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Daeylar:



All right, you still could have asked me on the thread by posting my moniker, if you wanted to.

Daeylar:
It doesn't make it real in any way at all.

It just makes them the obsessed fools they are like I said, I don't want them to drag me into their foolishness



It didn't come off that way though especially with your last statement you cut out, also you still could have asked me on the thread, why did you bring it here?

Daeylar:
Lol, Why was I accused in the first place?

Futhermore, Why didn't you ask me on the thread if I was the one in the first place? instead of implying over there that it I was the one and then coming over here to ask if I was the one?

You were part of the people accusing me, why didn't you ask first before going straight to accusations?

Answer these questions

Answer this too,
Why do you want me to be bothered ?

Who is that?

Daeylar?

Oyindidi:
Sugarboy, is this one of your numerous ids?

Oyindidi:
Send am

Daeylar:
I'm good, you?

Daeylar:
rabazamba

Papiikush:
The truth is, WE ARE ALL GOING TO DIE SOMEDAY...but don't let your life be short-lived. That is on you!

Daeylar:
Lol, It's not an admission of guilt. i don't want them to drag me into their foolishness.
They simply could have asked if they felt I was the one, i would have responded and told them that I'm not,
but they didn't and instead decided to obsess over me,

I don't really understand the obsession,
It's not making any sense lol

Daeylar:
Like I said, no one asked me anything.

I don't know their reason, They should have just asked if i was, they didn't, instead they decided to pick a female moniker and started obsessing over the moniker, lol,

Daeylar:
You should have an idea, you joined them to obsess over the moniker, so why?

Lol, Saying what?
You asked me a question and I answered you, No one else did, so what am I not saying?

Daeylar:
No
Why are you guys obsessed with my moniker on that thread though? Lol

Daeylar:
Ah ah

This your brotherly speech this early evening

shurley22:
All these prophets and stupid humans too that will sit down and be forming deliverance this, deliverance that...
You people should continue!
Cos I see no reason why a sane person would sit back and watch someone conduct deliverance on you using fetish means yet in the name of God!!

Prec1ous:
And who said it is just an African thing? The Issue is, Africans are more judgemental and thus our conscience is always on overdrive and we tend to weigh our actions.

The western world you are backing, do you know how often the so called friends get under the sheets? It is easier because no one is hounding them. So it's all friendship with benefits.

If you have a personal convictions that it is great and works for you, goodluck! It does not seem so easy for other.

You cannot and should never use logic to explain matters of the heart.

Emotions are wild most times and only a few can put theirs under check. The human brain naturally veers to the mother for comfort and solace likewise the sisters.

For every interaction, oxytocin, testosterone and other affection enhancing hormones are released and you have no control over this.

Working betide you, if your so called female friend is motherly or can make your brain release testosterone continuously, you relationship will change direction without your consent.

For this friendship to survive,

1. The girl really has to be so sexually unattractive to you and the boundaries should be well drawn with high fence. I have one like that.

2. The girl should be a benefactor and helper to you, that takes her off your food chain and your brain will put up a "don't go there" barrier. And even if you develop feelings, which you will, you can never act on it.

3. You are an eunuch or have been castrated.

4. Transgender and gay.

Bottom line, the relationship can work, but time and closeness with all the physical and mental touches will mess up your mind and affection will grow.

And also OP, i hate hypocrisy, wake me up when you can be cool with your partner having male friends aside you. Since you can't, take this....

lalasticlala and Mynd44, we need you guys here!

Saintsammurai:
seriously how is this op different from mamagee and onila? Why do people keep bringing any little thing that happened to them offline, to nairaland? AS in what do you now want us to do? report him to the police or what? its like your life revolve around nairaland..... ABSOLUTE NONSENSE.

Shadowy:
Lol, lenovo? Is that the name of your phone I'm not seeking for attention, but i'm not sure about you, with all the layers of filter you used there.