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Ruby_Pearl:
More like trash section

ko da ooo

there is no story to respond to,i think u should take it to d jokes section

Dbisi:
I had a problem with my husband about 2 months before our wedding, he suspected and accused me of having an affairs he later found was not true and this was after we have dated for 5 years. That broke my heart because i was a very decent girl and infact he disvirgined me after 4 years into our courtship after i had graduated from UI. He did apologise though and even though i tried to stop the wedding he begged me and made the whole world beg me i was no longer interested but it was too late. When we got married i realised i never enjoyed sex it is always pain and i tried to see if something was wrong with me, i tried to forgive him and free my mind and yet i still never enjoyed it. One day i listened to a voice mail a girl left for him of how much she enjoyed him and how he should not because of marriage forget her as he was too sweet on the bed, this broke my heart because i trusted him and now i realised its not as if he doesnt know how to make love it was my problem. Though i regret it now and feel quilty, i slept with an ex who never slept with me as a single girl and i must confess i enjoyed it, now i can't say what my problem is, i never did it after then and i still don't enjoy sex with my husband. I feel so guilty and i wish i could confess to him and ask for his forgiveness. Is it wise to do this and please if you have ever had like problem what can i do to enjoy sex with my husband. Please, this is a marital and serious and real issue will appreciate genuine and helpful advise.

rubi ds story is somehow,cos d area of where her hsuband cheated on her,is not really clear

its somehow,cos ,did d guy sleep wt d ex after marriage or did d guy abandon d ex,was dat why she left a voice mail begging him not to leave her cos hes married?dis thing get as e be

rubi:
I am even begining to doubt the poster because I don't think a man in his right mind will cheat on the wife and give the girl his house number not even cell phone. I think the story is not yet complete. As a married woman I can put one and two together.

naaaaa though d psoter did not lay emphasis on where she listened to the voice msg

but at d same time rubi dont forget that this man might have also been dating d other girl before he got married,so the girl in question might still have his number and other personal contacts of his

so dat one is not a case

rubi:
It is like we sat down and discuss I was arguing with a guy on this earlier I don't klnow if you read my post. It is not possible to hide it there are things to hind but cheating on your husband my dear personally I can't hide it some how along the line if the even if the ex do not com with proof it will sneak out from her mouth or somebody she confided in will threaten her with that. Pregnancy cannot be covered after nine months

my sister ,use eye read dis poster thread well well,d poster is already dying inside,infact shes almost gone,and they r still telling her to keep it a secret`how can she,d woman is tearing apart and d only way she can free herself is by talking,keeping it wont solve d matter,it will only worsen d situation

rubi:
People do not understand that there is big difference blw boyfriend and girl friend it is not easy to walk away many woman swallow more than the poster postered and coming here to open their mouth and talk nonsense

abi ooo

and d most annoying part is,some of them women telling her to keep it a secret r married,people just get married to change their single status to married,they don't know what that word marriage is all about,and they r here telling us crabs

like i said before just imagine if she and her hubby r living peacefully now,and then d guy she did it wt then ,just appears?appearing i mean is wt solid and concrete proof,what will happen?

is it not better she tells d man and clears her heart ,then if he doesnt want her again she leaves d house for him wt a clear conscience and good mind,than trying to save it just to maintain d married status

yes i know that they r some secrets that should be taken to d grave,but my dear at d same time we should not also forget that there is nothing hidden under d sun

rubi:
How body? you have been making nice input on this thread

my dear body dey inside cloth jare,how u dey ?and ur hubby?hope all is well

some people just see this marriage thing like a boyfriend and girlfriend issue,don't tell him ,don't tell him ,don't tell him,they r some secrets that can make one loose what he/she loves most in life



what if she has reconsiled wt her husband,and they r now living happily ,and then d her ex justknocks at their door one day and exposes her wt proofs?what will happen

im very sure this same people telling her to keep it a secret will blame her for not telling her husband right from d onset

busybody20:
Why can't she live without telling him? Do you know what he does  at your back?

if he likes let him go sleep wt a thousand women out there,idats his business,we r talking about individual conscience here,her conscience is already pricking her ,so there is no bleeping way she can live wt it tied to her heart alone,not even if she prays to God and asks him for forgiveness

chinesedoll:
@rampant

thanx sis
just confirmed
GBAM

DIS IS JENNY SPEAKING

did i hide my identity before?

chinesedoll:
@rampant

no worry ruky i go dey pray for u,see me wey dey prepare to tie ashebi ,naim another person wan spoil show for me,no way

hear ye d word from above ruky

the egyptians(debosky) u see this day,u shall see him no more

Moyola:
Quit 8in people!!!!

u guys shuld let them be!!!!!!!!!!. . . .

don't ruin Debosky's search for hiz oda half  


@ Debosky

I'm intercedin' on your bhalf. . . . . _{as a payer warrior}

prayin fervently for you. . . . . .


Ruky aka Chinesedoll 'll b urz in no time

i will scatter dat prayer wat happens to the other innocent guy in ruky's life

ur prayer wont work

i no fit shout

debosky:
Don't listen to all these people! They are simply trying to ruin things between us so they can sneak in. 

@ Geniall

I need the soothing balm, the healing softness, the rejuvenating embrace, the mending, restorative love  of a delectable angel  - Ruky is her name.  

nora roberts novel is talking here

chinesedoll:
debosky

i get your message
but gabe is right
that is an engagement ring
but we cud still be friends though
abi?

say no to temptations ruky,u know how much your bobo loves u ,so don't mind debosky,this is a temptation

_{*chanting our lords prayer for ruky*}

*our father in heaven,please lead chinesedoll not into temptation,but deliver her from every anti marriage evil . . . . . . . . .  *

Debosky so what number does chinesedoll fall into?
d last time i checked u were allover busta on this forum,admiring her cute sexy behind,and well loaded chest,  . . . . . . . . . . .now wait a minute ,i think its chinesedoll's chests you're after

debosky:
Can you zip it and stop interrupting rampant? 


@ Ruky
I mean you are lively, you can have a discussion about sexuality without being prudish like many 'holy' nlder chicks

You are bold to say what you want to say without fear, I like that in a woman

exactly wat u told ur real babe last week y do u want to deceive ruky?

debosky:
@ Ruky

don't mind them o, I have no babe - my heart has been broken before and I've been looking for an angel to make things perfect again. I know you have your wild side and I love that too. 

No one will hate you, how can anyone hate such a radiant, resplendent and desirable queen?

The throne of my heart awaits you, please do not let it lie vacant.

did u borrow dis words from a novel?

dis cannot be debosky, d debosky i know is already engaged,i think someone is toying wt his id

tell ur husband ,if he cant handle it maturedly by forgiving u,then he can as well go rot in d deepest part of hell

Sisikill:
I'm not understanding anymore oh.

Sacred and unscared??!

I bet you are one of the people who say marriage is ordained from God. You probably say go on and on about the sanctity of marriage. . . so why is it suddenly unsacred??!

Again, he touched her face, they didn't have sex. . . He TOUCHED HER FACE!!!

What is going on here?  

my dear pls ask for me ooooo,her husband i mean her own God given husband touched her and sm pple think its a crime

some pple like turning the bible upside down,or is marriage not ordained by God again in the bible?

haba

ifyalways:
jennnnnny,ole ihe i ka eji eche udika ihea?lol
Pres bukwa my nnam ochie,lol tested and trusted + confirmed
Jenny i di karid sef?  
@Pres my great grand mother for you to disvirgin jare.
anwulism continues   mana i huru crotchetm?a maghim otu di tin siri ga ije na abali   owu gi ka obu Romy? unu wetaram crotchetm  
@sheniqua,owuzi gi na Jenny + Moernike jisi flag.isi zakwa ewu Gambia ahu na ndi moduranshi ya nile  
@Moonshege ,nna anyi ukwu egwu ahu i posturu,a ghotaram ihe o na ekwu.a gam agwakwanu gi very soon  
I na C  o na agakwa?its becoming for real now !  
@all otu rove  

ify eweka onu ojo

fresh-B:
@ Rampant


when boys are growin up and have met a girl they feel they have arrived and could do what their fathers do and even more. when constructive statement is being rude, gettin to the age of wisdom becomes almost impossible.


when babys wash their bellies they refuse their guardians to bath them because they claim they can now fly. when a boy thinks he can defend himself cheekily then drops into same pits as his friends

what a pitiful brain,go get yourself a wife,im sure by d time u come back we will all pay heed to u till then ,au revoir

Bleep-NL:
haha

stay away from naysayers, you would be the one to pay the price _{with a ban} and that is why nairaland rules suck!!

abi ooo,dats y u r a darling