₦airaland Forum

JoeEeL:
You play too much. Where do you think most eastern nigerians got their light skin from?

You are the one playing. British officials impregnated Igbo girls. What has that to do with the ambition of East African girls to marry a white man who'd take them to their country?

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Very easy.
Dress sense, mannerisms, accent, even walking style, facial look (Black Africans tend to be darker), height (on average African Americans are taller), body mass (they are bigger), jobs ("I work with the military" is enough), youth (they are younger as they can easily move here compared to Black Africans), economic status (the USD offers them greater spending power) etc.

I listed them as there are many ways an average Japanese person would discern, as I can easily tell from the face and hairstyle. I quickly knew an AA lass from her hairstyle. I can differentiate Black Africans based on their regions and accents.

I asked this specifically because I have a friend who lived in Japan and said Japanese assumed he was AA and he let them because it opened doors including his teaching English

No idea about this, as I would have to read up on it. What I am surprised by is how come White men don't marry AA women as much as AA men marry WW.

Simple: AA women are generally bossy, not submissive. White men into BDSM love them as dominatrix.
(BDSM is a weird, overlapping acronym for:
Bondage and Discipline, BD
Dominance and Submission, DS
Sadism and Masochism, SM)

Proximity to social interactions. In some parts of the East Coast, the population of Blacks is way too low for them to compete against White men, and as explained in the racial/economic hierarchies in East Asia itself, their Asian women will prefer White men over Black men. Wealthy AA men would not want to, rightfully so, put up with such discrimination. One cannot be discriminated against by Whites in America and then be discriminated against by Asian women in the same country. Most importantly, for most well-to-do men, they prefer their women. Asian American women have done a great job competing head-on with White women for the love, attention and marriage acceptance of White men. Another one I can think of is the body mass, as they are similar to WW. Black women are on the big side.

So why do very successful AA men rarely marry AA women?

This one is basic demographics nau. Humans prefer people who look like them. Humans are generally tribal.

So why do very successful AA men rarely marry AA women?

I would think of many reasons, such as:

- Nigerian men know how to spend, maybe even more than (in sheer numbers) or more generously than the native men
- Nigerian men are generally go-getters, so this becomes attractive if the native men aren't as ambitious/aggressive in financial pursuits as the native men. The Nigerian society has moulded men to be aggressive towards wealth generation.
- Nigerians are the most populous set of Black people (game of numbers) and emigrate more, thankfully, due to the popularity of the English language.

Though, we have to be very specific about who constitutes these "Nigerian men" as we have few northern men outside the country. It is somewhat easy to tell which particular ethnic group in Nigeria is domiciled in a particular foreign country.

I see your point but I'd say it's more than that. Just as we don't know exactly why Nigerians tend towards scamming!

Flangelo12:
Nobody would spoonfeed Africans.

Those that excel in areas that give opportunity knew even before they embarked on that journey.

Many Africans lack self-esteem, self-esteem relating to their own aptitude and a feeling of inferiority.

So how come they magically acquire self-esteem abroad? See below

Flangelo12:
I'm not into conspiracies.

However, I'll ask the question, are there countries that would hate to have an African country considered the happiest?

Of course. But the truth is, Nigeria is now full of bitter people who think Nigeria is hell while abroad is heaven, and we did that all by ourselves!

JoeEeL:
All sub saharan africans including ur naija women, especially in the east.

Not true. Naija women don't set out to marry a white man. East Africans do, possibly because they have lots of light skinned (Arab, Indian, white, etc) tourists

eazzzy1:
It’s a numbers game, the more women you ask for knacks, the more women you would sleep with. This guy won’t show you the ones that rejected his advances.

Well said. Life in general is largely a numbers game but we waste enormous amounts of time trying to figure out the perfect time and perfect scenario when in reality it is only while doing that things are revealed

rickpat:
31 🇳🇬 Nigeria Best insecurity
32 🇳🇬 Nigeria Best tribalism
33 🇳🇬 Nigeria Best nepotism
34 🇳🇬 Nigeria Best political looters
35 🇳🇬 Nigeria Best "no electricity "
36 🇳🇬 Nigeria Best corruption

Just 20+ years ago we were voted the happiest people on earth. See below

Gerhards:
What are you saying? the person who make that comment must be from southwest and you are falling for it, My home town is just few minutes from Pius Anyim home town, some of his younger brothers are my friends, I've been to his house many times, stop taking online trolls seriously, it will do you a lot good, I'm from Enugu

But you're proving his point. Which kind name be Anyim Pius Anyim

Taich:
This is wrong, you can't throw a whole state under the bus because of one foolish son.

He's not foolish. He has a point. Every time we're discussing next election. Imagine a world where we know we have stability for 16 years and the president is actually focused on governing instead of focused on next election and party politics

favour32:
16 years is too small

Make am 61 years tenure.


Mumu boy.

RichBoy247:
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If he looks like s buffoon, talks like a buffoon and acts like a buffoon, don’t be deceived, he is a bloody buffoon

Riskymarvelous:
Lol..... imagine if tinubu mistakenly spend 16yrs in office nah just 3yrs be dis ooo

He's not mumu and not a buffoon at all.
I actually see his point. If we allow Tinubu 16 years to fully implement his policies I personally think something good will come of it

SadiqBabaSani:
So much crime been reported in Anambra State, is it just me that thinks there is a reason behind it

It is FG that send people from Abuja to do it. Yes sir ree

Otutubuike:
Anambra Police Arrests 4 Additional Suspects Including A Chief Priest

https://www.facebook.co/share/p/1DrtBbb98e/

Cubana Chief Priest don finally buy market

Gerrard59:
I cannot speak for Southeast Asia, but there, it has its own racial structures/hierarchies.

In East Asia, they rate people based on their economic status. So, if one is from a prosperous group, you get rated highly even though this person (not you literally) isn't of high economic status. The Chinese and, to an extent, the Koreans are notorious for doing this. Throughout history, the White man, specifically the Western White man, has proved to be on top economically. So as a result, he gets respected, admired and adored by East Asians. As Western countries are the only developed parts of the world other than East Asia, it makes sense for their women to prefer Western men (overwhelmingly White) over other men. In the US, after White Women for obvious reasons, White men disproportionately marry Asian American women ("Asian" here means East Asians) more than Black women. Black men even marry White women more than Black women marry White men.

Thus, in my books, if in a racially diverse America, Asians don't get married to Blacks, whether native or immigrant, the rate of such interactions will be much lower in their dominant region. Yes, there will be exceptions, but those are exceptions, not the norm.

In Chinese culture, having a darker skin connotes suffering, as history says those who toiled (mostly farmers) under the scorching sun had tanned skin. So, yes, you are right that they don't want to have children with darker skins. During summer, they wear all sorts of clothes/coverings to cover their skins when in the bare sun so they don't get tanned or too tanned.


A reason, but not a very strong one. It is largely economic classism. African American men succeed more than Black African men, except when the Black African men is up there economically and speak good Japanese. I must be clear: Japanese love anything American, more so the women. So both White and AA men have a huge advantage over anybody else. The US has military bases in Japan, so Japanese women have been exposed to Black men for a long time and steadily so. So, who would you rather prefer: The Black man backed by the US or the one who came from poor Africa?

These things are economic. What many commentators have declined to admit is that the White man is at the top of the economic/dating ladder globally. Most especially the Western one, and so those from the East take advantage of it. The solution, as always, to our problems as Black people is for Africa to be rich.


Women love money. This is a global phenomenon. Cut our women some slack. Women in wealthier European and Asian countries will not fall for a Russian dude because their native men are better off than most Russian men. This dude can succeed in Laos, but will fail woefully in Singapore. White boys from the UK/US win in Vietnam/the Philippines, but fail in Singapore and Malaysia. It is wealth. When you are wealthy, your women are hard to win over.

Erudite and well thought out.
However, answer the following:
*How would a Jap know who is AA and who is African?
*Why do white American women generally prefer black men - which is the root of racism
*Why don't wealthy AA men marry asian women but whites overwhelmingly do?
*How come AA women overwhelmingly prefer black men to white men?
*Why are some women all over the world fixated on Nigerian men?

We4all:
If someone says...'I cannot do this', the question that should be on your mind is: 'why can't you do it'? You should understand why before drawing conclusions.

So, to answer your question... Saying you won't be Vice President even if you're paid a million dollars means you have a choice to become the VP, but choose not to.

The most reasonable thing to do is ask why the person doesn't want to become the VP. What if he wants to quit politics? What if the position of the SP is more attractive to him even if it is lower than the VP? What if he wants to become the President?

Unless the person confides his real reasons to you, you have no right to assume it is what you think it is.

So if Obi says he'll not accept the position of VP, you'll wait for him to say it explicitly before you know he's only interested in the presidency?
Likewise if a man says he'll never be in a female-dominated field like nursing, you'll need a soothsayer to tell you he'll readily be a doctor? Okay o

mmsen:
That's only backwards societies that still think that way.

A birth certificate has both parents listed. Children will need the consent of both parents to travel.

mmsen:
It's a foolish custom to spend so much on marriage. Marriage should entail the courts only, if it lasts ten years then you can celebrate lavishly if you so wish but to celebrate before you've done anything is backwards.

Well, many societal norms and practices can be considered "foolish" and "backwards", doesn't prevent them being the practices that obtain and what we have to work with.

To get visa for your foreign child to bring the child into your country on the basis that you are a citizen, it is easier for a mother not married to the child's father than for a father not married to the child's mother.
See the definition of bastard below

Gerrard59:
I cannot speak for China, but it works in Japan....so far the man is an African American. Black African men have it harder.

From tales I have been told to reading/watching, African American men have it way easier, especially those stationed at American military bases. Also, if you have a White dude alongside and speak Japanese, it even becomes easier.

But in all, African American men have it easier in Japan.

I think it has to do with the Asian men - they have very small dicks compared to blacks. So they try to pre-program their women against blacks and in most cases they succeed. They also practice ostracizing them. Also, the women themselves consider the huge disadvantage of having black babies

Love800:
If she is the one that is wrong and left, nobody can come retrieve any child from the man.

Am still alive though. So wetin concern bastard!

And to top dis, the process of going about this from the family to reclaim the child is a very tough journey. Not with a man that knows his onions.
And that practice is gradually fading away.

I appreciate.

Also, see the definition of bastard below

getcut:
The demon no even use motor car not to talk of drives one,nor have any standard, he just dey pick them randomly by the sidewalk, you all see the contradiction in this terrible women?? but when it comes to their darkie brothers showing interest in them. This terrible women behaved badly,set all sorts of standards that often lure lovestrucked men into crimes in order to meet up,insults you for not having money and vow they will never settle for less..

He's an expert, it's his job. I'm sure if an expert in Nigeria goes to Russia he'd get same result over the probably long time it took this guy. Only thing is, Russian men may shoot him!

eazzzy1:
He’s a content creator, this is what he does full time. If he talks to 20 girls a day, he would have talked to 600 in a month. This is work for him, his own 9-5. Women are women, marriage is only a status. Marriage doesn’t turn off desire.

We don’t know what he tells them but for someone who has probably talked to ten thousands of women he would have honed his skills. He’s not a regular guy but any regular guy can be him with practice.

His skin colour would be an advantage sometimes but would also be a disadvantage sometimes. I know black women who cannot stand the thought of a white person touching them. It’s all in the number. The more women he talks to, the more he will meet the ones who like his skin.

Do you think these women would have toasted him and taken him to a hotel if he didn’t do the asking?

He didn't show the ones who slapped him or told him to go to hell. He also didn't show how many years this took!

kaywhy09:
Well, we only know those who fell.

What's the percentage of those who declined to those that fell?

Exactly. Could be things that happened over several years even

Ibrahim1985:
Not really bro, it is because most men in Africa are black, so anything foreign will always entice African women. It is the same when a black man go a majority white country and know how to speak the language.

So how come it doesn't work in Asian countries like China and Japan?

Love800:
If she is the one that is wrong and left, nobody can come retrieve any child from the man.

Am still alive though. So wetin concern bastard!

And to top dis, the process of going about this from the family to reclaim the child is a very tough journey. Not with a man that knows his onions.
And that practice is gradually fading away.

I appreciate.

All over the world the default position is that the children stay with the mother even when they marry and divorce, how much more when they're not married at all. Even embassies won't recognize them for immigration purposes if you are not married to their mother. Society makes it a big deal when a man is not married to his child's mother.

We4all:
Was doctor or health worker mentioned in the post? Did I tell you I could work as a doctor but not as a nurse? So, how did I imply otherwise?

Ok, if someone says "I won't be vice president even if they paid me a million dollars."
What does that tell you about them agreeing to be President?

Love800:
I use to hear dat. But that is when intense conflicts start happening in the family, especially when the man is a woman-beater and a bully, in summary, when the man is not useful. The family of the woman can go claim the child in such circumstances.

And you want to put yourself in that situation? Whereby the lady can dump you any time and your children are hers?
Also, remember, children born outside marriage are called bastards. So playmates can rightfully call your children bastards without it considered an insult!

virginboy1:
This is practical fact...but men with ego issues will see it as being less

True, but hard to do in real life. It is not easy to find someone that you really like, that checks all your boxes. When you finally meet such a person you'd be willing to do anything for her to stay, and it is very hard to pretend otherwise!

wellmax:
Twitter became X in July 2023. Why are you guy still saying X formerly twitter? Just say X, Abeg.

Bahamas95:
I think say na only me that rubbish dey annoy.
I wonder when they'll stop that nonsense.....They've changed the name a long time ago so I expect everybody to have gotten used to it by now.

They're intentionally saying it because they know it annoys some people.
That's what I read on X (formerly known as Twitter)

plessis:
Give girl belle then invite her to live with you to raise the child together. Marriage and wedding is outdated.

Love800:
Yea, its outdated.
But i want to ask. Atleast you will see the girl's father and buy items for dem. After that, go and start your family. No white wedding.

Unfortunately for you both in most Nigerian traditional custom, without a wedding, the child belongs to the mother's family not yours!

We4all:
Did you read anywhere in the post where I said otherwise?

You implied otherwise. You said nurse specifically. You didn't say nurse or doctor, neither did you say health care worker!

CodeTemplar:
without them and yahoo boys, a dollar will be going for N2,500.

Word!
They pump a lot of fx into the country

PulaPower:
A China-based Nigerian businessman, Ibeanu Vincent Chukwudulue

Mods, rule 2

Xxxxxxccccx

Many of these wealthy international "business men" are actually drug kingpins

We4all:
That is what happens when you use money to impress a girl. By the way, I didn't know nurse anaesthetist earn that much. I heard they are the highest paid among nursing professionals.

No wonder people are leaving their jobs and taking up nursing as a profession. But as for me, I can't do the job of a nurse even if they earn a million dollars.

Bolded is ignorance. Nurse practitioners are practically doctors. See below