tobenuel:
What are 22 celebrating here?

Darevofpeace:

I am so sick to my stomach!

*A 73-year old woman's statistics:*

She was a UNTH nurse and retired since 2007.

1. Widowed in 1999.
2. Gave birth to 6 children with 5 surviving *_(4 boys and a girl)_*
3. Her husband was a retired Principal
4. Her only daughter lives in Lagos *_( in a bad marriage since her husband doesn't allow her to bring her mum over)_*
5. Her three sons live abroad. The only son in Nigeria lives in Enugu and his wife pays her a visit on Sundays but stopped for reasons not revealed.
6. Her only sister, who is older than her but still strong in health, visited and found her in a bad state and decided to take her with her to her Umuahia home.

She had signs of dementia. She also suffers from diabetes and weak bladder. So, the urine smell complained by people is well understood.

Her only elder sister took care of her since her arrival till her sister's son had accident in Abuja and was left for neighbours to attend to her.
The sister's neighbour left her and travelled.

*_Mama was found dead close to an open fridge. Her corpse has been deposited in a morgue this morning._*

Her first son is a medical doctor in America, married to a Brazilian and only called once in a while after her mum was moved to Umuahia by her sister and kids.
___________
ANALYSIS::

Mama is not childless.

She raised all her kids and they're all professionals.

Money was not an issue. Her husband, though a principal, built a bungalow where Mama and her kids lived till her death.

Mama's sister said her only daughter has only called twice since she came to Enugu and picked her younger sister with her.

Mama's senior sister wants to bury her Junior sister on her own and mourn her quietly !!

*_Her kids are now back crying and saying they will give their mother a befitting burial._*

I wanted to call them out & curse them.

I am in pains.
___________

My heart is heavy.

*_A woman that raised five children should not have suffered like this._*

While you're popping kids, remember that one day......

- The bones and muscles will be WEAK..
- The eyes might lose their functions
- The bladder might be weak and you cannot control your urine.
- Cash flow will cease.
- Your legs won't be able to carry your weight.
- Your hands might not hold things due to parkinson or rheumatism or any of the other numerous infirmities
- Your mouth may be smelling because you cannot brush it well.
- Your brain might stop functioning.
- Dementia and loss of memory can set in.
- *_You may not even be able to take care of your personal hygiene..._*

It is called OLD AGE characteristics.

*_Life can be harsh and your children may be too busy with their lives that your care will be relegated to STRANGERS._*

*Children are NOT retirement benefits.*

*_Old age is a reality !_*
*Prepare for that time.*
*Take care of your health.*

*Be armed !*

*_Learn this big lesson Today !_*

Thank you.

*Copied*

NdubisiCharles:
Good day pals, I have a sister whose husband abandoned for the past 8 yrs now,
with kids, male and female, the boy is now 9yrs, while the girl is now 8 yrs, my sis was abandoned after giving birth to the little girl.
She single handedly took the children far away and keep raising them up till date, now this is happening.

Yesterday, I received a call from my young sis, saying that her forgotten husband just called and was pleading for her return, that what will she do, that she needs my advice as senior, for me not to fall into conclusion I gave her 48 hours to reply to her, .....

Today I called the man (husband) he sounds so calm, "he said he need them back, he told me that he never chase my sis away, that it was my sis that carry her bag and left his house. Ran away with the 2kids, that he paid my sis bride price, he has visited my family for reconciliation but sis said she ain't going back that hunger is in the house, he admitted that then he was broke, "that he is not a drunker, womanizer, fetish, or never lay hand on my sis, and that he is God fearing man" only that he has no money when asked my sis she confirmed it.

Please friends advice me on what to do

Stargurl20:


Even me, coz I don tire

adescopy:
Pls where can I go to get screened. I live in Ogun state, Abeokuta South. Thanks

bumy27:
Maybe ifako LG don do screening for me since on the 1st of Feb portal remain pending till this morning not until I visit their office then I get APPROVED immediately

orlahtohbadt:
So after seeing suggestions to visit the local government one chose during registration, I visited Ifako-Ijaiye local government today and I was screened. We were not even more than 2 as at the time I got there. I was asked for my Bsc Certificate only and asked if I was proficient with the use of Computers which I answered. Afterwards, I was asked to write my details which included my name, phone number, nin number and the npc application number. I applied for the role of supervisor and I was just number 4 on the list. This invariably means that not enough people are aware of the current stage of the application process. People are actually waiting to be approved on the portal not knowing you have to visit for screening before approval. I was approved at about 5 minutes later when I checked again. It was a swift and smooth one. I encourage people interested to visit the local government they applied to. If not they will replace or fill up the spots with their own people.

Dgener:

U will at least work before u get paid

bumy27:
Mine also is still in pending

Chyezy:
Thank you so much,I did mine today in Enugu south LGA..This their method of screening is so confusing because they wrote down only my name and my ward,they didn't ask of my npc ID or my phone number

bumy27:

Yes
Please are they attending to those that applied as supervisor too at same venue?

bumy27:

Yes
Please are they attending to those that applied as supervisor too at same venue?

bumy27:
Visit the npc ifako ijaiye LG
Ifako general hospital location for screening
Come along with ur nin and credentials
Done and dusted with the screening
Got APPROVED there today as enumerator
Training soon.