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post=107524107:In your dreams. Shame! You are still celebrating construction of a bridge in 2021. That shows how far behind and poor Nigeria is |
benuejosh:Hahahhaha Buhari as a president does he have any credibility? Just look at your comment. She is a terrorist. Very Funny. Its obvious Nigeria will never get better as even the so called citizens no longer reason well |
I come late sha! Bit these na interesting one. First i will say, Nanny is a domestic worker (employee of yours). And not a Slave as most normally see maids as. In the developed country Nannies, domestic worker, care giver are a well recognised job which if an employer mistreat or voilets their right could land the employer into a serious trouble. Now having cleared that out, Your nanny is a matured lady who has right to be into a romantic relationship just like yourself or any other person. I undwrderstand, you feel your father in law could have married any other peron. But thats a very wrong thing to say. It simply means that you consider your Employer as your slave, who doesnt deserve to be loved or in a relationship. And thats a very bad way to see a fellow person. And that speaks very high about your treatment and working relationship with your employee. Look there is no challenge. All you need to do now is to try your very best to stop seeing your ex employee as a competitor. See her as an ex employee and not as a Slave. Am sure she would be willing to embrace peace. And leave with you as a family. Infact she has been an employee as well as a family but you saw just a Slave in her. So i tell you a gain. There is no challenge. Allow peace to rain. And bless God for her who has also blessed and promoted your employee to a madam. Let love lead. |
Let me use my self as a case study. After i married my wife. I joined her in her own church. The reason is these; I was not having a church i would say its a permanent one where i am rooted. Though i was going to one at that time. But i would not say i am rooted there simply because am not a church church type in as much as am a christian and love God. Now, after i joined my wife to her own church i never had any regret. Infact its a good place to worship though i am still me. (After church first to leave type). So Bro. I do understand what others are trying to say about her being control freak and all that. But at the end it all comes down to you. You know these lady in question. First ask your self. Why does she want you to leave catholic and maybe join hers? Have you ever visited her church atleast 1 or 2 times to have a feel and conviction for yourself? You might find out its a good place to worship after all. Would you afford losing a good lady over name of church? Bro there is no name of church in Heaven i believe. So, if i was in your shoe, I would compare things like her personality, I mean you have known her longer i believe. Its her life and character worthy of emulating? At some point do you ever feel like she is the best thing in the world? (I dont mean by physical beauty) Bro if the answer is yes. Then i think you should have answer to your worry. Yes you are the man but when marriage and love is involved there are times of compromise and some sometimes some compromise is worth it and beneficial. |
adamsmith914:Oky got you. It seems you know some infors that i am yet to know... So tell me Where did Ojukwu stole the good name Biafra from? As in who are the original owners of the name? If it was stolen why hasnt they claimed the name yet? And stop the IPOB from using it? Oky.... then... even if you are right, The IGBOs wants there own IGBO nation. Happy now |
chrismastre5:Thanks bro for correcting him. Lot of these guys claim to be educated but they are attually educated illitrates. IPOB. Are the Biafras, Biafras are the Igbos. And since when has self determination by indigenous people ( Referendum) when has it become illegal? |
I watched a video interview of one of the police commander in Anambra. Regarding the latest shooting in the market. He was like, the attackers must be jokers to think they can defeat the combination of Police, Army, Dss, and many other security personnels which i dont even know. They had Amord tanks and other different types of vehicles and just like he said there were alot of them. It was as though its already state of emergency or there was a war. Good!! Then what quickly caught my attention was when he mentioned about The Anambra state upcoming Election on the 6th of November. Stating that they are on ground to ensure the people have confident to come out to cast their vote. Woooo!!! Do you feel what i feel? Its all about the Election, not the security of the citizens because their presence are never seen after Elections. BUT Thats by the way! Now, with the amount of killings always going on in the Northern part of Nigeria. My Question is Why isnt all the Army, Dss, Police and the others go in full force and fight insurgency in the North. Boko haram and the rest has for years killed and chased villagers out from there homes and we dont see them join forcess to just like they did in Anambra, We dont see them join forces just like they did when they invaded Nnamdi Kanus home and even killed his dog. We dont see them join forces just like we saw alll the security forcess guarding lekki toll gate against the peacfull protesters. We dont see them join forces just like we saw them did few weeks back on Nnamdi Kanu's court day. Why we never see video evidence of police and Army presense in the Northern part of Nigeria? Even with killings like these on a daily basis? Too many questions right? Peace |
J2381:You talk Rubish! If you know History about Biafra you would never say Nnamdi kalu should be in Jail |
If you cant fight why going to war? My bro, what where you looking for digging up your wifes past. What where you expecting to find? Thats by the way! All i think by your write up is. You are just not ready for Marriage period! You dont know what marriage is, you dont know why you got married. Secondly, Am not sure your culture? But did you not asked questions before marrying your wife? Didnt your family asked question about the girl and the family you were getting married from? If you did asked questions and now based on your findings you discovered that your wife lied to you. Then we can talk other topics. But if you nor your family did not ask then bro, please dont cause any kind of harm to your wife. Now, Is she still behaving in such manner that is displeasing to you? Is she not fulfilling her duty as a wife to you? Is she flirting with other men? Bro, your case is very simple, you are just complicating issues, you should love your wife and threat her well. Above all respect her. And should in case you which otherwise, you want to continue with your threat; please kindly file a divorce? Free that innocent woman as she does not deserve it. What happens should you contract STD's you bring it home to her? Common now bro, She now owns you as her husband, and as long as you remains her husband you have Zero right to carry out your threat. That would be very wicked of you. And case what! She lived the way she did unintentionally but you want to leave that way with the aim of paying her back and having Vengance? Bro you might not survive it. Because you are not God. Vengance belongs to God alone. So my advice to you is Calm down. Begin to see you wife as a beautiful lady that she is and as your wife. See her as the lady you once chased and would do anything for. Let the love rekindle. In addition! Lots of guys leave just as you describe your wife. Including myself. But at the end we end up marrying an innocent girl, virgines and the best girls So should all these girls start digging up the guys past life and take Revenge? I leave you to anser that. ( Marriage; For Better and for worse, till death do us part. Marriage; committment ; If you cant accept these Marriage, then you have no busniess getting married in the first place ) God Bless you |
Funny thing is these Atiku and Tinubu Agents here are just slaves. There are other young parties with young educated Nigerians, vibrant and has future plan for Nigeria and its citizen but these set of people will nevwr encourage or acknowledge them. They will belittle and call them names. Only to come recycling old grand parents. Isnt Nigerians tired of Suffering? IPoB said they are tired and wants out and you say No yet you want to dictate who will lead. What! Its oky.. lets see if Nigeria will survive till after 2023. Under these bad leaderships |
danilmo:You must be an slowpoke; a baffon to say IPOB (Igbos) will die a natural death. A Cow! |
yahmohy27:Am %100 sure you dont even have any valid reaspn why you want Tinubu to be you president. Either bescause he is your tribe men. Or your hate on Ipob. But i wish you well With your Nigeria. Ipob is already gone. All Hail Biafra! |
In Addition i can sense Atiku agents all over NL comments here. So Obviouse! |
You Nigerians are not ready for a real Change and development. F..ck! Where are the brain of the Nigerians? Just take a good look at most comments here.. Tinubu Atiku President! Are these the best Nigeria can provide? What a shame, How are those people different from Buhari? Take out Buhari and put another Buhari. Who cursed Nigeria? I see some comments here labelling Indeginous people of Biafra (Igbos) as terrorist yet you cant suport for them to have their own Nation, then what do you want? You hate them and at same time you want them in your Nigeria. Are you not confused as the Nigerian Government? You Guys still wanting Atiku and Tinubu as the president of Nigeria are the Real Enemy of Nigeria |
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