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ThinkBrave:
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Una don destroy Southeast finish. Na to bring SouthSouth to una misery be the next wahala. Dey decéìve yourself dey go.


No one in the SS will be dictated to.

No one from SS ask any igbo man questions. Questions his ideas, ideals, perspectives, believes, notion and all you have. But the SE through sheer envy would not let the SS rest

Na Amadioha go blind the screen of your phone. Anuofia

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Springboot:
My brother's are becoming senless, how does burning our own and killing our own people solve the issue at hand, kanu will not die well

Na you be the only Ndigbo wey dey this thread talk truth. Have you noticed that killings and assassinations is now becoming a norm in the East. From Gulak to Become registrar, and what thus means is people can now go out and kill other people they envy or spite.

eyinjuege:
Nobody called it a charity, but remember it's a new business and she is just proving her skills to anyone.
What an older business can afford to do, she won't be able to since she's just starting.
It's 6 months on, and only just getting her 1st apprentice who can't even afford to pay to learn.
That says a lot, and she will just be alone managing that shop for a long time.
Her main source of income should be from customers who bring clothes and really not from apprenticeship for now.
Now that she finally has an apprentice, it will likely attract others that want to learn especially if she is able to teach the girl well.
People would rather send their wards to established fashion designers with several apprentices than one just starting.
It may just be one of the sacrifices a new business makes.
The madam will have someone to help around the shop, who can open her shop early to attend to customers and collect their fabric down, take messages for her madam etc.

Bingo. This is exactly what I believe she was doing and intent on doing.

You know women know how to be compassionate even in business. But men strict.

To get apprentices and keep her afloat she needs to have one or two even if free, those will pull their friends and from more recommendations more hands would come in. Also, she will see the apprentice as someone to speak with and send on errands which are probono to her as well


But their relationship isn't about this. They don't have a fluid interactive relationship. They can't talk with each other to convey their intents, motives, plans and thoughts peaceably. The schism between them and disquiet reflects that there are many issues between and within hence why I didn't even bother paying attention to the business but to the personalities involved


The lady needs to be more submissive in deeds and actions though

Oyiboman69:
my comments are the solutions to your problem.
do you setup the store for your wife so she can settle you after she make profit cos I don't understand your actions because of this trivial issue.
If not ,all you have to do is just leave her to manage the store without investing anything further and watch how she will manage it cos you've done the expected.
Tell her that Whatever way she manages her business shouldn't be your concern and if anything goes wrong.
You cannot be right always; remember that you can only try your best but can't force some certain situation....

. Business and pleasure shouldn't mix right?

Sunday2021:
Igbos killing Niger delta! They have been doing this since the time of Adaka Boro but later they will come and say "we south south and south east "
These people are evil, no one should trust them.

They don't know what they have done. They must pay dearly for this death when the time for support is sought. We dey wait

EM123:
Any body on uniform in biafra land is an enemy

I hope when 100 Ndigbo are killěď in Warri, you will be happy?

techtechh:
Let Urhobo retaliate by chasing igbos from Warri

Useless igbos
Useless tribe
May all igbos die
May you all rot in hell

I think there's need for retaliation. I find this completely insane and irrational. Ndigbo are in SouthSouth axis. Go to Warri, we receive and treat igbos as families. But they kill our own same way they did in the civil war era. I feel we should round up 200 igbos burn down their businesses and beat them up so they feel they aren't the only people who can act irrationally.

Okoyeebo:
Okiemute killed by ESN and UGM in Igboland. Meanwhile, Igbos are in Okiemute's home state in the South South, moving around freely without fear of molestation.

Thank you o

stasius:
Am sure you are a northerner!

You will get the SouthSouth support. Make una no worry. We are also waiting for you lots.

Romanoff:
Many marriages these days is lacking in love and that's why money causes issues.

People marry these days and don't disclose how much they earn.

Still, it is still a manageable situation. All it takes is understanding.

.. What understanding can be without love

Love is the bedrock of everything

I'm seeing a young man here ranting the wife this and that, father in law this and that, but he buried his own which is his lack of love and hatred for the wife and the family


I saw my dad and my mum in good times and not so good times. No no no. The op is deranged and should be sentenced to a year's counselling. Same as the wife hoarding resources

Golan007:
Una don go kill my Urhobo brother and you want support.

Continue.

That's how they are. Tactless animals. This killing of this young man is the nail on the coffin that buries any solidarity towards southeast. Useless people

Romanoff:
The best person to counsel her is an older woman who isn't her parent.

Nigerian women have dealt with Nigerian men the way they are, as unrefined and undeveloped in some areas.

There will be more trouble if his wife's busines fails due to poor financial management and since he invested in the business, e no go funny. Her being too emotional might contribute to her business failing and to me o, unless on grounds of infidelity or domestic abuse, you should not leave your matrimonial home.

The wife obviously misunderstood the husband when he said he didn't want to use his eyes to see her.

.. I don't disagree. But there's no love in this relationship. This one clear to see, so what's with the whole managemental doctrine, when the primary thing love is lacking.

Many Nigerian males need help in home and people management. They may be well developed in other areas, but I've come to notice rather sadly that many guys lack tact in interpersonal relations with wife's family etc. I'm a Pro so I know. I manage the interactions between as much as five families. So I know when a man lacks it. This one lacks it. The wife to needs counselling to overcome " self ", the man here is too self absorbed.


My question is why do you all go ahead to marry yourselves when you can't tolerate one another or even like one another. Why?

You have entitlement mentality. The daughter desist being his blood because you married her. You are a child.

The father told her to go your father. That is bad counsel abi. That's why you feel entitled. You're too proud, too strict to have sensible relations, cause if it's not your way, it's no other way


Your heart is sick and not healthy and because of the state of your heart, you can't form healthy stable relations.


1. The title of your thread suggests your psyche about your own wife... " An ungrateful wife " meanwhile, people buy their wife's extremely expensive things you're acting God because you saw her through some tough times. Yes, you deserve her loyalty for that, but here you're placing demands for God-like worship which makes you unhealthy.






2. The father always supports his daughter. Should the father leave his daughter to support you? Even at that, you haven't heard from the father, yet you have judged. The notion the father always supports the daughter without lending ear for objective rationale of the dad makes you an extremely judgmental person who hates people. You hate your wife and her family and it has formed your perspective in anything with them



3. Your energy says it all. Any sound human who patiently absorbs the content of your post would feel the overwhelming energy that is in your heart and surrounds your decisions..


. You need counselling.


She needs counselling




You both don't love yourselves enough to be a family. And it's clear to see.

Cc MajesticKris

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