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ImaIma1:
Very deep traditional thinking. You must be a village man...nnayi

Kingdollar28:
lol if tree could get cancer then d smoker could contact??

ImaIma1:
What is too much? Define too much. And who is a wife?

mgdimagaladima:
Na Dbanj be that !??! Dbanj money don finish neee see how he look like Aboki

Umartins1:
Someone should risk this

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bettercreature:
This lady should be shoot dead to join her sister if this story is true
What a very stepid girl

KOPT33:
I am the first son of my father who is now late.

When my father died some 11 years ago, I relocated to Lagos to finish my schooling. I lived with my aunt then but I had to leave their home because I was being abused. Upon leaving my aunt's house, things became so difficult for me but I persevered with my education till I finished my bachelors.

During my lean years, I fell out with most of my family members. My mom refused to speak to me for three years, I was essentially the outcast of the family. During this period, my mom and some elders in our family gave out my sisters hand in marriage.

The couple had a trad/white wedding. Bride price was paid, all the customs of our people were followed save for one: the consent or knowledge of the first son. I wouldn't get to hear about this marriage until six months later. That night, I cried because their action proved that I was nobody, a nothing to my mom and siblings.

Anyways, I kept on working hard and soon became comfortable. I mended fences with everyone in my family, but even at that, no one offered an explanation why things unfolded the way it did or an apology. I didn't make any noise, I just picked up myself and moved on after committing the lessons learned to mind.

Six years and two children later, my sisters marriage has hit the rocks.

Now they're asking me as the first born to mediate and talk to the man.

I REFUSED.

The man (sister's husband) won't speak to my mom or the other elders he had been dealing with regarding a possible reconciliation. My family know me to be a good mediator and peace maker and they are not wrong.

I refused because there is no point mediating in a marriage that was done over my head.

As it stands now, I have no interest in playing head of house or anything of such nature. I send money, I help make connections, I foot bills for everyone in the family but I leave their decision making to them since they discounted me right from the very beginning. I have no interest whatsoever in becoming a leader in that family.

What would you do if you were in my shoes?

shallysgirl:
Who is John boyega?
Don't know him, but I definitely know Toke Makinwa and I am proud of her.

pesinfada:
hahahaha


By now u 4don dey gnish teeth in hell? Hahahaha

Liliyann:
Nonsense!!
Horse that she can always ride on
Your wedding is a special day,everything you do that day must be special!!
On my day, I will use private jet!
I can't start my marriage with suffering!!!

Bernice4ozodo:
I taught ur story will b more sensible,but t looks like ur brain was jux picked from d trashed bin....na dat Pussy u go die put,,senseless dog

austino677:
i dey village baba via schalke 04

MizMyColi:
She looks sexy, no, HOT!

Tchinaidi:
please follow me and thank papa God for rewriting my story.B944ewczrrpsqc-1276331................1st 20 persons get a sum of 20,000 each.a diligent nairalander should compile the names of the 1st 20 persons.#
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Rakiticbarca:

Holamscoh:
Cash out or nah

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