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Adesamogun:
The woman wan cash out before the man die

Media mogul Rupert Murdoch is engaged for the fifth time, less than a year after his divorce from Jerry Hall.

The 92-year billionaire revealed he had proposed to Ann Lesley Smith, 66, a former San Francisco police chaplain.

Mr Murdoch told the New York Post, one of his own newspapers, that he hoped this would be his last marriage after four previous unions ended in divorce.

He said: “I was very nervous. I dreaded falling in love, but I knew this would be my last. It better be. I’m happy.”

Mr Murdoch, who owns titles including The Times and The Sun, as well as Fox News, met Ms Smith just six months ago after his divorce from Jerry Hall was finalised.

She attended a 200-person event at his vineyard in Bel Air, California, and he called her two weeks later.

Ms Smith, who was previously married to country music singer and TV executive Chester Smith, described the engagement as a “gift from God”.

She said: “I’m a widow 14 years. Like Rupert, my husband was a businessman. Worked for local papers, developed radio and TV stations and helped promote Univision.

“So I speak Rupert’s language. We share the same beliefs.”

Mr Murdoch proposed in New York on St Patrick’s Day, joking that he is “one-fourth Irish”.  The billionaire told the New York Post he personally selected an Asscher cut diamond for the engagement ring.

The wedding is scheduled to take place this summer. The couple will divide their time between the UK, California, New York and Montana.

Mr Murdoch’s six-year marriage to former supermodel Jerry Hall ended last year. Ms Hall was reportedly handed the keys to an £11m Oxfordshire mansion and a home in the south of France, as well as a cash sum, as part of the divorce settlement.

The businessman’s first marriage to Patricia Booker, an Australian flight attendant, lasted nine years.

In 1967 he married Anna Torv, a Glasgow-born journalist, and the pair remained together for 32 years. She received a reported $1.7bn payout following their divorce in 1999.

He then married Wendi Deng, who is 37 years his junior, on his yacht just 17 days later. That marriage lasted 14 years until their divorce in 2013.

The tycoon has six children from his previous marriages, including daughter Elisabeth – a top TV executive – and sons James and Lachlan.

He is now preparing to hand over control of his media empire to chosen heir Lachlan, who is executive chairman of Fox Corporation and co-chairman of News Corp.

However, Mr Murdoch’s children retain interests in the business and there is a speculation that there could be a battle for control, sparking comparisons to hit TV series Succession.

In January, the patriarch was forced to call off a planned merger between Fox and News Corp – a deal widely seen as a way of consolidating power under Lachlan – following fierce opposition from shareholders

Source: https://livelystones.ng/rupert-murdoch-92-engaged-to-ann-lesley-smith-following-fourth-divorce/

Hi,

I want to remain anonymous. I need advise because I am at a cross road. I got married in 2020 to someone I dated for just seven months. Before I dated my husband, I was in a relationship with someone for three years. This man was the love of my life. We were in the same church and he is a philanthropist. This man is a business man and he has a kid from a lady that got pregnant for him.

When we started dating, my parents were against the relationship because he is has a baby mama with a kid and also because he is not a graduate. Ken, lets call him Ken was a self made man. He went into business when he dropped out of school and became successful business man. We loved each other alot but my parents felt I was being overshadowed by his wealth and that, as a virgin, I deserve to marry someone without a child and someone that is a graduate as I am a graduate.

For two years, Ken tried to convince my parents to allow him marry me but they refused. He got frustrated and broke up with me. I was so sad....we did not speak for three months. Then, my husband, David started coming for me. I did not really like David cos he was very different from Ken...he was a little too proud for my liking, we disagreed a lot but he kept telling me he loves me and he will change.

While I was dating David, I noticed Ken had stopped coming to church. When I tried to find out why, I was told he got someone pregnant in church and he has stopped coming to church. I found out the person he got pregnant was someone in choir with me, she pretended to be friendly but did not know she had eyes for Ken. Soon as she saw I was out of the way, she went after him....and got pregnant thinking he would marry her but Ken has said if its not me, he is not getting married.

Ken getting another woman pregnant pissed me off more...but you cant blame him...single guy with a lot of money. But in my anger, I married David...in my heart...I knew I was marrying a man I did not love but I needed David to help me revenge Ken and move on from him. My parents too were like, Ken is a serial baby daddy...having children here and there.

After marriage, David got a job in Abuja and we had to relocate. I got pregnant but lost the baby. That made me very sad. David, my husband did not understand me....he started acting strangely....we did not seem to like each other anymore....he constantly found faults with everything I did, he began to insult me at every given opportunity. I would cry and cry. I regretted ever marrying David. I also saw that David was cheating with one of his colleagues.

I reported David to our pastors and parents. They talked to him but he got angry that I reported him and he started avoiding me totally in the marriage. He refused to sleep with me or talk to me or eat my food. I had to ask him one day that why did he marry me when he knew he did not want me? David said, he thought I would be a good wife cos I was a good girl, a virgin but he has seen that I am a spoiled brat who does not respect her husband.

What my husband means is, when he is insulting me, I should not talk back. He wants to eat fresh food everyday so he wants me to cook everyday and I was not raised that way. My mom cooks in bulk and heat up food in my house...no, my husband wants fresh food everyday. And he wants s3x only when he is in the mood....when I am in the mood, he will ignore me. I tried to talk to him about how he treats me but he says I am rude and spoilt. That wives should be seen and not heard. That my job is to cook for him, give him s3x when he wants and have his children.

My husband feels like love is by providing for the family and not showing love to his wife by being caring or emotionally supportive. I got tired of everything, I then told him I wanted to travel to see my parents. I came back to Lagos to rest and think about my marriage. It was one of those days I was at home, I started thinking that I still love Ken. Ken has made me have high expectations for marriage and I cannot accept the maltreatment my husband was dishing me.

READ: These Qualities Will Makes You An Attractive Wife

Ken and I met up one of the days I was in Lagos. It was very emotional. He was crying and I was crying. We missed each other so much. Ken kissed me and my eyes opened. I knew I had to divorce David and marry Ken. Ken and I just do not want to be with anyone else. I have told my parents of my intention to divorce David. I have refused to go back to Abuja....my parents are still against Ken and have said they will wash their hands off me if I go against their wish.

My parents asked me to leave their house and return to my husband's house. I could not. I went to Ken's place and I have been living with him since. I have filed for a divorce too. But my husband is against the divorce. He is fighting it in court, saying he loves me and that he wants the court to give us 3 years to work things out. I refused...I don't want to marry again. My parents are very upset. And now, I just found out that I am pregnant for Ken.

Ken was so happy when I told him I was pregnant. Because he thought this will make my parents accept our relationship but my parents stood their ground. Ken was so sad, he then said, that we should abort the child since I am still married to another man. He says it will be an abomination for me to.

https://livelystones.ng/true-life-story-will-my-unborn-child-bring-bad-luck-if-we-are-not-allowed-to-marry/

Wife

Gloriagee:
Wife or girlfriend?

Good day,

The day after valentine, I was cleaning up our room and saw a strange package. It was folded neatly. I opened it and saw it was a valentine’s day card, teddy bear and a pack of s3xy lingerie. I was wondering how this got to our room. I had to wait till my wife got out of the shower to ask her who had those things.

When she got out, I asked her. My wife just laughed and said, they did exchange of gifts in their office on valentine’s day. And one of her colleagues that she follows home sometimes from the island was the one that picked her for gift exchange …and so, he was the one that bought her those items.

First of all, I did not buy my wife valentine gifts cos I don’t believe only one day should be valentine, I try to appreciate my wife when I can, not on February 14th. So for her to receive a gift from another man really baffled me. I asked her if she chose anyone in her office to gift and she said yes. I asked her what she bought for the person, she said she bought a book. So, all these happened in my wife’s office and she did not tell me.


I told her that a man that picked her as office val and got her card, teddy and lingerie is out of line and so she must return it. My wife said its just an office thing and that I should not think too much about it. To me, I cannot accept that…why will a man buy my wife undies? What is the meaning of that. My wife said its because I am feeling guilty for not buying her gift that I am getting worked up on the gift another man got her.

ALSO READ: True Story: My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me Because I Didn’t Propose On Valentine’s Day

My wife is laughing about this but I am serious. I told her to take this back to her colleague and tell him she cannot accept it. She said if she takes it back, the man might feel somehow….and she does not want to make him start looking at her suspiciously cos he helps give her a ride from work sometimes. I asked what will the man’s wife think and she said, the man bought the items from his wife who has a boutique.


Hian….that kind of thing really got me wondering…which kind of wife will get underwear for her husband to gift another woman….all in the name of innocent office valentine? Well, I think the man is lying about how he got the items or him and his wife are up to no good. I then told my wife that not only will she return the gift, she must stop joining the man in his car home. My wife is still laughing thinking I am not serious but I am dead serious.

My wife is saying I should trust her that the man means no harm, if not…she would not have brought the gift home but my wife does not know that us men are like hunters….now he is gifting her such things…he may just be starting to seduce her and my wife is calling it innocent. Even now, I am afraid that this man is giving my wife rides…even though she is not the only one he gives rides but I am feeling pressured now to get my wife a car cos I am worried about this man.

Abi my people….how una see this matter? Am I over reacting? Am I old school or is this not a serious red flag? Please you people should chuk mouth into this matter.

Anonymous

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I did not sleep a wink last night. I have never been so worried in all my life. The matter is such that I cannot even confide in anyone cos it is that delicate. Let me start from the beginning: I am a married woman of 37 years old. I got married four years ago. When I met my husband, he was a student lecturer at the university. It was love at first sight. I was doing my masters then.

So we got married a year later. He told me that his dream was to become a professor and said even though we get married, he wants us to wait until he has done his PHD before we start having children. I was 32 at the time, so I thought, I can wait 3 more years, we can have one or maximum of three children cos we were not planning to have more than two children.

Our marriage was ok…the only thing I battled with was constant calls from young girls trying to seduce husband but he seemed to be in control. He never let any girl pass their boundaries. And then he started his PHD but it was in Ibadan. That meant, from school sometimes, he would travel from Iwo to Ibadan almost every week…from lecturing to classes. It was tough, cos that meant I saw him less and less…..but I tired to manage.


Just before my husband finished his PHD in U.I….he was offered a job as full lecturer in U.I….we were so happy. that meant better pay and better prospects in a federal university. The plan was for us to move permanently to Ibadan following his resumption. But I needed sometime to finalize a few thing here in Iwo so, only hubby moved to Ibadan first. He did not even have a place, he was squatting with a ‘fellow’ lecturer.

Eventually, I was ready to move and told him I was ready. My husband told me to wait a little…that he did not have money to get a place for us yet….so I should be patient while he keeps squatting with his lecturer friend. I told him to let me borrow him money for our new apartment in Ibadan but he said no need…that he will settle it the next month. From month to month, he found excuses for me not to join him.

ALSO READ: True Life Story: I Have Been Having Sleepless Nights About My Marriage-Pt 2


So I asked him to allow me come visit at weekends…he said no…that its not wise to come and inconvenience someone he is squatting with by bringing his wife. But my husband also stopped coming home for weekends…two months will pass before he will visit and he will stay none day and next day ….he is in rush…saying he has to teach part time students over the weekend. This made me unhappy and I decided to surprise him one weekend.

I showed up in Ibadan and called him that I was around. He asked me to go back to Iwo, saying he was not expecting me. He hung up the phone. I could not believe my ears. So, I decided to track him down. I went to the department in U.I and started asking questions to anyone who knew him and where he stays. It was hard but eventually, someone gave me his address.


So, I traced his place and showed up in Bodija estate. For those of you who know Ibadan, Bodija is a nice estate in Ibadan. When I rang the bell of the duplex they described as where my husband was staying….a lady answered the door. I told her I was looking for Tunde my husband (not real name). She looked at me and was shocked….she said the only Tunde she knows is her partner….she called his name and behold….my own husband showed up behind her.

The shock Tunde had on his face was small compared to the one I had when I realized what was happening…my husband Tunde was living with a fellow colleague and they are in a relationship. I did not say anything….I just walked away….cos I promised myself….I will never fight over any man in my life. I left crying, lost and confused and pained and angry….Tunde kept calling my phone all through as I travelled back home….he sent many texts and said he will explain later.


When I got back home…I locked myself indoors for three days and cried. It was my neighbors that started banging on my door that made me open. They were afraid something was wrong. Cos Tunde told them to check on me since he was calling and I was not speaking. I opened the door and told them I was ok. The next weekend..Tunde showed up at home…all his explanation fell on deaf ears….the only thing I asked him was if he was sleeping with the woman…he said yes but he is sorry…that it was the devil’s work.

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Apparently the woman helped him get the job in U.I with her influence. She is a single mother and things went out of hand…they started having s3x and he has been living with her…she knows hes married but she is not looking for a husband but just a companion. Tunde told me he was getting his apartment by the end of December and we would move in together. After everything…I forgave him…he is my husband and I love him.

Tunde went back to Ibadan on Monday morning and he did not call me all through the week. I called and he did not pick up…only at night…he will say he is tired….he had a long day lecturing. I felt hurt cos I was suspecting he was still with that woman. But I did not want to accept that I may have lost my husband to a side chick yet. I was in denial.

One evening, I went out to the supermarket to get a few items and I ran into a former colleague and we exchanged pleasantries….this guy used to toast me back in the day…seeing him that day…he paid for my groceries…we chatted and he offered to drop me….on getting to my place…he kissed me….and I did not resist. I was not thinking….I have him my no and he invited me to his place the next day. The next day…I went to his place and we had s3x.

Immediately after…I regretted it. But before then, I really wanted to have s3x cos not only was I hurting from lack of care, communication from my husband…we had not had s3x in months….I was very Hot. So, I cheated on my husband. I told myself I needed to get my revenge too. That was the only time though. My husband eventually called three weeks later and told me he got a place of his own. In January this year, I moved to Ibadan to join my husband.

Moving to Ibadan made no difference….I hardly saw my husband…we were not even having s3x when we saw….he was refusing to touch me….always saying he was tired from work….he touch me once in December and he was wearing a condom. I know that my husband is still seeing that woman but I am trying to live in denial cos it hurts so much. I fell sick in February. I was treated twice for malaria yet I did not get better….I kept loosing weight and vomiting.

The doctor eventually recommended a pregnancy test …I refused to do the test at first cos I know me and hubby are not sexually active….since January till date…we have not been intimate….more than twice and those two times was with condom. The test was done and it came out positive. I am almost three months pregnant. By that calculation….I took in ….in December and in December….the only s3x I had was with that my former colleague.

That is why I have not slept a wink. All manner of thought is going through my mind….what am I going to do? Abortion would have been a nice idea but with the way hubby is behaving….looks like our marriage is heading to divorce cos if he keeps cheating….only God knows what tomorrow hold….clearly, another woman has captured my husband’s heart….cos even though I stay in Ibadan…I hardly see my husband and sometimes, he does not come home for two days.

At 37 years old….married for four years with no child….and then I get pregnant for another man after a one night stand….what if….that is God’s plan…I stopped using birth control since last year when husband finished his PHD….but husband has been too busy f*cking another woman to have time to give me belle….so imagine the irony of having a one night s3x with a stranger at my age and getting pregnant? What am I supposed to do?

Please do not judge me for cheating on my husband….I regret it….I was raised better than that but circumstances beyond my control happened. I am totally confused right now…I do not know what next to do….will husband accept this baby…what if I don’t tell him I cheated….will he know…he knows I am off my birth control cos I have been telling him I am ready for a baby ….what if this baby is what will bind me and husband…I forgave him cheating…will he not forgive me too….its just one night stand….he has been cheating for almost 8 months now? But I fear that if I tell him….then I have just driven him right into the arms of that woman…and our marriage will be over.

Please tell me what to do….

Anonymous

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Lance Reddick, actor known for roles in The Wire and the John Wick franchise, has died at the age of 60.

According to multiple outlets, his representative confirmed that he died of natural causes at his home in Los Angeles. The actor had been recently doing interviews for his role in John Wick: Chapter 4, released next week. Earlier this week, he chose not to attend the film’s New York premiere.

Reddick’s best-known role was playing Baltimore police lieutenant Cedric Daniels in HBO’s hit crime drama The Wire. He had originally auditioned for the roles of Bubbles and Bunk Moreland. It was a rare prestige show to have a largely black cast at a time when television was mostly white. “It wasn’t until I got off The Wire that I realised that wasn’t the normal experience,” Reddick said to the Guardian.” In retrospect I see that it was really extraordinary.”

In a 2019 interview, he referred to it as “an iconic piece of history” and that he felt “very fortunate and proud of the work we did”.

Reddick’s TV roles also included Oz, Lost, Bosch and a lead role in sci-fi drama Fringe. Before his death he also filmed the part of Zeus for the upcoming TV adaptation of Percy Jackson.

On the big screen, Reddick’s credits included White House Down, Sylvie’s Love, Brother to Brother and a role in the blockbusting John Wick franchise. As well as his posthumous performance in the fourth film, he is believed to have filmed a role for a spin-off, Ballerina, led by Ana de Armas. He will also be seen in the upcoming remake of White Men Can’t Jump.

The Wire creator David Simon released a statement to the Hollywood Reporter to express his grief. “A consummate professional, a devoted collaborator, a lovely soul and a friend,” he wrote. “This is just gutting and way, way, way too soon for any of us who knew and loved him to contemplate.”

Wendell Pierce, Reddick’s co-star in the show paid tribute to him on Twitter. “A man of great strength and grace,” he wrote. “As talented a musician as he was an actor. The epitome of class. A sudden unexpected sharp painful grief for our artistic family. An unimaginable suffering for his personal family and loved ones. Godspeed my friend. You made your mark here. RIP”

Another fellow cast member Isiah Whitlock Jr wrote: “Shocked and saddened by the news that Lance Reddick has passed away. Truly heartbreaking. R.I.P. My friend. You will be missed. God speed.”

Guardians of the Galaxy director James Gunn also tweeted: “Lance Reddick was an incredibly nice guy, and an incredibly talented actor,” he wrote. “This is heartbreaking. My love goes out to all his family, friends and collaborators.” Stephen King tweeted that he was a “wonderful actor; wonderful man”.

Reddick is survived by his wife, Stephanie, and children, Yvonne Nicole and Christopher.

Source: https://livelystones.ng/lance-reddick-star-of-the-wire-and-john-wick-dies-aged-60/

Hi......,

Please help me look into this. I know some people are into exciting s3x and all that. My husband is like that. We are newly weds, just like seven months into marriage. When we dated, hubby already told me the kind of thing he likes, he likes wild s3x and he said he wants me to always be ready to try new things with him.

And to be candid, we have tried all kinds of s3x except with other people. I told him, its not my style. But we have done everything else possible with exploring our s3x life. To tell you how this is important to my hubby, he said he does not want us to have children for the first two years of marriage. I am ok with that as I am still young. I am 24. So, we can start by the time I am age 26.

Some of the type of s3x we have done is, role play. One of my husband’s favorite role play is me acting like a prostitute or a dirty nun. What I do is, if he wants me to be a prostitute…I dress up scandalous and go to a roundabout at night…he picks me up,pays me like 2k or 5k and then we f*ck at the back of the car before we go home. If he wants me to be a dirty nun…I dress up in nun costumes and I confess my sins to him and he punishes me with rough s3x.

So, these and many others are the kind of things he does. I do not complain…cos I find them quite fun too. Until recently, we went for a baby shower for one of our friends and we were playing these couple games. We were asking what pet names couples call each other and most people were saying sweet names like honey, sweetheart, baby, etc. But when they asked me, I had to.......

https://livelystones.ng/true-life-story-my-husband-calls-me-olosho-whenever-he-is-in-the-mood/

hmnnnnn retaliation not the best option. What if one person dies in the process?

JASONjnr:
I don't support violence but if any woman tries nonsense with me, I will beat the living hell out of her.... Then we settle this anywhere!

You slap me, I beat you
You punch me, I beat you
You kick me, I slap you
You pinch me, I slap you
You do anyhow, you see anyhow...

“I wore make-up to hide bruises my wife gave me” Man opens up about the years of abuse he suffered in his marriage

A husband who suffered abuse at this hands of his wife for 20 years has opened up about the harrowing years.

Sheree Spencer, a mother of three little girls and a senior manager at the Ministry of Justice, was sentenced last week to four years in prison at Hull Court.

The judge said it was “the worst case of controlling and coercive behaviour”.


Speaking later about the sentencing, Richard Spencer said in an interview with Dailmail correspondent Rebecca Hardy: ” felt absolutely nothing the few times I glanced across at Sheree. I didn’t feel anger. I didn’t feel scared. I didn’t have any emotion.

“But I was hyper-conscious of how my family was reacting when the judge described the horrific things she’d done.

“To hear the judge use the same language Sheree used — the f-word and the c-word — the things she called me like ‘bitch’ and knowing my family were hearing those things was . . .” He stops as he struggles to find the words.

“When I think about those memories, I don’t feel associated to them. It’s like they happened to someone else. I know it was me but, in my mind, I can’t understand how I could have allowed that to happen.”

During the two decades of abuse, he was subjected to daily beatings and verbal attacks that left him cowering on the floor in the foetal position.

This is the first time Richard has relived his 20-year ordeal at the hands of his wife Sheree, a senior project manager for HM Prison and Probation Service who boasted to friends of meetings with former prime minister Boris Johnson.

Last week, she was sentenced to four years in prison at Hull Crown Court after pleading guilty to coercive and controlling behaviour and three counts of assault occasioning actual bodily harm.

Her campaign of violence and intimidation is almost too shocking to catalogue. She spat in his face. Hit him with whatever she had to hand — a bottle, a mobile phone, a TV remote control.

On one occasion, she defecated on the floor, then forced him to clear it up. On another, she beat him with a wine bottle so hard it permanently disfigured his ear.

Richard, 46, has a degree in computing at Leeds Metropolitan University and a position at BT in network design that soon saw him addressing global conferences as an expert in his field. Yet, that didn’t stop him from suffering extreme abuse.


He shared videos of abuse which were captured on a security camera in the children’s playroom.....

https://livelystones.ng/i-wore-make-up-to-hide-bruises-my-wife-gave-me-man-opens-up-about-the-years-of-abuse-he-suffered-in-his-marriage/

Oga vote your conscience

RtrevEzeugo1:


Let him fail with our vote, but remember you attract what you wish others, you are not his God. Please let us be careful what we say all in the name of politics.

The more I want to vote sanwo olu the more his supporters provoke me.

Everyone keep saying he is a good man among bad people

Lets give him a chance, if he fails we take him out. You cannot be judging him from afar without giving him opportunity to prove himself. This is because, for most of you, governance is like rocket science that is why we(Africans countries) are still under developed. Why should Lagos still have bad roads, with the kind of money it generate?

ballydankkf:
I doubt if he understand what Governance is all about, tho i love what he tends to achieve but as soon as he get there now after 100 days in office we begin to hear series of excuse while he couldn't meet up.

I thought the blue rail already commission by Buhari few week ago?

Dapagun:
11. How do you want to reinvent the wheel. I mean, the Blue and red rail already exist and are at different stages of completion

This picture is when I was married, I saw h*ll until in 2021.
I decided to quit the toxic marriage
My parents actually led me into this marriage because I wasn’t allowed to make my own choice.
I got married to the worst man on earth, we have two kids, it all started when I gave birth to our second baby. He started maltreating me for no just cause, complaining how my physical appearance have changed and that he no longer finds me attractive, saying he picked me from the village and I should go back to my retched parent’s house. This man put me through h*ll, he wouldn’t touch me for months but instead he will bring in different women to the house and sleep with before my presence

I kept enduring all these things because I was brought up from a Christian home and i believe marriage is for better and for worse, hoping and praying also that he will change someday but instead it got worse
He started abusing me the more, that’s just when I realized that I could no longer endure. So, I opted for a divorce and he quickly signed the papers because he wanted me out of his life so fast.
I left the marriage taking my kids along. Guess what!

just few months later, I met the love of my life. Yes, I met the man that was meant for me Who showed me the true meaning of love and above all, he accepted my kids and treats them like his own.. Few months later, we did our traditional marriage and relocated to Canada. It’s been more than a year and we are doing just fine.. So basically, I want to thank my ex husband so much for all the torment he put me through and for letting me go so I can meet the true love of my life.
I wish him the best of life as well. See before and after picture

https://livelystones.ng/i-decided-to-quit-the-toxic-marriage-lady-shared-her-before-and-after-picture/

There comes a time when a relationship may hit a rough patch. It’s quite common and natural in the course of a relationship. However, things might take a sudden turn.

Is the current state of your marriage making you wonder, “How to save my marriage by myself?” Then this article is for you.

Instead of waiting for your partner to make changes or for things to resolve naturally, you can figure out steps to save marriage and implement them to reconcile things between you and your partner.

Why do marriages fall apart?

Marriages are a lot of hard work, so it is no surprise that some marriages fall apart. But how do marriages fail despite the hopeful note on which most of them start?

There are several reasons why marriages fail. It indicates a breakdown in the intimacy and bond that the couple share due to factors that may include:

Breakdown in communication
Infidelity
Loss of respect and understanding in the relationship
Constant arguments and fights
Lack of intimacy or sexual satisfaction
Incompatibility due to different life approaches, life goals and temperament
Stress-related to financial pressures
Pent up frustrations leading to permanent resentment
Religious differences
Pressures linked with disputes with extended family members
How to assess whether your marriage is worth saving
Before you ask yourself, “How can I save my marriage by myself,” it is critical to assess whether you have genuine reasons and desire to do so.

Some relationships are beyond the point of repair and have no life left in them. Trying to save these hopeless marriages would be a waste of time and energy for both parties. Additionally, it can cause further emotional pain and frustration.

You should assess whether your marriage is worth saving before taking any steps to save your marriage.

30 ways to learn how to save my marriage by myself

It’s indeed challenging to answer the question, ‘How to fix myself to save my marriage?’ Although it is possible but it is certainly not an easy task.

You will have to assess your behavior and be open to making changes. But if you really love your partner and want to make things work, you will be highly motivated to make these changes.

Listed below are tips on how to save a marriage when only one is trying, that may be of help to you:

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Na fake.

Dear Lively,

Please people should help me look into this matter. This issue is between my friend and her and her sister’s husband. My friend, Ruth (not real name) is being faced by asking for my advice and so, I decided to ask here. My friend’s younger sister got married to a man that is 60 years old three years ago. This man has grown up children but the wife had died several years ago. The wife died while giving birth to the man’s last child.

When her sister started seeing this 60 year old man, everyone was against it cos her sister was 35 and the man is 60 years but the sister insisted. That age is just a no. They married and next thing, they were unable to get pregnant because of course, the man was old and they started trying IVF for three years and it did not work. The sister was desperate and since the man’s sperm was not ok due to his age, she arranged with the doctor to use a sperm donor without the man’s knowledge.

Ruth’s sister eventually got pregnant, with twins. Unfortunately, the pregnancy was high risk and Ruth’s sister passed on two days after giving birth to the twins. One of the twins did not make it. It was on her death bed that the sister confided in Ruth that she used a sperm donor for the children. Now, Ruth decided not to tell the sister’s husband, because.....

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Definitely!

PoliteActivist:
Wow!
And your people almost spoilt it for you!
But you both need A LOT of tolerance for it to last. Because as you get to know each other there'd be definitely things you don't like

I met my husband on Facebook. He proposed online, he gave me $2,000 to buy a ring — and we married a week later.


My younger brother called me when I was about to order a coffee and a bagel from Dunkin’ Donuts before my flight to the Middle East.

He’d been calling me ever since I’d bought the plane tickets. This time, he begged me to leave the airport and wait for my dad.

“He’ll get in the car right now and pick you up,” my brother said.

I’d already checked my four bags — I had to pay a $300 excess-baggage fee — and my brother was ruining my mood even more. We argued for a while and then I hung up. Nobody was going to stop me from going to Dubai, not my family, my friends, or even my pastor.

We planned our wedding during our WhatsApp conversations
It was not an arranged marriage. I’d chosen my future husband — who I’d met only on Facebook and WhatsApp — myself. It didn’t matter to us that we hadn’t seen each other in real life. He proposed in April 2021, a month after we started direct-messaging each other. We were in love.

We decided to meet in Dubai, United Arab Emirates, on November 25, 2021, because it was about halfway between the US and Kazakhstan, where Precious lived. We planned to stay in Dubai for three days, then have the wedding in Nigeria, where he grew up.

Most of the arrangements were done on WhatsApp. We chose our rings and the hotel for the honeymoon. I sent my dress measurements to his sister-in-law Chika to hand to a seamstress. I wanted my outfits to be custom-made in Nigeria.

Our story began in spring 2018. Precious randomly sent me a friend request on Facebook. He said he liked the scriptures and encouragement that I posted on my feed. We talked a bit about what it meant to be Christian, but that was it. It was never romantic. We got on with our lives and lost touch.

But three years later, he sent me a direct message out of the blue. I’d been wondering whether I’d ever find the right guy to settle down with. This time, Precious told me his feelings from the start. He said he loved me ever since the day we became Facebook friends.

We did a video chat because it was important to know he wasn’t a scam artist
He said he knew I was the right woman for him. But I don’t believe in marrying someone just because you want to get married. I wanted us to get to know each other.....

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Naira20:
Too long to read...

But if Valentine is about sex for you, wait till Valentine na...Abi Valentine don reach?

Hello Lively Stones,

You see that song that says valentine is coming, where is your boyfriend….that song should also sing: where is your husband. My marriage has been a very difficult one. Sometimes I wish I was still single. Cos if I was single, I will enjoy attention especially on lovers day like valentine. Let me explain what happened. While me and my husband were dating, I got pregnant, and we had to get married because my religious parents would disown me if I had an abortion.

My parents are knights in the church and my boyfriend’s parents are elders in our church too. Both of us even faced disciplinary panel by the church for one year. We were not allowed to sit anywhere in the church except at the back of the church. My boyfriend and I were still in school. My mom was the one that helped raised our daughter when I gave birth. So, after the marriage, we were both still living in our parents’ homes.

When we finished school, we both went for our youth service. As God would have it, I got a job in my service station after my service year ended. We agreed that I stay in Port Harcourt since its easier to get a job in the city, rather than coming back home. I was also able to get a one room apartment. My husband was not so lucky. He did not have a job even after service. So I was the only one working and sending money home.

Sometimes, my husband would come and stay with me in PH. We then decided that he should start up a business in PH too. With my five months’ salary, we opened a shop where we were selling exotic drinks. My husband was managing it. But soon as the business was about to pick up, the pandemic hit. It affected our business seriously.

Then my husband got a bank job back home in Uyo. He had to leave me in PH. That is how our marriage suddenly turned to long distance marriage. We tried to travel to see each other once or twice a month. One thing that was lacking in our marriage was romance. My husband felt forced to marry me so he stopped showing any form of romance throughout the marriage. Even on valentine day, he cannot even send text or buy me anything. I used to look at other couples and wish I was still single where a guy will still be all over me.

Last year valentine….I slept with a fellow colleague. It just was very wrong of me but I just needed to feel alive again….someone to make me feel wanted….I am only 26 years old. This colleague is single and since that last year, he has been chasing me. I told him I cannot leave my marriage but every time I reject him, I am reminded by my husband that he does not want me…that we are only married because of our religious parents.

Around July last year, I went to Uyo to see my husband and met another woman in his apartment. We quarreled over this. He told me he does not love me…that since its marriage I want….I have gotten the marriage but that he is not going to be tied down by marriage. that he is still a young man and he can do whatever he likes. that if I don’t want to accept….I should leave or do as I like too.

Both families got involved…they tried to counsel us …they mostly advised me to endure and be patient as the woman involved. They even told me to return home to my husband so we can be close….so, I left my good paying job and came back to stay with my husband yet nothing changed between us. He hardly sleeps at home and when he does, he will refuse to sleep with me. That is how I have been enduring. Even tried my best not to cheat again cos I felt I was getting punished for cheating first. But now, another valentine is coming. I have men who want to take me out and have a good time with me. And because I am following the advise of my family, I am turning down all these advances.

Yet, my supposed husband is not even talking to me except is about the baby. Its been months since I had s3x…..I am tired of waiting for my husband to change and love me….I told him yesterday that I want us to spend valentine together. That I miss him and I want him to make love to me….He said no, that he has his own plans…that I should go and find a man that will f*ck me cos he has no plans to have s3x with me ever again.


When I told his sister and mother….they said I should continue being prayerful….that there is nothing God can not do. I believe God can change a man’s heart but this man we are talking about, has not touched his wife for a year and one month….I don’t think I can keep myself any long. I do not want sin against God anymore by having sleeping with another man but since my husband is the one that said I should go and find someone to f*ck me….can it still be considered wrong?

And if it is so wrong….what am I supposed to do with the s3xual urges that I have been struggling with? Valentine is coming again….the pressure and desire is so strong. My husband is denying me s3x….Please advise me.

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Very Super indeed!

Aboks:
This is super story

Hi Lively Stones,

In 2015, I was dating a married man. At first, I did not know he was married. When I found out, he lied to me that he was no longer in love with his wife, only me and he will do anything to prove it to him. He encouraged me to get pregnant for him and I did. He gave me money, rented apartment for me etc. He said he was in love with me. Now, next thing I know…he changed….he said he wants to work things out with his wife and that he wants to break up.
I cried and begged him…he told me to abort the pregnancy….gave me money to about a pregnancy that is almost four months. I nearly died and the pregnancy did not remove. I was in coma for three days. The baby lived. This man denied me…told me to forget about him…to remove the baby by any means possible. My family was mad at me, even stopped talking to me. Only my mom had mercy on me.

With no choice than to give birth to the baby, I discovered this man had relocated with his wife and family. I had a baby girl and she is the sweetest. I suffered…remembered those days I had nothing to feed my baby ….talk less of buy clothes. I swore that I will make sure that my baby daddy never sets eyes on her. So, anyone who asks me….I tell them the baby’s father is dead.
Gradually with God on my side….I was able to get back on my feet and in 2019, I met my husband. I told him when we were dating, that my baby daddy is dead. We got married in a small ceremony in 2020 due to pandemic. I have two children more with my husband. Last Christmas, we travelled home and met most of my husband’s people.

One of my husband’s aunties that I met did not seem to like me,….I don’t know why. No matter how I tried to be friendly and respectful to her, she just was mean to me. I told my husband and he said, that is how she is. This woman kept asking me questions about my first daughter, and I told her her father is dead….she continued to ask questions and I tried to answer but she was just being mean I must say.

Then towards end of January, this Auntie calls me….https://livelystones.ng/true-life-story-my-husbands-aunty-is-threatening-to-expose-my-secret/


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Premarital s*x occurs when two persons intending to married get involved with s*xual act before wedding. Premarital s*x is not only the very act of intimacy but all other related activities is also viewed as s*xual immorality. These include but not limited to petting, s*x chatting, Kissing, sending or viewing nude pictures etc.

Many a young man having found the lady he wants to marry mounts pressure on her to come to bed with him arguing that ‘one must taste what one wants to buy.’ A child of God should neither mount nor succumb to such a pressure. For the lady, she must understand that not every relationship ends in marriage. Therefore it will be very unfortunate for the lady to give in to such a pressure and in the end not get married to the man in question.

READ ALSO: Wedding Night S*x as a Virgin – Bride Shares Her Experience One Year After

More importantly, God warns His people to stay away from s*xual immorality. One reasons He commanded us to do so is because our bodies are God’s temple and s*xual immorality pollutes it ( 1st Cor. 6 :18)

Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body. 19 What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?

God is holy. He frowns at s*xual immorality of any kind and warns His people not to pollute themselves even while getting ready for marriage. He desires that marriage be conducted in the purest possible form (Heb. 13:4).


Many Christians hide under the guise of “we are getting married” to engage in s*xual immorality. God frowns at this because He knows that this act will hurt us. Therefore, He warns us to stay away from it. So here are 7 reasons you must stay away from premarital intimacy even when you are sure that man or woman you are involved with has agreed to marry you.

Loss of Value
When a lady offers herself to the man that has proposed to her but has not taken her to the alter yet, she loses value in the eyes of the man. To him there’s nothing new about the lady any more. The excitement about the lady fizzles out and in most cases the man begins to loose interest and withdraws from the relationship. He may feel he has conquered her and may move on to a new territory.

Mistrust
When a lady gives in to s*xual advances from the man who promises to marry her, she loses the trust of the man. His mind set will be like ‘since she offered herself to him before marriage she can also later offer herself to another man not married to her. So even when the two persons involved in this act marry in future, the trust that should exist between married couples will no longer be there.


Shame
In many Bible-believing churches, prior to their wedding ceremony, the intending couple will be asked whether they have been involved s*xually and if the answer is in the affirmative, they will have to face discipline. One of which is to stand before the congregation to confess their wrong doing. Imagine the shame it will cause you and your family and friends to stand before the congregation in your place of worship to confess that you have committed s*xual immorality.

Feeling of Guilt
For every child of God who engages in s*x before marriage there is guilt conscience afterwards. The Devil who pushes a person to engage in it will afflict him or her will a feeling of guilt thereafter. This feeing of guilt will linger even after wedding and when there’s any little problem later in marriage the two persons involved will tend to think that they are being afflicted because of the s*xual immorality they committed before marriage. This feeling can only be removed by confession, repentance and restitution.


Feeling of worthlessness
The lady who offers herself to a man who promised to marry her but has not taken her to the alter feels worthless, especially when their relationship ends before marriage. She feels as if something precious has been taken from her. This feeling is heightened when she finds out that the man left her to marry another woman immediately after.

Opens door for demons
S*xual immorality opens doors for demons to attack the marriage later. These attacks may include barrenness or delay in conception, infidelity, sicknesses, poverty, turbulence in marriage etc.

Risk of pregnancy
Pregnancy may results from premarital s*x. To hide the shame the couple may opt for abortion thereby further offending God.

Other effects of premarital s*x include contacting S*xually Transmitted Diseases (STDs) like HIV/AIDS, Gonorrhea, Syphilis, Staphylococcus etc


Martin Akachi…..✍️

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Hi Lively Stones,

I just want to say something that maybe no one likes to talk about. I think some men feel like when a woman is with them, they are doing the woman a favor. Like, yes, I know there are plenty girls out there and so many girls are looking for a man to call their own. But that does not mean girls are just nothing. Now, that same attitude, they carry into marriage…like once you marry a woman, especially a faithful woman, then you can do anyhow you like cos you are a man.


My husband cheats on me. I have suspected it for a long time. That I have tried to address it with him for several years but he says I am imagining things cos I really have not caught him with any woman but I have seen texts and nudes. He says there are just for fun, that nothing serious…well, I was not born yesterday. I even caught an STD which I believe was from him one time. After a while, I got tired of complaining and left him to behave the way he likes.

Then, his best friend that stays abroad was around for a couple of months. When this man saw how my husband was cheating on me despite the fact that he has a fine wife like me…the guy started to talk to my husband to do better so he will not loose someone as good as me. My husband boasted to his friend that he cannot loose me cos we are married, and I cannot go anywhere. The one that pained me was that, my husband said no man will want to sleep with me cos I am now shapeless from child bearing weight.


All these things my husband said annoyed his friend more…so the guy told my husband to bet that if any man shows interest in me, that he cannot loose me….my husband agreed….they made a bet that his friend should try and seduce me …to test if I would cheat on my husband. So, this guy tried everything, got me gifts, sent me nice messages, trying to make me fall for him.

I must admit, it was hard when my husband’s friend tried to do all of these to me. I was really tempted. This happened years ago. But I refused to sleep with the man. It was later the guy told me everything he and my husband planned. I later confirmed from my husband that they had a bet of N1M….to try and seduce me. This made me very mad ….very very upset but my husband laughed it away and said he was joking.

Somehow, this thought of my husband thinking he has caged me, inside the marriage, so no man can make me leave him…started haunting me…the urge to now prove him wrong now started. I told myself I would sleep with the first man who tried wink at me. Since then, I have been planning and plotting it. One day, I took my car to the car wash for deep cleaning…The place had a car wash, a viewing centre…a bar…just where people can go and hangout. I suspect my husband meets girls here too.


So, as they were cleaning the car, they brought out two used condoms from my car. It was clear who used them… I flipped….I walked up to a guy I knew looked single and asked him if he wanted to have fun with me…right there in the car wash…behind this guy’s driver’s seat….I and a total stranger had s3x. Without condom too. All I was doing was: getting my revenge for the first time in a marriage of cheating for almost eight years. It felt so wrong but I felt peace for the first time in a long time.


The next time, I took my husband’s car…drove to meet this guy in a spot…had s3x with him and made sure there was evidence in my husband’s car….I even paid the guy for his services. I pretended not to know anything when my husband was asking how come his car is messed with with white stuff….I told him I dont know…I had taken my revenge and I felt peace and freedom.

Then one day, my husband went to the car wash to wash his car and also watch a football match….while watching the match….the men there were talking and he overheard some guy talking about women who come to the car wash to look for men to sleep with them. One of the men boasted that he f*cked a woman who came with a white benz . That even well to do looking women are looking for f*cks around here. The men were just talking dirty . Someone then said to my husband….shey you say your wife has benz…which color is it….all the men laughed ..but it got my husband thinking


The way the men described the woman in a white benz fit my description so my husband figured it out….he came back home and told me what he heard….he asked me if I ever cheated on him….I said no…he said if I ever slept with a man in a car wash viewing centre ….I said no…he asked me why are the guys describing a woman like me….that almost all the men have slept with…that was when I told him….not all the men…only one man.


My husband could not believe his ears…he sat down in denial and disbelief….he asked me why….I told him I just wanted to revenge for telling his friend last year that no one would be attracted to me cos I am shapeless….and that I wanted to pay him back for always cheating on me. The next thing that happened was the most shocking thing….My husband knelt down and apologized to me for being an irresponsible husband and promised to change his ways.


I was not expecting that response from him….I also apologized to him…we made up but since that time….things have not been the same…we don’t talk much to each other…I think he is hurting at the fact that after boasting that no man will ever like me enough to want me….to the fact that I was hurt enough betray him to prove him wrong. He said he cannot face those men again cos what they are talking about is how his wife f*cked another man at the back of the car….

Me, on my path, I am feeling bad at what I did…I realize I went too far but my husband pushed me…made me feel unwanted and he kept laughing at me with all those young girls he was sharing nudes with…all those girls with perfect bodies….I felt so bad about my looks…I wanted to feel good again…but now…I feel we have both hurt each other so deeply just because we took each other for granted.

I fear our marriage will not make it if we keep feeling this betrayal….I want my marriage to work. I know my husband is not the kind of faithful man…I just don’t want him to look down on me. We have both decided to talk to a marriage therapist to help us. That is how I came across Lively Stones online. Please advice us. what do we do….to repair our marriage….it seems we have both broken down every trust this marriage ever had…is there a part to ever healing again?

Anonymous

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Hello Lively Stones Family,

I need your advise. I have been married to my husband for six year, we have a five year old daughter. My husband has a baby mama that has two girls for him. The girls are ten and eight years old. He told me he did not want to marry his baby mama cos she was a runs girl, he had caught her severally with different men, he had to take a DNA tests on his children to make sure they are truly his children.

When we got married, my husband told me that his baby mama took the girls away and said he will never see his children again. For over six years, we never heard anything from this woman until she suddenly appeared last December, on Christmas day. When the bell rang, my husband’s younger brother who was in the sitting room, was the one that opened the door…he came to tell me and my husband.

We were both shocked to see her and the girls and one boy. My husband was so overjoyed to see his daughters. I welcomed them in and gave them food to eat. The children were also happy to meet my daughter, their half sister. We all just thought the boy with them was the woman’s son from maybe another man she was with. It was after eating, that my husband’s babymama said that the boy is my husband’s son.

According to her, she found out she was pregnant after she left him but she was so upset that she vowed not to tell him about his son. And true to talk, the boy looked so much like my husband. My husband was so happy…he hugged the boy several times. I was happy for my husband but also sad that my husband’s first son is coming from the baby mama. I reminded my husband that he has to do DNA too for the boy to make sure the boy is his…my husband agreed.

This woman and her children stayed till evening. When I asked when are they leaving, the woman said they are staying the night. And that, she wants the children to start living with their father cos things are difficult for her. She cannot cope with taking care of them anymore. I was shocked….like, the children can stay but not her…she said she has no where to stay and no money for hotel. So, my husband gave her money to go to a hotel. The children stayed with us.

That night, I asked my husband how am I supposed to look after this woman’s 3 children plus mine. My husband said we will manage cos he cannot reject his children. The next day, my husband spoke to his baby mama on the phone. This woman said she wants to be close to her children. She wants to relocate back to Lagos mainland cos she lives on the island…so she can be close to the children. I said ok.

After the DNA test that proved the boy is my husband’s son…things are normal now. The 3 children are living with us,…they have started school. They are play with my children. Last Friday, their mother came to visit them on Friday evening. I asked her why she didn’t come in the morning on Saturday cos Friday evening that she came was already late, around 7.30pm. She said traffic held her.

This woman stayed until it was almost 10.30pm..I had to ask when is she leaving…she said she wants to spend the night with her children in her childrens room. Ha…I said no way…I asked her to leave…she refused….I looked at my husband….my husband asked her to leave…she was like, why am I so wicked….that she has raised this children by herself for six years and now I want to keep her away from her children.

I told her she can come back the next day, take her children to spend the weekend with her and bring them back on Sunday evening. She started saying I am heartless…she only just wants to spend the night in her childrens room…because she was crying…my husband said ok,..she can spend the night with the kids. That night, I refused to speak to my husband cos I felt he betrayed me. This woman spent the entire night, the next day in our house and when it was almost 4pm….I asked her to leave….she laughed an evil laugh….

The next thing she said is….you are being jealous right….that your husband’s ex is back…and if you keep acting like this…I will take him back from you…hes mine first and will always be mine first. She left around 4.30pm. All through that weekend, I was unhappy and angry at my husband for allowing his ex back into our lives. Clearly, she has an agenda..to get him back.

On Wednesday, my husband said…the children’s mother said he should bring the children to her place over the weekend since I dont want to see her. I said ok…So, after school yesterday….my hubby took the children to drop them in their mom’s place. My people …do you know my husband did not return home yesterday…even till this morning…as am writing you…hes not back from the Island…from his ex house where he went to drop his children yesterday evening.

The only text my husband sent last night around 11pm was that, there was alot of traffic and so he will be staying back on the island…to come back in the morning. I asked him where will he spend the night…maybe in a hotel….he said I should not ask him…that he is a grown man and he can take care of himself…my God….last night…I could not sleep…all I kept thinking was my husband was with the ex…and maybe having s3x with her.

I am boiling with anger and frustration….waiting for my husband to return…almost 10am this morning…he’s still not back…his no is switched off. My mind is running wild….I have been crying too…I know I cant control myself when he comes back but I also feel if I am not careful…I may loose my husband and drive him into the arms of this witch. This woman looks like a seductress…with her big breasts and bum….swinging it everywhere….no wonder why men can’t keep away from her.

Please I need my husband away from her…how do I handle this matter,….I feel like I am already loosing this battle before the war even started. I need advise quickly….

Anonymous

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Happy New Month Everyone. New Month Wishes are widely popular throughout the world. The first day in every new month, just like the new year, means a lot to many folks who usually share messages, wishes, greetings and prayers to their relatives, friends, and colleagues.

Regardless of religious and other cultural leanings, people plead for loved ones, send them beautiful greetings and wishes on the first day of every month. These wishes also serve to prepare them for the remaining days of the month.

So the overall notion is that there’s not any better way to start off every month by sending best and loving wishes, messages, prayers and greetings to the loved ones, and to set the tune for this month being that it’s the Month of Valentine. For this reason, Lively Stones Relationship Blog have gone to compile the finest new month heartfelt wishes that you can send to your friends and relatives.


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A tear-inducing video of an elderly man saying his final words to his wife of 64 years while on his deathbed has gone viral on Chinese social media.

The video, shared on Douyin by a relative with the username Xin Jing Jia You on Jan. 11, was reportedly filmed in the unnamed elderly couple’s home in Inner Mongolia, an autonomous region in northern China, in December 2022.

The senior reportedly died from an unknown illness the day after he said his final goodbye to his 83-year-old wife. His death occurred shortly after they celebrated their 64th wedding anniversary.

“Grandpa has gone after all. Grandma has been crying like a child ever since,” the relative wrote in the Douyin post, according to the South China Morning Post. “He left her reluctantly one day after their 64th wedding anniversary. He left the girl whom he has cherished and taken care of his whole life.”


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rqxXhBmXH8g

The now-viral video shows the man on his deathbed holding his wife’s hand while their son sits beside him.

During his final goodbye to his wife, the man advises her not to compromise if their daughter-in-law or grandsons make her unhappy, to which the person filming the moment tells the woman, “Promise him, Grandma.”

As the man’s wife cries while sitting beside her dying husband, she wipes her tears and tells him, “I hate you. Why will you leave me alone in such a hurry?”

Emotions continue pouring out as the man reaches out to comfort her.

“Don’t cry. I don’t want to leave you but it’s not my choice,” he tells his wife. “It’s amazing that we’ve been a couple for so many years. Think of your two younger sisters. Their husbands both died when they were in their 50s and 60s.”

Many Douyin users were touched by the undying love of the elderly couple in the video, which has now been viewed over 32 million times.

“I cried each time I saw this video,” a Douyin user commented, according to the South China Morning Post. “The grandpa didn’t mention the word love once, but his sentences were full of love. The grandpa was worried about the grandma living without him, while the grandma couldn’t bear to see him leave.”

“He left the world peacefully and with dignity. He didn’t have numerous tubes inserted into his body, like those old-aged patients with serious diseases. He still had a lucid mind and even comforted his wife,” another user wrote. “This old man has my blessings!”

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