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[color=#550077]^^You are speaking to your mother your MOTHER & your MOTHER ALONE!!

You wrote 4 paragraphs of insult for your MOTHER AGAIN?lol u must love her ooo. . .you really need a brain & job to go with fool of the planet![/color]

[color=#550077]Now becus of u dumb yoruba people, they will lock the thread.



You don't even know a thing, talking about manners & know nothing about it,

bloody illiterate foools!


p.s dont give a damn if i get banned[/color]

OYINBOGOJU:
This young hoe must be possessed

Do you have to refer to dem Mama.

E be like say your mama don die

Your mama must be valueless for you to see dem mama that way.

Animal in human skin

[color=#550077]Your are talking about your mother!!

YOUR OWN ASHAWO MOTHER!!

Is it my fault you no get job?why are you poker-nosing?na your mama dem call?y not use your brain?go get a job & stop fcking poker-nosing, you uneducated Arrow as if it's my fault, your ashawo MOTHER couldn't pay 4 your school fees dirty thing, you couldn't answer the thread but chose to open your nose to anothe person businesss.

IT IS your MOTHER THAT U R TALKING 2, SO GO SEND HER YOUR MESSAGE ON HER GRAVE!!

IDIOTTT[/color]

Cuddlemii:
Is this naija's audition for Wilmer Valderrama's Yo momma.

Please iya ni wura. This is not our culture. Awon omo isin, ko si nkan ti eni fi sere. Iya ti o fun yin lo yan. Its absurd!

Aye ti baje! Aye to to Aye Aka mo ra!

Ha Iya, eloyun mi fun osu mesan, lolz

[color=#550077]Shut the fck up & speak english.


This is nairaland nott yorUba land.

IF YOU WANTED THEM 2 ABUSE your MOTHER JUST SAY SO.

BECAUSE NOBODY WAS TALKING 2 YOU EITHER!!

SO GO & FCKING DIG your HEAD IN your BUTTT.

NONSENSE THING, IYA E LON BA WI, OLOSHI![/color]

[color=#550077]@OP That's an insecure & jobless woman, what hardworking, motivated & independant woman would be doing all that shitzz?it's not common.

That stuff is just plain childish, you cant be with your man 24/7 & if you geT married what you gonna do?i don't get it like.[/color]

[color=#550077]When does a child have a voice?

Especially as africans we know that, in culture a child is always a child.

But when does this STOP?

African parents have this really selfish, strict & some times sickening idea that a parent is ALWAYS right & that a child should only be seen & not heard?

People i would like you to educate me on your views.

When should a child ave a voice?when is it acceptable for a child to stand up to their parents when their parents are evidently doin wrong & need to be corrected?

You can give ages if you want[/color]

[color=#550077]Who is sick?[/color]

deniyor:
Of course no harm in painting yourself as an opportunistic gold digging bit*h either. No harm in portraying yourself as a cheap gal.
If you must eat frog, eat one with eggs. If you prefer to gold dig, at least start with rent, shopping etc not some cheap phone bill.

[color=#550077]How is it gold-digging when he brought the offer?[/color]

[color=#550077]Seee vexing oooo cheiii e ti gbe!!


I get manners pass all na mama [/color]

[color=#550077]^^^ ur too old 4 that i'm afraid [/color]

OYINBOGOJU:
I told him?,

She told her

He told her ?

He told who?

Who Tell Who?

Can you just refrain your question again and again?

[color=#550077]The question is the first sentence on the thread.[/color]

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Never been in that situation. . .i'm usually always closer to the brother than the sister so really can't ask her for help or even talk about anything to do with the brother. Same thing with my brothers. . .i stay outta their bizness unless the womanoid wants to take advantage or starts rubbish. . . Am with deniyor on this. . .they should handle their ish by themselves if they decided to date themselves.[/color]

[color=#550077]Hmm ok, but still what if that's the only way?or maybe it isn't if you guys are both mature sha [/color]

deniyor:
It is related to the thread. I didn't say it wasn't. Don't take this the wrong way but your initial post is quite ambigious. Thats why I advised you to re-word your initial post. Sentences get too long and confusing on who is being referred to sometimes.

[color=#550077]So how would you have worded it?better?tell me[/color]

Nekai:
I think it's pointless to put the sibling in the middle of the drama, and it will eventually mess up your relationship with both people.

[color=#550077]Hmmm it's true sha.[/color]

Ifedisky:
Won't be bad to listen to the sister as there's no relationship yet, if there is she should be left alone, however,for her to be the conduit for unsavoury news is not advisable at all

LesbianBoy:
Clap for yourself Mrs hard to get, mmeeee like u next!

[color=#550077]Plse don't judge if you don't know the whole story [/color]

PureOhio:
Yes, it's unhealthy. Pay your own bills.

[color=#550077]No harm in assisting?[/color]

[color=#550077]Lol what has this thread got to do with me?


R u jelos?bwahaha [/color]

M M M:
op
why should some1 (girl) reject a gift from a guy.

When u re friends and 1day d guy will still beg 4 bleep.

So u better collect any stuff dat comes your way.

[color=#550077]U chat gibrish.[/color]

[color=#550077]^^Your funny, but you don't make me laff [/color]

[quote author=BABE! link=topic=695616.msg8560519#msg8560519 date=1308655499]OP, pls repeat the question. [/quote][color=#550077]Repeat the reading[/color]

deniyor:
you might want to reword the thread.

Bad idea to involve the sister. It wasn't her choice for them to date. There should be a limit to her involvement.
If the two are not mature to date and handle their probs/issues btw them, they should not date.

What happens when things don't work? The poor sister will be forced to take sides esp as the two are immature already as it is.

[color=#550077]How does the post not related to the thread?afterall i gave a scenario, these people don't see to understand plain english & lack the ability to understand the relationship between the thread title & contents.

Well like i said they r not in a relationship but getting close, the friend had known the sister prior & sister & brother are sort of close.

It's true you can never know with brother & sisters.[/color]

[color=#550077]I She don top-up shaaaaa [/color]

[color=#550077]Like what has this world become

The guy got mad because he retardly went to go & purchase some calling credit for you, when you had previously told him you would not accept such tokens.

You reject it & he is mad, telling you your 'strict' & u correct him saying you just ave 'policies' and then he says are these good or bad policies?you say they are good & he says "rejecting a token is good"


Like fckkk off, what do u take me for?

What do you think of this man?is he mad because his money is wasted?or because you wasn't what he had imagined you to be?

Your views plse[/color]

[color=#550077]^^Bare with him ooo, he said it was a 'genuine mistake' [/color]

[quote author=Orton1_0 link=topic=694632.msg8560388#msg8560388 date=1308654465]Ev'body wants the Bull's eye. . .if you can have the best, why then settle for less.
Blame the gurl for being soo cool! . . , guys are guys, third leg first![/quote][color=#550077]Do you mean they are dogs?third leg first?[/color]

[color=#550077]Loool, very funny sha [/color]

[color=#550077]Is it a good idea to involve siblings in relationship matters?

Even when you knew one before or through the other?

Like a lady who's friends with a sister & through the sister the friend meets the brother, and the brother has a thing for the friend.

_{It's funny how i can't really apply the same thing for guys, there always seems to be an issue with guy friends & their sisters}

So somewhere along the line the sister's friend & brother become close but not so much in a 'relationship' but a growing friendship, the sister's friend tries not to make complaints to the sister but just has to sometimes as she feels there is no other option, and that's the only way she can get her point across to the guy without being aggravated or engaging in an argument.

What do you guys think?been in this situation before?[/color]

iice:
[color=#9900ff]I don't bother with the risk. 
Non immediate family cannot get me anything.  I will not accept unless it's food They can call it rude or whatever.  I no send.  Plus top up is useless for me.  I barely reply msgs much more calling someone.  If my phone only has enough for a 3 min call and 50 msgs.  It will take me about almost 2 months to just finish that.  [/color]

[color=#550077]Hmm yes i ave grabbed, but your reason or reasons for not accepting things from unrelated people are because?

Lol food?i thought food should be more sensitive?because it's going into your immune system [/color]

deniyor:
Whether it is bad, healthy or unhealthy depends on the relationship between you two.
If he is a close friend, or your bf etc, then its okay to help out if you need the help. If you don`t, refuse.
If he is an admirer, or some dude wanting to get some, its bad and unhealthy.

[color=#550077]9ice 9ice. . . [/color]

deniyor:
Wait till he sees you calling other guys with the top up. Then you will see fire from a overly jealous MUGU.
The guy is really an amateur, and still of the belief that women are angels, or he owns you by spending on you.

However, if you are in a relationship with him, and he is only trying to help out since you have a problem with maintaining your phone bill, then its ok.

[color=#550077]Hmmmmmmm intresting!

Ok cool i like ur input.lol [/color]

PureOhio:
Although some may not see it as a bad idea, I do. Not to say that you shouldn't trust your guy but I just think its best for you to decline in his offer. There are other ways to show love without having to pay for things for someone. I think you should politely tell him that although it was a nice offer, you're more than capable of paying for your own phone expenses.

[color=#550077]Hmmm. . .so y would you decline?is it unhealthy?[/color]

iice:
[color=#9900ff]No thanks. [/color]

[color=#550077]Lol why?

what are the risks? [/color]

[color=#550077]^^You think he is?[/color]

Excelboi:
your topic does not correspond with your post! Anyway, nt a bad idea for any guy who wanna do dat,na luv. to the ladies!

[color=#550077]What do youuu mean?

He asked how you top-up?because he wants to be topping up your phone monthly?duhhhhhh they correspond perfectly my friend.

Sorry what is luv about that?[/color]

rokiatu:
No thank you. I can do it myself.