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KelvinGraphics: Thank U mammy

cococandy: His first sentence.

So I'm like what's wrong with that?
Then he says

Making it clear that servicing men's ego is more important than a woman's rights or needs

Then the contradictions begin.

Really? But he said

So how is her voice not 'shut down' (in his words) if whatever she thinks at the end of the day doesn't matter?
what's his definition of high standard? Yet to get it.

How can a woman make her stand on an issue and at the same time discard her stand/opinion and adopt the man's own as superior?

Yet he has a problem with those who are moving for such changes/ adjustments to be made


I could go on and on pointing out the mix-ups But I don't know what he's talking about.

@OP
You lost me bro.what are you talking about?

Tallesty1: I wanted to help you but I changed when Iread the part where you blame your introverted personality for your inability to woo a woman. Introverts do not find it hard to woo women but shy guys do.

But wait!

How about doing things that will make her woo you instead?

LaurelP: U might wanna take a lil alcohol, at least to make a gud 1st impression
Cos d way I'm seeing u, ur likely to mess up

Mogidi: Whether Sekau or Shekau, consider him dead.

Jarchi: Seems dem ladies ain't alone in dis game dis dude wants attention,pls ain't got time and don't derail dis lovely trend. Lol

greatgod2012: Hello lovely Nairalanders.
I'm gradually resuming back to NL after my unofficial vacation.
I want us to learn from one another as regards what affects every family, which is...............training of our children, whether biological, adopted or live-ins(i mean relative kids who are living with us temporarily, for one reason or the other), therefore, i will be coming up mostly on threads that have to do with child/ren upbringing and today, we want to start with "teaching our children to always be appreciative, no matter how small or little the favour shown by whoever, be it parents, relatives, friends, visitors, employees/employers, or even strangers.


First, what is gratitude?
Gratitude is the appreciation for a favour given or shown to someone. It is the act of thankfulness. It is being grateful for favour or kindness.



How can we show gratitude?

Personally, the best way to show appreciation is by saying it out............by saying thank you each and everytime a kind of favour is given or shown to someone, without saying it out, the person doing the favour may think his/her favour/kindness is not appreciated, so, the best way to let the person know that you appreciate is by telling the person that you appreciate his good gesture towards you.
Another way is by leading as example, what you don't have, you can't give, if you're the type that's always grateful, they will always copy you. For example, when any of my kids do something nice, i thank them. It means you're indirectly training them to be likewise.
Why showing appreciation?
A yoruba adage says "eni to ba dupe ore ana, a ri emii gba" i.e if you say thank you for a kindness, it is an avenue for you to get another one". However, personally, the reason for being appreciative is not basically to get another one but to show that YOU ARE WELL AND PROPERLY BROUGTH UP. I use to say this, there is no bad elder, it is a bad child that grows to become bad adult, if one does not know how to say thank you for a good deed, then such should not complain when wickedness is shown to him. If somene can go out of his way to assist in one way or the other and the mouth seems to be too heavy to utter just "thank you, such a person should not use the same heavy mouth to complain when a prospective helper refuses to help. This is in support of yoruba adage that says......."eni ti a ba se oore fun, ti ko ba dupe, ti a ba se ika fun, ko ma binu".




When do you start teaching your kids the sense of gratitude?

As early as possible, teaching our kids to be appreciative should start from when they are toddlers, so that they will get used to it. Infact, all my children's first words are...."tan tu" (thank you). They are so used to it now that it makes people , almost everyone that come across them to fall in love with them instantly. They are taught to say "thank you Lord" first thing in the morning, and that also is already part of them that no one can take away from them. Saying thank you by kids make people to conclude that, such kid is well-mannered, even though as kids, they have their flaws, but the sense of gratitude they possess has so much covered their other areas of weakness to the people outside.



How do you instill sense of gratitude into your kids?
Very simple; instist that they say thank you for whatever you do for them at home, even though, it is our duty to take care of our kids, but it's also their right to appreciate it.

Let us learn from one another, if there is any other point to add or modify, please, let's do and learn from one another.
May God help us all parents.

Jarchi: buahahahahahhahahahaha
Every sensible man understands what u meant,see how u proved your brain meter. Ain't gonna make me go into a e-argument cuz I knw u just wanna prove how ..........

YoungDaNaval: 9ja Girls? They Loves Attention!

emmyrichie: I think feminists are heartbroken cowards who are very much afraid of going through the previous bad experience they once had.

Jarchi: Even my foolishness is beta dan your wisdom. U get it or u just wan hate am out of jealousy

dechandel: This shouldnt be about flirting only

The e-wrestlers we have on nl are very shy offline

Some are even#introvertsturnedextrovertsonline

CashNaira96: yea, some guys are just so annoying... Especially the stalkers

Jarchi: Attention bar tells how sexy and beautiful u are,and who no like am,na den the sakara they enta proud stage

naturally: Why not? as long as I know my friend won't hurt her

Rapmoney: If I never join for the war against 'kpekus wrappers' na im be say the war never start na!

Rapmoney: Bro, abeg no vex. Na one yeye virus dey worry my PC, but I dor deal with am well well. 2 bottles for you. I dey suspect say na woman wrapper guys for NL na im send the virus!

Vikky014:

Vikky014: u mean wt dt bathroom slippers in ur dp

TrollMan: Sup Bro. Morning.

TrollMan: Such Audacity.

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Adikam: notin pains like wen u open a thread expecting a straight response asap to earn fp or likes from women or to draw women attention towards you but you keep geting a differ responses.eg you open a thread -10 GOOD WAYS TO CARE FOR LADIES bla bla bla:-1st reply from by 'Laurelp'am wondering hw man u wil win todays match.2cd reply by 'adikam' they can win falcao is hot oo.
3rd reply by 'mrbean'i remember how they defeat chelsea last season etc..til wil jumb to national issues & take over page 1.all of us can do it including wen girls open bad sex thread.hw do see it?