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@ poster,

omg idk what kinda americans u are meeting but that sure as hell isnt true, not ALL americans are that easy, just the slutty ones, im american and i am far far from that kinda person, thats disgusting, and degrading,

why do people stereotype on where people are from and their color etc, its just dumb, we are all humans, dont matter where we from, people all over the world do stupid stuff like that,

livedit:
Men are human creatures, right? Why wouldn't they cry? At some point in their life, they will cry. Heck, you are born into this life crying. Even Jesus wept and we are made in the image of Him. Now if you want to be specific about it saying, do men cry over their "relationships" is a different story. Some men do, some don't. My fiance likes to say, he is very macho, but I've seen him cry. I love a man that is in touch with his emotions and isn't afraid to show them sometimes. That means he loves and trust me enough to show him true self in my presence. So that's a awesome feeling to livedit.

i agree with you,

I have also seen my husband cry. not alot but i have.

livedit:
Oh brother! Not another one of these threads.  Please people, let's not get into a debate about who likes this or that.  If it hasn't been said once or said a million times, different strokes for different folks.  Each and every one of you is entitled to your opinion.  Each of you have a choice of whom and what you like.  You can not speak for every human being walking this earth.  I'm assuming every body know what's unhealthy and what's healthy.  You don't have to go on and on discriminating against fat, thin, big, dark, light, short, tall, k-leg, bow-leg, no leg, toothless, small bosom, big bosoms, race, smoker, broke, rich, homeless, poor, intelligent, dumb, evil, bad, good, non-smoker, alcoholic, non alcoholic, wild, crazy, promiscuous, virgins, religion, big butts, no butts, glasses and no glasses we've all heard it all before.  YOU LIKE WHAT YOU LIKE.  For all those who like or dislike any of the above I mentioned, that's YOUR choice. Don't hate or low rate people who's taste is not the same as yours.  Be thankful that you lived another day to even see a "big" person walking around.  You could've woke up in hell.  Then what?  Why not say something positive for once about somebody. 

It's sad that people find it easy to say something nonproductive and bad about something than say something good that maybe would want them to work on their weight or problems they have.  For all those that don't know, you hatin and talking about how you dislike obese, fat, skinny whatever, is NOT going to make that person do anything about it.  No matter how much you complain about it.  Instead, it may make things even worse.  If you don't like looking at big people walking/sitting down, for God's sake, turn your head in another direction and keep on stepping! Capish!

well said!

[quote author=Tink_sh link=topic=563369.msg7398915#msg7398915 date=1293146661]Fool!!!!! You think you are so cool with the white ladies, you have yet to learn they are playing your game right back at ya, you guys are too easy to fool sometimes cos you thin you are so awesome. Dont ever think the white girl is not getting exactly wat she wanted, the game has changed![/quote]you are right lol. . . .


white girls easy to lay? um no.

OgidiBoy:
Excuse me for being nosy, why do you need to obtain a Nigerian Citizenship or residence? If you only going down to Nigeria to visit your husband, all you need is visit the Nigerian Embassy website and follow their instructions on how to obtain a Nigerian visa.

I dont NEED to. We just wanted me to have it. For whatever reason. And ive already been to nigeria a few times but thanks for the info.

juzme:
If you and your Nigerian citizen partner are not residing in Nigeria then, it will not be possible for you to obtain Nigerian citizenship and you have to reside in Nigeria for a number of years before you can get Nigeria citizenship. Also, you have to have intention of residing in Nigeria with your spouse before you may obtain Nigerian residence permit.
It is not that simple as some people stated here, it is almost similar process as to other countries.
Good luck!

thank you!

OH i have it still

just wanted to know if there was a way to get another the same as the one i have now. Cus i dont just want a photo copy. Need it for legal things and i just dont feel comfortable shipping off the only original i have.

THanks tho

I got married in lagos at the registry place. is there a website at all i can look up or find a copy of my cert?

Not sure really wehre to post this so i am posting it a couple of places to see if i get responses. thanks,



I am an american woman married to a NIgerian Man. I wanted to know if anyone knew how i could obtain nigerian citizinship or a residence card or whatever there. Is it hard to do? I have been looking stuff up online but am not coming up with much. any help NOT RUDE COMMENTS would be helpful. thanks

I am an american woman married to a NIgerian Man. I wanted to know if anyone knew how i could obtain nigerian citizinship or a residence card or whatever there. Is it hard to do? I have been looking stuff up online but am not coming up with much. any help NOT RUDE COMMENTS would be helpful. thanks

strangerf:
I ve got 10 usernames

They keep banning me anytime I profess my love for the great 'white chic'

Should I sue NL for racism?

johndoe200:
This may be interesting to see.

I totally agree. Bring it on

LOL true that true that. . . your typings all nice and proper unlike mine. I dont even pay attention to it. lol,

talknafree:
No one is married in this scene. The person To be"flirted with" is only in a relationship with NO rings on the finger yet.

@190,  you be my padi so i cant bar you from contributing all i want is positive post from you. At least you still carry your big head and pot bellie post for the thread wey i ban you sef. Even corcky joe cork is free but i am just scared one day he will blow up nairaland with his harvard and oxford combined grammer.

still not okay to me. I dont think the other half in the relationship would be to happy either.

strangerf:
^^^I am talking with the Nigerian context in mind



I understand in America it is different; I have unclothed pics of some of my classmates and we never had sex.

But in Nigeria, sad to say, that is the only way. It is a highly conservative country.


Anyway, wanna meet in NJ tomorrow?

Okies got what you meant.

Uh. . .how many user names you have? If your the same person? Wasent it just Stranger?

I think if someone knows that the person has a partner or spouse. . .its a no go territory. Its not right. Find someone single. IMO. How would you feel if that was your spouse or partner? Think of the other party that will be hurt.

well  WOW you look sooooo much older wiht your wife in the pic. amazing.  aw your a young one lol. Im 26

strangerf:
How else would he have gotten those pics?

TO get a naked pic does not mean you had s.ex with someone. Plenty of people send pics back and forth.

Ladyrsky46:
^^ Na you go know nau.

Why on earth would a self respecting girl want to take pics of her unclothed for her boyfriend when the whole boyfriend/girlfriend thing might not last longer than 5days? Love ni Love kor. They better go and read their books. Nonsense.

exactly. they are not self respecting. IMO.

kokoye:
^^^

so you guys met online? . . is this the same guy you were telling me about earlier?

Yes,

kokoye:
I met this girl online on icq several years ago. She used to pooooooose !! you would think she was halle berry.

so we finally decided to meet in front of tantalizers (half-way from our offices on victoria island) at lunchtime

we'd described ourselves and what we were wearing so we'd recognized each other

I'd been shocked before by another girl so I got there a few mins earlier (will tell you that story later   I stayd out of sight so I'd see her first without her seeing me.

I saw the girl and I was like  . .what the heck

Her face was nothing like her voice.  F-U-G-L-Y!!

I quietly let her wait around for a while and then she left.  I went back to work  . .got back on icq and told her I could not make it to the agreed spot.

Dont kill me oh, you would have done the same thing if you saw this face

lol i prolly would have hid if i met in a public place to see first. except i flew to lagos and being white, and not knowing anything hiding was not gonna happen lol, but he was the same person i saw on cam and pics, thank god.

tpia1:
^^he has a severe case of inferiority complex and his village has been deserted by everyone who lives there thanks to internecine wars, bad belle and excessive criminality.

so he prefers to be a woman's handbag elsewhere.

main point is no woman can do that for him therefore it's beyond his comprehension.

lol ooooh ok.

190:


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Thats the idea

What i dont get is why these female here keep deceiving themselves
saying they can do it,
Not that this particular guy is the president and besides they can always get men
rite there in the USA,

Leaving USA and relocating back to Nigeria just because of one one is absurd,
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How come?

190:
[color=deeppink]The day i see ms.eve's hoompa loompa pictures

Im leaving nairaland that day, [/color]

lol sheesh.

kokoye:
You are welcome.

I live in the US too so I see the differences and similarities. So youve been to Nigeria . .coooool

Nigeria was not like it is now - all this rubbish started in the mid-80s when the military took over and really did not care.

Nigeria used to be a perfect country to live in until then.

But things will get better . . I pray.

I hope they get better to.

Yes i went a couple times. Have to admit the first time i went i was scared because i read sooo much bad stuff online about whites being killed or kidnapped lol. then i went and it was NOTHING like i read about. Im sure some places are bad just like there but geez nothing like i read

I agree that girls should not do this. I also see many guys posting it on facebook. THats gross and disrespectful. why would you want everyone to see your girls private parts?

kokoye:
WOW! cool.

Good to know some people still have a good impression of us. Really, Nigerians are strong people, very hardworking, we persevere and are family oriented. Yes, we know how to suffer and smile.

So, do you think you guys will get back together . .and you both making the moves to? Goodluck

I wish you the best. . .and what part of the country are you from?

Im in usa. Well how can i not? I have visited Lagos and saw alot of sad things. . no offense. . .yet everyone was still so happy and friendly. Amazing to me actually. Cuz i get so mad or upset or stupid little things compared to some people in nigeria. . and i dont smile.
As for us being with each other? I have no idea to be honest. THe distance thing really killed us. . .i try and he tried so who knows. Such is life i guess. But thanks

lol well amazing. Not all people are into that



seriously tho. . .just curious. . how old are you? Your profile says 52. Nope im sure thats wrong. Answer honestly sheesh

wouldnt your "wife" in the picture. . .lol so you have claimed to me. . .be a little upset?


And yup im near there. why say i am when im not? I dnt live directly in LA itself tho