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Romance / 5 Ways To Make A Girl Fall In Love With You. by ramselly(m): 7:08am On Jul 14, 2014 |
I will like to share this wonderful tips to you inorder to enable ladies start falling like mad in love with you if only you take your time to read this carefully and implement it definitely you will surely get a good result Confidence Confidence is the foundation where everything starts. It’s a point where it tells the girl that this guy is sure of himself, he knows what wants, and is capable of leading her to experience new things. a) When I mean “sure of himself,” I mean that when you decide to make a decision, you stick by this decision with full force thinking: “this decision is right.” Of course you’re not going to be “right” all the time and may even get lost, which is fine as long as you can confidently say “I Don’t Know.” Or, “I’m going to check the answer by going X or reading Y or etc…” Yes, many guys think that you have to be perfect and know everything; wrong. If you can own up to your mistakes and be confident enough to admit them, then you differ from a lot of other men: most men don’t admit their mistakes and/or if they do they express their mistakes in a very submissive way. Remember though, a confident man who makes a mistake, always learns from his mistake and does something about it. b) Please don’t over think “he knows what he wants,” because it doesn’t necessarily mean you that should hold a steady career or have an exact plan for your life; instead it means that you have an idea (ideas) that you’re ready to experiment. It is this experiment or this drive to push forward with these ideas that will lead you to figure out what you really want. For example, if one of your “wants” is to make money then by pushing yourself to make a business, find a job, go to school to learn about business, whatever… shows the girl that you’re doing things to figure out what you want. You may not know this, but Bleep, when I was 17 I thought I wanted to be a firefighter and then after training I realized it wasn’t for me: now I know that being a firefighter is something I don’t want in my life. A man that pushes himself forward, to try and figure out what he actually wants in life, is a man that is confident. However, this point comes with a stipulation: you better have a stronger idea of what you want after the many experiments you undertake, a girl isn’t attracted to guys who are dreamers (not a sign of confidence). c) When I say “leading,” I mean the ability to push the girl to follow your moves. For example, if you’re an ambitious man who wants to be a Yo-Yo champion, then show her your practice room and your many collections of Yo-Yos (and upcoming competitions). Then, ask her and learn about her ambitions in life. When you do this, you’re leading or qualifying her to make moves with you. And, if she really begins to like you she will herself show you her ambitions in life (or start one). This also goes for jumping in a pool or trying a new spicy dish, lead her to follow suit. Remember, I’m not saying “FORCE” I’m rather saying SHOW by “LEADING.” Lead with confidence, make her believe that she can follow your steps. Emotionally Aware & Coherent Girls love guys that not only are aware of her emotions, but also can show their emotions coherenly. I have too many girl-friends who have complained that their guy is too stoic, or too happy, or too sad, or just too manic… You have to be able to play all emotions and express them coherently. For example, if she is crying and breaking down, it would be fucking stupid of you to start making jokes. Or worse, be stoic to a point where it seems you don’t care. It be best to hold her, shut the Bleep up, and empathize with her but also being coherent: strong. Then, you can then start making light jokes once her emotions start to die down. It’s called being aware of your surroundings. No, this doesn’t mean you wait for the girl to express emotion and then you follow suit… most of the time you should be leading the interaction (being jovial & excited about things) … it just means you know how to react to her emotions. Lastly, girls love a guy who can act out all sorts of emotions: anger, sadness, excitement, etc… you need to be able to coherently enough to show all of them, throughout your time with her, however too much of any will just hurt you. An emotional balancing act. Listening & Providing Help A guy who she can depend on when it comes to decision making, is a guy she’ll love. But, how do you do this? It’s called LISTENING & EXPERIENCE. As in, the more you get out there and interact with people, try new things, read, and staying active – the more you’ll be able to obtain the necessary information to deal with a whole lot of situations. Then, when you LISTEN and OBSERVE her moves is when you’ll be able to provide such information. Many guys give too much advice when they themselves have yet to experience it, or fucking worse, when they don’t provide the proper suggestion because they didn’t listen to her in the first place. You can’t always talk about yourself… Ending Notes Saying the word “baby steps,” or “tomorrow” is not going to get a girl to love you. It is crucial for your life to START NOW and begin experimenting on what your life can be. This is more than just making a girl love you, it’s about changing your life to becoming a better man.
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Romance / Re: The Proper Way Of Asking A Lady Out. by ramselly(m): 5:29pm On Jul 13, 2014 |
Jst ask will u b ma gal 1 Like |
Romance / Re: (chubby Ladies)you Should STOP Dieting! Men Loves You Just As You Are- (photos) by ramselly(m): 5:05am On Jul 12, 2014 |
Nice one bro, I prefer d chubby lady to d slim. |
Computers / How To Make Money Online Using Adfly by ramselly(m): 5:13pm On Jul 09, 2014 |
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Education / Re: Federal Polytechnic Nekede 2014/2015 Admission Thread by ramselly(m): 8:19pm On Jul 08, 2014 |
bonnyt: but its said to be available in their site.... ryt here http://portal.federalpolynekede.net/gLine.aspxpls look @ d year. If its out I will notify you. |
Education / Re: Federal Polytechnic Nekede 2014/2015 Admission Thread by ramselly(m): 8:14pm On Jul 08, 2014 |
mimee9: What is the duration of the programme,and how can I get form in lagd duration is 2 years and to get d form walk into any fidelity bank, uba, and union bank to purchase d form. |
Nairaland / General / India Vs Nigeria by ramselly(m): 6:26pm On Jul 07, 2014 |
Did you ever hear this story? INDIA VS NIGERIA: 99 - 1 When I was young, this story used to be common that India used 'jazz' to beat Nigeria 99 - 1. I heard it was a well known Nigerian football player that scored our only goal, the ball changed to a stone and he kicked it without thinking twice. All our players were just seeing double, all our goalkeeper could see each time an Indian player played the ball at him was a roaring lion and a ball of fire which made him run away from the goal post. I also heard this was why India is banned forever from playing football. Did you ever hear this story? |
Jokes Etc / India Vs Nigeria by ramselly(m): 6:19pm On Jul 07, 2014 |
Did you ever hear this story? INDIA VS NIGERIA: 99 - 1 When I was young, this story used to be common that India used 'jazz' to beat Nigeria 99 - 1. I heard it was a well known Nigerian football player that scored our only goal, the ball changed to a stone and he kicked it without thinking twice. All our players were just seeing double, all our goalkeeper could see each time an Indian player played the ball at him was a roaring lion and a ball of fire which made him run away from the goal post. I also heard this was why India is banned forever from playing football. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: It's TRUE !!! BUT ITS Non Of My Business. by ramselly(m): 10:19am On Jul 06, 2014 |
My nigga n his babe dey always fight bt wen I go to seperate dey tel me its none of my business. ;DMy nigga n his babe dey always fight bt wen I go to seperate dey tel me its none of my business. 1 Like |
Education / Re: Federal Polytechnic Nekede 2014/2015 Admission Thread by ramselly(m): 7:53am On Jul 06, 2014 |
bonnyt: is URP available for nd evening??NOT AVAILABLE YET. |
Education / Re: Federal Polytechnic Nekede 2014/2015 Admission Thread by ramselly(m): 6:08pm On Jul 03, 2014 |
scan p: I heard dat nekede post ume form 4 2014/2015 is out. Is it 2ru?yes its true. |
Romance / Re: 33 Romantic Thank You Messages For Your Loved Ones by ramselly(m): 9:49pm On Jul 02, 2014 |
Nice |
Computers / Re: How Do I Configure A Tp-link 3G Wireless Lite N Router by ramselly(m): 7:48am On Jul 01, 2014 |
alphadux1: connect your pc to the router via ethernet cable, and open a web browser. enter the address 192.168.1.1 (or as stated underneath the router), this will take you to the router management page, the user name and password should be printed underneath the router as well.please I have finished configuring my router but whenever I try to browse it keeps on taking me back to the router homepage, pls wat should I do? |
Family / Re: 10 Different Types Of Neighbours. Which Is Yours? by ramselly(m): 7:29am On Jul 01, 2014 |
Na passive neighbour I be, my neighbour wey dey upstair na d borrow pose neighbour and over friendly dey kill am. 1 Like |
Education / Re: Federal Polytechnic Nekede 2014/2015 Admission Thread by ramselly(m): 4:08pm On Jun 29, 2014 |
Doclight: what of the normal utme processNormal post utme has not yet commenced, will still update it once its out. |
Education / Federal Polytechnic Nekede 2014/2015 Admission Thread by ramselly(m): 2:27pm On Jun 29, 2014 |
This is to inform the general public that federal poly nekede owerri has commenced the sales of her evening and weekend programmes forms. Forms are sold @ d following banks: Fidelity bank plc, Uba bank plc, Zenith bank plc, for info on how to buy and process ur forms pls contact me on 08153964877. Thanks. |
Computers / Re: ICT VPN Working Greatly Via Computer Users Unlimited by ramselly(m): 10:38pm On Jan 10, 2014 |
ifycent2: ----------------ETISALAT WORKING FREE WITH 0.0K naira On Pc -----------IFYCENT I HAVE TRIED TO EXTRACT THE FOLDER BUY IT IS NOT WORKING. |
Computers / Re: ICT VPN Working Greatly Via Computer Users Unlimited by ramselly(m): 10:37pm On Jan 10, 2014 |
IFYCENT I HAVE TRIED TO ECTRACT THE FOLDER BUY IT IS NOT WORKING. ifycent2: I WILL STIL UPLOAD MY SCREENSHOTS AS USUAL. |
Business / Re: Which Business Can A Student Venture Into On Campus? by ramselly(m): 7:08pm On Jan 03, 2014 |
holuphumy: Please I don't know if am in d right section or not cuz dis is my first time of creating a topic on nairaland, presently am in need of ideas. This is a new year and I don't want it to start and end without me achieving anything.Bro pls call me or text me on dis no so I can give u d little I knw 08153964877. |
Nairaland / General / Open Letter To Naija by ramselly(m): 6:39pm On Jan 03, 2014 |
Nigerian How far now? 2014 Don Land O! Since na Open letter dey reign nau. I been think say I go add my own join. My own letter dey fly go the door mouth of that ogbonge person dem dey call NIGERIAN. Hmm! Bros I hail O! Abi na woman you be. Anyway, dat one no matter. You no yourself nah. How obodo Nigeria dey nah? Aunty Ngozi nko? Shey she no miscount money again with broda Sanusi. Oga Jonah nko? him don go settle with Boko Haram? Make dem finish this gbeke nah! Abi? Anyway, God dey. Nigeriannnnneee! The reason I wan talk to you be say, your luku luku don dooooo! How person go dey look hin property and rat go dey chop am. Wen person no be dead body. Yoruba people dem go say ‘how e go be, make meat seller pikin dey eat bone’. Nigerian. Your own meat seller pikin dey eat bone O! A beg no vex say na pidgin I dey take yarn this one O. if na UN I dey write am go, I for don blow grammer pass nuclear bomb. But this one na we-we. So for sake of say make we under, over and roundabout stand the gist, nah in I talk say make I troway the thing for the language of the prepules (na people be dat o). Hen hen, as i dey tory dey go, no be today we you don dey slack Nigerian. Infact rat don chop your furniture finish. Heeeeen nah! When your mai guard na thief, your cook na thief, your account clerk for office don join. Even your managers just dey feed themselves with your money. Area boys don scatter your business finish, na talk dem dey talk for dem office like parrot. Aboki and sons thief money, u smile, u say forget. Aunty Stella say she no know how dem buy moto, yet na she you give money for hold. One more time you say, no problem. I don even hear say she wan buy plenty moto again this year. You siddon dey look. Na wah for you O! Shey until dem people wey you employ chop you finish before you get the gist. For your informate. Dem don plan to sell your refinery wey you dey take chop O! You know say, before na so so scarcity fuel dey scarce. When dem divide refinery finish. We no go even get money buy the fuel again O! Nigerian wake up. Make we talk to your GM for ASo Village. Make we make better arrange. Uncle Sege talk hin own, we vex. Social media dey shout since. Wosai. Nigerianiiii! Plenty work dey for you to do this 2014. I don talk my own. Happy New Year |
Computers / Re: Glo Settings For Modem by ramselly(m): 4:39pm On Jan 01, 2014 |
Seun: APN: gloflattanks |
Religion / If God Blesses U Wit Finance, Will You Still Remain Faithful? by ramselly(m): 1:13am On Jan 01, 2014 |
IF GOD BLESSES YOU WITH FINANCE AND ALL YOUR HEART DESIRE, WILL YOU STILL REMAIN FAITHFUL? |
Computers / Glo Settings For Modem by ramselly(m): 6:45pm On Dec 31, 2013 |
Pls can someone help me with glo modem settings. Thank: |
Nairaland / General / Describe Your 2013 In One Word. by ramselly(m): 6:22pm On Dec 31, 2013 |
Describe your 2013 in one word. |
Nairaland / General / What Are You Leaving Behind With 2013? by ramselly(m): 7:53am On Dec 31, 2013 |
Sup guys, what are tou leaving behind with 2013? |
Nairaland / General / Nine 9 Safety Security Tips You Should Share Witth Ur Love Once And Friends by ramselly(m): 4:46pm On Dec 30, 2013 |
1. Tip from Taekwondo (martial arts): the ELBOW is the strongest point of your body. If you are attacked and are close enough to use it, DO! 2. If a ROBBER demands your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away! He is more interested in your possessions than in you. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION! 3. If you are ever THROWN INTO A TRUNK OF A CAR, kick out the tail lights, stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy! The driver won't see you, but everybody else will. THIS TRICK HAS SAVED LIVES. 4. Sometimes after shopping, eating, working, etc., some people get into their cars and just sit there, doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc. DON'T DO THIS! The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side, put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU GET INTO YOUR CAR , LOCK THE DOORS AND LEAVE! If someone is in the car and is threatening you with a weapon, DO NOT DRIVE OFF! Instead, gun the engine and speed into anything, wrecking the car. Your airbag will save you. If the person is in the backseat, they will get the worst of it. As soon as the car crashes, bail out and run. 5. A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking garage: A) BE AWARE: look around you, look into your car, at the passenger sidefloor, and in the back seat. B.)If you are parked next to a BIG VAN, enter your car from the passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while they are getting into their cars. C) Look at the car parked on both the driver and the passenger’s sides of your vehicle. If a male sits alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. 6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot. This is especially true at NIGHT! 7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; and even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN, preferably in a zigzag pattern! 8. NOTE TO EVERYONE, BUT ESPECIALLY WOMEN: STOP being sympathetic! It might get you raped, or killed! Often, serial killers would be a good-looking, well-educated man who play on the sympathies of unsuspecting victims! They walk with a cane, or a limp, and often ask to help them get into his vehicle. 9. DO NOT OPEN YOUR DOOR TO STRANGERS! There was a case when a woman heard a crying baby on her porch, and she called the police because it was late and she thought it was weird. The police WARNED HER AGAINST OPENING THE DOOR, as a serial killer had a baby's cry recorded and used it to coax women out of their homes. Everyone should take 5 minutes to read this. It may save your life or a loved one's life. In daylight hours, refresh this INFO OF WHAT TO DO IN CASE OF EMERGENCY! This is for your SAFETY, and for you to pass it onto YOUR LOVED ONES, too. Take care! |
Phones / How To Use My Bb As Hotspot by ramselly(m): 1:30am On Dec 19, 2013 |
Please who can help me with how i can use my blackberry bold 4 as hotspot. |
Jokes Etc / A Letter To Nollywood Producers by ramselly(m): 7:50pm On Dec 08, 2013 |
Dear Nollywood producers this is to inform you guys that i am still waiting 4 the production of the movie titled GO N DIE. |
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