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[quote author=DevGuru post=47211430]NOTICE: Please, my story is still very long despite that I tried very hard to remove some unnecessary portions. But if you can be patient to read it to the end, then you are ready to give a mature opinion.

I am a Yoruba guy married to another Yoruba lady who happened to be the last of seven children. We met at the University and had a long courtship before we got married in 2014. I loved her so much and I believe she loved me too. We were each other's best friends. Shortly before we began to plan the wedding, on one faithful afternoon, I was watching the TV in my living room when I began to feel a slight pain in my lower abdomen. It got more intense within few hours and I had to go to a nearby hospital and by that time, the pain was inside my scrotum. The young doctor there didn't understand what was wrong and started injecting me with pain killers. I was kept there till midnight. The next morning, I noticed that one of my testicle was swelling up. I hen went to a teaching hospital where Orchitis was first diagnosed. After a week of antibiotics with no improvement, a consultant examined me and said it was torsion which should have been surgically corrected within few hours from the onset of the pain. As at that time, the testicle was dead. I had to go for surgery to have the dead one removed. My wife (then my fiancé) was with me in the hospital. She assured me that everything would be fine and that we could have as many kids as we wanted with just one left. I loved her the more.

Now we have a very beautiful daughter who obviously has my genes and delights everyone around her with her alluring beauty. We nearly lost her to a strange illness some months back but for God who used my mum to restore our daughter. That's another long story but not for this thread. My mum loves my family so much that even my wife knows that she can lay down her life for us to be fine. Since we got married, my wife hasn't worked owing partly to our daughter's health which is now very perfect. It's not been easy for me working day and night to feed the family and paying bills in a 3-bedroom apartment in Lagos but God has been helping us. My wife was so much loved in my family that people around thought she was my mum's daughter. Very hardworking and homely.

A little into her own family setup too... She has 4 female and 2 male siblings. All her siblings are married but very close to the parents. Because my wife and I were very close, I was aware of most of the happenings in their family, but I never even gave any thought to them on how they might affect my own marriage.... long story...

Last month, I repeatedly got home late due to an official event which I told my wife and I was talking to her on phone. One morning, she gave me a wild look and warned me never to come late again. I quickly noticed the strangeness in her actions and I comported myself by saying "I'm sorry, it won't happen again". We ate together and I left for work. I returned much earlier and was with her and my daughter for a couple of hours before went to bed after I told her I had a meeting the next morning.

Is her sisters married?

you fasted,you prayed,
you have been good 4 a whole 30 days.
So your merciful ALLAH gave u a sign,
Out came the moon 2 say come celebrate..
Happy Eid mubarak

rawpadgin:
u startd keeping boyfriend @ the tender age of 12 little wonder u arrived @ 3million. u've dated 30 hefty men & u stil in ur 20's, u will probarbly lost count b4 u get married

Girls are now women.

looking yummy sha..


but mummy told me to stay away from such

hope we won't hear another story of you impregnating another oyibo...

another stunt abi??

20k daily...with this economy... make them no kidnap you plus your G wey you wan send the money oooo

do you know that I just commented on Nairaland?
do you know that my moniker is purpletee?
do you know that I am a female?
do you know that Seun is the CEO of Nairaland?
do you know that Oga lala is a supermod that bans anyhow on Nairaland?

gan gan

so identical.



I pity the husbands of the ladies...them go confuse gan

not again

rawpadgin:
but u where collecting cash gift from them

well yes.
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but uncle it wasn't my fault o,if I tell them no dey will still insist... claiming to love me so much and will do anything and all that...now tell me in such situation what can I do?


I gladly collected and thanked the niggas...
BTW I didnt date multiple dudes the same time o...started dating since jss1(well that one was child's play,more like infatuation)that's how I got the figure 2.5 to 3 million.

you get

aigboeben:
Thatz abt a whole football team for a competition o!

Bros e tire me o...some men just don't take no for an answer...them go pester you soteyyy your papa go join dey beg.

daddy: my daughter this man is really serious about you, give him a chance.
me: but daddy I don't feel a thing for....
before you finish
daddy: shut up, what do you know about love.. in my age it was match making done by our parents, now your mum and I have grown to love each other...(Im haff forget we are in 21st century o)
me: OK daddy,anything for you.



fast forward months later,after breakup

daddy: that man wasn't meant for you,his no good for my daughter the daughter of a lion (how my daddy became lion,I don't know!!!)
me: but then you said he was serious about me,you forced me into a relationship.
daddy:am sorry my dear, it will never happen again. (na mouth o...let another Good looking gentleman come... daddy will say his serious and it keeps playing and playing itself over again.


"in Helen Paul's voice" uncle is it my fault??

YINKS89:
how many ex u gt...... Nd m sure all don taste u........*mouthsealed*

No dear

rawpadgin:
the topic says "from ur EX", that mean ur former boyfriend. generally, b4 u regard some as ur boyfriend/or manfriend as the case maybe, he must have toasted u and u accepted. & u guys dated 4 some months/years & of cause there is 80% possibility that he fvcked u b4 u guy finally broke up

sorry to burst your bubbles nigga, most of them broke up with me cos I refused sharing the kitty Kat....

rawpadgin:
how deep is ur kint must be as deep as a fairy's well. now ur man will be finding it difficult to satisfy u in bed

dude my kitty cat is tighter than one opening of your nose.... must you sleep with all you date?

maturity

poster above me tho

hmmm...that cake is so ummmmm

mine should be around 2.5 million to 3 mill

denrele edun where at thou?...
your half brother don show o

youngest85:
No....jst incline to single mums

why if I may ask

youngest85:
Surprise kwa?


Am even looking 4 single mothers!

Are you a single dad?

Idrhas:
ABUsite??

guess so

5minsmadness:
Pls an actual mother should answer this question. I've been wondering why as well.

1.frequent sleepless nights. With that sex is the last thing on her mind.
2.caring for the baby during the day.
3.caring for the Hubby.(washing of clothes,plates,making breakfast, lunch and dinner),although not all cases.
4.loss of self esteem due to postnatal body...its so shapeless and annoying.
5.maybe she's just not in the mood.

And you were the best man abi

1Dray:
Must I drop my contact here, ma'am?

No sir, please kindly email me nwanahtess18 @gmail.com.

1Dray:
Wow! I'm in Zaria, can you matchmake for me immediately.

OK sir, please drop your contact and your specifications.

wow...aunty Genny one love

4rmthewest:
Are you shy??....no, why shall I shy, even if I shall shy, shall I shy 4 you....are we not a people?

yes...we are a people and you are a persons.

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