₦airaland Forum

davidylan:
whether we are married or not does not remove the fact that u're a disgraceful cheat.

Bleep-NL:
@Rampant

You are at the centre of a muck down again?

u no dey tire?!haha

fresh-B:
@ Rampant


if your medicine is finished ring your gp please. explain to him how urgent and vitally important it is for you to receive the pack within 2hours, but do remember to sound nice not rude.

Orimili:
That's exactly why most relationships fail in some way. People in such relationships expect everything to come easy to them. As much as two people are alike and share the same tastes, the reality is that both people are still completely different. You cannot simply know what the other likes and dislikes in the bedroom, therefore, it is not a question of whether compatibility is there or not. In a marriage, two individuals become one, and as with any process in the universe, it requires energy, some form of effort for such a union to happen. Relationships tend to fail because they expect things to be easy, and therefore, don't put in the effort required for the relationship to work. When the relationship doesn't work, they blame it on the other person and try to look outside the relationship for someone else, thinking it will be easier for a relationship with them to work. Surprise, surprise, that doesn't work either, and it becomes a cycle. I have not seen one marriage where people go outside and "find" a "more compatible" mate. This westernized/Disney/MTV idea that people have for relationships need to stop.

Queenisha:
hannibal,everything get school nowadays.
There must be a school of sexual compatibility where they can learn skills and tools to help them

Orimili:
The whole sexual compatibility thing is just an excuse to lay with someone outside of marriage. I think any couple can be compatible as long as both parties involved are willing to put some work into it.

Queenisha:
Who knows.
Afterall he's getting it somewhere else
didn't you read the fire brigade she called down after the act.
If you were the man will you attempt it again?

Queenisha:
jenny I don't think you can count her losing her virginity as similar to what Hannibal is saying.
It's not particularly an enjoyable act to most women.

Queenisha:
Chineke forbid bad thing.
Oh jenny bu zi Rampant?
This boy nwe this place di iberibe
o di ka obu onye gay

Hannibal:
This is why i think pre-marital sex is very necessary!!
Whats the point in keeping a wife that ain't sex compatible after spending millions on a grand wedding.

If they had subjected themselves to various trials, these problem would have been exposed before marriage. . . . .
Now, a well-brought up girl has been reduced to a cheating tart all because she didn't do the right thing at the right time.
Ladies. . . . . .  .Food for THUNK!!!!

Dbisi:
I had a problem with my husband about 2 months before our wedding, he suspected and accused me of having an affairs he later found was not true and this was after we have dated for 5 years. That broke my heart because i was a very decent girl and[b] infact he disvirgined me after 4 years into our courtship[/b] after i had graduated from UI. He did apologise though and even though i tried to stop the wedding he begged me and made the whole world beg me i was no longer interested but it was too late. When we got married i realised i never enjoyed sex it is always pain and i tried to see if something was wrong with me, i tried to forgive him and free my mind and yet i still never enjoyed it. One day i listened to a voice mail a girl left for him of how much she enjoyed him and how he should not because of marriage forget her as he was too sweet on the bed, this broke my heart because i trusted him and now i realised its not as if he doesnt know how to make love it was my problem. Though i regret it now and feel quilty, i slept with an ex who never slept with me as a single girl and i must confess i enjoyed it, now i can't say what my problem is, i never did it after then and i still don't enjoy sex with my husband. I feel so guilty and i wish i could confess to him and ask for his forgiveness. Is it wise to do this and please if you have ever had like problem what can i do to enjoy sex with my husband. Please, this is a marital and serious and real issue will appreciate genuine and helpful advise.

Queenisha:
na wa o
all these cheating people on nairaland and their advisers.

Well my advise will be to confront him about that voice mail from his mistress and gather all evidence needed to prove your point and after he admits it, you  release your own bomb shell so you can both start the healing process.
I believe in honesty,without that,the marriage is just a sham.

_{my opinion}

chinesedoll:
@Siena

i cudnt be more rite
rampant is Jenny

@Rampant/jenny

na wa for you o
wetin u  do Seun?

Siena:
Definitely not Ms Kadry, you couldn't be more wrong!

Siena:
Hmm, I can't say - not sure she wants me to!

I guess she'll tell you in time though.

chinesedoll:
sighs
what a relief

please who's rampant

sistawoman:
If i wanted to keep my marriage i would have had to keep it to myself.

Listen I am no fool I know me and I know how I am.  I have told my current husband that if he ever cheats on me and gets a weak moment where he think it is ok to tell me then he should let that be a passing thought.  He should never ever tell me about it and to make sure i never find out he should never ever tell another soul.

Once that comes out I have no other choice but to divorce my husband and move on.  I[b] will not under any circumstances except a cheater in my bed, in my life, in my home or in my heart.  On that day that he tells me such a thing I will turn my back to him forever[/b].  And I would expect nothing less of him to me.

I cheated on my ex-husband for 4 years before i ended the marriage and after i ended it the guy i was cheating with i ended it with him as well.  Because after I was out of my marriage there was no need for him.

If she must confess it, do it to a therphist or a man of God but never please never tell this man.  Why would you want to inflict on this man all of that pain?  If you love him if you hate him please don't inflict that pain on him.  I know what it feels like to love someone have them cheat on you then confess it to you.  Please please please don't do that him.  Dont transfer your guilt to his pain.  That is just selfish.

chinesedoll:
Who were u before u reincarnated?

Sisikill:
Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww! Aw!!

So freaking sweet! No way her heart is not going pitty pat right now.

Beautiful way to declare your amore 

Just when you want to give up on Naija guys, one of 'em goes and does something sweet.  *wipes Tears and sniffs*



*Sigh*

Naija men. . .  you can't live with them and you can't kill them because you'll get your behind thrown in jail for it which makes you angrier because they are already dead and you can't kill 'em again for getting you thrown in jail for killing 'em in the first place.

So how does this work? Do we give 'em some privacy[i] ^{*wink wink*}[/i] or are we allowed to play peeping Toms.

davidylan:
Sorry bro, Chinesedoll and i have signed a lucrative 7yr deal to sole territorial rights over her boobs.
Please look elsewhere.

thank you.

Dr Kitaun:
@Debosky

na wa o . . .u sef don dey open all these kain yeye love threads   okpabi e okpabi e    

good luck man !  

Chinesedoll . . .welcome jare !!!  d brodaman needs some unadulterated Nafdac-approved milk from ya !  

4 Play:
Person just dey waste his time. Chinesedoll and I have been an item for months now.

sistawoman:
Actully I do know what it is like I cheated on my first husband purely because he was not fullfilling me sexually and when i lost all respect for him, that is a different story for a different day, and dismissed him/ended our marriage i never told him.
men will kill for much less why worry if this man is going to kill me just to clear my mind.

Dont tell it.

sistawoman:
I have read all the posts and I agree with those that say u should take it to your grave.
You should never ever ever tell your husband you should delete all posts regarding this and you should never ever right this down any where not even in your diary.

I could never image cheating on my husband but if i did i know that this is something that must be taken to the grave.  Go to God for forgiveness and either continue to stay in your marriage or leave.

If you don't love him, if he gives you no physical pleasure then leave.  But never ever tell him you cheated.  He just might chop off your head.

ifyalways:
lol
Jennnnny ma rovesssssssssssssssssss 
ole ihe i mere ndia sef?lol
Ima na i kelela before,o nweghi onye noticeri,lol a mam na i bughi mgbada tata from the tone of the ekele. 
lol,ezi na house gi kwanu?ndeeewo oooh.
hapu aturu gambia ahu na ndi otu ya,ndi moduranshi.lol 
okwa gi na queenisha jizi record.lmao

ifyalways:
anam ekele back.
ole onye ibu?u sound like an old record,you taste like an old soup,u look like an old face.lol
onye ka i bu  ekele gia dikwa egwu .