Prouddad38:
Mamas, I greet everybody o.
I am going to permeate your busy schedules to share a discussion today.

Its about a true life event of a man who married two (2) wives the very same day, with the wives smiling being happily married to their Mr. Handsome.

In the course of this discussion arose an argument when a reference was made to the Holy Book where the first Woman was made for the First Man, meaning: One Man = One Wife.

But I also pointed out from the same Holy Book a place where it says that if a Man can Love and Provide for more than One Wife, then there is no law against it.

But the big QUESTION is: Is it possible for a man to love His Wives THE SAME WAY, and Provide for them alike without any Bias?

And if by reason of life's situations, a woman finds herself being the First Wife or Second Wife, is it possible for both these Wives to LIVE HAPPILY as True Friends without any family issues?

I find this community a Family and home, where I have learned a lot. So I brought this home as the only place to find an answer and also as it can be of help to Mamas who have had experiences or may find themselves in similar homes.

I hope we can learn a lot from this discussion.


@zaynie, Ahnie, Itissettled3, Liftedhands, modath, kaffy4bill, Mismalachi, Ozycy, Talltosyne, Tyconcepts, Naomi14, Hunniesuzie, Crytalzoe, Dunasy, Completey, PatKing, Lilliesbud12, Kelizosuy, Mumsgirl, tatacherie, comtem2011, Sansa143, VannywealthDesi, whyworryPH, 4realwoman, Goldenheart002, FloraEC and all super-sabi wonderful Mamas.


Prouddad38

It can only be possible for them to leave happily and in peace 'ONLY' If the WOMEN too are allowed to marry more than ONE husband!


My opinion though...... Mamas abi?

PatKing:


This is a tough one momma.
For me, it's not possible not to be bias in sharing love.
Parents struggle in sharing love amongst their biological children, nor to talk of one you brought in as some one else's daughter.
Well, even my God himself is a jealous God...
Proudmum38 I no sabi oh...

Lol my dear na prouddad38 o.

alfreda123:
God has moved me from TTC to pregnancy forum join me to thank this great God. team November cappo pls include my name

Congratulations and welcome on board!
Wishing you happy healthy 9months!

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Congratulations daddy junior!
God bless your baby boy!

@toyeem thank God for safe delivery and testimony!
May your testimony be permanent and joy never leave your household! Amen

sunnp:
whyworryPH@
Thanks though we loss the baby

Sunnp sabi mamas go choke mouth for your matter. Thank God your wife has farted.
Her not pooing could be as a result of not eating anything solid yet.

Sorry for your loss!
May God give you double for your trouble.

EzyF:
I'm new here
Edd November 1st
Cappo pls add me

Welcome aboard

glamk:
I really need your prayers mamas. I just lost my mum today. My pillar, my pride, the only father and mother I knew.

So sorry ma'am for your loss!
May God give you the fortitude to bear this great loss!
It is well with you! Pele

Whyterose:
Birth alert... My Prince Charming made his grand entrance on the 6th of April, weighing 3.5kg. Both mum and bby are doing great. Daddy super excited and big sisters are amazed at his cuteness and little hands. BS coming soon. Cappo patking pls update, so sorry it's coming late, my network has been something else.

Congratulations ma'am

prettymaxy:
BA! BA! With hallelujah song of victory in my mouth I announce the arrival of my handsome son on 15th of April.
Cappo PatKing pls take note

Wow! Congratulations Sis...
April mamas are representing!
Where is that � emoji when you need it...

joiful:
Good morning everyone, I am a FTM, Team July, EDD July 1st. July cappo pls add me to the roll call.

Welcome aboard

euphorbia:
BA, God blessed my family with a bouncing baby boy on 7 the April....sorry, its just coming now .I posted since but just realized that it didn't upload.
team April

Congratulations Sis!
Welcome baby boy!

ayabadamilola:

Formerly MsPat, I'm back again. The eagle has landed

cc: zaynie, tyconcepts, ahnie, proudmum38, tatacherie, and my April 2016 teammates

Welcome back ma'am!
And thanks for the mention.

fruitbae:
Hello house!
Sorry for the late announcement. I thought I will be able to read through the pages I left behind but I just have to jump and pass and do this.

Birth Alert!
My prince arrived planet earth on 7th April via Emergency C section after three days of continuous labour and hunger.
I appreciate the Lord God for making me a mother after 5 years of waiting.
For everyone who helped out in one way or the other, I say a very big thank you.
We still need your prayers as I had a severe breakdown but we will survive.

Congratulations to mamas that have delivered, those waddling, God will make it easy for you.

BS might take a while but I will surely give it.
cc Cappo ElmaSpeed and PatKing.

Congratulations ma'am!
Quick recovery to you ma

mrstheo:
My dear mamas, with Jesus joy in my heart I announce the birth of my cute princess on 14/4/18 @5pm via vagina delivery. Weighing 3.3kg

Congratulations ma'am

Every parents/guardians should teach their children/wards, especially toddlers, very early on about PANTS rule.

Times have changed and the world has become a very sick place to live.
There are many paedophiles and rapist out there.
We can protect our children by arming them with the right information.

*PANTS*
*P* - Private parts are private. Nobody is permitted to touch it
*A* - Always remember that your body is yours and yours only.
*N* - No means no. Never yield to pressure.
*T* - There are no secrets from Mummy/Daddy. If there is any attempt on you, please report it.
*S* - Say something, so we can do something about it.

Print out the PANTS rule, paste it on a wall in your house, recite it to your kids always until it becomes registered in their hearts.

VannywealthDesi:
Was that cake not enough? Should I add ice cream or yoghurt? I didn't know which one to get. So I just used my discretion and got you this. Hope you like it.

Where is that side eye emoji when you need it?
Kontinu

VannywealthDesi:
Enjoy.

Bia this woman take time with all this cake you are sharing o! Hanha!

imagemate:
BA to God be the glory I welcome my Prince charming on 9-04-2018, but he is still In SCBU Bs late.

Congrats ma'am!
Your baby will come out fine!
Be strong!

Doubledouble:
Hello people!

Longest time...am back again too...to the glory of God repping team May...No porting in Jesus name, Amen!
Was team sept 2015..
Pls welcome a late comer...

@mumsgirl27

Congrats and welcome back

Navel News.


DID YOU KNOW?

Our belly button (NABHI ) is an amazing gift given to us by our creator. A 62 year old man had poor vision in his left eye. He could hardly see especially at night and was told by eye specialists that his eyes were in a good condition but the only problem was that the veins supplying blood to his eyes were dried up and he would never be able to see again.

According to Science, the first part created after conception takes place is the belly button. After it’s created, it joins to the mother’s placenta through the umbilical chord.

Our belly button is surely an amazing thing! According to science, after a person has passed away, the belly button is still warm for 3 hours the reason being that when a woman conceives a child, her belly button supplies nourishment to the child through the child’s belly button. And a fully grown child is formed in 270 days = 9 months.

This is the reason all our veins are connected to our belly button which makes it the focal point of our body. Belly button is life itself!

The “PECHOTI” is situated behind the belly button which has 72,000 plus veins over it. The total amount of blood vessels we have in our body are equal to twice the circumference of the earth.

Applying oil to belly button CURES dryness of eyes, poor eyesight, pancreas over or under working, cracked heels and lips, keeps face glowing, shiny hair, knee pain, shivering, lethargy, joint pains, dry skin.

*REMEDY For dryness of eyes, poor eyesight, fungus in nails, glowing skin, shiny hair*

At night before bed time, put 3 drops of pure ghee or coconut oil in your belly button and spread it 1 and half inches around your belly button.

*For knee pain*

At night before bed time, put 3 drops of castor oil in your belly button and spread it 1 and half inches around your belly button.

*For shivering and lethargy, relief from joint pain, dry skin*

At night before bed time, put 3 drops of mustard oil in your belly button and spread it 1 and half inches around your belly button.

*WHY PUT OIL IN YOUR BELLY BUTTON?*

You belly button can detect which veins have dried up and pass this oil to it hence open them up.

When a baby has a stomach ache, we normally mix asafoetida (hing) and water or oil and apply around the naval. Within minutes the ache is cured. Oil works the same way.

Try it. There's no harm in trying.

You can keep a small dropper bottle with the required oil next to your bed and drop few drops onto navel and massage it before going to sleep. This will make it convenient to pour and avoid accidental spillage.

http://healthycarestuff.com/belly-

No wonder, Job 40:16b says- "and his force(power)is in the navel of his bell". And Prov 3:8a says -"It shall be health to your navel..."
There is something about our *health* that is connected to our *navel* , please use healthy oil on your navel and let's explore this great discovery.
I see the solution to man kind is in the Word of God, in case you have not been reading your Bible, please do so. *God's plan for our living is in His book.*

This is not meant to hurt anyone or pinpoint on someone for their upbringing. Its a general message targeted to all the parents of today.

*1.* Going to your child's school dressed indecently?
Think again.

*2.* Speaking rashly to your child's teacher.

*3.* Cursing, using foul words or swearing in front of your children.

*4.* Using makeup on children.

*5.* Dressing with tight clothes and indecently for children (they loose the sense of their princesshood and may not listen to you in future)

*7.* Your child holds the cup or glassware by the brim and you don't make a correction.

*8.* Your children don't greet and you just feel they will come around one day because they have a mood swing. (You will be blamed for it)

*9.* Your children eat with their mouth opened and you feel they will grow up some day.

*10.* Your children brought home something you did not buy for them and you said nothing. (That is the beginning of stealing)

*11.* They talked back at you and you concluded it's okay since you're a 21st century mummy. (You will hate yourself if they do that outside and they are disciplined)

*12.* They interrupt when you are speaking with another adult and you think they are bold and clever. (It's really bad manners)

*13.* They exercise authority over their nanny and domestic staff and you let them be. (That is bad parenting)

*14.* They say things like "my driver is on his way..."
I am not an advocate that children should call your domestic staff aunty or brother but, calling them by names when they are not young people is not poise either. The use of Miss, Mr or Mrs will look good on them.

*15.* Your children don't say- 'Thank you' when they have been helped or served something. They don't know how to say "please" when they need someone for help; and you are cool with that. (Bad parenting)

*16.* When your children cannot stand children who are less privileged.

*18.* When they pick their nose with their hands.

*19.* When they don't wash their hands after visiting the washroom.

*20.* When your children take something from the fridge without taking permission. (Bad parenting)

*21.* When your children don't knock on closed doors.

*22.* When your children don't collect from your hands the stuff you brought in as you walk in through the door.

*23.* When your children ask for a bribe to carry out their home chores or extra task. (That is )

*24.* When your children act like their grandparents are irritating them.

*25.* When your children have not learnt to get up from the chair for the elderly or visitors to sit.

*26.* When your child tells a lot of lies. (You will both cry in the future if such is not put to check)

*27.* When your child asks "who is that?" at a knock on your door instead of "please, who is there."

*28.* When your child is always seated by your visitors when being served drinks etc.

*29.* When your children still point their fingers at other people.

*30.* When your children play and jump around when prayers are going on. (age 4 above).

Don't be a 21st Century parent who cannot correct a child. Train your child in the right way, so that when he grows up he will not depart from it.

*IT IS BETTER TO LET YOUR CHILDREN CRY AT AN EARLY AGE WHEN YOU CORRECT THEM, IF NOT YOU WILL BOTH CRY AT NIGHT WHEN THEY BRING DISGRACE TO THE FAMILY WITH BAD AND TERRIBLE BEHAVIOURS!*
I pray that won't be your portion.

You can do well to circulate this piece to all parents and grandparents that are on your contact list.

Thank you.

amypearl:
My pple I greet una oo... I don come again and like Mama zaynie, vision 2020 came 2yrs early (we plenty wey dey eye yr 2020). Congrats to all new bfp holders, especially my team October mamas, we shall all carry to term. Adorablewifey, I congratulate you 2, I am a reader of ur diary, ur blessing is permanent IJN Amen. To all new mamas, congratulations, ur children shall bring great joy to ur families. Cappo Joomie, newcomer alert, Edd-5/10/18

Welcome back

curvilicious:
Mo ri re
Mo ri re
Mo ri re gba
O se mi lore
Mo ri re gba

Jae, is 3months today
Oya pray for him o

Before you say awwn chubby fess salute my bwess

Nobody should call him burnt dodo o

God bless you baby Jay!
Grow in God's strength....

Adorablewifey:
I don talk am say I must carry belly this year. Iyaekene to sure, I don sharpaly collect my land o. God bless you for this sis.

Wow! A big congratulations to you ma'am!
Hh9m to you!

Shollzycute:
Good morning beautiful mama's in the house. I'm happy today that I'm five months gone. It wasn't an easy jouney after 6 years of waiting on d lord and also had miscarriage last year at 2 months and that was supposed to be my first baby and i know God has other plans for me and I I know my heavenly father has signed this baby im carrying. I will carry till full term in Jesus name Amen. We shall all carry till full term and our baby will come out strong and healthy and we will deliver like Hebrew women. Keep praising and thanking God for this beautiful gift of Life

Congratulations and welcome!
May you carry to term and birth with ease. Amen

toyeem:
BA! BA!
Announcing the arrival of my miracle baby,my Prince charming by ECS on 10th April.mother getting better,my handsome Prince doing great,daddy excited and big sisters are so much in love.Bs coming soon.

Whoop whoop!
Congratulations Sis!
Welcome prince!

Wifeysist:
BA! BA!!
I welcomed my prince on Saturday 7th of April via ELCS. Father super excited and baby is super handsome Still in the recovery state, safe delivery to to all other April mamas and all other remaining mamas. BS later
Cc: patking

Wow!
Congratulations Sis!
God bless him for you!
Quick recovery ma'am

phlakkeys:
B.A .:- God has blessed me with a beautiful baby girl.

Congratulations ma'am!
God bless your baby girl.