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not all white women are ugly, there are some beautiful ones, and same with black, asian, and all kinds.

I do agree with mrs eve, white woman do have gold digging tendencies also and can be broke as heck.

I dont think theres anything wrong with interracial relationships, or marriage, we are all human and to me color dont matter

IMO i dont think you should leave your gf who has been there for you during whatever, just for some random fb girl you havent really met, dont leave the one u love for one you like, and shes already asking for a phone? phew, i wouldnt give her money just yet,

[quote author=Mrs. Eve link=topic=560356.msg7268298#msg7268298 date=1291421649]Nawl L Reed,

I don't think he TRIPPING but my husband is a lil bit uhmmm what the word I wanna use he is uhmmm, uhmmm, uhmmm AUTHORATIVE and often time he analyzed more than necessary but that is fine with me but to the other folks they like why is he trippin?

They don't realize my husband means well just WHO IS IS AND HOW HE IS RAISED, and my male friends I have had since childhood is not those kind of brothers, BUT I RESPECTS MY HUSBAND, so no I don't really think he tripping, WELL A TAD BIT but I understand his reasons though,

Most men don't wanna hear no niggas in their crib with their women or wives, I think it that EGO THINGIE![/quote]I agree, i thiknk its just an ego thing.

Wow to all the posts lol,


And i think it shouldnt matter on size, i know plenty men who love really big women or just thick ones and just slim ones, i thought i read someone said big woman smell like goats? lol, i admit some big woman stink. but so do slim woman. As they both can smell very good. big woman can be sexy too, u dont have to be thin to be sexy or appealling to men.

nihun:
Come back in 10 years time and tell us if he is still your husband,

well its been two and half years already, still my husband,

I met my husband online, he is nigerian. Yes some nigerians are mature enough, some are out for games

I dont think looks should matter. It should be the personality and character. I know nigerian men who love large women and some who dont, some dont care as long as the personality is good. Basing someone just on there looks is shallow.

Yes i think you can

ak21:
", well i tried, and he didn't want to", ?
What in God's name are you talking about?

cuz i deleted the post

if she cant read or write, how is she reading the text messages her aunt sends and why would her aunt send them if she knows the girl cant read?




and i think if you love her like you say, youll find a way, as another person said, its not a disease

thank you

[quote author=$osisi link=topic=273446.msg3881147#msg3881147 date=1242595622]I'm sure I speak for all the "diaspora folks" as I humbly plead with friends and relatives in Nigeria to please stop flashing us.
For those of you who don't know what the term flashing means, let me explain it.
It's a situation where someone calls another on the phone and lets the phone ring once or twice then hangs up expecting you to call them back.
It is extremely annoying IMHO.
If you have something to say buy enough credit and say it.
Do you folks know how irritating it is to be woken up early in the morning by a phone call or worse still disturbed as you're getting into a romantic mood only for the stupid phone to stop after the second ring and repeat 20 mins later.
Stop flashing us,

[size=24pt]I say make una stop the flashing [/size]

If you're expecting anything from a relative, flashing will make them change their minds.
This is a friendly piece of advice. [/quote]totally agree with this/, it was sooooo annoying

iyawo mi ni ooo



can anyone tell me what this means pls

monatoetje:
Confused about what It`s just a frickin skincolour!
If parents would do their job and teach them about BOTH cultures and to be happy with wom they are , and they`d not come across people like NeNe too often , they will have no reason to feel confused! Afterall, we are ALL human beings!

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thats what i been trying to say!!! Atleast someone finally agreed

nene1:
@ rachel

I was not saying that black women don't dislike black men with white women, but i was just pointing out that they are not the only ones who don't like it. you like to make it seem like they are the only ones who are against it. don't feel special. what is wrong about those nigerian women feeling like a nigerian man should be with a nigerian woman. They should be together. Wouldn't it be stupid if a black woman was upset at the fact that white women think a white man should be with a white woman. same thing. those women are just trying to knock some sense into your husband? go find yourself a caucasian.

Ok you must have kept goin after you last quoted me alone cuz i never replied to it till now. i never said i dont see white men complaining, yes i sure do but not as much as the black woman and I was also simply talking about on NL. I live in the usa, yes a black women would hurt a white woman, its not just the men. First of all i dont think or feel im special. And dont care if nigerians men or women think they should not be interacial, that is there business not mine, I just dont think anyone should judge on skin color. its nonsense. white, black, brown, pink or purple, we are all ppl. ALso what women are trying to knock sense into my husband? Nobody so i have no idea where you got that from, yes they have stared but so what? I dont care and neither does he. If i wanted a caucasion i would have gotten one, but sorry i dont love based on skin color. Thats ridiculous.

nene1:
really, so you don't see white men who hate these type of relationships. at least black women don't try to hurt the white women in relationships with black men, whereas some racist white men would kill them. don't flatter yourself honey, white men hate it most. by the way, i am glad that you said you are a white woman with "a hell of an attitude" yet you are with a black guy. your guy probably doesn't have a problem with your attitude, but if it was a black woman it would be a different story.

How do you know white men hate it most? Do you know all the blacks and whites all over this world that are againest it? Anwyas i didnt come here to argue with ppl. I just said my opinion and thats all now. I just think its all stupid. We need to get over it or just accept it and move on

personally if it was me in that situation and my husband or fiance went out to a party and drank with the oposite sex, No that wouldnt be ok. Just dont look right to me.