Health › Re: Lumbar Disorder And Sciatic Pain by Realguyman1(op): 11:48am On Feb 17 |
Jumbojnr: Yes, he works with the orthopaedic hospital in Enugu and he's based there. Send a mail across so I can give you more details.The man is good , plz tell your friend to get that Volmix Ok, thanks |
Health › Re: Lumbar Disorder And Sciatic Pain by Realguyman1(op): 9:19pm On Feb 16 |
Jumbojnr: Sorry about this, tell him to look for Volmix cream( works like magic ) .....then there's an orthopaedic doctor that works with national orthopaedic hospital and also practices in the traditional way that that can help him. Thanks so much for ur input, I really do appreciate🙏. Please do u have any means I can reach out to the doctor at the national orthopaedic hospital either offline or online? |
Health › Lumbar Disorder And Sciatic Pain by Realguyman1(op): 6:48pm On Feb 16*. Modified: 9:13pm On Feb 16 |
My dear nairalanders and health practitioners in the house, a close one of mine abroad have been complaining about serious pains on his waist since last year in which the waist have been swelling up too. He has went to various government hospitals over there abroad and all they do is to always give him appointment for a long time to come back and when he goes back, they will tell him that they can't treat him and direct him to another hospital and when he gets to the new hospital they will also do the same thing.
A nurse in one of the hospital told him it's lumbar disorder and sciatic pain after examining him but said she can't do anything about it and directed him to another hospital, but when he got to the hospital they also couldn't do anything. Mind you, the language barrier over there is also a big issue for him and the health practitioners over there.
My dear nairalanders and health practitioners in the house, please, is there any drug one can get to help treat this lumbar disorder and sciatic pain? Even if it's to get it here in Nigeria and send it to him, that wouldn't be an issue.
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Family › Re: Divorced (or Separated) Couples, Can You Please, Share Your Experience? by Realguyman1(m): 7:25pm On Feb 13 |
letskeeptalking: We all have flaws, but I think it's a very sad thing, when a man is unable to find himself. Sincerely you get problem. Wetin be the problem of una marriage, e nor let u talk, but u open mouth dey talk about divorce and dey pity am at the same time like a confuse fellow. |
Politics › Re: Tinubu’s Achievements Evident – Onanuga by Realguyman1(m): 6:36am On Feb 02 |
mrvitalis: 1) strong foreign reserve is not a sector and it's not really a good or bad thing actually... But yea he has improved it
2) bro our GDP was 375 billion dollars on may 2023 now it's about 240 billion and you claim GDP growth? Let's be serious na
3) energy independence has nothing to do with TInubu government if anything it's Buhari support for dangote that brought about it... Why exactly are you giving this to TInubu?
4) our crude oil production average is 1.55million even if it's says 1.7m daily this is not a sector this is more revenue for government has that improved the masses?
5) stock market? Are you for real? The Nigerian stock market value fell from 62 billion dollars to around 51 billion dollars... You think because naira lost value then the stock market grew?
6) don't know where you got the story about GDP expansion from ... Our GDP fell from 375 billion dollars to about 199 billion dollars.... We lost over 40% .... Think u need to read up how GDP is measured
7) none oil naira growth was driven by the naira losing over 70% of its value run the numbers in dollars boom you see uy dropped
did you just say naira stabilization? Naira was 700 on may 29 2023 ... Una well so?
9) which power generation? Nigeria installed generation capacity is about 13k mw the problem with that sector is transmission The power sector is in no way better today National grid collapse more often now
10) Trade surplus ? This has been normal bro how check 90% of the time we have always had trade surplus this is nothing new
11) Rail transportation? Which rail way did TInubu construct to expand the raid way... You are just making things up now bro
12) bros how can ongoing roads that are not complete increase road transportation? Una just dey make up numbers
Lmaooo verified nd most of your point outside foreign reserves are false At the bolded, naira was still about 460 as of may 29 2023. |
Travel › Re: The Dark Side Of Living Abroad Nigerians Don’t Tell You by Realguyman1(m): 6:59am On Jan 27 |
Sunnyshinylight: The Dark Side Of Living Abroad Nigerians Don’t Tell You
Every day on Nairaland, Instagram and WhatsApp, we see pictures of Nigerians abroad living “soft life” — big jackets, snow selfies, fine streets, clean trains.
From Nigeria, it looks like once you japa, all your problems are solved.
But the truth? There’s a dark side of living abroad many Nigerians don’t talk about — especially those already there.
Let’s be honest.
1. Loneliness Will Deal With You
In Nigeria, even if you’re broke, you have people. Neighbours, family, friends, noise, gist. Abroad?
You can stay months without real human connection. Everyone is busy. Everyone is tired. Everyone minds their business.
Many Nigerians abroad battle silent depression, but won’t say it because they don’t want people back home saying “you wanted to japa, now see you.”
2. You’ll Work Jobs You Never Imagined That “abroad” dignity fades fast. Doctors become caregivers. Engineers wash dishes. Graduates do night shifts nobody wants.
Nothing is wrong with honest work — but the mental shock is real, especially when you remember how people respected you back home.
3. Bills Will Humble You Yes, currency is strong — but expenses are stronger. Rent. Tax. Insurance. Transport. Utilities. You may earn well, yet still be one emergency away from crisis.
That’s why some Nigerians abroad can’t send money home as often as people think.
4. Racism Is Real (Even If It’s Silent) It’s not always shouting or insults. Sometimes it’s: being ignored being over-policed being treated like you don’t belong working twice as hard to be seen as “normal” You’ll constantly feel like you have to prove yourself.
5. No Family Safety Net In Nigeria, if things scatter, you can manage: stay with family borrow food get help Abroad? If you fall, you fall alone. Miss rent = eviction. Lose job = real trouble. No uncle. No mummy’s friend. No village support.
6. Immigration Stress Can Break You Waiting for: papers visas renewals approvals Living in fear of one mistake ruining years of effort. That stress is not a joke. Some Nigerians abroad are physically there but mentally exhausted.
7. You Can’t Easily “Come Back” Once you japa, coming back empty-handed feels like failure — even if you’re tired. So people endure misery in silence, just to maintain the image of success.
Final Truth Living abroad is not bad, but it is not paradise. Nigeria is hard. Abroad is hard — just in a different way. Anyone telling you japa will solve all your problems is not telling the full story. Over to you, Nairalanders 👇
Would you still japa knowing all this?
Nigerians abroad, what’s the hardest part nobody warned you about? Let’s talk — no packaging. Number 7 is the only problem there in what u have said, every other thing u said again na busy body ant over sabi talk |
Education › Re: If You Don't Have Money To Go To School Please Do Not Go, Learn A Skill. by Realguyman1(m): 6:53am On Jan 27 |
BangaRice: Who produced the cars and gadgets? Roadside technicians or graduates? Nigerian graduates dey produce anything? |
Politics › Re: Opposition Lamenting As Nigerians Now Say Food Are Too Cheap- Oshiomhole (video) by Realguyman1(m): 8:16pm On Jan 22 |
Lithiumite: If you haven't realised food prices has come down.....better investigate your wife,she don dey cari u handicap!! Is food price coming down same thing with food price being cheap? I use to buy loaf of bread last year at a retail store #1200, but it's #1100 now. Does it mean the bread is now too cheap according to Oshiomole because it has been reduced by #100 |
Travel › Re: Nigerian Man Reportedly Deported After Returning A Lost Wallet To Police by Realguyman1(m): 9:23am On Jan 22*. Modified: 10:47am On Jan 22 |
SpaceX: The good ones are being deported while the evil ones are Hawking drugs on the street. Some times it doesn't pay to be good. If he was good, he wouldn't have been living illegally in another man's country Since he knows he doesn't have document to live in the country, what happen to giving the wallet to someone who has documents to return it to the police? Na he over sabi do am and nothing else |
Politics › Re: Nigerian beaten to death in India, NIDCOM reacts by Realguyman1(m): 6:37am On Jan 19*. Modified: 6:53pm On Jan 19 |
If not that the Nigerians involve was recognised, most people would have be blaming the Indians for this. That's how Nigerians, Ghanaians and the Gambians do commit all manners of crimes in Libya (especially Nigerians), but at the end, people over here in Nigeria will be blaming the Libyans. |
Education › Re: Public School Collapses In Odokekere, Ikorodu, Lagos (video) by Realguyman1(m): 3:15am On Jan 16 |
chukslawrence: Well, Odogunyan, odonla are in Lagos State while Odokekere is in Ogun State As how na? It's a boarder area and some area are part of Lagos State why some area are part of Ogun State. Lagos sef dey even try to claim every part to become Lagos State. M |
Politics › Re: Kidnapped Edo Doctor, Ibrahim Abu Babatunde, Regains Freedom by Realguyman1(m): 3:07am On Jan 16 |
wallrichy: You must be a foreigner in Nigeria. What's the difference between Edo And Yoruba people....some part of Edo are more Yorubas than Edo. Edo and Yorubas have more than 70% interconnected culturally and other things.
Edo supposed to be a Yoruba State if actual things are put into perspective.
Dele Momodu is an Edo man Akinsola Olumakin is an Edo man Gbenga Oluwagbenro is an Edo guy
All these people mentioned and more are full blood Edo people but speaks and bear Yoruba names....... Actual tinx are put into perspective like what? |
Foreign Affairs › Re: See The Top 20 Countries That Contributed To World Economy in 2025 by Realguyman1(m): 10:11pm On Jan 10 |
EdiskyHarry: Some made it to the top by stealing crude oil and natural resources from poor African countries and some Asian countries Saudi is a western puppet country like most of u do say online. But how come they are fast developing and being world economy and the same West are not stealing their resources? |
Crime › Re: Police Officers Caught Abusing Traveller Along Benin–onitsha Expressway (video) by Realguyman1(m): 12:31pm On Jan 09*. Modified: 4:07pm On Jan 09 |
GenFunction: Nigerian police system needs re-organization and reorientation. Na wetin we done dey hear since when we dey small and up till date na worse we dey see |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Protests In Iran Over Economic Hardships: People Killed, Others Injured by Realguyman1(m): 2:28pm On Jan 03 |
HacheNoire: Oh! Libya and Iraq was not developed. Syria was not!
Iran with all the sanction on it, STILL has a better standard of living than Nigeria.
Being a western puppet is not bad but you still complain about African leaders when 90% of them are western puppets?
Don’t complain about Africa if being a puppet is not bad at all. We don’t have dictators in Africa, You only become one when you detest the west!
Did you follow the last elections in Cameroon? Did you see how the media cooled it off. Because he is a western puppet! He can die and still win an election of France says Yes!
So I will agree with you to some extent, being a western puppet is good, but don’t complain about status quo if it’s that good. I didn't said those countries u later made mention of are not developed, I was only talking about the first countries u made mention of being the most developed and u said they are all western puppets. Then why is African countries not fast developing like the Saudi, UAE, Qatar, Kuwait, Bahrain and other western puppets that are fast developing in the middle east? Because u guys always claim that most African countries are western puppets that's why Africa is not developing. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Protests In Iran Over Economic Hardships: People Killed, Others Injured by Realguyman1(m): 2:08pm On Jan 03 |
HacheNoire: They have taken democracy there! Same Libya and Iraq playbook!
Instigate unrest, then bring democracy with soldiers!
I still wonder why they have not taken democracy to Saudi, Qatar, Kuwait, Oman and UAE. Do we say they don’t need democracy in those countries?
We all know why…..
You only a dictator when you not a western puppet! Those countries u made mention of are part of the most developed countries in the Middle East. That's to say that being a western puppet is not that bad after all, na just African leaders nor know wetin them dey do that's why Africa still dey where e dey today. |
Celebrities › Re: Nigeria Safer Than US – American Rapper, DDG by Realguyman1(m): 7:57pm On Jan 02 |
Babatunjo: Sounds like a smart response. But there are many people living in Nigeria who are better off than some people in the US, UK, or Canada.
There are people living well in Nigeria... and living well elsewhere too.
Once you rise to a certain level in life, your quality of life becomes largely location-independent, wherever you go. He is not talking about living well or not, he is only talking about the security in various countries |
Politics › Re: What Is The Electricity Situation In Your Area? by Realguyman1(m): 12:09pm On Dec 20, 2025 |
helinues: We have been reading about improvement in other areas, your areas own might be artificial issue U and anti people ehn, nor be small o... I was in in Lasustech(former Laspotech) area at Ikorodu, Lagos for about 2weeks last month and the power situation there was something else despite the area being a student environment. They hardly see light for up to 30 minutes in a day over there and the people told me that the situation has been so since January this year. Same thing my people in my hometown are also complaining to me all the time, and someone else living and working in a big man environment in Lagos island just make same complain and u are busy talking out of point as usual. |
Politics › Re: Seyi Tinubu’s Outlandish Security Escorts - Punch Editorial by Realguyman1(m): 6:12pm On Dec 13, 2025 |
odejimioflagos: This is not a big deal. Those criticizing Seyi are just being petty. Would they rather he gets kidnapped? So na the common Nigerians come deserve Kidnapping abi? Is it not his father's duty to put an end to all the insecurity issues we have in the country? If his father is doing the right thing as the president will there be any need for him to be moving with battalions of the country forces in his convoy? Seyi Tinubu who is not even the president moving with such large numbers of escorts from the country forces shows how messed up the country is under his father's leadership. Tinubu needs to do better in the area of insecurities, because the torments from this insecurities spreads all over the country is becoming unbearable. I was in the bus yesterday and someone was talking about him wanting to travel home this festive season and someone was asking him, "shay u get money for ransom ni?". I was like, so the thing has become a norm and a cruise to u people over here abi. |
Politics › Re: ECOWAS Orders Immediate Deployment Of Troops To Benin Republic by Realguyman1(m): 4:57am On Dec 08, 2025*. Modified: 6:33pm On Dec 13, 2025 |
teadrake: President Tinubu is no longer the Chairman of ECOWAS. You didn't know this because of your hatred for the man. What a public display of ignorance!! Which kind yeye hatred for the man, are people supposed to be praising him when he is busy wasting another years of governance in Nigeria like Buhari did? Insecurity is giving us tough time over here in Nigeria like never b4 and all Tinubu think about is politics and u want people whose head are intact to still keep on supporting him abi? |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Chelsea Vs Arsenal (1 - 1) On 30th November 2025 by Realguyman1(m): 9:39pm On Nov 30, 2025 |
Murketeer: No worry … una go collect for Emirates … you think say coaches nor get sense … this is a time when you manage your players with sense … by Tuesday they are playing again … see Chelsea now will play without their best player for 3 next matches which might make them lose or at least draw one more game Leave talk, Another person wey sabi dey there to cover up for am. By the second leg reach go reach for Emirate, Arsenal go done go back to either second or their position which is their birth right |
Health › Re: Resident Doctors Suspend Nationwide Strike by Realguyman1(m): 12:09pm On Nov 30, 2025 |
tunjijones: Dem dey strike?
Nobody even noticed!!!! Doctors hasn't be working in most of the teaching hospitals for sometime now |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Ceremonial Coup?: Embalo's Allies Consolidate Power In Guinea Bissau (pics) by Realguyman1(m): 9:34am On Nov 30, 2025 |
Heffalump: Whatever understanding we've gathered from the first paragraph of the write up has been distorted by the last paragraph. What do you understand by opposition in a political setting? Opposition is the party that's not yet in power, but struggling to take power.
The last paragraph, according to the analysis of the election observers ( GEJ and Ousmane Sonko) that the coup has been described as being staged by the opposition party. Oya, explain to me what this statement meant.
Who told you that the opposition cannot work with members of the incumbent government? Is there any law forbidding that? We were not there, just that we are all analyzing the information coming from the horse's mouth. The English is straightforward. Na wa o, you are even still arguing instead of going back to the write up and read it carefully for proper understanding. E be plenty things for this life o. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Ceremonial Coup?: Embalo's Allies Consolidate Power In Guinea Bissau (pics) by Realguyman1(m): 8:45am On Nov 30, 2025 |
Heffalump: Read the last paragraph very well. The coup was staged by the opposition instead, perhaps because they lost the election. Oga read well, u are the one that is out of point. Before trying to correct someone, make sure u are very sure of what are saying before saying it out. |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Newcastle United Vs Manchester City (2 - 1) On 22nd November 2025 by Realguyman1(m): 4:57am On Nov 23, 2025 |
kennyz247: Your hate for arsenal no get limit Which one is your hate for Arsenal nor get limit? Were there lies in what I said, abi is arsenal topping the league with up to 15-20 points and I said otherwise? A team topping the league with just 3 points when we are still in the month of November is nothing serious. |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Newcastle United Vs Manchester City (2 - 1) On 22nd November 2025 by Realguyman1(m): 9:32pm On Nov 22, 2025 |
OkpaNsukkaisBae: It is looking like Arsenal is the only serious team in the English premier League this season.. Arsenal serious as how? Topping the league with just 4 point which has been reduced to 3 point today untill they play their match tomorrow, is what u called seriousness? |
Politics › Re: Senator Kawu Sumaila Marries Hindatu Adda’u Isah (Photo) by Realguyman1(m): 7:39pm On Nov 18, 2025 |
Ebubu6: Airforce na the Agency wey i like pass But it's amazing how they all wear that army uniform, army o, navy o, airforce o, all wear that army camouflage while i was thinking it was only for army alone and that navy and airforce have their own camouflage or uniform It's military camouflage uniform not army's uniform. |
Sports › Re: Name One Player Who Has Won At Least Three Of These Trophies? by Realguyman1(m): 8:44pm On Nov 15, 2025 |
Winterhaven: Europa league and conference league are for failures... Big clubs like Madrid, bayern, Liverpool, Barcelona, will never brag about winning such trophies. Which Liverpool, the same Liverpool that went all to way from group to go loose to sevila in the Europa league final is what u are talking about? |
Celebrities › Re: "I Didn't Marry An 'underage' Regina", She Told Me She Was 21 - Ned Nwoko by Realguyman1(m): 3:06pm On Nov 14, 2025*. Modified: 10:07pm On Nov 14, 2025 |
GanagiBitrus: Don't be tormented by a Moral Question. Tormented as how? A girl made her choice in life with her mother in full support of her decision and u guys are busy now busy trying to blackmail the man and label him a bad person. This same Regina u guys are talking about was even busy online taunting people (especially her fellow women) on her she is enjoying her life in regards to her marrying a wealthy old billionaire, and now u guys are here talking out of point |
Politics › Re: Wike Acted Within His Rights, Soldiers Overstepped - Falana by Realguyman1(m): 10:18am On Nov 14, 2025 |
richiemcgold: I didn't say Wike was right Mr oga The both was wrong, people were only happy about the whole scenario because Wike feels himself too high that no one can challenge him, but the young officer did. |
Celebrities › Re: "I Didn't Marry An 'underage' Regina", She Told Me She Was 21 - Ned Nwoko by Realguyman1(m): 9:59am On Nov 13, 2025 |
GanagiBitrus: Dear Senator Nwoko, Will you be happy & willing to marry off your little daughter to an Ancestor. 
Do Unto Others as You Would Have Them Do Unto You Which kind blackmailing be all this ones, did he force Regina to marry him? |
Politics › Re: Osita Chidoka: Wike Should Apologise To The Naval Officer by Realguyman1(m): 6:52am On Nov 12, 2025 |
kinguwem: It's sad that we encourage lawlessness in this country & expect the country to progress. A commissioned Naval officer has better responsibilities than standing as a security man in an undeveloped property of a former CNS. Soldiers should concentrate on their duties of defending the country from external aggression instead of interrupting pubic officers from during their jobs. Soldiers only takes order from their superiors, the defence ministry/advisor and the commander in chief. What was Wike himself doing there in the first place if not for abusing, intimidation, oppression and to show off? Is Wike a law enforcer agent? Since the soldier was given an order from his superior, all Wike should have done was to put a call to the defence minister, once the defence minister put a call across it wouldn't take 2 seconds b4 those soldiers evacuate that premises in a civil way and not the oppressed and intimidating way Wike was trying to use on them. |