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Gbaxyll:
Hello.... Please what are the modalities and questions being asked at the interview session??

what's up...you also got the call for interview right? Have you gotten the mail with the interview details (time and venue)?

Thanks for all the advice. Taking everything said in this thread into consideration, and other factors...I've been able to make a decision and conclude the matter. I appreciate all your input....#ThreadClosed

Jman06:
200k every month is what your mother in law to be called small Hmmmm

While many couples in Lagos earn below 100k, yet are still happily married. Your mother in-law is greedy and it seems your girl inherited same gene from her mother.

My guy, this is a red flag oo! This is a toxic marriage loading...Run for your life!

lol Boss I'm not Married ooo! inlaw ke.

babyfaceafrica:
what is the meaning of back to sender?...it is offensive abeg....you talk too much abeg..even if her mother made mention that the money is too much....just be cool and say you will manage the 200k till things are better..you guys just react and overact ....cho cho cho..all this kids sef

I guess you are rite but one day us kids will mature though.

angelboy01:
My only advice to you is to never disclose your earning to a woman. It has happened to us and we know how it ended. Use your head.

thanks boss

Feranchek:
God forbid, to me, is no insult. But the 'back to sender' MIGHT seem offensive. But I think she brought it up to you cos you both are close and you're sure she's told her mom bought it and she knows you also wanna know what her mom said abi it. So it's not abnormal that she told you. But her reaction to your rebuke was TOTALLY out of place. Good thing you apologized instantly, and I think she took advantage of that. Bro, you seem the humble type and no lady has any right to use that against you. And looking at her recent attitude of copying Instagram mumu shidrens, bros, spare yourself some future headaches and jejely and nwayoly waka away biko. She'll realize her mistakes and come back apologising. When she does, let her know her sins and if you plan marrying her anytime soon, add one ye to it to be sure your message has truly sank in and she's now the gurl you used to know

I really apreciate the advice...lik you said it's prolly the back to sender that did it...nd yh with all the advice coming thru its seeming lik the best bet to jus pause the relationship stuff....it's not easy cz we talking about years of relationship though...But lik u rightly said I gahs reason the future.

tosyne2much:
This is a sign of a looming danger.. Take your time to observe when in order not to put yourself in problem for the sake of your future

Hmm ok...never reasoned it like this...Could you expantiate a bit for me...I'm still young and not so wise

tommyken:
Don't be deceive young man, her mum never said anything about your salary. she is only telling you her selfish mind and pretending it was her mum opinion.
see I will advice you to begin to find another lady to marry because that girl will cause depression in your life which you know the consequences it will have for your career and health. a word is enough for the wise

Thanks...I appreciate your advice...But I never reach nor am I ready to marry...But thanks all the same na true you talk.

joceey:
Mr man a lady that cant say she is sorry when she is in a relationship if you marry her na oyo be your name oò.You too let me be honest that back to sender you said is indirectly back to her mum ........and pls you mfm member no be every thing be cast and bind you people should try and know this

Ok thanks boss...respect

SBL28:
It was wrong for you to say God forbid and back to the sender. And even you, why your body dey bite you? Saying your salary is too small, is that a curse I personally find people who rebuke everything very ANNOYING.

On another hand, the girl too no try o. Even if her mum said your salary is small, what was she trying to gain by coming to tell you.

Abeg no vex...it's part of me, binding and casting is wah I grew up with. But spiritual talks aside even in the secular sense we can change a lot about things with our confession...so I usually negate tinz i don't lik being said about my life instantly tho...although it may be wrong in some people's opinions...and also on my end...I don't talk down or say bad tinz about others.

Olalan:
Oga better park well, for her mum to say 200k is small in present day Nigeria shows how greedy she might be, coupled with her daughter's behaviour I don't think it's wise to continue

Aswear my guy...for Nigeria now we everywhere red.

DrRasheed:
She's right, though the words are not abusive but highly offensive for elders.
dont tell us you are thinking of leaving her cus of this minor aug.

I guess that's what confused me...didn't really see it as offensive.

as per leaving, all I can say is....I've been putting up with similar incidents, and as a private minded kind of guy for me to bring my ish onto Nairaland like this I really reached the end of my rope I jus wanted to see if I'm overreacting wen I feel what she is doing is wrong...this is someone I thought I could eventually in the long rub commit too but social media don dey change her small small. She wasn't always like this. I guess as we get older people's true colours come out.

michlins:
I don't know about you but I love my life and can't accommodate such toxins in it

I don talk my own

thanks I really appreciate the advice tho.

Pubichairs:
she's a bloody feminist, such relationship that a girl can't admit her own mistake is quite toxic and kills slowly

ok thanks bruv...jus wanted to know if i was thinking to far, but I guess we have the same thought train.

Thanks for all the advice. Taking everything said in this thread into consideration, and other factors...I've been able to make a decision and conclude the matter. I appreciate all your input....#ThreadClosed

mustaphagreens:
Hello @holuwakore,

Could you help with directions to JKK Annex Building, 229 Ikorodu Road, Anthony Bus/Stop Ilupeju please? I will be journeying from Apapa. What bus should I board first, Ojuelegba bus? Please help o

get to ojuelegba....board a bus to yaba...stop at yaba market gaan gaan...then ask for iwaya keke...tell the keke driver na glass house u dey go close to oando filling station.

Blingchinny:
If you are JOBLESS and you still patronize products made by companies who doesn't do PUBLIC RECRUITMENTS or companies who wouldn't give you an opportunity to INTERN (Paid/Volunteer), then you are a FOOL.... use your brain!
As for me and all my classmates, we have decided not to patronize any food companies that does the above.

7up, Cadbury, Viju, Friesland.....you will never see them advertise any vacancy, yet they have placements for their relatives and friends.
If I see their retailers around my mom's shop, I chase them away like goats!

Guy na lie u dey lie friesland campigna dey advertise dey called me for test last year wen I was doing NYSC...I dint go cz of distance....Na una no register on better jobsites...hotnigerianjobs...ngcareers...etc

NaturalNerd:
Third Mainland Bridge will be closed down for repairs tomorrow! Na to come sleep for Island sure pass o...or to wake up like 4am. Village people must not get me!

dis tin na serious issue...how person go reach island if dem shut d bridge

theAccountant:
July 12th

omo I don confuse last last.

my initial email said Friday...but the most recent mail saying Thursday and Friday....abeg..ure initial mail na Thursday or Friday?

abi one day don turn.two days?

iAMtruTH:
]Am getting Adobe flash player not enabled ,AV been on this since 12am.I cant proceed to the test page, can I still get access to it in the mornin


You're probably trying to use chrome?
Use internet explorer... enable shockwave flash via settings

call d number of the helpline later on today...it was in d mail dey sent before dis one with login details...the 0704 number...I called d guy wen I was having issues hes very helpful

Godbuikem:
Please what does this good beer role exercise mean

it is just a case study...u read the material nd answer the questions

sureteeboy:
I haven't seen the mail either. You chose Audit as well?

yh

sureteeboy:
Who else has been scheduled for Assessment Center on Monday 9th of July?

yh ...me...I got a call nd deysaid dey wuld send a mail...but I haven't got the mail yet...have u gotten d mail?

theAccountant:
Who else got invited for the Business Game

I got it as well...ny ideas on how it will b?

egoakolam:
Please I urgently need Rene's e-mail address, my time elapses tomorrow, i need to finish up asap. Thanks

I've responded to ure mail