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ok i'm going to start with mine.
1. i somehow talk too fast. not that i'm tensed up or something but i just don't know why i sometimes rush words. it sometimes discourage me from talking much.
2. i'm introverted. not the melancholic kind, but more of the phlegmatic. i'm a good description of a phlegmatic.
3. i yawn too much, at least i consider it a little abnormal. it get so bad if i'm bored that i yawn and bring out tears from my eyes.
4. i don't like reading that much. off all books i've read for sometime now, i've almost never finished any. online articles? i don't read them. i just skim through.
5. i have a strong conscience; thats why if i do something wrong i just won't have peace of mind till i make sure i fix it.
write random things about you.

jaylister:
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jaylister:
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Having been married only a year and a half, I’ve recently come to the conclusion that marriage isn’t for me.

Now before you start making assumptions, keep reading.

I met my wife in high school when we were 15 years old. We were friends for ten years until…until we decided no longer wanted to be just friends. I strongly recommend that best friends fall in love.
Good times will be had by all.

Nevertheless, falling in love with my best friend did not prevent me from having certain fears and anxieties about getting married. The nearer Kim and I approached the decision to marry, the more I was filled with a paralyzing fear. Was I ready? Was I making the right choice? Was Kim the right person to marry? Would she make me happy?

Then, one fateful night, I shared these thoughts and concerns with my dad.

Perhaps each of us have moments in our lives when it feels like time slows down or the air becomes still and everything around us seems to draw in, marking that moment as one we will never forget.

My dad giving his response to my concerns was such a moment for me. With a knowing smile he said, “Seth, you’re being totally selfish. So I’m going to make this really simple: marriage isn’t for you. You don’t marry to make yourself happy, you marry to make someone else happy. More than that, your marriage isn’t for yourself, you’re marrying for a family. Not just for the in-laws and all of that nonsense, but for your future children. Who do you want to help you raise them? Who do you want to influence them? Marriage isn’t for you. It’s not about you. Marriage is about the person you married.”

It was in that very moment that I knew that Kim was the right person to marry. I realized that I wanted to make her happy; to see her smile every day, to make her laugh every day. I wanted to be a part of her family, and my family wanted her to be a part of ours. And thinking back on all the times I had seen her play with my nieces, I knew that she was the one with whom I wanted to build our own family.

My father’s advice was both shocking and revelatory. It went against the grain of today’s “Walmart philosophy”, which is if it doesn’t make you happy, you can take it back and get a new one.

No, a true marriage (and true love) is never about you. It’s about the person you love—their wants, their needs, their hopes, and their dreams. Selfishness demands, “What’s in it for me?”, while Love asks, “What can I give?”

Some time ago, my wife showed me what it means to love selflessly. For many months, my heart had been hardening with a mixture of fear and resentment. Then, after the pressure had built up to where neither of us could stand it, emotions erupted. I was callous. I was selfish.

But instead of matching my selfishness, Kim did something beyond wonderful—she showed an outpouring of love. Laying aside all of the pain and anguish I had caused her, she lovingly took me in her arms and soothed my soul.

I realized that I had forgotten my dad’s advice. While Kim’s side of the marriage had been to love me, my side of the marriage had become all about me. This awful realization brought me to tears, and I promised my wife that I would try to be better.

To all who are reading this article—married, almost married, single, or even the sworn bachelor or bachelorette—I want you to know that marriage isn’t for you. No true relationship of love is for you. Love is about the person you love.

And, paradoxically, the more you truly love that person, the more love you receive. And not just from your significant other, but from their friends and their family and thousands of others you never would have met had your love remained self-centered.

Truly, love and marriage isn’t for you. It’s for others.
credits: http://www.faithit.com/

AyodejiMcCarthy:
Mine is https://premiumtrends.

your site is cool, but I think you may need to work on that community. the space it consumes when viewing with a mobile isn't cool. my opinion though

www.get2knowstuffs. though I'm yet to post interesting articles I've written

For some (or rather most) of you who may not know who lacrae is, he's a rapper, a gospel rapper to be precise. Here's is pic on instagram today. Who is to blame for this?

thank you UjSizzle. this came at the right time. I want to open a blog using WordPress, but I don't want it to end with a I prefer just .com and..I don't have shishi to pay right now. is there how I can get my blog just with .com on WordPress for free?

A leap second will be added on June 30, 2015, because the planet is out of sync with our atomic clocks.
This year will be one second longer than 2014. Scientists have announced that they’ll be adding an extra second, called a “leap second” to the UTC (coordinated universal time) clock on June 30 at 11:59:59.

That means the clock will read 11:59:60. This is because the Earth is moving a little slower than our super-accurate atomic clocks dictate, and it’s getting out of sync. In fact, while atomic time is constant, the Earth’s rotation is slowing down by around two thousandths of a second each day.

"The real simple explanation is the Earth is slowing down a little bit," Nick Stamatakos, the head of the Earth Orientate Parameters at the US Naval Observatory told the Australian Broadcasting Corporation.

"For that day there'll be 86,401 seconds, instead of 86,400 seconds,” he told The Telegraph.

The decision comes from scientists at the Paris-based International Earth Rotation and Reference Systems Service, who take stock of how punctual our planet is.

It’s not a rare move - this is the 26th leap second that’s been added since 1972, and the last one was added in 2012. But it didn’t go entirely smoothly - lot of the software that supports websites couldn’t cope, and the leap second took out internet bigwigs Reddit, LinkedIn, Gizmodo and FourSquare.

This is because the Network Time Protocol that computers use to sync themselves up with the world’s atomic clocks. And when this protocol sees the same second being repeated on the clock, it assumes that something’s gone wrong and havoc ensues.

Google has come up with a technique to deal with the problem called a ‘leap smear’, but people are still worried about communication and banking disruptions.

And there are also concerns that too many leap seconds could ruin Greenwich Mean Time forever, as The Telegraph reports:

“Experts also fear that once this link is broken it could never be restored because although the Earth's timekeeping systems are built to accommodate the occasional leap second, adding a leap minute or hour to global time would be virtually impossible.”

But while there are calls form the US government and other countries to get rid of leap seconds altogether due to disruptions, the rest of the world is keen to make sure that the Earth’s rotation and the atomic clock stay in sync.

Either way, the leap second is coming this year whether you like it or not.

The real question is, what are you going to do with it?
source: ABC NEWS

simdam500:
cos he's a boy and his dad he's a man

even if he is a boy he won't grow taller if he becomes a man

I'm waiting for chief sweetus yuzedo to come up with his

good for her

if you're attracted to her; her personality or something else, then she should be beautiful in your own eyes at least. but if you're not attracted physically, then you don't really love her. as much as I know, telling a girl she's beautiful is very integral to her, and if you don't find her attractive physically, if possible let her go

the guy is kinda shorter than the dad

PrettyGaby:
na wa o. Dude, you sound pissed o. Calm down small now; e never reach this level.

happy birthday!

I've been reading every word till this point, but its seems the ending of it is not near. were u a witness?

what of reddit?

I still can't explain why I really dislike Theodore.. and wike.

kehindetayo:
am presently datn an undergraduate who i pay all her bills and she seems to be innocent and God fearing but lately her x seems to pick intrest in her because of her new look as a student. dont knw wat to do. should i kill him?

like seriously!?! you want to kill him? go ahead. hahahaha

KingTom:
Make una follow me see madness o!

as in! the guy dey talk and reply himself! hilarious

wonder never ceases!

complements of the season and good evening to all pharmacists/pharmacy students

like seriously!?!

had mine the first day I was born. by my mum.

.merry Xmas!

the first thing I did was to click to view maheeeda's profile before reading what she wrote about. hit like if you did same

no be only ear them dey put am!?!

Elantracey:
*smiles, your kind is rare*


Just focus on other things and leave relationship aside for now, you're too young to get married so don't distract yourself , make friends though and get them to know you well but don't ask them out , you'll definitely find one who will appreciate you for who you are .

uniben girl. is the background of your picture not within hall 2 &3