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THe Lord moved in a powerful way at the PMCH, praises to His name. Congratulations to the young Chartered Accountant

I know you ld love to share the responsibilities, but No, natures says no. The responsibility to get and keep pregnant rests solely with the woman. She even has the choice on if to keep the pregnancy or not. Yet, she keeps it but pins it on a poor man whose consent was not sort in the fraud.

spiceadole:
Yes.. and it takes a man, single or married, to enter.
If a man refuses to enter , even if the married woman is useless enough to open legs, such things will not happen.


The women that men sleep with and use to brag that they are polygamous in nature are in "committed" relationships with other men.

In as much as many women willingly choose to allow men sleep with them,some men even use their position and authority to subdue,coerce,threaten some women into having sex with them.

Eg,lecturer Vs student
Oga Vs housemaid
Boss Vs employee

Even when a woman is vulnerable or in need of help/favour,the only thing a man can use to bring her to her knees is to ask for sex.

If a man buys food or drink(as simple as that) for a hungry woman,she is owing him sex automatically.

I will be glad if DNA test becomes free or easily affordable and accessible.. As Mr A is sending "his child" away ,he will be receiving another child(ren) from outside.

It always takes two to tango.
Both men and women are to blame for this DNA paternity matter.
Always blaming women while exonerating the men who impregnate them is you not being sincere.
Like blaming a married man for cheating but exonerating the lady he is cheating with doesn't make sense. If the man says "give me" and the lady says "NO",the man will not cheat.

Years ago while I was still working in Nigeria,a woman rushed her son to hospital.He was very sick and needed surgery.She couldn't come up with the money,her husband also was broke at that time..A man who also brought his child to hospital saw the situation cornered her and offered to give her the money,but on the condition that he will have sex with her...She even pleaded he should loan her and use her car as collateral but he refused.Out of desperation,she agreed. She got the money and her child had the surgery.When she found out she was pregnant,she came and confided in me ,was convinced the pregnancy wasn't for her husband, requested termination but I couldn't offer her such services because abortion is illegal in Nigeria.I don't know if she eventually terminated it or pinned the pregnancy on her husband.


Sexual immorality and promiscuity have consequences.

it takes a married woman to open her legs for this sort of things to happen, if some married woman learn to just say no, all this DNA talk up and down wont be necessary.

spiceadole:
99.9% of married men cheat on their wives.
And the 40% of married women are cheating on their husbands with men .
It always takes 2 to tango

Even Kanu will come out of prison before this midget does, his attitude is so bad that neither Obi nor Atiku like him. He will be there for a while; his cup is finally full.

I wonder what motivates a billionaire to go to work.

when you are so good at what you do that no one can replace you, then you will never leave that position. Those who rise are often those who have learnt to balance competence with the opportunity to sell themselves, including learning how to play office politics as well.

May his soul rest in peace, loved to watch him

Is he trying to come back?

Obidients can't, they are too emotional. if its not Obi, its nothing.

Sheuns:
Sabotage their efforts by voting Atiku/ADC

So what if she has lied to you that she was not in a relationship but was chopping both of you or more people, would you have preferred that?... that girl was honest with you, that's a rare trait among ladies these days. I'd teach you what to do next time. It's bad advice, but I'd give it anyway. Being a backup comes with some subtle advantages, you get to know more of the real her while not having to take on any responsibility whatsoever, cause you, as she mentioned, are not the main man. And if the relation breaks as they often do, you may be getting the pudding for free, as i said, it's bad advice . Don't live with the belief that you will always be a woman's first choice, regardless of your status; most married men are not the first choice to their spouses either. The important thing is to live your life and aspire to be the best you can be.

L1TTLE:
thanks, i figured out she's looking for who to use from the onset, didn't see why she got upset because i refused her offer.

They know, infact that's how they know they are privileged because they can see those that don't have. If they appreciate their parents, is another question.

"Who is Chelsea?" 😂 Typical Arsenal fan.

Look, I get why you're hurting. You guys are stuck living in the past, completely delusional about your old glory days. It must sting to watch a club you once called "ragtag" get completely rebuilt and utterly eclipse your entire trophy cabinet over the last two decades. Keep clinging to that momentum, though—maybe "next year is your year," as always!

Mariangeles:
Who are Chelsea to be against Arsenal winning the Champions league?
Humility to who?
Were Chelsea humble before they won the Champions league?

See, let me teach you something; in life, no matter the situation, never bow your head in defeat.
Always keep your head held high, even in the midst of your enemies, no matter the circumstances.

For a team winning their first EPL trophy in 22 years, they were surprisingly very loud, most especially against Chelsea, hence the reason Chelsea was against them winning the Champions League. Arsenal still needs to learn humility.

Mariangeles:
May your enemies never have the chance to rejoice over you the way Chelsea rejoiced over Arsenal's loss, in the name of Jesus Christ, Amen.

Disappointments come from having high expectations. Live like anyone can disappoint you at any time and under any circumstance, and watch as malice disappears. You'd stop making things personal but realise we are all actors in this play called life. The secret is to understand that only God truly has your back, and that those He sends to you at any given time do as well.

It will never work because no one can confidently say who his/her father is. The politicians that should be responsible in passing such a law might be an illegitimate child himself or have children outside wedlock. Paternity fraud has been around forever and sadly will continue, that's why a man MUST prioritize his wellbeing at all times. No one will look out for your interest.

You are about to captain a ship that she is expected to board for the rest of your life, so she is trying to know if you have any idea in which direction your life is meant to sail. Answer the questions. If you have direction in life, it should not be too difficult to answer.

Finally, Chelsea has a proper manager, not all those wanna be coaches. His philosophy fits into Chelsea perfectly. One of Palmer or Fernandez might have to leave, though, cause now we need fast wingers for a 3-4-3 formation that Xavi is known for.

The correct title should be.."When a good woman controls your finances "

That woman has been gone for long; be happy you are still alive cause both of them wont blink to take you out. You better pick up your life and move on.

At least you have the balls that Obi lacks. May not agree with you, but at least you are a man.

Peter Obi can not lead Nigeria with its complexities. He loves the soft life

Only broke men age faster than women; a man with some "change" in his pocket ages gracefully.

Zooposki:
Actually men enter andropause before women. Men age faster than women. Go check the latest studies.

Trust, people still doubt the sincerity of the Telcos i.e mobile money adoption in Nigeria.

Tinubu never won in Kano in 2023 neither will he win Kano in 2027, but he will get all he needs from Kano, that is a mathematical certainty. He didnt even win in Lagos in 2023. No one state can make a president, you need reach and depth.

I suspect this ADC people are all acting, there is no way there can be this much disunity in a party trying to wrestle power from a ruling party.

whats my wifes email, let me try this..

You may have a point. Why run a pipe, considering the level of insecurity in the countries the pipe might run through?

AsomughaChuks02:
A very stupid and wasteful project being undertaken by the Nigerian government. The risks involved are not worth the billions of dollars sunk already for a pipeline that will never recover the costs in 100 years. Let Morocco send their ships to Bonny and buy gas.

You should stay and stand your ground stop hobnobbing

Thank God nobody listens to MURIC

They are coming for her

El Rufai must be the prostitute while Malami the tax xollector according to Peter Obi. And Obi, he is Jesus. Top notch commedy right there