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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Vecto(m): 11:51am On Sep 13
Everything fundamental to the survival of the relationship is based upon you, your strength and the amount of value that you bring to the table. You are the rock in her storm. Any value that she brings is largely, quite secondary and oft perfunctory to that which you bring. In a healthy relationship where you lead, she will be a reflection of your wishes and decisions, she will be malleable; for you are the captain of the ship and she the obliging first mate. This is the natural order; it is the way that things must be in order to ensure some measure of functional cohesion and relational happiness. When people do not have set roles, the ensuing power struggle leads to competition and destroys any chance of social cohesion.

#TRP

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by viktor88: 12:08pm On Sep 13
Mystiquefia:


Guy you're right about the manosphere forums in other climes not being in consonance with marriage. i just left reddit now and there seems to be a constant regurgitation of the cons of marriage, which the overwhelming majority of members seem to concur to. but isn't this perception of marriage somewhat of a defence mechanism against d stringent divorce laws that seem to favor women in europe n america?
The divorce is what scare them most.
Many go break after divorce especially long term married.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by IHate9jerianss(m): 12:09pm On Sep 13
Mystiquefia:


Guy you're right about the manosphere forums in other climes not being in consonance with marriage. i just left reddit now and there seems to be a constant regurgitation of the cons of marriage, which the overwhelming majority of members seem to concur to. but isn't this perception of marriage somewhat of a defence mechanism against d stringent divorce laws that seem to favor women in europe n america?
@Emboldened
Very good.The stringent divorce laws may not exist in Nigeria as they do in Europe and north America but do the redpill and even laymen in Nigeria not realize what a bad deal marriage is for them?From financial pressures to nagging,spousal stubbornness,unnecessary domestic arguments,extended family drama,mate guarding etc.This is because they believe NAWALT and many even view such issues as normal

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ishiewo: 12:11pm On Sep 13
Good one!!
Ride on
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Bikochi: 12:31pm On Sep 13
CaveAdullam:
Your girlfriend has other orbiters; she will never be yours solely until the marriage contract is sealed.

This redpill truth is really bitter for me.

Kings spin plates too.

What book was this picture gotten from?
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by COOL10(m): 12:43pm On Sep 13
IHate9jerianss:
I have gone through many foreign manosphere forums and there always seems to be an anti-marriage stance amongst its followers.This isn't the case with Nigerian males who label themselves "redpillers" and still believe that they can get married to some unicorn,hold frame for five years straight and pass all a woman's sh.it tests.How possible is that?I believe there are many Nigeran males calling themselves "redpill" because it is considered "cool" or "hip" and not really instilling its tenets.
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Why would a man who calls himself redpill (understanding the unfiltered,true nature of women) still desire to marry one?
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A wise man once said "It's impossible to love women once you understand them." This doesn't imply hatred, it's simply an awakening to the truth and following it accordingly.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Zabiboy: 12:46pm On Sep 13
CaveAdullam:
Your girlfriend has other orbiters; she will never be yours solely until the marriage contract is sealed.

Even after the marriage contract is signed and sealed, she is not still yours....
That's why i tell guys getting married to ALWAYS give their wives the impression that they have other options( whether they do or dont)...
If not, why do married women deprive their husbands of sex and then go outside to cheat?
The Redpill is a continous cycle..even after marriage...
The moment she notices that she's not competing with other girls for your attention/commitment, it becomes boring

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by IHate9jerianss(m): 12:58pm On Sep 13
COOL10:
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A wise man once said "It's impossible to love women once you understand them." This doesn't imply hatred, it's simply an awakening to the truth and following it accordingly

100% correct

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by IHate9jerianss(m): 1:02pm On Sep 13
Zabiboy:


Even after the marriage contract is signed and sealed, she is not still yours....
That's why i tell guys getting married to ALWAYS give their wives the impression that they have other options( whether they do or dont)
If not, why do married women deprive their husbands of sex and then go outside to cheat?
The Redpill is a continous cycle..even after marriage...
The moment she notices that she's not competing with other girls for your attention/commitment, it becomes boring
@Emboldened
For how long can the man keep that up?
A man constantly draining himself physically and mentally for some p-sleeve?Why? Cos it's special than the rest?How?

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Onnasucs1(m): 1:03pm On Sep 13
As seen on twitter. cheesy cheesy

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Zabiboy: 1:14pm On Sep 13
IHate9jerianss:

@Emboldened
For how long can the man keep that up?
A man constantly draining himself physically and mentally for some p-sleeve?Why? Cos it's special than the rest?How?

Well...
That's the best advice i could give someone who can't unlearn what the female imperative society taught him and is hell bent on getting married...

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by IHate9jerianss(m): 1:20pm On Sep 13
Zabiboy:


Well...
That's the best advice i could give someone who can't unlearn what the female imperative society taught him and is hell bent on getting married...
@Emboldened
I finally got my answer
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Radking7(m): 1:24pm On Sep 13
I've already taken my dose of red pills for today cheesy

I got a question...the red pill is always warning guys to stay away from the friend zone.
Does this mean we shouldn't be friends with women? I know a few women I relate well with, I never ask for sex... I don't do favours for them either or fall prey to their traps. They're just there for chit chats. I use them to look valuable (i.e as though I'm wanted and loved by lots of women) to the women I actually like.

am I playing the game right?

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MJBOLT: 2:05pm On Sep 13
men now pay women for chatting,na wa o
Onnasucs1:
As seen on twitter. cheesy cheesy

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MJBOLT: 2:08pm On Sep 13
according to Coach Red Pill,a man and a woman can never be friends,if a man and a woman are friends,there's always a sexual tension between them.one person wants to fvck the other and the other person is usually oblivious to this.

Radking7:
I've already taken my dose of red pills for today cheesy

I got a question...the red pill is always warning guys to stay away from the friend zone.
Does this mean we shouldn't be friends with women? I know a few women I relate well with, I never ask for sex... I don't do favours for them either or fall prey to their traps. They're just there for chit chats. I use them to look valuable (i.e as though I'm wanted and loved by lots of women) to the women I actually like.

am I playing the game right?

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Radking7(m): 2:18pm On Sep 13
MJBOLT:
according to Coach Red Pill,a man and a woman can never be friends,if a man and a woman are friends,there's always a sexual tension between them.one person wants to fvck the other and the other person is usually oblivious to this.


I guess I'm the oblivious one here...
because I don't care about them, I use most of them to pass time when I'm bored.
my question is, I just hope they don't see it as commitment that I talk to them often.
would really love someone to explain what a man's commitment means to women....
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MJBOLT: 2:20pm On Sep 13
let's wait for the ogas at the top.

Radking7:


I guess I'm the oblivious one here...
because I don't care about them, I use most of them to pass time when I'm bored.
my question is, I just hope they don't see it as commitment that I talk to them often.
would really love someone to explain what a man's commitment means to women....
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Radking7(m): 2:25pm On Sep 13
MJBOLT:
let's wait for the ogas at the top.


Sure thing man...
would really love to know.
Thanks for your earlier response tho.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 2:30pm On Sep 13
IHate9jerianss:
I have gone through many foreign manosphere forums and there always seems to be an anti-marriage stance amongst its followers.This isn't the case with Nigerian males who label themselves "redpillers" and still believe that they can get married to some unicorn,hold frame for five years straight and pass all a woman's sh.it tests.How possible is that?I believe there are many Nigeran males calling themselves "redpill" because it is considered "cool" or "hip" and not really instilling its tenets.
"Likes" ,"Upvotes" indicates approval/agreement of a comment online.
Why would a man who calls himself redpill (understanding the unfiltered,true nature of women) still desire to marry one?

Surely, if most African and foreign men behave like you rightly said, the women would be crying out on SM.

Redpilling doesn't mean that u won't marry..its understanding women at their primordial level.

At least that's what the OP is passing across...

Maybe what u mean is MGTOW...

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 2:35pm On Sep 13
MJBOLT:
according to Coach Red Pill,a man and a woman can never be friends,if a man and a woman are friends,there's always a sexual tension between them.one person wants to fvck the other and the other person is usually oblivious to this.


Not right bro,at least not in my case.

If I put you in the friend/sister zone,nothing sexual tension between us. Just normal healthy yigiyaga...
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 2:37pm On Sep 13
Radking7:
I've already taken my dose of red pills for today cheesy

I got a question...the red pill is always warning guys to stay away from the friend zone.
Does this mean we shouldn't be friends with women? I know a few women I relate well with, I never ask for sex... I don't do favours for them either or fall prey to their traps. They're just there for chit chats. I use them to look valuable (i.e as though I'm wanted and loved by lots of women) to the women I actually like.

am I playing the game right?

For me? Yes.

You can be friends with them,though I don't think what u mean by using them to increase your SMV is good in the long run.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by softguy1: 3:02pm On Sep 13
I've already taken my dose of red pills for today cheesy

I got a question...the red pill is always warning guys to stay away from the friend zone.
Does this mean we shouldn't be friends with women? I know a few women I relate well with, I never ask for sex... I don't do favours for them either or fall prey to their traps. They're just there for chit chats. I use them to look valuable (i.e as though I'm wanted and loved by lots of women) to the women I actually like.

am I playing the game right?


Very good question though
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by softguy1: 3:06pm On Sep 13
MJBOLT:
let's wait for the ogas at the top.


Lol we are waiting for them to answer the question
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Radking7(m): 3:24pm On Sep 13
luminouz:


For me? Yes.

You can be friends with them,though I don't think what u mean by using them to increase your SMV is good in the long run.

why wouldn't it be good in the long run?
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by IHate9jerianss(m): 3:24pm On Sep 13
luminouz:


Surely, if most African and foreign men behave like you rightly said, the women would be crying out on SM.

Redpilling doesn't mean that u won't marry..its understanding women at their primordial level

At least that's what the OP is passing across...

Maybe what u mean is MGTOW...
@Emboldened
How can a man truly understand women at a primordial level and still desire to marry one or more?
It seems Nigerian "redpillers" want to eat their cake and have it

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 3:36pm On Sep 13
IHate9jerianss:

@Emboldened
How can a man truly understand women at a primordial level and still desire to marry one or more?
It seems Nigerian "redpillers" want to eat their cake and have it

*sighs*

Seems the whole redpill philosophy is lost on you or something...kindly ask OP for clarifications. I'm out of fuqs.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 3:39pm On Sep 13
Radking7:


why wouldn't it be good in the long run?

You would sooner or later get stereotyped as a philandering married man.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by IHate9jerianss(m): 3:42pm On Sep 13
luminouz:


*sighs*

Seems the whole redpill philosophy is lost on you or something...kindly ask OP for clarifications. I'm out of fuqs.
@Emboldened
Funnily enough,i have felt the exact same way about you that's why I kept seeking for an answer knowing very well you did not have it
The redpill philosophy simply doesn't tally with marriage

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by IHate9jerianss(m): 3:46pm On Sep 13
luminouz:


You would sooner or later get stereotyped as a [b]philandering[/b]married man.
Whether married or not,a philandering man is very attractive to women.It is an indication of pre-selection

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Zabiboy: 4:10pm On Sep 13
Radking7:
I've already taken my dose of red pills for today cheesy

I got a question...the red pill is always warning guys to stay away from the friend zone.
Does this mean we shouldn't be friends with women? I know a few women I relate well with, I never ask for sex... I don't do favours for them either or fall prey to their traps. They're just there for chit chats. I use them to look valuable (i.e as though I'm wanted and loved by lots of women) to the women I actually like.

am I playing the game right?

You can be friends with a woman, No doubt...
But saying you never ask for sex brings 3 things to mind...
Either you're not attracted to her( then i see no reason why you should be her friend) , you're scared of embracing your sexuality bcz of her perceived reaction or maybe she's already taken by your close nigga thereby making her out of bounds.....
There are VERY VERY few ladies who has something meaningful aside sex to contribute to a guy......
So if all your friends( ladies) contribute something meaningful aside sex( which i doubt) and can help you improve yourself, then there is nothing wrong If Not, get ready to either send urgent 2k or bold enough to say NO to their demands not minding whether they stop coming around or stop chatting with you...
For me, i haven't had a female friend without sexual tension..even the few that have something meaningful to add, the presence of that tension make things fun and interesting...even if i won't fvck them, we talk dirty and so they are very careful with words cz i turn them into sexual meaning very quickly and trust me, it's spicies up the conversations ( although i dont overdo it)....
Which leads to my question....What kind of conversation do you normally have with them??
Do you embrace your sexuality or you are being careful??

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Zabiboy: 4:24pm On Sep 13
IHate9jerianss:

@Emboldened
How can a man truly understand women at a primordial level and still desire to marry one or more?
It seems Nigerian "redpillers" want to eat their cake and have it

People marry for different reasons man..
Thats why redpillers go for either virgins or a lady that is more emotionally invested( she chose you)...this is for the ones that feel the need to get married tho....
Bcz to me, marrying a virgin too, doesnt guarantee that she wont cheat and having a girl choose you doesn't mean she wont cheat...it's just comparative advantage....Take the one with lesser possibility of loss and greater possibility of profit....
Then again like i said, it's for those who feel the need to get married

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Skepticus: 4:31pm On Sep 13
Sex is good and getting your nut off once in a while is therapeutic but having dominant control over your libido is still the best option ever.

If a man could keep his dick and resist the urge to always wanna score, Lol that man would begin to understand what freedom really is.

Stolen from Ayt27

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