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It's going to be wonderful experience...

@op Absolute truth!
U av to shine ur eyes,search nd pray for d right partner

twerkjack:
did u know dat a bill has been passed for child marriage in Nigeria? Children in some areas of the country have sex and bear children b4 14. Hypocrites!!

Na wa o!wht does a 14 year old girl know abt motherhood

Smh...

It is absolutely wrong to sleep out at her age bt it is nt wrong to av a boyfriend considering d fact dat she is in her third year in d polytechnic



Being sexually active at d age of 16 is absolutely wrong too...

Love and commitment stage

masonkz:
When such violence is painted in good light, yes.

I don't think so
Violence is violence as far as children are concerned

Hmmmm

Paternity leave is nt a bad idea cos nursing a baby is nt a small thing o

EfemenaXY:
A perfect husband? Not sure one exists but in addition to what's already been said, the following qualities won't go amiss:
~ One who isn't too proud to admit when he's wrong and say "sorry"
~ Respects his wife and does everything humanely possible to protect her (and his kids)
~ Understands that his wife's success is also his success and does his best to support her and her endeavors for the betterment of the family
~ Is in tune with her emotional needs
~ Is her best friend, confidant, and on her "down" days, is readily available with a pair of broad shoulders for her to cry her heart out on
~ Understands that her happiness is his.
A slight digression from the topic at hand, but vice versa for the woman too.

U ar on point!

Nice nd insightful!

AgapeCharis:
A few tips tho
U can knw d heart of any man from his words-----listen to what he says. Especially the ones that comes out of his mouth unconsciously
Does he in anyway seem to take ur spiritual life meter down?
His attitude
Does he have a kind heart?
The list is endless joor
Buh in all...just pray for direction cos wen a guy is determined to gt u, he can fake everything

♥Annypie for Miss Nairaland♥

U ar on point!
U av said it all

temigracie:
This is a matter of trust. I see no reason why I can't pick his and he can't pick mine whenever we are not around.
Well, I can only pick his call if the person calling is quite familiar to me. That's if I know the person very well and we relate well. If its a client or a fellow partner at work, I ll rather allow it ring than pick up the call. Since I have nothing to hide, he can pick my call. But most men don't do that anyway.

Exactly!

Mizchief:
The act or occupation of arranging marriages for others
The act or practice of bringing together unmarried people with the hope that they will marry or become romantically involved
That's the definition of matchmaking
Op, you didn't match-make them per se, all you did was give out pins of your Bbm contacts to a friend so he'd pass time with any of the ladies who falls for his tricks
It just turned out that your friend decided to pursue a relationship with her

Yeah right!

The reason is nt farfetched,ladies prefer dark guys to light skinned guys because dark in complexion guys look more responsible than light skinned guys especially in dis part of d world(Africa)

Odilafta:
Not in all cases..
Some big weddings are "make believe"
and when the couples involved canno longer pretend,it comes crumbling.
Wether big or small wedding,what'll be,will be.

I agree with u

Wen it comes to child spacing,at least two years is considered normal

SuperMartins:
Lolzz..Bro,d 1st NO doesn't mean u av totally lost out..sometimes,she myt not want to look cheap to say yes immediately..u jxt av to give it a little more trail b4 u quit..

Exactly my thought!

@op,wht is d cultural standard of beauty if I may ask

The ball is in ur court
Follow ur heart nd do d needful


if age is nt on ur side,I'll advice u to av a PLAN B!

...Youthful exuberance

I'm nt surprised cos wen it comes to acting,all of them ar professionals...

drimpeccable:
Quite possible. Might depend on family history

Exactly

Other people might see it as a poor man's food bt Egba nd Ijebu people don't see it as a poor man's food

acenazt:
well beer has froth. the foam will clog the straw

U ar right!

acenazt:
malt own thick reach beer now??

Malt own no thick reach beer

Insightful thread!
Sweet benefits indeed

I like turning amala!

Insightful post for FAT nd OBESE people...

Compare nd contrast thread shall neva cease on nairaland...

Congrats!