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sdbaba: It amazing that we really don't look at the impact of all these foreign laws before we start calling for them to be implemented in Nigeria here. What has that law benefitted America and other Countries that have them in place? Nada! rather it increased the rate of divorces by Geometric proportions and you see a lot of children growing up with single parents either on the father's side or the mother's side.

I visit the US often and can tell you the rate at which Nigerian women are ditching their Nigerian husbands and what heart breaks it is causing so many of them is really pitiable. As I write this, I have a friend in Arlington, Dallas Texas who is yet to get back on his feet because of what the wife did to him. This guy was a wonderful husband and all a woman could want in a man, but suddenly the Benin wife he brought from Nigeria and sent to Nursing school in the US decided to date a younger fellow nurse, before you know it... she was asking for divorce, got the house and drove my friend out. That my friend is currently living in the Dining Room of another of our friend there in the US cos that one has four kids and the wife in a three bedroom apartment, so no spare room for the guy.

What about the case of the Nigerian professor they said drove several miles to go and shoot his divorced wife dead in Houston sometime in 2011 because she was frustrating the life out of him. Let's not deceive ourselves, if this law is introduced in Nigeria... forget about family and traditional values, our society will fall into deep retardation that we'll keep asking ourselves 'How did we get here'.

Even without this law in place you can see that some of our women have already lost values for the sanctity of marriage. Me I don't think this will be a good idea at all oh!

ur on point. Women wen given a metre they take it to nautical miles.

sdbaba: It amazing that we really don't look at the impact of all these foreign laws before we start calling for them to be implemented in Nigeria here. What has that law benefitted America and other Countries that have them in place? Nada! rather it increased the rate of divorces by Geometric proportions and you see a lot of children growing up with single parents either on the father's side or the mother's side.

I visit the US often and can tell you the rate at which Nigerian women are ditching their Nigerian husbands and what heart breaks it is causing so many of them is really pitiable. As I write this, I have a friend in Arlington, Dallas Texas who is yet to get back on his feet because of what the wife did to him. This guy was a wonderful husband and all a woman could want in a man, but suddenly the Benin wife he brought from Nigeria and sent to Nursing school in the US decided to date a younger fellow nurse, before you know it... she was asking for divorce, got the house and drove my friend out. That my friend is currently living in the Dining Room of another of our friend there in the US cos that one has four kids and the wife in a three bedroom apartment, so no spare room for the guy.

What about the case of the Nigerian professor they said drove several miles to go and shoot his divorced wife dead in Houston sometime in 2011 because she was frustrating the life out of him. Let's not deceive ourselves, if this law is introduced in Nigeria... forget about family and traditional values, our society will fall into deep retardation that we'll keep asking ourselves 'How did we get here'.

Even without this law in place you can see that some of our women have already lost values for the sanctity of marriage. Me I don't think this will be a good idea at all oh!

ur on point. Women wen given a metre they take it to nautical miles.

I suppose child support 100percent i can even lay down my life for my child talk less of money but for paying the ex , i say NOOO!! ,ok wait oh,wat if the table is turned around, we the woman pay the said money to the ex?

icon aus: I live in the western society . I am witnessing the havoc this law is doing in the western world . Child custody , divorce settlement and child support . These are man made or articial laws that gave woman power over men thats why there is marriage fallure in the west . No family. unfortunately women are abusing this law . They use it to control men , starve men of sex , vebally abuse men and even beat men up knowing that the law protects her . A man does not have a say in the western world knowing the consequence of divorcing . Imagine a man being kicked out indiscrimately over slightest argument from the house he owns or jointly own , lose his children and every thing he has laboured for . Worse for african man who performed all the marriages rites backhome , married the woman ,sponsored the wedding alone , transported the woman to western world even assisted her to get a career to be kicked out eventually . please please this distructive law should not be allowed in Nigeria - it will destroy our marriage/family institution which is the envy of the world . Women are troubele makers and more self centred, and cannot be satisfied . They always complain of one thing or the other . They take advange of this kind of law to mete out wickedness or destroy men's lives in the western . Most men who are useles, homeless , drug addicts are products of women oppression of the men in the ist world .

In our society ( africa ) things are still quite natural . in my tribe ( Igbo), men dont abandon their kids irrespective of the marriage situation. Men mostly get the custody of the child while the woman goes . Even if the children are with the wife, the man still take responsibility therefore we dont need those law as they re counter productive in terms of family . Women in the west before marriage , had already started calculating what she will get in the event of divorce hence giving room for the collapse of the marraige at a slightest disagreement . Marraige is a challenge . Each marriage is bound to fail; it is dependent on people involved to make it work - western society destroyed that by giving too much power to women who cannot control it . By nature God has given the man the power to be in charge or the head of family..But by this law, a woman is in charge in the west hence divorce abounds - we dont want it in Africa. Indians, china are the rising powers because of the strong belief in family structure . Charity begins at home . In the west no respect for family and men and that is one of the mistakes of the west . A place where singles mothers are the order of the society . What do you expect of the the children being raised by a single mother?PEOPLE SHOULD STOP THINKING THAT THE WESTERN VALUES ARE BETTER THAN OURS . Some white people would confess that they admire our culture and would wish to have one and people are here clamouring for western culture for their self benefit - Whenever such a law of kicking a man out of his own house is being debated in Nigeria 1 will personally sponsor it be killed immediately because i currently witnessing the devastating effects of these laws in the West . In the west men are no more men . If u re a man and you re planning to re locate to the western world- beware and bewarned; re think because your wife will frustrate you unles you have an angel as a wife .

For women who happen to get child outside wedlock - it is pity . if you re lucky the man will be there to support you and the child otherwise you can go to the court as there is provison for that in our law .

these words are overloaded with wisdom,women and unpredicable wen give access to power by these so called laws.

Majority if not all of the above listed indicates that the guy cares and nt desperation.Wat do u reali want from us men?Wen we show dat we care u term it as desperation wen we dont u term it that he is either a player or not mature enough

B-square,don't you two sleep?imagine u are still online by 3am,u be evil spirit?

So wat if the lady does not like the shape of ur head,u cut it off and fix anoda? Poster,stop living ur life to impressed sumone.Even if ur head na k-head,ur find sum1 who likes u ''just the way u are''

Nice job @ jtf, and i suggest they monitor the rest of the members of house of rep,both past,present,if possible future

Nature has defined the role of each gender,according to their ability and capability.

U guys are not motivating me at all

I get pissed of with dat 1st to comment shit! itz so childish

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