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ronald4lif:
Why don't he have a girlfriend? Fear of rejection I guess? The worse thing about fear is fear itself. I always had fear of rejection in the past until I decided to overcome it. He should try walking up to a girl and strike a conversation with her. Remember they don't bite, worse scenario is she says no to his request.

All he has to do is start up a conversation and the rest will fall into place. I don't mean corny pickup lines. I mean an honest conversation. He could try these suggestions; once he notice the "green light signals" (eye contact, touching hair, and so on), walk directly up to the girl and introduce yourself. He can start by asking if you can take her for a drink or an eatery. If she says yes, ask her name. If she's interested, she'll ask the same. If she doesn't ask, it's not the end of the world; just keep the lines of communication open.

Keep the conversation interesting, focus on her and really listen to what she says. Then you follow up with another question that links with what she just finished saying. Whatever she says you pick up something interesting from it, spontaneously. Perhaps you can ask do you have a job, studying, course, hobbies etc etc.

At the end of the convo you should endeavour to collect her digits. There are many ways you can do that gentlemanly and a higher degree she would obliged. You can say I had a great time talking with you and I ll like to see you again. Why don't you give me your number so that we can do this again?

But if he has a female friend he's interested in having a relationship with, he can ask her out for a dinner or to go watch movies. Gradually make her feel at ease whenever he's with her, get to build her trust and once he realises she's relaxed and cozy around him then he can ask her out. Make he no pressure her on replying immediately, give her time so it doesn't sound creepy. It will be ideal to ask her out in person but he can ask her out over the phone or social platforms like facebook, for a shy person. Confidence is the key word here and he shouldn't lose eyes contact when talking to any girl. He should stay thematic at all times.

Let him just man up and said to himself yes I can get this girl, for when the spirit is weak the mind becomes helpless. Let me end it here for now. All the best to him.

Godfullsam:
It's not bn izi working as a contract staff. It's as if you are working for another man to eat . Monkey dey work and baboon they chop tinz . Its even more painful when you realise that you are far better than most of the direct staff in the organisation.

The only hope that keeps me going is the fact that NO CONDITION IS PERMANENT.
Over the years, I av taken time to build myself, from SSCE to BSC and MSC (in view).
please, i work in one of the spdc facilities, I work 2 week in , 2weeks out.
now i am thinking of running weekend program in one of the universities.
how do i go about it

I know that one day, my story will change for good.

Godwin10:
Happy New Year Everyone.
My name is Godwin Great, I and other staylites are here to guide you through the rigorous journey ahead, from jamb stress to post ume strain to getting you admitted in Great Uniben. We did this last year, we are here again to continue the great work. Everyone is free to ask any question and make contributions......
Am not hoping to see you admitted, you are already admitted.wen will they start selling weekend form

#Sign in… leggo
Thank You.

Godwin10:
Happy New Year Everyone.
My name is Godwin Great, I and other staylites are here to guide you through the rigorous journey ahead, from jamb stress to post ume strain to getting you admitted in Great Uniben. We did this last year, we are here again to continue the great work. Everyone is free to ask any question and make contributions......
Am not hoping to see you admitted, you are already admitted.wen will they start selling weekend form

#Sign in… leggo
Thank You.

masqot:
Why are you keeping her number on ur phone? You saved it. You even love conversing with her. You could have blocked her. That she's disturbing you is a flimsy excuse. You love chatting with her and as long as you don't "cut" these, you're not ready.
Wait, something tells me this is all prank. How? You save your friend's number with "O...madam" and you're chatting with him: making us believe it's ur landlady.
Tell me this is all fluke.

MrGoc:
Mtchweee!!! . . How does this thread affect our current national development . . . People are busy exploring their senses for the betterment of our beloved country and one jobless brat is busy figuring out ways of earning cheap public attentions . . . . . . Nwannem . . Cho ife i galu biko

Quote1:
Why do I think you made the chat up. Women don't often use the word f*uck as your madam uses it.

joseph1832:
I have this to say, "Do unto others what you want others to do unto you".

tompat86:
and also d cause of the network of ur second sim nt functioning....IF I HEAR.

Grendel:
The dude is very sick. Looking for attention. If you look at the messages very well, check the time on it you will notice the guy is lying .

missclassy:
Op I read you conversation with the woman and I have this to say

First of all, are you married? Because I don't know the image you portray to those living around you.
I looked at your half-hidden profile picture and it kind of says a lot about who you portray yourself to be.

Secondly, how literate/smart is this woman in the first place. Her conversation skills begs the question of her level of intelligence and general mental well being
Why would someone be pestering you like this. For me its either she is possessed or just a sex addict.

And finally @Op this is my advice. Since she doesn't want to stop her advances towards you, just report her to her husband. Also make sure you show him this same whatsapp conversations you showed us, in other not to implicate yourself.

I just pity for both the woman's husband and her children(if she has any)
She is a disgrace to womanhood. A blemish on the face of femininity.
Shame on her and shame on every other woman like her

johnjon:
Story for the god of lust. Get it over and feck her.

Samiceman:
Op ur own whatsapp no get 'block contact'?

Empero1:
Cheap attention seeker ! Now that you have gotten the attention you longed for , perhaps you can consider to vamoose and start to use your time and brain for something worthwhile .

Enegod:
op, there is no network in your second sim..why?

mmsen:
Have you actually seen the poverty and quality of life stats for Nigeria?

There has never been a time where there have been more people living in poverty in the south than in the north. Just because there are a few northerners with 'noble' roots living well, that does not make it the norm.

mmsen:
Poverty as caused by the ponziesque economic system are the cause.

Religion is just a masking agent which the sheep, on all sides, gravitate to.

kallmemrB:
Rather than calling them prob,why not Preach to them abt Jesus Christ

MalcoImX:
Check OBJ's antecedents, there's no way he wouldn't talk when he believes something is wrong. It is not personal. Like Gani, he has criticized every government one could think of. He has every right to do so, as those criticizing him have those rights too, as Nigerians. He hasn't done any wrong by this. In fact, we're grateful to OBJ, cos we don't know how it could have been without those cautionary pro-people inputs from his type.

missghost:
Your girlfriend is a transgender. She doesn't have a pusssy.

missghost:
Your girlfriend is a transgender. She doesn't have a pusssy.