ubunja: You are right. Here is a quote from the writeup THE SWEETEST THING IN THE UNIVERSE that can be taken as Part 1 of this work:
Great! Looks like I've been playing the right cards all along. Girls tell me "You're so scarce" or something like that. This is because I'm not on any social media apart from WhatsApp and here (and I rarely come online). Social media Is not my thing.
I used to think it was a bad, but I've just found out that it makes me mysterious and it gives me higher value.
Phones have given men access to women's milk for free. And as a woman you'll have to severely limit your presence and availability over the phone and on Social Media. To guard your milk. This means:
No chatting with a man on WhatsApp or any chat app. Ever. If a man wants to talk to you he must call you - over the phone - not over WhatsApp or Skype. And even then you keep calls brief and push for him to come see you personally. If a man wants to talk to you for hours he must take you out on a date. Instead of spending on airtime he must spend on you directly on a date.
And this is going to sound crazy, but NO PICS online whatsoever. No dirty pics. No clean pics. No pics whatsoever on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter etc. And especially no profile pics on WhatsApp. A man must come see you to see your pretty face, not take out his phone and open your profile pic. If you absolutely must post a pic, then choose a dull one. As counterproductive as that may sound. While most girls use filters to enhance their profile pics and they become hotter in pictures than in real life, you oppose them: You post mediocre pics but dazzle in person. That way men will look forward to hanging out with you in person.
Be unavailable EVERYWHERE except face to face. And you'll score more dates from men.
And the more men take you out on dates, the more they're forced to spend and the more they spend the more they get invested and the more they get invested the more they'll take you seriously. We talked about this on Pleasures Of The Cash.
And on dates don't allow a man to take selfies with you. To miss you he must have no pics of you. And when he misses you he must know that the only way to see you is to come see you. Not open his phone gallery.
This is how a woman guards her milk.
Ubunja, isn't this also a good way for men to guard their milk? which is time and attention.
most guys spend time chatting with girls on Facebook, giving them excess attention. Some men also post a lot of pics, using it as a way to attract girls (don't know if that works at all)
if we flipped the switch on this info you just gave to women and apply it as men, do you think it would be the right thing to do?
U have not in love with genuine before. That is it. If u open your heart and love a woman, u will know that love is everything
If I open my heart and love a woman, I'll know that love is everything? how daft is that sentence? *Imagine spending on a woman and getting no appreciation because it's "your job" *imagine showing your vulnerable side and being called a weakling *Imagine giving her heaven on earth and still get treated like shit * Imagine respecting her wishes only to find out that you've been played * Imagine waiting for marriage before having sex and find out she was banging your best friend
oh wait...stop imagining, cuz it's REAL! stop using love to blind yourself. wake up!. There is nothing like LOVE!
There's a term for that, it's ONEitis.... it should be among the deadliest diseases ever known to man.
quick question: that girl you love so much, how is the relationship going? can you 100% attest for the love she has for you?
when you use the love to sugar coat the lies that society have placed on you, you'll only see pain at the end of the tunnel. Relationships are not about "love". There's no perfect girl, just pick a good girl. lead and don't take her bullshit then you die and leave this earth. All those Cinderella love bullshit you see are only fantasies.
buh my advice to you (in a sarcastic tone) is to open your heart like the grand canyon, love her very very much. Google the best ways to please her, forget your family, passions, life and focus on her...trust me, she'll love you back.
I know I have to make money because she need to care and her child, but she is not sex with me. I want her to love me but how can I to do that? Please help me already I use to spend all my money for her but she doesn't show appreciate of it
How Fatherless Girls Become Women Who Spend On Men, Put Men On A Pedestal And Consider Men The Prize.
PROLOGUE. When a man chooses a woman, the woman is the prize. When a woman chooses the man the man is the prize.
This is true between one man and one woman.
And this is true between men as a group and women as a group.
In a patriarchy women are the Prize.
In a matriarchy men are the Prize.
The gender that holds power in a society holds the power to choose who to love. But choosing who to love places the romantic power in the hands of the gender that is chosen. The chosen gender is the prize. Hence in today's world - a Patriarchy - it's the men chasing, spending, impressing and sacrificing. While women barely lift a finger because they're the prize.
But now with women gaining power equal to, and even more than, men's, at all levels from education to business to politics - thanks to Women Empowerment and female focused government legislation - the prize is slowly becoming men. The more power women are gaining the more power they have to choose the men they really want, but the less power they have in relationships with those men.
The more powerful women are becoming, the less powerful men are becoming but the more powerful dick is becoming. Just like how the more powerful men were the less powerful women were but the more powerful pussy was.
This sea change begins with the rise of one particular individual who the Red Pill especially hates with a passion, but who's about to alter reality by redefining Femininity and Masculinity - changing everything.
That individual is the Single Mother.
She changes everything.
THE SINGLE MOTHER, THE GAME CHANGER. Let's say a man and his wife have a daughter and a son. The man will be gentle with the daughter but stern with the son. While the mother will be gentle with the son but stern with the daughter.
This is generally how parents relate to their children in many countries.
The daughter enjoys the father's love. The son enjoys the mother's love. The daughter endures the mother's tough instruction. The son endures the father's tough instruction. This way the children grow up balanced having been sternly instructed and also dearly loved.
As for the girl, her father's unconditional manly love allows her to be soft, vulnerable and girly - which is her femininity. And growing up she'll be drawn to masculine men - men like her father - who provide safety and allow for her to maintain her vulnerability. "Safety" here DOES NOT mean physical safety but a "safe place" - someone who can be trusted. With a man she can trust, a woman can be vulnerable. Where "vulnerable" DOES NOT mean weakness but rather a woman feeling safe enough with a man to admit to him her truest feelings, by so doing risking him taking advantage of her but trusting him not to take advantage.
Think of it this way: Weakness is a woman not being strong enough to challenge a man to a fight. But vulnerability is a woman opening up to a man about her weaknesses, limitations, fears, hopes and desires, and trusting this not to be used against her. This is vulnerability. It's placing yourself in a position where you can be hurt, by baring your heart. It takes bravery. When a woman is vulnerable with the right man, he compensates for her weak points and shortcomings. What he does is he unites his strengths with her weaknesses. He unites his plans, ambitions and purpose in life with her wishes, hopes and desires.
Many women have not opened up to their boyfriend or husband. Never will they let him see them at their weakest and lowest, overwhelmed by life's problems and breaking under the weight of the world. Most women will rather show weakness to their friend. Only their friend gets to see them at their lowest and weakest overwhelmed and broken. Never their man. Why? Because they don't trust their man. They fear their man will take advantage. That he'll use this against them tomorrow.
As a woman you may trust your man not to cheat or doublecross you. But as long as you don't trust him with your weak points and problem areas - when you're not vulnerable with him - he's not the One. Because you don't consider him a safe place. Your bond and connection will not reach soulmate level.
You don't have the implicit childlike trust in him that you had in your father.
A father is the first man a little girl trusts fully and is vulnerable with. And he'll never take advantage of her but will be her strengths and solutions. She always has his ear and sympathy. He's never dismissive. He never scoffs. He never mocks. Nothing she tells him will be used against her tomorrow.
Everything is safe with him.
He is a safe place.
Now let's go ahead and remove him from the picture:
When a girl has a strong loving father, she has someone to watch over her, shield her from harm and allow her to stay soft and carefree and peaceful - in other words, stay feminine. But the exit of the father changes everything.
With his exit the girl's shield departs. Her safe place dissolves. And she quickly learns the world can be a harsh place. And with daddy gone, she has to face the harshness on her own. There is no help coming. She has no one to count on but HERSELF.
And with that she toughens up.
She enters into her masculine.
Her femininity erases.
She has lost her innocence.
The soft, peaceful vulnerable little girl that she is withdraws inside of her as a tough persona comes out. This tough persona is the foundation of the Independent Woman. The fierce and feared self-sufficient woman who can do for herself. But inside this woman, inside the hard shell, sits a little girl - wounded and traumatized - wondering about her father. And in every man the woman deals with, she's looking for her father, a man like him, who can bring the little girl out again.
FATHERS SHAPE WOMEN'S FEMININITY. A father is the first man a girl knows. And a girl builds her femininity around him. Her feminine energy takes form using his masculine energy as a point of reference.
It's a straightforward process: Daughters win with their father by being soft, girly and vulnerable, which teaches them TO WIN WITH OTHER MEN using the same soft tools. These soft tools are what femininity is. Soft power. A woman can not develop these tools raised solely by another woman, eg her mother, because a daughter can not win with her mother by being girly, soft, tender etc. Her mother will laugh and let her know that such only works on her father. That it will never work on mothers. Hence the widow and the single mother can not raise feminine daughters. Because a single mother and a widow are both feminine and masculine because they have to be both mother AND father to their children. And thus the example is shown to the daughter that a woman has to be the do-it-all superwoman - a woman strong and able to do without men. And if and when she deals with men, she'll carry her own weight because she's proudly capable.
In a traditional family unit of a father and a mother, a daughter can watch and learn from her mother. How her mother is soft, dependent and vulnerable around her father. But absent a father, a daughter is denied that opportunity. All she'll ever see is her mother struggling to put food on the table, constantly overwhelmed and sometimes forced to work more than one job to make ends meet. The daughter is trained into self-sufficiency. Which creates the Independent Woman.
When a mother is a Provider she unwittingly trains her daughters to be providers (for men) because the daughters learn to be providers by watching her provide. So they figure that's what women do. Meanwhile, when a father is a Provider, he trains her daughters to seek out men who provide because they figure that's what men do.
Pickmeshism - the spirit of providing for men - has its roots in women-headed households where reality is altered, and Femininity and Masculinity redefined. Girls are taught to give, boys are taught to receive.
This is something I have a first-hand experience with as a man.
My father passed when I was barely 5 and myself and my siblings were singlehandedly raised by our mother. We had a step-father but he barely did anything tangible because he had his main family. Raised by a woman I grew up with a very particular mindset concerning a woman's money: It's my money too. And to this day I have no shame or embarrassment taking money from a woman. Heck there are days when I'm more concerned about a woman's purse than her pussy. And I would be lying if I said I didn't grow up trying to figure out how to access successful women.
BIRTH OF A PICKMEISHA. In a traditional family setup the father is tender with the daughter but hard on the son. While the mother is tender with the son but hard on the daughter.
The hardness from the parent of their sex trains each child to view members of their sex as competition. The boy's father is his first competition. The girl's mother is her first competition. The boy grows up competing with his father for his mother's attention. The girl grows up competing with her mother for her father's attention.
Meanwhile the tenderness of the opposite parent is a lesson on romantic love and what each child can look forward to in a relationship with the opposite sex. The boy's mother is his first love. And the girl's father is her first love.
A father is a girl's first love whether he's there or not. Whether he's a caring provider or a deadbeat loser. All the daughter's future romances will mirror that first romance. If daddy was a present dutifully father, the girl will gravitate to present dutiful men. If daddy was an absent asshole the girl will gravitate to assholes who are absent emotionally, the state of her relationship with her father shapes all her relationships with men.
If one parent, say the father, is removed from the picture, as is almost always the case with single-parent families, balance is lost.
Without a father, a daughter has to do with only her mother's sternness and hardness without the father's love and tenderness to balance her out. While the boy now has to do with the mother's tenderness and gentleness without the father's sternness to balance him out.
The daughter sees hell from her mother. She's never given a rest but is pushed to achieve more and more and more with the mother never quite satisfied with her. Add to that the spirit of competition between mother and daughter which intensifies as the mother fears the daughter - a younger fresher woman - will steal suitors from her.
On the other hand, the son grows up tenderly dealt with and softly treated by his mother to the point where he's coddled and spoilt, expecting the world to revolve around him. Expecting women to serve him. He doesn't do any chores because mother will not allow a boy in the kitchen while there's a girl in the house. A boy will not touch a broom with a girl around. A boy will not wash any clothes with a girl around. A boy will not work around the yard with a girl around. A boy will not be sent for groceries with a girl around.
All these things are the girl's job as a woman and a future wife! All the boy can do is spend his days adored and dotted on. This treatment, these things, over the years, add up and finally convince the girl that his brother is indeed the Prize. That boys are the prize. That men are the prize.
But not just by mother's treatment of her brother is the girl made to view men as the prize, also by the way her mother, over the years, pursues men up and down begging for their affection and companionship. Her mother constantly setting the bar low, settling for less and tolerating mediocrity. All these teach the girl that men are above women. That a woman must do her best for men even if they respond with the bare minimum. It's okay. Because men are that important. And so the girl grows up seeking men's approval. Men's validation. Longing for their acceptance. Wishing to be the one chosen by men among other women. To be the one picked. She becomes what is called a Pick-Me. Which is the original term for Pickmeisha.
Pickmeisha believes she's a good catch for any man because she's better than any woman because she has achieved more than any woman and any man who chooses her will find her to be an asset. She has it all - PhD, career, car and house. Honestly how many women have that! She's a catch and men must pick her!
Pickmeisha doesn't understand that between her 35 year old self with all her accomplishments, and a 21 year old with none of her accomplishments, men will pick the 21 year old. Because the things Pickmeisha considers her "assets" are the same things men consider their "assets". The things men bring to the table, she also brings to the table. And so men don't see the need to date her because they don't feel needed.
The things that other women want from men, Pickmeisha offers to men. And so the men she attracts are different from the men other women attract. Other women attract masculine men who provide. Pickmeisha attracts feminine men who take. AKA broke men.
MATRIARCHIES CREATE PICKMEISHAS. Pickmeisha is the product of the Matriarchy that takes form when there's an oversupply of Single Mothers and girls are raised to be tough and independent and to see education and career as the solution to hardship - which is true, but these girls never had a father and they place part of the blame on themselves believing they were bad daughters that's why daddy left and so in every man they date they seek the father they never had and they will pamper a man and spend on him to prove themselves better daughters this time around.
When the girls were young, Daddy was a symbol of all future men, now as adults, all men are a symbol of long-lost daddy.
And the cruel irony is that the more power women gain politically and economically the more they become Single Mothers and the more they raise Pickmeishas - a whole generation of successful women saturated in masculine energy who consider it their "right" and "privilege" to spend on the men they choose to love. Women who consider it unfair in a world where women have their own resources for men to be held to the outdated standard of being providers. And these women will have a point. Because they're logical. Where masculine energy flows, logic follows.
**See the last 3 pics below to see how pleasantly reasonable Pickmeishas can be.
PICKMEISHA AND BROKE MEN. Broke men can not afford a feminine woman who seeks a masculine provider. And they don't really need such a woman. What they need is a masculine woman who makes her own money and enjoys spending on her man.
That will be Pickmeisha.
Pickmeisha is a perpetual thorn at the side of gold diggers and women in general. They hate hate hate her. More than they hate sluts and hoes. Because unlike sluts and hoes who just give sex, Pickmesha - because she's educated and has her own money - she gives men sex AND money. Can you imagine!
But the union of a broke man and a woman who has money is doomed. Because when a woman has money but she dates a man without money, the man is never happy because he is not in his masculine. Meaning he never really feels like a man. You would think a broke man dating a woman who has money will be thankful and appreciative enough to show loyalty. But we all know what broke men in these situations do. What will happen is that the man will take the woman's money AND USE IT ON SOME OTHER WOMAN whom he really loves because it is with this other woman that he feels like a man. The broke man is so desperate to activate his masculinity even if it means using one woman's money to be masculine with another woman.
The problem here is that Society conditions men to believe their value lies in their ability to provide for women. Which makes a broke man have a problem dealing with a woman who has money even though the woman herself doesn't have a problem with his brokeness. Therefore the broke man's real problem is mindset. Not money. Hence the saying, Poverty is a mindset
THE WOMAN WHO PAYS FOR SEX. Where masculine energy flows, logic follows.
When women carry masculine energy they become like men, but not only in their thought process, also in their sex drive. Being masculine they carry a masculine sex drive.
They chase dick like there's no tomorrow.
There's only one woman who pays men for sex. It's not the nubile in her 20s - that one is broke. It's not the cheating wife screwing around behind hubby's back - that one is just giving it free. It's not the slut. It's not the hoe. And it's not the prostitute. *It's the Independent Woman.* That educated successful woman doing her own thing.
Ask any male prostitute or gigolo, or read any account by men who sell sex, and their most popular customer, by far, is the Independent Woman - that successful career woman living alone who has everything she wants.
She's the woman getting dicked down by prostitutes and gigolos.
She'll say she's living that lifestyle because she's too busy to date. She'll say men are too intimidated to date her so she has to buy. She'll say she owns her sexuality like men do. But what is happening is, she's burning with the lust of masculine energy.
PICKMEISHA TO FEMININITY. A woman who grew up without a father is a woman who had to be tough in a tough world. But inside the tough exterior is a timid little girl still looking for her father. Still expecting him to ride in on a white horse and deliver her. And in every man the woman deals with, she's looking for her father, a man like him, who can set the little girl free.
And how will the woman identify such a man?
Definitely not by his money. Not by his muscles. Not by his looks. And not by the words he speaks. But rather BY HOW THE WOMAN RESPONDS TO HIM. What the man brings out of her. This will be the man who will bring out her girliness, her softness, her vulnerability and her peacefulness - which is her femininity. Her femininity is her long lost innocence. The little girl inside of her. Breaking through her masculine shell.
It's another straightforward process: The woman usually wears jeans and trousers but around this guy she finds herself wearing dresses and skirts. The woman is bossy and headstrong but somehow around this guy she finds it easy to compromise and submit. She's fiery but around this guy she's very tame and speaks softly and gently. This guy, by just his presence makes her feel peaceful, secure and carefree - like the weight of the world has been taken off her shoulders and she feels like a little girl all over again hanging out with her all-capable father.
This guy is radiating masculine energy which is bringing out her feminine energy.
He is healing her.
The little girl inside - so long in hiding, so long in trauma - is coming out to play in the bright restorative light of the man's masculine energy.
To be fair, ladies like that are a lot easier to get with than the feminist types but you'll have to be careful when dealing with their types so as not to end up with "I'm surprised that she has changed", " She was never like this when we were dating" etc.
TradCon (Traditionally Conservative, also called Chameleons) women have a sleeker game up their sleeve than their feminist counterparts. They sympathize with men and understand the issues that men go through but use it to great advantage in putting their needs first. Ann Coulter, Tomi Lahren are reminders.
Women are highly adaptable to anything you bring to the table and can manipulate her ways around it. Being red pilled doesn't make you totally immune to her manipulations. As long as you are fully grounded in the red pill, you can spot patterns that most men wouldn't notice and predict her bullshit on time. You can't be perfect all the time though. They are mostly a step ahead of you.
With that said, there is a lot to learn from these TradCon women. Pick their messages but be on your uttermost guard when dealing with them.
This exactly what I was trying to say... she's playing a game that you can use against her.
You guys are too damn easy.That's why these women keep winning. She is playing thesame game as other women but in a different way. Haven't you heard of the "tradthot" phenomenon? AWALT-yesterday,today and tomorrow
I never said you should LOVE her... I can't trust any bitch. It's a trick to look good to us men, you can use that to your advantage. At this point, it's possible she'll always want to please you to maintain that "I understand men" frame and look good.... once again....use that to your advantage, play smart.
the confidence and courage to approach women have never been the problem. what I mean is,it used to be a lot easier approaching women in my beta days. Nowadays, as a new convert of the redpill fellowship, what looked like normal now has to pass through several red pill filters to ascertain their integrity... I can no longer profess love to buy attraction... just want to know how redpillers change a normal conversation to sensual without sounding like AFCs
lolz, I get. buh do AFCs ever get sensual?
As long as you don't put her on pedestal and look like you're needy of sex or project something like that...I think you're ok
KVN1: hello Amigos, now picture this scenario. A redpiller comes across a lady who he'd love to be intimate with, and for the records, he's never met her before (neither is he sure he'd meet her again). Being that he spends his time developing himself and adding to his bank account, we now understand that he has little or no time for frivolities.. like chasing women. So Geez, what's the best form of approach? going straight to the point with her or taking things slowly? knowledge of the redpill has made it difficult for me to shower praise on any lady... beautiful or not. what is the best way to make her understand your intentions and get laid in few days... after approaching her somewhat indirectly,how do you switch to the main deal without sounding beta...in the same conversation? In my better days,it used to be a lot easier, sounding and being needy.
someone should post a format here
Don't be scared of approaching women. it's what I did to build my confidence, approaching women is very easy. The greatest weapons you can use to charm her are: * Eye contact (this should be illegal, it drives women crazy) * smile (forget all this bad boy stuffs most people are saying, trust me) * Touch her (this gets her excited and removes you from the friendzone to the sexual zone) * maintain a good conversation
That's all you need, as long as you're neat and clean. Go and approach women, it builds your confidence and game. If you're nervous, then take it as a good thing. Don't freak out. In reality, you're not nervous.... you're just excited about her, so channel all those excitement into your charms and use them on her. you're excited not nervous!
When you approach her...stop thinking about these >>> "does she like me?", "I hope I did not say something stupid", "oh jeezzz...that was weird, why did I do that?" my guy....stop!!!! you're approaching a girl to see if she's your type... you're the prize. so be asking yourself "is she fun?", "do I like her?", "is she smart?"
you get what I mean?
you can approach with openers like * asking for directions * complimenting something about her (make sure it's genuine) * act like you know her somewhere and quickly change topics etc
Just be fun, witty and tease her.... forget about being beta and alpha, when you have fun, she'll see you as alpha. when you're boring and project insecurity, she'll see you as beta... HAVE FUN WITH HER!
you can ask me more questions if you need. Good luck.
God is superstition? from that fact, you're saying that Satan isn't real too. Then how would you explain the church of Satan? and different people/celebrities talking about their experiences with them a.k.a illuminati?
you guys also say that when you die, that's it....how would you explain ghosts, spirits and different paranoias? I've witnessed this first hand
what would you say about the miracles and prophecies performed by pastors all over the world?
Anyone has this ebook "The rational male by Rolla Tomassi"?
I tried downloading it from PDF drive but it didn't work.
Help me out amigos if you have the book, or a link to where I can get it.
Thanks.
Women have a tendency of belittling the importance of sex to men.
Desiring to have sex with someone you are attracted to is natural and driven by testosterone.
You are not shallow for wanting to f*ck.
Your desires are valid. Never apologize for your biological drive as a man.
So many girls have brought up that "all you want is sex" with me...
Lolllzzz...I just laugh and reply "okay, what else do you have to offer me?" with a dirty smile on my face. most don't have a reply, and those that do blab shits like "My love blah blah blah" and I immediately frown and say "I don't believe in love"
they still end up giving me sex. It's crazy, just do your thing amigos.
CaveAdullam: Women are time killers. Whatsoever thing you do with a woman: play, converse, sex etc reduces the time and energy you ought to do more beneficial activities.
Women feed voluptuously on men's time and attention. Their emotions and histrionics derives ultimate amount of joy from these two most important male's stream alongside his financial resource.
Do not forget the Pareto's principle; 80/20: Before you interact/seek any woman, ensure you have achieved at least 80% percent of your goals. She can then support you in the remaining 20% if you so desire.
Start daily with these principle and it will progress expansively as you interact with women and other persons as the day progresses.
Authority: Guard your time and attention with all diligence; because out of it flows the quick attainment and actualization of your dreams, objectives and goals.
I've said it and I'll say it again, men need to realize the importance of their time. Chasing women is a complete waste of time, energy and effort! why not channel all those time and energy into something more beneficial to YOUR OWN LIFE? Pick up hobbies... * You love sports? learn new ones and get good at them, it will keep you in shape and you'll make new friends in the process. * Read! Read! Read!....I don't need to go on about the advantages of reading, you're basically exercising your brain and becoming more productive. To add, you can also learn to write. whether it's stories, articles or whatever you like. It's helps you as a whole to improve in your vocabulary and writing skills. * Learn musical instruments. You love music? why not learn an instrument and create your own sound? and just relax and enjoy your own melody. * Go out and explore places that are fun to you. It can be the beach, museum, restaurants sef.... anywhere that you would have fun and do a little sight seeing.
Focus on yourself and stop chasing women, attract them instead. there's a difference.
pansophist: When I reminisced about my simping days, it feels like an acid burning through the fabric of my soul, with no cure in sight. With everything that I know now, the shame of the past has been a drive to make sure it never repeats itself again, and a motivator used to teach the upcoming ones not to make the same mistake. I derive consolation on the fact that I learnt from it. The harder you simp, the bigger the rage you'll feel. It's part of life.
#RandomThoughts
I believe most of us here have simped pretty bad in the past, it's the reason we got introduced to the red pill. I need not mention what I did just because of women, I cringe trying to remember them.
all is in the past, and we learn from that to become better.
CaveAdullam: Give the gift of absence to a woman who doesn't appreciate your presence. Weak men allow women to misuse their time & energy. A strong man who knows his value will not stick around a woman who doesn't appreciate his presence. Your time must be earned & appreciated!!!
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why would you want to be with a girl that doesn't appreciate your presence in the first place? 90% of women are plain boring and just love to sit in one place. meanwhile you as a man, you're more fun and outgoing, it's the reason girls love guys that are adventurous...shouldn't she be happy that you're giving her the opportunity to tag along with you and have fun?
men need to realize that their time and company is one of their most precious asset to use against girls.
kingel: Men ahead of me, I always seek to understand things and the behavior of women is part of it. Hypergamy is cruel and vicious, they always flock to high standing men(in my age group older men or rich boys), leaving none for us with raging hormones to quell. I've had some gfs but the entire process is just frustrating, date, talk (more like interview), always manage her insecurities. And the sex isn't just worth it at the end of mental tiredness. If I can avoid it all and still get some action. Hormones and the mind are clashing on it. I definitely don't want to go on another journey for another girl, the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak. How did you guys overcome this? Masturbating and Prostitutes is a no no
You're spending your time trying to understand women? why not understand yourself first?. Nothing is more important than YOU!. You've had a lot of gfs buh you're still frustrated, why? cuz you're trying to be who you're not. When you come online and try to cram every tactic and skill to get more women you're slowly drifting away from your own inert self/personality and trying to mimic "bad boys". You want to know every skill to get girls, why? you're just living your life trying to make women like you. That isn't you, you're frustrated cuz You're getting worked out being who you're not.
1. Be sexual - you're a man, you shouldn't be afraid of expressing your sexuality.
2. Be fun - you just sit and talk with your gfs? boring. Go out on action dates, have fun..play games. Do things that are fun to YOU!, when a girl loves the fun things you do she won't be boring and it can never be like an interview when you talk to her cuz she loves exactly what you love. Do what is fun to you and invite girls into them, if they don't like it...drop them.
3. stop chasing girls, I guess you haven't seen yourself as the price yet. work on improving yourself. when you see yourself as the price, girls will sense it naturally and chase you.
4. stop trying to be a bad guy... it's useless. Just be yourself and never let girls use you, that's why the red pill is here. To show you how to stand up against female manipulation. Being who you're not will drain you... trust me.
my question is, how can you not enjoy sex? if you don't....then what else do you want from women? love? not possible
Gaming / Re: PC Gamers In Calabar by Radking7(m): 6:25am On Sep 02, 2021 
