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NoToPile:
Honestly na double TUEH,

What then is the role of the man if he can't PROVIDE, it's not like he's out of job or something.

She's working or not it is your responsibility as a man to provide shikena. It's the role of the man to take care of his family which includes his wife (because I am seeing people posting school fees food stuffs alone as responsibilities) as if it's only children that he's to take care of.

Nothing wrong if the woman works and she also drops stuffs as most families can't cope with the current economy on one income but it's not her responsibility.

A man should know it is HIS responsibility to take care of HIS FAMILY, whatever his wife makes or add to that is helping the family it is NOT HER RESPONSIBILTY not knowing this is causing a lot of problems today

Those saying women are lazy, Oya switch roles.

Oya lemme sound it again IT IS YOUR RESPONSIBILTY AS A MAN TO PROVIDE ( this includes everything your wife needs hair money, pad money etc etc ) for your wife and kids.
Deal with it, that's how it was, it is and will be.

I wonder the kind of men being raised nowadays.

Know it's your RESPONSIBILTY.

lol.. Pls tell them.. The kind of men we have today won't mind a woman singlehandedly paying for their marriage ceremony, house rent , children's school fees. Many don't have shame at all!

Elder001:
Every man mustn't behave like your husband.. not all men have the same principles or ideologies he has.

The earlier you realize that forcing your opinion on people doesn't make sense, the better.


I don't know when women started defining what a man is supposed to do and what a man shouldn't do, who is a real man and who isn't real man.

Just live with people who share your ideology.

Oga, we are not fighting neither am i forcing anyone to be like my husband. No woman is happy paying the man's bills at home. That's the natural order of things, even backed up by the Bible. A man who doesn't have can be assisted by his wife, but it's plain wicked when you are seeing money but finds it hard ti give madam. I am an advocate of "elevate your woman so high, spoil her and she won't be easily swayed by another man's money". Those that don't have can hustle, but pls... Make no mistake, no woman is happy being the provider. That's a man's job. I didn't come to your house with a gun pointed at you to reason like my husband. It's only recommended. He spoils me, i spoil him.. We are both happy that way. Even if your wife is a millionaire, "honey pls take 20k to make your hair and get your toiletries isn't a bad idea". Most married women are prostituting today because their husband at home is tight fisted.Apart from food money, they don't give her anything extra for herself. Even as rich as Beyonce is, Jay Z still buys her diamonds. He doesn't say "B, you sold 2 million copies of your album this year, you can pay for your own diamonds." She can afford it, but he still goes ahead to spoil her. Life isn't hard. I am not lazy but at the same time, it makes me happy knowing my man can take care of me. That's every woman's dream.

pocohantas:
What's this current trend of some chicks on here, trying to act all sanctimonious and independent. Pls, step on your fùcking brakes!

Nothing wrong in a man giving his wife money for house expenses.
If she's working, they should both contribute a percentage.

If she isn't working, they have to manage whatever he is able to part with. Considering they have other goals to achieve.

Una go come online dey form Miss Independent, na una type fit chop man destiny if im loose guard.

lol.. God bless you.

Elder001:
You haven't change

at all.

cruchenutii:
Na so I think oh, my cousin watched Black Panther 5 times. Just because 5 different guys were desperately showing their interest in her. I know this is irrelevant to the topic but the same goes for marriage where Women should be taken care of, in essence the money a woman makes is for herself alone.

That's not true.. The way it works, if you provide for your wife, she too will hold you down when you are not buoyant. The kind of man i married can empty his account for me.He doesn't ask or have interest in my money. What i do is to buy him stuffs or buy something for the house without telling him first . You can't say you love a man or a woman and you don't give!I can fund a vacation trip for both of us, because he deserves it and even more. When man be Akagum, pray you don't become broke cos most women won't send you then. If a man has, spend on your wife. There is nothing there. Forget if she is working or not!

cruchenutii:
Honestly sometimes It's just better to be a woman in this world.
Asides from delivering children & nurturing them, which is a lot of pain really. I think this is just the only hardship on being a woman.

Every other thing is a Plus, while you are single, different suitors come with their blessings.
When you're married, You have a job, earn decent pay & yet husbands will still give you allowances.

Chaii Na wa oh

Na so u think abi? Lol

Oyindidi:
We need to teach the younger ladies.. Most of the commenters(guys) are bellow 18 years old.

I swear...lolz

Oyindidi:
I know of a woman that collects 200k from her husband and I heard she still borrow from lapo.

Don't mind these stupid kids saying trash on this thread.

Even if you're earning a million naira as a woman, you still need the support of your husband. I made that mistake and I'm regretting it.

Op, I don't collect monthly allowance not because I don't need it but I started that way.

Young ladies in the house, don't form good wife and cry later.

lol.. Exactly o. In my case, my husband is a proud igbo man. From day one he asked me how much is ok for me to sort out my needs and that of the house monthly. We agreed on an amount and he credits my account every month end. Most of the girls here are unmarried and actively trying to get praises from nairaland boys. A man is always proud to spend on his woman. If he doesn't have that's a different thing, then she can support him.

MiztaFabulous:
In every reasonable way it is very necessary that a man gives his spouse a certain amount of money every month for the upkeep of the home whether she is working, doing business or not.

In your opinion, how much do you think is very reasonable for a man to give his spouse every month that will definitely be okay to maintain a comfortable home?

Oga, anything u see here today you brought it upon yourself!As a married man, this conversation isn't open for public debate. You came on nairaland to ask how much money you should give YOUR wife, for the upkeep of YOUR home.. Wow!
Let me ask you. Do nairalanders know your salary? Do we know your monthly budget or expenses? So why do you think we can advise u on what to give your wife. Matters about your home isn't a topic for social media debate. Your bedroom is the best place to talk about these issues. Your bedroom isn't only for sleeping and making love.That's where a couple ought to rub minds and come to a joint conclusion about issues of their marriage and home. Don't give 100 level students and others who are still eating their parents free food the opportunity to have a opinion in your marital issues. Madam deserves better! Please sit her down, make a list of the estimated expenses in your home, then work out how much you can give her. My two kobo sha. All the best sir!

After reading comments of some men and women on the first page of this thread, i have a prayer of Thanksgiving.
"Heavenly Father, I thank you for making me a hardworking woman and for also giving me a Proud Igbo man that still treats me like a baby girl even though he knows i am making money. Thank you God for the sensible Husband you gave me that knows its his duty to provide. Thank you my Good God for giving me a husband that's wise enough to place me on monthly allowance, without having to come and ask kids on nairaland about it. Amen!
Word of advice.. Women, pls marry well. Many of these men are overgrown kids who will come on nairaland to ask what sexxx position he should use in the bedroom with you. Tueh! I am amazed by the comments of some girls here, biko wait till you are married, then come back and stand by your comment.Maybe English is getting hard or they just want nairaland fame. Either ways, it's appalling!It's a man's duty to give his wife money for the upkeep of the home!Even the Bible says a man that can't provide for his family is worse than an infidel! So you will marry a woman into your house and she will be the one feeding you right? Oshey!

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