seanwilliam:
from your spending break down, apart from rent, you’re not really spending so much tbh .


What you should do is.
Get a solar inverter, I have the one of 425000 naira, it will power tv, inverter washing machine,laptop, phones , blender and fan. It runs 24/7.. that will save you money on gen and maintenance .

Find apartment of 800 k max. This means your two months salary will cover your house rent .

Your car Maintenance is too high , haba, when no be fourth hand car u buy. Your car maintenance shouldn’t be more than 30k max including fuel since u no Dey waka waka much .

Your feeding fee is very ok, infact I spend x2 of that for food .

Other expenses up there are normal to me

Oga abeg no vex o, how does this solar inverter work?? Can I charge it with generator??

1Alex:
you mazturbate a lot,That's number one reason don't you feel anything while using condom

The first real comment.

I stopped mastubating hoping that will increase sensitivity but it's not just working. I think going celebate for a while might help.

I find it so hard having sex with condom and I hate it. If I'm having sex and condom is on, I could bang forever yet I won't reach climax. But the moment the condom is removed, its takes 10mins maximum and I'm done.

I'm worried because I keep many partners.

I used to mastubate, then I stopped but I still watch porn once in a while. I don't know if there's a correlation between mastubation and finding it hard to enjoy sex with protection.

Could it be that during those days I masturbated my dick got so used to my hand that it now feels nothing for puxxxy unless without protection?

My question is do you find it hard having sex with condom that you ended up having sex without condom?

It's high time I change my old camry and I'm looking at Camry 2012 - 2014.

Dealers in the house, please what's the actual price of camry 2012, 2013 and 2014

PotatoSalad:

Omo naira useless sha. Convert am to USD and you will cry. 3m is 4k USD.
That means you're making 48k usd yearly.
Still below the median income in US.
But you're among the top 1% in Nigeria.
Nice but sad

With his 100m he can get a moderate house in Nigeria, that cannot be said of in US.

You have to understand that in the US, the expenses are high. Comparing what we have in Nigeria to US is outright misinformation.

Every country have their own reality.

Don't you ever patronise a prostitute. Prostitute in this context means anything sex for money.

Secondly, don't ever mastubate to porn.

You patronise prostitute, you will want more prostitutes.

You mastorbate to porn, you will want more porn.

It's typical Oliver Twist in play.

You might think mastubating will help you stay away from women, LIE!

Mastubating will get you addicted to women, you sexualize every woman that meets your fantasy.

May God help us.

Please I need sincere inputs. Those leaving with someone, please don't derail this thread. Just read an learn.

I'm planning on relocating to new area in Abuja but I'm really confused if 20% of salary is too much to pay for rent.

Where I currently stay lacks some amenities and I pay 10% of my salary for rent.

What percentage of your salary goes to rent? How much do you think should be the ideal percentage of salary for rent??

I think the right percentage would allow for proper saving to allow one build his or her own apartment.

Thank you for your responses.

CondenseMilk:
Better leave that girl before you destroy her with your dorty prick

Better go and examine your health before coming here to spill trash

Patented:
lots of guys sleep with Prostitutes but what worries me about your case is that you are keeping the score........like why?!!

on the flip side what about them has you hooked?

I don't know why I keep scores, but I certainly like it.

Patented:

on the flip side what about them has you hooked?

Nothing really. What I think I'm addicted to is the feeling of getting high and having sex. I get bored, I get hooked. But now I fear I can't stay with one woman.

Patented:
Maybe you need therapy.

You maybe right, though I always feel all this therapy section is a total waste of time and money if you aren't ready to call it a quit.

I have come to the conclusion that I'm addicted to prostitutes. It started in 2010 when I first slept with a hooker. Its 13yrs now and I still patronise prostitutes. I slept with 155 of them, 55 were without protection.

The problem right now is that I don't have that much feelings for the new girl I'm dating. Since she's been in my life I have been able to stop but I noticed my soul still longs to experience that feeling of getting high and banging a hoxx.

In fact, I'm thinking if ending this relationship should be my next line of action.

This is not the first time, my past relationships ended because the feelings weren't there.

What would you suggest? Does sleeping with many partners make one loose the feeling of love? I don't get it, I can't even love, it's not just there.