Zabiboy:
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Noted...

Zabiboy:


If this is what he meant, then i see nothing wrong..
But the girls you are flirting with should be on the same level or higher level than the ones you want to be attracted to you...you cant roll with millionaire's and expect the billionaires to invite you for dinner
CC: Radking7
I dunno if you understand me tho..

Point well made...
It means I'm going a great job

softguy1:


It seems you didn't get his question right,
it was stated that for a guy to get a girl of his choice, he should flirt with other girls in other to increase his sexual market value (SMV) thereby making him to be valued by other girls. (to be viewed as a guy been wanted by other girls. It was also stated that men should not give any attention, money etc, to any girl he doesn't have any sexual affairs(sex) with.

Now what the guy is trying to understand is that,
Is it right to flirt with other girls you are not attracted to in other to increase your SMV without offering them anything, thereby making other girls you are attracted to see you as a guy been wanted by other girls?

you just spoke my mind bro...

I also really want to know what commitment really mean to women. What exactly is a man's commitment?

luminouz:


You would sooner or later get stereotyped as a philandering married man.

Never thought of that...

Zabiboy:


You can be friends with a woman, No doubt...
But saying you never ask for sex brings 3 things to mind...
Either you're not attracted to her( then i see no reason why you should be her friend) , you're scared of embracing your sexuality bcz of her perceived reaction or maybe she's already taken by your close nigga thereby making her out of bounds.....
There are VERY VERY few ladies who has something meaningful aside sex to contribute to a guy......
So if all your friends( ladies) contribute something meaningful aside sex( which i doubt) and can help you improve yourself, then there is nothing wrong If Not, get ready to either send urgent 2k or bold enough to say NO to their demands not minding whether they stop coming around or stop chatting with you...
For me, i haven't had a female friend without sexual tension..even the few that have something meaningful to add, the presence of that tension make things fun and interesting...even if i won't fvck them, we talk dirty and so they are very careful with words cz i turn them into sexual meaning very quickly and trust me, it's spicies up the conversations ( although i dont overdo it)....
Which leads to my question....What kind of conversation do you normally have with them??
Do you embrace your sexuality or you are being careful??

I'm not attracted to them, and I never do favours for them... I'm always saying NO!.

I always talk sexually with them, it's my style...else it would be boring. So I clearly embrace my sexuality.
why would I be careful with women? most of them are even naughtier/dirtier than I am. They become comfortable and start exposing themselves when they see that I don't hold back on being naughty.

It's just for fun and nothing else, I'm not attracted to them...I use them to look more valuable to the women I like, I've said it before

luminouz:


For me? Yes.

You can be friends with them,though I don't think what u mean by using them to increase your SMV is good in the long run.

why wouldn't it be good in the long run?

MJBOLT:

let's wait for the ogas at the top.

Sure thing man...
would really love to know.
Thanks for your earlier response tho.

wtf did I just see?

this is the reason women feel entitled over nothing. What exactly is he paying her for? Her attention? is he trying to win her with that?

Sad truth is that she's already seen him as one of her ATM machines she could always go back to...after all "he should be rewarding me for chatting with him"

smh

MJBOLT:

according to Coach Red Pill,a man and a woman can never be friends,if a man and a woman are friends,there's always a sexual tension between them.one person wants to fvck the other and the other person is usually oblivious to this.

I guess I'm the oblivious one here...
because I don't care about them, I use most of them to pass time when I'm bored.
my question is, I just hope they don't see it as commitment that I talk to them often.
would really love someone to explain what a man's commitment means to women....

I've already taken my dose of red pills for today

I got a question...the red pill is always warning guys to stay away from the friend zone.
Does this mean we shouldn't be friends with women? I know a few women I relate well with, I never ask for sex... I don't do favours for them either or fall prey to their traps. They're just there for chit chats. I use them to look valuable (i.e as though I'm wanted and loved by lots of women) to the women I actually like.

am I playing the game right?

ViVaMadrid:


Being introverted doesn't make you a vampire that's afraid of sunlight. I don't think anyone scales up in any facet of life without promoting themselves and their value whether it be socially, financially or whatnot.

A business man? You have to promote your business. A politician? You have to promote yourself and your ideas. Even as an employee, if don't promote your abilities, someone else willing will overtake on the corporate ladder. Resenting promotion is one of the biggest obstacles of success.

As they say, "Build a better mousetrap and the world will beat a path to your door." True! But that's only if they know about it.

Inisghtful!
I gotta say, I wasn't expecting a response like this.
looks like I have to up my game on becoming more and more social and popular with people (women especially).

I really never bothered myself about things like that, buh as of recent... I'm planning on increasing my value and letting people know about it.
I'm starting right away.

I can't believe I finally read through this thread from the beginning...
I started reading three days ago, I must say... I've never seen so much info about the red pill in one place. I hope it doesn't end.


I have my own long range of questions tho, buh lemme start with one.
Panophist( sorry if I didn't type his name correctly) said something about opening social media accounts and posting your lifestyle to show ladies your value...
what if I'm introverted and not into social media?
how do I get to show them I have value other than doing the social media posting stuff..