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Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Dotman2210(m): 5:29am On Apr 01, 2018 |
UyaiIncomparabl:Chai see finishing... You took this guy to the cleaners |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by seedorfg(m): 5:51am On Apr 01, 2018 |
Age is just a number and doesn't affect cheating or commitment in a relationship, cheating is a choice either old or young. And you don't go into a relationship if you have cheating agenda cause it won't work for the couples . 1 Like |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by eyinjuege: 5:52am On Apr 01, 2018 |
dumo1: That's wicked o. Anyway, my point is if you get along so well with someone, your heart will always be with them (i believe there are some people who are like your soul mates. Charles had known Camilla for a long time and wanted to marry her, but she wasn't royalty. He felt forced to marry Diana, but no love in the marriage and he still went after camilla despite them both being married) |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Nobody: 6:06am On Apr 01, 2018 |
A woman should marry older and a man should marry younger....it makes biological sence |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Infomaz(m): 6:07am On Apr 01, 2018 |
Of course it does! 1. Ideally and generally, the man should be between 3-15 years older than the woman. Women are generally more mature than men of the same age, especially at adolescence and youth age Thus women tend to naturally prefer those 3 years and above their age. 2. For better communication and shared values : it'll be difficult for a woman or man to get mental companionship from one that is far older or younger than him/her. Imagine a 20 years old girl with a 40 or 50 years old man and vice versa. 3. Physical and Sexual Compatibility : Men generally and culturally prefer to marry younger women. This will help avoid the situation where the woman looks like the elder sister or mother of the man, after 2 or more children. On the other hand, sexual performance for men declines with men overtime... especially from 50 years upwards. This could create sexual frustration and other problems for a very young wife. I'll stop here because of time constraints. 1 Like |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Oluwaesko(m): 6:17am On Apr 01, 2018 |
Shugarlord213: May you grow sense this New month. (Amen) 1 Like |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Rapsino(m): 6:17am On Apr 01, 2018 |
Bernice4ozodo:I know say u go vex.. I can relate |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Bernice4ozodo(f): 6:23am On Apr 01, 2018 |
Ire2:z t dat hard for u to comprehend wot was written there,i bliv u still one of those who measures English as bin intelligent,,,correction pls,t was written in pigin language too,i bliv ur proper sentences carries u to heaven |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Nobody: 6:30am On Apr 01, 2018 |
Men should marry much younger women. If a man marries a woman her age or even 5 years younger, the woman will be looking like his mum after one or two kids. |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by humilitypays(m): 6:39am On Apr 01, 2018 |
pander1234:my brother age does not matter at all, dont let some irresponsible people discourage u with their bla bla bla nonsense. see in marriage, physical look, sex and attraction ends after at most 15yrs of the marriage, guess what sustains the marriage understanding, kids, age long bond, finance and of course fear of God. After 10yrs u married your wife, u will start to loose attraction for her no matter how sexy or gorgeous she is or used to be, the attraction will become useless and unimportant to you, her character, manner, respect for u, and the way she takes care of your kids and home will be the most important things to u and not her looks anymore so why kill yourself now over her cinderela looks Go and check history, wives of most grear men dont look hot....they look nice and have this charming character and personality. forget musicians, forget actors, and celebrities, they marry for showbiz and for camera, so dont let their bling bling marriage discourage u, what u should consider is if she really cares for u, does she respect u truly and is she financially prudent and productive, these should be your major concern not her age or looks. for your info, my dad gave my mother like 4yrs which is not much but they look like siblings now and they are above 70yrs. They are like friends even as I type...they respect each other even though they do have disagreement which is normal. i am single but once I am ready to settle, i wont go for a much younger lady, will even like to marry my mate or any nice lady, her age or looks wont matter much to me but her character, financial management skill and productivity. you should be worried more about finance and investments than the age of your wife to be, dont listen to these superficial handles posting rubbish on nairaland 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by humilitypays(m): 6:47am On Apr 01, 2018 |
Shugarlord213:This post doesn't make sense. reading in between your comments, I can bet you don't have an okada talkmore of a car. You are writing this from your imagination of how guys that own cars treat ladies. In fact, I can even go on bet with u to prove u wrong; bros u dont own any car.....u are still struggling. No sane guy that owns a car will post this rubbish. Once u start succeeding financially as a guy, u stop being bitter, joy and happiness envelops you unless u did money ritual which I know u cant cos if u did, u wont have the joy to even come here to post. again if u own a nice car and earn good income, u will be silent and even if u chose to be a playboy, u will be silent and tactical about it and not come online to slam it on peoples face,.its never done u are telling lies fabricated from your hallucination, u better wake up. I own 2 clean rides and no lady in my street sees me, even in my church....Nigerian ladies have grown pass that stage...unless u are a known celebrity, Nigerian ladies no see u again o...Nigeria has advanced passed this level u are halucinating here, wake up bros 7 Likes |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Ejiod(m): 6:53am On Apr 01, 2018 |
Memories12411:What kind of reasoning is this?. 1 Like |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by derrydinny: 6:57am On Apr 01, 2018 |
no one advice works for two marriages but on most occasions, she will start looking older than you and you won't even like it, no matter the packaging, I have an uncle that married a lady that was almost 9 years younger, as rich as they are, the wife still looks like she is her husband's age. after giving birth to two or three children, she will likely lose shape( don't let her small stature decieve you) and your friends will start mocking you with your wife, you may even start looking for a 23 year old lady when you are 45 years. Be wise, check women in her family and see their stature so you can imagine hers 20 years to this time, she may even be desperate because most women won't marry s younger man if given options, open your eyes especially if her body is what you love most |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by HoodBillionaire: 7:03am On Apr 01, 2018 |
better marry someone u r at least 10-15years older forget all dat women age more i no fit marry make my woman no workout burn fat burn sugar wtf when u sick or old .who go take care of u wen una be same age beta dont let dia pekus deceive u. my gal i senior am by 15yrs and still cant find a bich i trust. marry at owners risk naso your papa and mama marry age mates abi 1 Like |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Harrynight(m): 7:14am On Apr 01, 2018 |
Many will tell u it doesn't matter! If u marry a much older woman than u are as man... U will not leave to tell the stories... My advice: Never conclude it works for Mr A will works for me |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by boiz2men(m): 7:14am On Apr 01, 2018 |
UyaiIncomparabl:You didn't answer the question my dear. Let's assume you don't care about their piece of trash. Who has more chances of getting your attention I'm not supporting that guy in any way but he didn't say anything short of the truth. He may have said it in a bitter way so as to hurt. But unfortunately, it's the naked truth. The fact that you deliberately failed to answer the question gives credence to that guys statement. |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Fourwinds: 7:16am On Apr 01, 2018 |
Bernice4ozodo:he is telling you female folks the truth you refuse to admit..... I can't count how many girls I have personally adviced about what that guy stated....do you know what? I'm the bad person....and for your information, the guy won't die on the pvssy. he will keep exploring it because that is what your female folks brought upon yourselves as a result of materialism, greed and many more |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Brightglory77: 7:35am On Apr 01, 2018 |
Shugarlord213: |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by boiz2men(m): 7:36am On Apr 01, 2018 |
UyaiIncomparabl: You know in your inner deep it does. You are just being careful about your response so you don't shoot yourself in the foot. That guys point is this... "it's easier to woo a lady when you are in a car" |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by valentineuwakwe(m): 7:38am On Apr 01, 2018 |
Newboss: definitely you are not from this planet....I can see your thoughts, ideologies about life and thinking in General has been brain wash by aliens.......I wish to meet you in person....well you are just so funny...enjoy the life you choose for ur self..BOSS MAN |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by kennypedia(m): 7:41am On Apr 01, 2018 |
Shugarlord213:Bro you are a perfect example of a D! CK |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Malocity(m): 7:54am On Apr 01, 2018 |
pander1234: Am in the same shoe with you Bro. Thanks for bringing it up. My own opinion on why I really want to take mine relationship to the next level (marriage) irrespective of her age is that: 1. She fears and reverence God. Getting married to a woman that because of life situations, advice from friends and have negative personal perception about God I think its you getting close to your grave. Because you as a husband can't even serve God and imagine what will become of the children without at least the fear of God in them. But I checked her, and she has that zeal for God and she can spend her money for the Kingdom. 2. Respectful 3. Hardworking 4. Brilliant 5. Domesticated 6. And she is Beautiful. In conclusion: In a marriage, both husband and wife will grow old. Especially if the marriage gets to 30 - 50years of existence. At that time who cares? The only thing about the woman getting more older is that they (female) get too fat and later boring. But wash her weight. Marriage is different from hooking around. Thank you. Happy Easter to you all. Cheers!!! 1 Like |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Aboguede(m): 7:55am On Apr 01, 2018 |
It very clear the OP has already made up his mind not to marry the lady but just needed justification to clear his conscience. Age has never been the determinant contributor to failed marriages but personality and individual characters pander1234: 3 Likes |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by CsRockefeller(m): 7:55am On Apr 01, 2018 |
mtngloetiartel: Lol.....is it your mumu line? |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Geesaintagape: 7:55am On Apr 01, 2018 |
I would have said sth important but i won't bearing 2yrs of ur dating in mind. When did she tell u her age? |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Bernice4ozodo(f): 8:00am On Apr 01, 2018 |
Fourwinds:I bliv there re sum decent gals out there, n I 1 of dem,t all depends on we(gals) choose to do with our lives |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by CsRockefeller(m): 8:00am On Apr 01, 2018 |
humilitypays: Boss, abeg if u dey jos, drive come Anguldi on Bukuru express way, i want to host you for your words, you too make sense, na man u be. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by CsRockefeller(m): 8:07am On Apr 01, 2018 |
UyaiIncomparabl: I could make you blush but still not get a chance to dine with you, but blush anyways, its free. 1 Like |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by kmaster007: 8:12am On Apr 01, 2018 |
ko matter |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by loswhite(m): 8:15am On Apr 01, 2018 |
Shugarlord213:lol.... Clown so fucking 19 girls sounds like an achievement to u..... shithole country |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by livinbygrace: 8:16am On Apr 01, 2018 |
babajeje123: Forget this your sermon,age matters in marriage.Come back in few years time to spew this trash |
Re: Does Age Really Matter When It Comes To Marriage? by Aboguede(m): 8:18am On Apr 01, 2018 |
200% correct. The truth is that the so-called Mr. Camry is a sadist and he is suffering from low self-esteem so I can boldly say that he lacks confidence as a man infact he is just a low life. Any female with a lady thing is sure a woman but you can the kind of ladies this sadist does this to they are mostly the lowest class of ladies in Nigeria the onse that even okada operators don't call twice UyaiIncomparabl: |
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