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johndoe200:
You start a thread bashing men and you are surprised that it gets derailed? Isn't that the normal way the women on this forum behave?

She clearly said, Disclaimer: This is not a male bashing thread



hm maybe men just take it that way,

@ topic

I would wash my husbands clothes. Or my boyfriend. I dont necessarily have to be married to do so. Its just laundry. . i wont die. . . plus im a woman. I think its just something i should do for him? lol.

[quote author=Mrs, Eve link=topic=7605.msg7292121#msg7292121 date=1291769281]Yes, Racheal I am in America.  I am a juicy American born wife of an Igbo man.  In comparison, I would pick America over Nigeria.  No offense, but Nigeria is a nice country don't get me wrong but to stay.  No thanks.  I would visit as often as I can but that about as far as homely I will get.  

You said that your husband had issues coming to America?  Did they assumed that some fraud was committed because that what happened with the lady in our church her husband can't come to USA he is not Nigerian but he is Ghanian.  They saying they don't they it real marriage but they have a legal marriage certificate.  Poor thing.  [/quote]aw that is sad.

[quote author=Mrs, Eve link=topic=7605.msg7292121#msg7292121 date=1291769281]Yes, Racheal I am in America.  I am a juicy American born wife of an Igbo man.  In comparison, I would pick America over Nigeria.  No offense, but Nigeria is a nice country don't get me wrong but to stay.  No thanks.  I would visit as often as I can but that about as far as homely I will get.  

You said that your husband had issues coming to America?  Did they assumed that some fraud was committed because that what happened with the lady in our church her husband can't come to USA he is not Nigerian but he is Ghanian.  They saying they don't they it real marriage but they have a legal marriage certificate.  Poor thing.[/quote]OH lol i would pick america to. . .no offense to nigeria. My husband is igbo also.

No they didnt assume fraud. The american embassy in lagos just really sucks. It was hard to get thru. so we went about it a different way. Cost alot more but in the end. . .it was worth it.

[quote author=Mrs, Eve link=topic=7605.msg7292068#msg7292068 date=1291768428]Hell, If I was coming out of Nigeria and trying to get to America, hell I would FOUGHT LIKE HELL too![/quote]lol ok ok but america really isnt as great as everyone seems to make it out to be. Are you in america? just curious btw

they say america is land of the free. . .but shoot. . .ppl are more free in nigeria. I saw ppl peeing on the side of the road lol. we would get put in jail for that geez. or atleast a huge fine. Its just the economy. so many stupid laws i swear. its kinda stupid.

[quote author=Tink_sh link=topic=563369.msg7292078#msg7292078 date=1291768599]Just wanted to add that i am loving this thread. Im learning so much about other sides to things and love the fact that its just people sharing opinions without personal attacks or name calling. Awesome!!!![/quote]I agree!! its not hard to talk without all the negativity huh?

[/quote][quote author=DapoBear link=topic=563369.msg7292032#msg7292032 date=1291767711]Ms Eve, I have lived in America almost all my life. I'm 25 now and have lived here since I was 4. You and I BOTH know that Nigerian men treat their women MUCH better than African American dudes. Scammers? Do Nigerian men scam their women more then AA women do? Regarding money, how many Nigerians are deadbeat? We all work hard like dogs.
And you have to be joking if you are really saying we are more physically abusive than AAs. That is a flat out lie. How many times is your Nigerian BF going to come back home at 4am drunk and high from a strip club, and then going to beat you for not putting out?

Let's keep it real here. Nigerian dudes will treat you WAYYY better than AAs will.

that to me is very true. I know plenty who work hard alot harder then the AA here in america. . .or even white dudes.
I also dont find the nigerian men as abusive as alot of AA men here. Atleast none that i know. My husband would never.  I agree that Nigerians treat there women better.

my husband is nigerian. He left nigeria and has been thru hell and back just for us to end up together. I felt kinda bad for him at some points But if there is true love. . .it has no boundaries.

@poster,

I agree with you. I dont think it has to do with just the NIGERIAN man. . .it could be any man coming from any other country if thats how they are. I am also american and married to a nigerian. He is none of what u described u wer told.

alot of us are just plain dumb im gonna have to say lol


I dont always forgive. . .and for sure i dont forget. Alot of men are dogs. They think they can get away with anything. Most girls let them. . .sheesh.

[quote author=Mrs, Eve link=topic=563369.msg7291851#msg7291851 date=1291764276]It sad to say this but WHITE WOMEN IS KNOWN TO BE EASY AND A PUSHOVER, I am not saying THAT I AGREE WITH IT but I am keeping it real in the BLACK COMMUNITY, WHITE WOMEN are viewed as less combative and easy to scam.  There are black men who are boasting about having or getting white chicks saying that "it was like a breeze" and many white chicks I know have said yes I got me a black man and I don't know what them black girls are doing but whatever they are not doing we can do better not knowing that THE BLACK MEN are talking about them like a dog.[/quote]I am going to have to agree with that. They seem to be easier to scam. I know plenty of scammers and its mainly white woman and/or latinas that they go for.

[quote author=Tink_sh link=topic=563369.msg7291775#msg7291775 date=1291763232]Im sorry MzDarkSkin but i cant walk away or stay away. If everyone just walked away from people we dont agree with we would never get anywhere. I understand that some people will not be budged and i know i have to choose my words carefully on this subject. Some of the biggest racist i find in my own family. We agree to disagree and they know to not bring up or say their vomit in front of me or i will start on them with no end. But i do believe that sometimes you have to make a stand and let people know that its not ok to spew their vile all over the place. As a white i believe its important to stand up and argue that throughout history white people have been totally abhorrent in their actions. Their behaviour discusts me. But we are never going to get anywhere if we dont make an effort to move forward together. 

Since i have been on this site i have lost count of the number of times i have heard 'ugly, fat white girls' and everyone is entitled to their opinion but imagine a white saying that about a different race!! My god, hell would break loose. Its just not cool thats all.

Here endeth my speech, hehe!! [/quote]your so right there.

Carolece:
Beautiful white chicks dont want nigerian men.

wrong again. Ive seen some. Im married to a nigerian and thers many beautiful white chicks married to nigerians. Do you not get out much?
Also i keep seeing ppl here saying things like that about nigerian men. what is so wrong wiht nigerian men? Why wont a beautiful white woman want one? someone also said must be white trash marrying nigerian men. why?

Akinagirl:
So Carolece, you have a lot of hatred toward fat people it seems lol.Well why not you look in the mirror or smell yourself; you sound really ignorant. However, I am not saying people should be FAT, people should take care of themselves for health reasons and look their best.
By the way, who told you men ONLY like slim women? Well chick your definitely WRONG there.

well said.

@ poster,


I tend to like guys with colored skin. I dont like white guys. not super skinney or super fat. Taller then me. Im 5 feet 4 in so its not that hard to find em lol. the rest depends on personality. Oh he has to be clean to

@ poster,


Not to men of that many muscles. lol they look a little creepy,

Carolece:
It hurts like hell. . . . the truth i.e.

with no apologies, i will say that over and over and over again, most fat people smell bad.

slim people who smell are just stink from not getting a bath or have some form of VD.

uh how does it hurt? its truth in your eyes. Everyone has thier own opinions. Im not knocking you for that, nor do i care. Im just stating mine as well. Im comfortable with myself. . .so? wheres the pain to the truth? Im glad your not apologizing. Why should you?

exactly. and no bath is poor hygiene.

[quote author=k-money £ link=topic=563369.msg7290352#msg7290352 date=1291747536]@ xxcarolx all these they dont know when they write or post here~~~ An Irish man is a true friend of a Scottish man~~ A Scottish man is an enemy to an Englishman** Please go and watch BRAVE HEART you will have an insight of what am saying @ mz darkskin ~~[/quote]good movie