Business › Re: Bankers For Baba-Ijebu (Premier-Lotto). by PubLlcEnemy(m): 8:52am On Jul 20, 2015 |
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Family › Re: I Told My Hubby To Stop Using My Money.am I Wrong? by PubLlcEnemy(m): 3:52am On Jul 20, 2015 |
sunkoye: one of the best post here.
eemm.. but.this ur moniker ehn; almost made me skipped wisdom here.  I speak my Mind and how I see things. I don't sugar coat it, I say it as it is and I often offend people with it... I will always be me... Hence PublicEnemy. |
Family › Re: I Told My Hubby To Stop Using My Money.am I Wrong? by PubLlcEnemy(m): 12:03am On Jul 20, 2015 |
FavorofGod: My hubby and I have had no financial secrets since marriage. He uses my atm regularly and it's almost as though we operated a joint account. This has worked for us until recently.
Now the issue is this: I'm saving for my masters school fees(distance learning) which invoves thousands of pounds. I had to defer it last year due to financial constraints. So from the beginning of this year, I had already started making plans to pay. Hubby promised to assist but each time he puts away some money, something always comes up to make him use it up.
I wouldn't have minded much if it was just that, but he turns around to deplete my own savings, promising to pay when he has money. I know he has no other means of income and cannot fulfill that promise.As it stands now, I've not been able to save a dime, and my fees is due in 2 months. So I told him he is on his own as far as this month and next month's salary is concerned, cos I'm saving every bit of it. Some money being owed me at my place of work for months now was finally paid me yesterday. I didn't want to tell him at first, but later did this morning.
He said he was disappointed, that I've started keeping secrets from him. That he only spent my money because he was broke and not out of carelessness. I told him there was a cause.
He spends money as he sees it, and does not believe in saving for the rainy day. He is not frivolous, but will start projects he had earlier shelved due to lack of money as soon as he sees money. For e.g, He has been talking about hosting a big time baby dedication, and the whole family travelling to the village next month for holiday, which are all capital intensive projects, when he knows he cannot fund it with his salary alone.
I think he wants me to allow him use my savings, then hope for a miracle to pay my fees. I know he's not commited to my academic pursuits, though he claims to. He once used up money I had saved for a proffessional exam, promising to pay b4 the closing date, only to tell me to forgett about an exam I had fully prepared for a day to the closing date because he couldn't raise the money. I had to run around to borrow and pay that same day.
So, ladies and gents, am I wrong to have barred him from touchingmy money for thisperiod or not? Should I stop telling him how much I have exactly? Share your thoughts. You sound like a good wife. Pls keep it up. You did the right thing in tellin him how you feel... But it all boils down to how you put it to him. I hope you were polite enuff becos he might just say "OK " but within him, he may not be very happy. So if you think you weren't polite enuff pls just go back and beg him to make him understand how much ur education means to you... But you should be firm on not just ur finances but the entire finance of the house since you said he spends money as he sees it. You are the wife and should be in control of the finaces becos if thing go south you will all suffer it. |
Business › Re: Bankers For Baba-Ijebu (Premier-Lotto). by PubLlcEnemy(m): 11:48pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
godoluwa: sir, take lecture first b4 staking. gudluck How can I do that? |
Business › Re: Bankers For Baba-Ijebu (Premier-Lotto). by PubLlcEnemy(m): 11:24pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
Rolandante: d result covers all
N1000
for my lessons Lol... I lost bro... When I win |
Business › Re: Bankers For Baba-Ijebu (Premier-Lotto). by PubLlcEnemy(m): 11:19pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
Rolandante: PREMIER: TOTA
19-07-2015
SUC: 12-29-80-11-24
MAC: 26-58-45-74-7
UR RESULT.
CHECK UR DIGITS IF HAVE AMONG D FIRST FIVE.
if not ..sorry There is another one
NAP 2 _ what's the result? |
Business › Re: Bankers For Baba-Ijebu (Premier-Lotto). by PubLlcEnemy(m): 11:15pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
haywire1: IF THAT'S CONVENIENT FOR YOU WHY NOT, SO, SURE U CAN
# Pls I played a game aroud 8:30pm this evening
09_07_33_90
NAP 2
19_90
Is the result out? |
Business › Re: Bankers For Baba-Ijebu (Premier-Lotto). by PubLlcEnemy(m): 11:12pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
haywire1: U NEED A BROWSING PHONE TO ENJOY LOTTO.. ROLANDANTE HAD ALREADY ANSWERED YOUR QUESTIONS
GET MONEY READY FOR TOMORROW MUST DROP GAME
# Can't I check with my browsing laptop? |
Business › Re: Bankers For Baba-Ijebu (Premier-Lotto). by PubLlcEnemy(m): 11:06pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
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Business › Re: Bankers For Baba-Ijebu (Premier-Lotto). by PubLlcEnemy(m): 10:56pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
Rolandante: 9
for 19*90 N100=24000
for 9*7*33*90 @15each cost 90 ...if two play here u get N3600 ,3play u get 3600×3, Pls when will the result be out and how soon can I get the result? Is there a website I can check results? |
Business › Re: Bankers For Baba-Ijebu (Premier-Lotto). by PubLlcEnemy(m): 10:53pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
Rolandante: 9
for 19*90 N100=24000
for 9*7*33*90 @15each cost 90 ...if two play here u get N3600 ,3play u get 3600×3, Wow thanks bro...pls beep me on whatsapp so we could chat more plss. |
Business › Re: Bankers For Baba-Ijebu (Premier-Lotto). by PubLlcEnemy(m): 10:45pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
Rolandante: PREMIER TOTA IS THE NAME OF D GAME U PLAYED.
THE RESULTS WILL B PASTED HERE.
PASTE D DIGITS U PLAYED ..SO WE CAN CHECK D RESULTS TOGEDA. 09-07-33-90 Then there is another one under NAP 2 at N100 19-90 Total stake: N190 I'd like to know how much I can win. |
Politics › Re: Buhari Departs For The US With His Delegation (Photos) by PubLlcEnemy(m): 10:40pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
opedaydydx9: hop ur father never rape u sha You mean like your father raped you? Am sure that's why you have been so bitter and been using the word gay all day....lol. Hope he gave you pile? |
Business › Re: Bankers For Baba-Ijebu (Premier-Lotto). by PubLlcEnemy(m): 10:37pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
haywire1: Snap ur ticket and upload Premier lotto
TOTA
Terminal:
DRAW:
VALID UNTIL:
SAE DATE
Etc
That's how it is. |
Business › Re: Bankers For Baba-Ijebu (Premier-Lotto). by PubLlcEnemy(m): 10:34pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
haywire1: Snap ur ticket and upload I am browsing with my laptop, I use a nokia touch...
But tell me what you want and I will write it out...pls |
Business › Re: Bankers For Baba-Ijebu (Premier-Lotto). by PubLlcEnemy(m): 9:42pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
dmuchwells: Premier lotto
Total is playing now...what d name of your It premier lotto... I played 4 numbers and they say if 2 comes out I win... They say the result will be out by 11:30pm Pls can we chat on what's app? 08098750612 |
Politics › Re: Buhari Departs For The US With His Delegation (Photos) by PubLlcEnemy(m): 9:37pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
opedaydydx9: u knw this...... Sorry about ur who*re mom Sorry about ur wh0re mum too,and ur wh0re sister nd ur fagggot father. |
Romance › Re: Which Romantic Movie Once Made You Cry. by PubLlcEnemy(m): 9:33pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
misssclassy: [color=#000050]Fault In Our Stars.[/color] Where can I download. |
Business › Re: Bankers For Baba-Ijebu (Premier-Lotto). by PubLlcEnemy(m): 9:02pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
dmuchwells: PubLlcEnemy
Bro pls I just played one baba ijebu game... How can I check the result online... I played the game around 8:30pm they say the result will be out by 11:30pm ... Pls help
What the name of the game Premier lotto |
Business › Re: Bankers For Baba-Ijebu (Premier-Lotto). by PubLlcEnemy(m): 8:41pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
dmuchwells: Tota 36*90 Add 49*67*82*88 #wells
Try this (((47*31*24)))
Tonite must be a great Bro pls I just played one baba ijebu game... How can I check the result online... I played the game around 8:30pm they say the result will be out by 11:30pm ... Pls help |
Politics › Re: Buhari Departs For The US With His Delegation (Photos) by PubLlcEnemy(m): 8:34pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
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Politics › Re: Buhari Departs For The US With His Delegation (Photos) by PubLlcEnemy(m): 8:10pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
opedaydydx9: k K... What's "k" You bastard? Are you tired? |
Politics › Re: Detained Ex-CSO Diabetic, Hypertensive But Denied His Drugs, Lawyer Cries Out by PubLlcEnemy(m): 7:44pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
Let him have HIV |
Politics › Re: Buhari Departs For The US With His Delegation (Photos) by PubLlcEnemy(m): 7:38pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
opedaydydx9: opedaydydx9 : opedaydydx9 : fagot :s thank God u knw thank God ur mom won't see this cus she will be busy sucking my feet,..... Fagot don't fu*ck ur mom, it's nothing to write home about Is this all you can come up with asshole? |
Politics › Re: Buhari Departs For The US With His Delegation (Photos) by PubLlcEnemy(m): 6:32pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
opedaydydx9: opedaydydx9 : opedaydydx9 : fagot :s thank God u knw thank God ur mom won't see this cus she will be busy sucking my feet,..... Fagot If only you knew where your mum where...lol. You might have fvcked her in one of your visits to those brothels in your hood. |
Crime › Re: Photos: Two Men Injured After Being Involved In Sallah Bloodbath (Graphic pics) by PubLlcEnemy(m): 6:20pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
closearms: then come and ban it. if u can .. .. they said the same thing 1400yrs ago ,yet Islam is the world most fastest growing religion and noting no one can do about it Smelling pigs.... Wherever you go you take your violence. |
Politics › Re: Buhari Departs For The US With His Delegation (Photos) by PubLlcEnemy(m): 3:53pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
opedaydydx9: opedaydydx9 : fagot :s thank God u knw You should be ashamed of yourself... Everyone you follow on Nairaland is female.... Obviously you are love starved.... Your LovePeddler mother abandoned you as a child. |
Politics › Re: Buhari Departs For The US With His Delegation (Photos) by PubLlcEnemy(m): 2:16pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
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Politics › Re: Buhari Departs For The US With His Delegation (Photos) by PubLlcEnemy(m): 1:09pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
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Politics › Re: Buhari Departs For The US With His Delegation (Photos) by PubLlcEnemy(m): 12:58pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
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Politics › Re: Buhari Departs For The US With His Delegation (Photos) by PubLlcEnemy(m): 12:39pm On Jul 19, 2015 |
CreekReporter: okay sorry na
at least try smile small.
my guy! Can stop replying me? |
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