual performance. They use synthetic drugs that in the long run have residual effects on their health and at times their wards. What a life!

One clandestine truth about life is that; nature has provided solutions to all sorts of hindrances in a man’s life.

Medically, socially, economically anything you could think of, the solutions had been in existence far before the creation of man. There are natural food items that can make a man very active On bed..

This article highlights just three (3) of them. They are:



• Ginger

• Onion

• Honey



These three (3) foodstuffs are good at enhancing a man’s performance in bed. They will equip man with the needed requirement to make his woman moan in bed. They help to stimulate the sex hormone and energize a man.



How To Use Them To Enhance Your Sexual Performance

It is very simple to prepare; ensure you get a matured ginger and onion as well as an unadulterated honey, that is, Raw Original honey.

Blend the ginger and onion together to form a juice. After successfully doing this, add honey and mix all together. When you are about to answer the nature’s call on your wife, sip up the juice and get to work.

At the end of the adventure, your spouse would ask you several questions, as a result of her new experience.

This tip is very cheap and has no detrimental effects both at long run and short run; rather, a healthy and fulfilled sexual life.

Another fascinating feature about this is that it has no limitation or measurement, just ensure it is well concentrated and all the constituents are well matured and genuine.

You will later testify that truly, ginger gingers.

Raw Honey is a Natural supplement and Energizer

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perfectionism is a personality trait characterized by “a person’s striving for flawlessness and setting excessively high performance standards, accompanied by overly critical self-evaluations and concerns regarding others’ evaluations.”

Perfectionism is now a threat to relationships and marriages nowadays where couples refuses to accept his/her partners standards.

Here are some tips to help you set boundaries and reduce conflict related to perfectionism:


1. Identify the problem

We can’t fix a problem if we don’t know what it is. If this article resonates with you, chances are that perfectionism is affecting your relationship. If you suspect that your partner is struggling with perfectionism, bring it up in a kind and compassionate manner. The more you know about the issue at hand, the easier it will be to figure out the next step.

2. Consider individual and/or marital counseling

The perfectionist in the relationship will need to learn coping strategies to manage their anxiety and to increase their self-confidence. Working with a licensed professional who specializes in anxiety is invaluable in improving the challenges that are present. Marital counseling is often a good idea if both partners are unsure about how to change the previous dynamic in their relationship that the perfectionism caused. An outside, professional perspective is very helpful and often necessary to make sure that both partners can meet each other’s needs.

3. Communication is key

As in all aspects of marriage, honest and clear communication can be the difference between a strong marriage or a struggling one. As difficult as it may be to open up about the effects of perfectionism, it is important that both partners feel that they can be heard and validated. Communication can build understanding, compassion and respect between partners. Make sure to schedule time for regular communication. Having a weekly “appointment” to talk after the kids go to bed can ensure that a hectic schedule doesn’t stand in the way of good communication.





4. Know your boundaries

For the partner that is married to a perfectionist, it is important for you to hold on your beliefs and standards without being negatively affected by your partner. You may need individual counseling to learn this skill. When your partner is critical or wants to take over a task because their anxiety is overwhelming, gently remind them of where their anxiety ends and your beliefs begin. Compromise is a wonderful tool in marriage, but sticking to your guns can be as well.

Working through perfectionism in a marriage is undoubtedly hard work. I believe that when both partners are determined to make a relationship work, they can emerge from their challenges with a stronger, healthier and less perfect marriage than they ever could have expected.

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Love is a good thing when you are with the right one.. love is sweeter when everything keeps getting newer every time and day… love requires a whole lot of sacrifices which spices up the relationship.



sometime that seemed exciting and romantic initially may fade away with time. We tend to get busy with our work and have lesser time for our partners or spouses, which makes it all the more difficult to build on our relationships. But that’s not to say that we don’t want to feel loved or stay emotionally connected with our partners. If one is truly inclined to revive back the love and adventure in their lives, then there are many ways you could make your partner notice you even more and shower you with love. That being said, here are some things you could do to bring back the romance in your life again.

Communicate more
If you’re feeling too emotionally distant with your partner, the best way to retrieve back the love quotient in your relationship is through communication. Opening up about your problems and expressing your feelings to your partner, can not only lighten up your heart but also enhance the romantic bond between the two of you.

2. Surprise each other

Relationships can get boring with time. In order to keep the spark alive, you must ensure that you surprise your partner from time to time. Take the time out and make them feel special by doing something for them. Plan a dinner date or a fun evening with games and movies. This will really bring back some of the memories from your initial days and revive back the romance.

3. Prioritize each other

It is crucial that you prioritize your partner at all times. Whether you’re busy with work, family or friends, never let your partner feel any less important than them. Making them feel like a second choice might not be the best idea if you’re thinking of restoring your love life back to its initial stage.


4. Avoid invading each other’s space

Space is extremely important in every relationship. It determines the amount of trust you place in your partner and the level of confidence you have in your relationship. If you’re the type who continuously stalks their partner’s social media account or checks up on them from time to time, then you should definitely put an end to it. Once you give them their independence, they’ll start acknowledging your efforts too.

5. Appreciate their efforts

Showing gratitude for the efforts your partner puts into pleasing you is another way to uplift your relationship. A relationship works if both the partners are appreciative of each other. Therefore, it is crucial that you applaud them for their efforts and make sure you do your bit to show your appreciation.

6. Respect their opinions even though you don’t agree with them

Relationships are bound to have disagreements. But instead of criticizing your partner for it, respect their views and opinions, even when you don’t agree with them. You can present your ideas without demeaning theirs. This will inculcate the intellectual intimacy between the two of you and also maintain the romance in your relationship.

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