the most important of all...the word of the lord

I'll say you should marry the one you love. The reason why most pple stop loving eachother in marriage (according 2 step707) is because love is not enough in marriage. Before you get married and telling a man/woman to 'take the rest of your life', make sure He is your friend.
Whenever you feel the love is dying you still have a friend that can understand you whenever and however. All the best

Hey gal, i cant imagin what ur goin through right now. I realy feel sorry for you but the thing is u have 2 be strong n move on.
That guy is not good enough for u. If u end up marrying him dnt be surprised that he might wake up one morning n tell u that he wants a divorce cos he found som1 at work that he's in luv with.
2ndly, concernin the covenants it realy works n dnt imagin that alls fine because nothin happend. When u meet this guy, reconcile with him n renounce d covenant. Forgive him no matter how difficult it sounds n let go. Go down on ur knees n ask God into ur life n make u whole again. U need him(God) to go through this.
Wish U all the best.