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wizard007:
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SHON SAAAR!!!

Blankstare:
Ok,the ladies man. How is your retirement,I hope you are enjoying it? My questn is,how do you make a lady feel at home with you after the initial convo of getting her phone no and probably taking the relationship to the next level. (2) during your active yrs are you usually comfortable with all types of women around you(I mean any kind) even up till now?

Yes, I'm enjoying my retirement.
1. The surest way of making a girl feel at home with you after the initial hunt is through CONSTANT COMMUNICATION via calls,chats,sms and occasional outings to public joints. Whenever she starts suggesting outings to more remote or secluded locations, just have it at the back of your mind that "u don hammer" or about to.

2. During my active days and even till this day,I'm very comfortable with all types of women. However,I am NOT $exually attracted to plus-sized (round) women and very light-skinned women. I've always loved chocolate,cream chocolate and very dark (slim) women.

nibson:
there is this lady who flirts with me and says all kinds of
Intimate things to me when we outside , she gets jealous
when. i talk about my g/f ...buh d problem is when i try to
make advances towards her when we alone she shuts me
out...d last one i tried she hit me on d back and was
vexed.....abeg make una advice me coz i fink i have been
friendzoned nd d question is....y will you flirt with me
outside even in front my friends and become something
else when we alone.....i guesss women are more
complicated than i thought.......oh i forgot to mention that
we have been friends and coursemates for years
now....been a loyalist to her academically tho.....smh!!!

My honest advise: take FULL ADVANTAGE of her whenever she's flirting with you in public places, in other words 'massively' flirt back at her in return. But as soon as you guys leave the public domain, ignore her or act like she's a sister from church. You may also try and make friends with another flirtable girl in your class, such that even when this your friend-zoner girl starts filrting with you in public again, you can actually take a break from her and go flirt wiith this new girl. Since,you say you already have a girlfriend, try to create scenarios where all three of you i.e you,your gf and the friend-zoner girl, are in the same location. When this happens,smooch the living daylights out of your girlfriend in this friend-zoner girl's presence. Trust me, things will change from there on.
On the flip side though, have it at the back of your mind that most university girls are scared of getting initimate with fellow course mates for fear of having initimate details of their relationship being brought into public gist. You know, guys can gossip too.

itstpia1:
Your experiences are common to many however.






Thanks.







Maybe some do, but a lot of runz girls do not necessarily have a problem getting a man whenever they decide to retire.

They generally know all the tricks of the trade, and the only comma is the man is likely to be a runz man, apart from that, most of the girls are usually settled.

Contrary to what nl would have us believe, virginity is not really rated high by every single man, some men actually prefer experienced women.

Have I answered your question?

The older ladies who do settle for younger unemployed men, are probably doing so because of sex. Sugar mummy things.

Nice answer dear.

I have had quite a few 'runz girls' as friends and some of them ended up with toy boys, others became single baby mamas, i know two that became 2nd/3rd wives to some big shots, and one of them (funny enough) became wife to a pastor.

So i guess you are in order, sort of.

Nice one, enjoy your thread, I'll be following.

Ucheosefoh:
Have you been catch cheating how was the experience like?

I've never been caught cheating...pure luck, I guess!

itstpia1:
my dear, with this attitude dont let scammers target you o.

who told you the op on that thread is not also using google?

dont believe everything you read on the internet.

I'm definitely not using google. My answers are based on pure experience and exposure.

Nice thread though.

Now for my question: Why do retired 'runz girls'/seductresses always spend their latter years struggling to woo and hold on to younger (and often times unemployed) men?

Emmysteve:
Nawaoh so this thread is still moving on a fast lane? i dey suspect op wash put sotey people dey rush this thread. Lol nothing do you jare.

Thank you.

Cybermugu1:
Lol, i neva wanted to ask any question buh i fink i must ask dis1, how can sum1 control his sexual urge?

Try to constantly get your mind actively distracted and focused on other human activities rather than $ex, then you'll make some headway. Such other activities include reading, writing, strolling, hanging out with your boyz, focusing on your work/business and on HOW TO MAKE MORE MONEY.
I'm giving you this advise not just on moral grounds but on technical grounds. When a guy's mind is occupied with $ex 24/7 chances are that if/when an opportunity finally presents itself, such a guy may not last up to 11seconds during intercourse.

hugoart:
Op,this is a matured thread.
Give me a reasonable(affordable, sweet slim babes,correct locale) ashewo den you know in Lagos.
Thank you o.

Control your hormones, son!

Chrisjane:
Have u ever had a girl sleep over without getting intimate?

Yes, many times...I can enjoy the company of beautiful women,with or without $ex.

hugoart:
Correct.Now you sound human.I was starting to feel:"What a robot!".

I'm very human!

veegirl:
U guys shud cut us some slack. Girls get Hot too u know. So wen we respond to dose booty calls, dont tink we dont want it too. I mean, its easier to av s3x wit an ex dan wit a total stranger. (Dats if we're not in any relationship o or if d bobo is not doin well in d bed department). My opinion.

EXACTLY, Booty-calls with an Ex can be a mutually beneficial experience, sorry for not stressing on this point earlier.

Psittacus:
This is a first...i mean asking question on sexuality section. This young lady refused to date me. Through out my service year she refused my advances. But recently she came around my town for one of those pg exams. To my greatest surprise we had a long hr of fore play d night she was suppose to leave, but n sex...she was ready but am not. Am a V. she didnt knw..but after bin a gentle man all dis while,i realised she wanted d dirty side of me....dat got me thinking did so call good girls want a gentle man or a badoo....

Most girls (good or bad) want a man, any MAN that can satisfy them in bed and in other areas of life. It's in the female DNA, so you better sharp up and wise up.

fadjnr:
Have you considered writing a book on your past experiences. You go sell o.

Nah, writing a book would mean ultimately revealing my true identity, I don't need that.

fadjnr:
u don fall my hand like that.

Yes i have.

Vivly:
op,.Why do guys feel they are being cheated if they are told 'no sex till marriage'? Is it that hard to find a guy that doesn't believe in pre marital sex?

If a confirmed Virgin girl tells her man to wait till marriage chances are that he will respect her more. But if a non-virgin girl tells a guy the same thing, he'll be like "so na me you wan use do mugu after you don enjoy with other guys." Can you blame him really?
If a lady wants to preach the doctrine against premarital sex,it's best she lives by example and remains virgin until she gets married.

fadjnr:
please enlighten us on the emboldened statement .

Read your Bible or Koran.

12inches1:
Trust me ive talked to her abt it implicitly and explicitly. its not even that she doesnt do MouthAction or the fact that she quickly covers up her body after sex. I can actual do without oral. My issues is that i think that she is still holding this things back from me because she is not my wife yet or in her own words "you havent paid my bride price yet" I may start hoarding things from her also afterall she is quick to point out that we are not married.

If you really love and trust this girl then go ahead and pay her bride price. If after paying she continues hoarding her goodies, simply ask for a refund.

ogaofficer:
Experience being your best teacher, pls is it advisable for a guy to move on immediately his heart was broken by a chic she loves so much? Though the chick was at her fault. 2. Whats the probability of that chic coming back to plead? 3. Does it make sense to have your ex pix in your album, and calling her?

1. If you no move on,wetin you for do before? Whenever a guy or girl gets heartbroken by people they loved, It is very advisable to move on as quickly as possible. Moving on here does not mean simply jumping to the next available female that comes your way; it does mean that you take time out to enjoy the love you have for YOURSELF.

2, When a girl that once broke your heart comes back to you begging, NEVER accept her back-she's probably begging you now because the man she left you for has expired her A$$ and dumped her. By accepting her back you've told her and the world that truly you were indeed useless without her. Chances are that she'll break your heart again when ever she finds another man to run to.

3. Of what use is her picture to you? Abeg flip am. The only time you should call an ex-chic is strictly for booty calls i.e whenever you are strategically inviting her to come over to your place and have $ex for old times sake.

12inches1:
This bro reminds me of Tai2. Anyway my question is this. Im also a bad guy like u. But i started dating this lady that i have finally got stuck on. I may actually marry her. i met her a V .One prob i have with her tho is that she has some boundaries that i dont like. for example she wont give me bj neither would she allow me to go down on her. She says this things are dirty but in actual fact i think she just wants to deliberately hold back some things from. She also never lets me see her completely naked . its like she is hoarding some things abt herself and anytime i talk to her abt it,she will be like she cant give me everything that she is not my wife yet. Or that have i paid her bride price. Yet she expects me to give her alll of me. im actually getting very discouraged. What can i do?

First of all, let me assure you that no two 'bad guys' are the same; you are you and I am me. LOL

You said you met her a virgin? So, I'm assuming that you've had $ex with her already or is it that she just told you that she was a virgin?
There are quite a number of women that truly do not fancy oral $ex, I have even met a few women that did not like or enjoy French kissing. I doubt if she's deliberately holding anything back from you because your statement suggests that you've already had $ex with her, so wetin come remain?
If oral $ex means that much to you, you had better sort it out with her before saying "I do". How? Come clean and tell her your $exual expectations from her if you guys end up getting married. Hear what she has to say and then decide.

moneyhungry:
as e dey hot. OP dey sound like guy wey gather orientation. sail on sir.

Thank you sir.

RedBenson:
That aspect of sleeping with married women, how possibly can one initiate that and succeed in it? Not like am interested in sleeping with any married woman. Just want to know how possibly a young dude can initiate talk and woo a married woman into going to bed with him.

Married women are just like any other women,the ring on their fingers don't make them super-human. Married women also enjoy being complimented and admired by other men,especially their husbands. However,I'd encourage you to do all you can to avoid married women, they are bad market, trust me.

fadjnr:
Mehn I'm scared o cause I've not experienced sex with a virgin before. looking forward to it tho.

Goodluck with that!

kunrazer:
Bro u be confirm. I use Litmus paper test for the "true player factor" nd e turn blue sharp sharp. Now my headache is this. I actually dnt want 2 do much of playing, but I want 2 test d waters before I walk "the one" down the isle, but how do you part PEACEFULLY with a girl who is so so into you? Were you ever in such a situation? Again, do you think your looks, if you have any, actually helped you get girls more easily

Like I said in earlier pages, there is never an easy way to break up with a woman that is so into you. Your best bet is to be as BLUNT as possible in order not to waste her time. She'll get over it, after all 'no be say persin die.' Yes,I have been in a situation when I had to break up with a girl that thought I was the beginning and end of her world but guess what? Today, she's happily married to the man I initially snatched her from-True story.

Moral of the story: Women always get over heartbreaks, do not hesitate if indeed you do not want her anymore.

About good-looks? Well,maybe it did play a role...say 30% tops.

hugoart:
I agree partly with your answer to the first question.Still l think there should be more to dating than being in multiple relationships -the risks,the other party's jealousy, the open deceit of it all,the possible STI.The risks,RedEboe?

Were you ever in any of these "love triangles" or whatever shapes?How were you feeling then,if any?
It's not a pleasant experience.

I respect your views about there being more to dating other than multiple relationships.

No, I hardly ever got involved in love triangles because I tried not to be too emotionally attached to the girls I was with. As such whenever, they expressed strange behaviors or movements towards other guys or anything of that sort, I just let them go. No long story.

fadjnr:
share your experience with the girl you disvirgined.

I can't, the bite marks and finger nail marks still hurt,11 years after.
LOL!!!!

Anyways, she was about 26 years old, and when I first met her,she was forming 'gangster babe' and all, when the D-day came and she revealed her virginity, you can imagine the shock I had to endure. So between both of us there were two firsts, her first time of ever having sex and my first time of encountering a virgin. Both of us were totally clueless on what to do!

But we eventually sailed through...I still hate the sight of blood!

Bizibi:
exactly I remember a gal telling me I haven't paid her bride price and it was fr anyone when I was smooching......sometimes it is better not to get stressed on with a lady,many ain't loyal but some are......

I agree with you, "never get too stressed over a lady that is not yet your wife"...same goes for ladies in their dealings with boyfriends.

DrProf:
1. You did not answer this question. Did you take the same path?
2. Changed my perspective, used to think otherwise but your exception makes perfect sense. thanks.
3. This is a tactic I've not heard (a big compliment coming from ME). Seriously, give me more.

Answer to first question, NO!

hugoart:
A new trend for gals to have a bf and a number of side guys has been observed. What's your take?
And what if a girl demands for money,etc without reciprocity(sex,etc)?What should guys do?

It is not 'a new trend', many guys also have steady girlfriends with multiple side chics. A woman does not owe you any real loyalty until you pay her bride price.

If a girl demands for money but doesnt reciprocate your financial gesture with $ex, don't give her money next time. Just go out there and look for other women that are willing to give you $ex in exchange for your money. I can recommend a few streets to you in Lagos, after dark.
Abi?

hugoart:
How long is best to wait before asking for sex?

12hours, 3days, 2weeks, 3months, it doesn't matter...whenever you want $ex just ask for it but be man enough to respect whatever answer(s) she gives you.

dont8:
Nice thread with mature questions and answers, this has shown that threads of this nature should be allowed to 'germinate' before hitting front-page so as to separate the wheat from the chaff.

Now going by your sexcapade (it's not a mean feat to hit 100+ ladies), ain't you at any time afraid or of it crossing your mind that most of the ladies might have had medical issues and the probability of them dying in your house (God forbid though)?

Years ago, a close friend of mine sleeping over at my place brought in a girl suffering from epilepsy. She had an attack while they were 'doing it' on my couch (I was in my room sleeping jeje) and it wasn't a funny experience. We didn't know what to do, call in the neighbors and risk being accused of gang r.aping her to death,or call the police and risk even bigger problems. By the time she regained consciousness after 10minutes or so,we quickly took her straight back to her hostel at Akoka-time was round 2am.
This was my first and last experience with a woman habouring health issues.

Fkhalifa:
op,did you sometimes made use of Vaseline,when so Hot but no pusaw available?

Ma$turbation is one of the most common past-time for men, married or single, player or dullard.