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Haywhymido:
Op, woah. You r so damn intelligent n wise.Read ur comments n i sensed it.Do u think u inherited it or u developed it on ur own. N what is ur real age now

EXPERIENCE has always been my greatest teacher. I'm in my VERY late 30s.

Spydamannn:
Redbone your ministry is moving fast...nice one

**in Gordon's voice** "ALLELUYA!"

Fkhalifa:
op,whats the best way to tell a lady i dont have what shes demanding for withput sounding stingy,lieing or rude?
2)whats your or d good lines you use when approachn a lady
Thanks in advance!

1. Whenever you find yourself unable to meet a lady's demands or needs, be blunt about it and tell her that YOU JUST CAN'T MEET UP, period. Be prepared for whatever actions she decides to take afterwards, the highest she can do is leave you-and that action cannot and should not kill you.

2. "Hi my name is ---------, what is your name?" Yes, it is that simple.

veegirl:
My question 2 u is wat do u tink will happen if ur wife stumbles upon dis thread and finds out u're d op?

My wife has no interest in social media, getting her to even open her Facebook account was war. So, I'm safe. But let's say she even finds out, nothing changes, she knows more details about my past than anything i've shared here. Also, she is the biggest beneficiary of my $exual experiences gathered from other women over the years-trust me.

sexymoma:
Wow... can you recount the women you've had sex with...

Yes, about a hundred women. Plus or minus.

eroticboy:
RedEboe:

very interesting thread.

I ve been in a relationship with a couple of women but kinda confused about them, they all have the potential of being a wife. don't know which girl to pick. my questions are as follows
1. do u have any form of stress tests to qualify possible wifeys and remove the rubbish kind of women from ur life

2. How do u end/escape a number of concurrent simultaneous relationships that all have the potential to end in marriage with as little collateral damage as possible.

my norm has been to quietly disengage , no calls no access to my house and no coming to my office. after a while they get the message. but now meeeeen it seems I don jamm some hard to deal witth women.

1. No matter how much you conduct a 'stress test' on your women in order to weed out the bad ones and pick 'the one', you'll always be in for a shocker after marriage. Cos women change after marriage, they are emotionally complicated, when pregnancy comes, you go hear am.
My advise: just trust your guts and pick one, preferrably the one you are most $exually attracted to. Why? Well, if you marry a beautiful woman that you are $exually attracted to, chances are that whenever you guys quarrel as a married couple and she angrily walks way, by the time your eyes catch a glimpse of her sweet butt wiggling past you, nobody will tell you when you follow her into the bedroom,apologize and do the needful.

2. There's never an easy way to break up with someone. Hence,whenever you choose your wife, say nothing to your other girlfriends. Just send them your wedding IV whenever a date is fixed, they'll get the message. Trust me.

kozaic:
How would u react if your wife cheats on you?

I would be very mad and my big Ego would be totally crushed, but i'll eventually get over it. And when the pain subsides, I'll either forgive her, or embrace polygamy or both. I will not divorce her except she decides to leave on her own.

Gogetta:
Front page worthy..

Shey?

TyHadebimpe:
hmmm! How do you detect if a guy Is really into you.

If he constantly invites or takes you to social gatherings where you meet his close friends and family members, that's one vital sign that he is really into you.

davidflipcy:
your sexcapades on a.nal sex

I'm sorry bro, the details are too raw to be shared on this fora. Please forgive me.

marvel5star:
Even as a womanizer, were u dating or did u at a point fall in love? Were u ever rejected/look down on in ur quest.

Did u have an encounter with a 'church girl', married woman, or under age?

Funny enough, I did 'almost' fall madly in love with this Christ Embassy girl but she turned me down flat after one of her Pastors saw a vision that I wasn't the one for her. Today, she is a divorced single mum, heard she's planning to remarry soon-True Story.

Of course, i've been turned down/rejected by several girls I toasted in the past-it's part of the fun.

Yes, I slept with just two married women in the past, their wealthy husbands were based abroad. But i never maintained close relationship with them afterwards.

davidflipcy:
I beg drop a short story for us. Especially that a.nal sex aspect am interested

Which 'short-story' would you like to hear?

Hackin:
women re in trouble!

Yes o!

fadjnr:
RedEboe please how many girls had abortions for you. Just curious tho.

I have mad love for children, hence i have NEVER (and will never) knowingly authorized any form of abortion.
I was a very careful lover though.

ifoundmyperfect:
Womanizers with a history of countless sexual escapade never go into retirement. Esply one who just called it quit 'coz he is presumably contented with a 4-year-marriage. Absolute retirement should come with absolute repentance and penance. After having losing part of your inheritance (as the bible wld put it) by patronizing a woman of easy virtue (on your first sexual encounter), I'd say you are in need of through cleansing (Spiritually & Physically). Go do all that, then return to open a new thread "Why you shouldn't be a womanizer" That is if your intentions are as genuine as you have earlier stated. Except you are seeking unnecessary attention.

#MYopinion

Interesting line of thought, God bless you.

smilingazor:
Oga Redeboe, my question is this: how were u able to know u married is your after being in contacts with many women cos it is difficult to know or choose d right person after such experience.

Again, I'm going to use my dogs as an example but i'm not in anyway comparing women with dogs, please!
When a dog likes you, it wags its tail, comes around you,acts excited and all. You can even see it in their eyes. When a dog hates you,it does the opposite. No matter how many dogs you've come across with in life, you'll always know the one that likes you and the one that doesn't.

Somehow, you can apply this theory in your relationship with women.

Once again, women are not dogs!

Emmysteve:
Lol like play like play the threat is becoming interesting and matured. I hope nairaland kiddos won't come and ruin it.

I hope so too o!

arimahoseloka:
how can I stop womanising?? do I need 2 marry first? or just fall in love?

Marriage or falling in love is NOT a remedy to promiscuity. There are lots of loving husbands/boyfriends that still maintain a mistress or two plus an extra fvck buddy.
It's all about taming and controlling your $exual appetite really.

Johncuba:
Boss...give me ur take and advice on dis...dia is dis friend of myn dat I visited for d first tym yday...tinz got tensed up nd I strted d smoochin stuff...afta a yl she stood up nd said we aint friends anymor nd I failed ha test cus of d smoochin tin...she doznt reply my chats or calls? So as a bad guy advice me on wat u think happened nd wat I shud do nxt to nail d babe...

Which kain yeye test be that? You've smooched her, you've smooched her noni. And i'm sure she 'responded well' to the smooching before she realized that she was just 'testing' you, abi? Women can be very complicated creatures, but it's most likely she's behaving this way cos she feels she has given in to you too easily. There are some men that have spent and are still spending fortunes to woo a girl that they've never even pecked or touched her waist.
If you really dig this babe,you've already smooched her (that's a head-start), you might as well make some investments on her and ask her out on dates. If you don't really dig her just leave her alone and move on to the next one. If you try to ask her out and she's still doing excess 'shakara' just ditch her and walk away...remember, you've smooched her already. She aint got nothing on you!

Ipledge:
II love your response but sorry to say,you can't have solution to my problem

I definitely don't have the solution to your problems but I know a place in Yaba though.

Lordabas:

RedEboe have u ever encountered a woman wit a smelly pussy?
What was ur reaction?
Did u go down on her?

-How can amateurs succesfully locate a womans center of gravity aka g-$pöt?

-What message do you have for aspiring pornstars?

-finally,do u have a female child?
How u treated & bleeped other peoples daughters so shall ur daughers be treated & bleeped
<karma is biiítch>
Do u believe in karma?

Hmmm..Karma is indeed a bltch, but guess what? Even if i was a Pastor from birth,my daugther(s) will still fvck guys (or girls), IF SHE CHOOSES TO.
We have no power over our children's lifestyle choices, Karma or no Karma.

PS: About the smelly pussy tingy, I always insist on a shower before, after and sometimes during $ex. I loved going down on a woman when she's fresh from the shower.

On the Gspot thing, most women have multiple luv-spots, you have to discover it by yourself, though the clit is the universally recognized zone. For some,it's around the neck, thighs and i've known a few ladies that only reached climax during a.nal $ex.

Ipledge:
Please which advice can you give someone like me aspiring to be like you,but no money,I want Be choping Life like prince of saudi

Just travel to Saudi Arabia and tell them you want to chop life like one of their princes. If they don't chop your head off it means you'll do just fine.

tosyne2much:
Alryt gat no other question to ask, I just respect your intelligence

Thanks Boss!

tosyne2much:
You are very intelligent.. I love when intelligent ppl speak.. My question, what did you study ? ** just curious to know**

Social sciences

nationwide1:
Op, what do you have to say of the faithfulness of women, especially of various tribes/ ethnic groups in Nigeria?

Nigerian women from all ethnic groups generally make faithful and loyal partners but our current economic situation has sometimes tempted many to go astray.
Other than economic considerations, the core character of the 'foolish men' in their lives have also led many Nigerian women to unfaithfulness. Every ethnic group in Nigeria can boast of their own fair share of foolish men.

Bolt3:
What does your handle mean.

Google it, for real, it really means something.

tooltip:
@op you are doing good for yourself, have you ever cheated or considered cheating on your wife?

I am a responsible husband and a loving father,but I am not a saint. That's the best answer I can give you.

clubone05:
I've always guessed my dad had other children. ..bro u could be my long lost brother...

I like ur outlook on stuff...

anyways. .still keeping the flag flying. .

LOL, my brother from another mother. Thanks!

GlorifiedTunde:
Better thank God the woman who truly loves you still stayed after all these sexcapades. Or does she not know? Because if she had left you, I'm not sure you wouldn't be regretting right now

Yes o, I'm thankful and grateful that she stayed o. But even if she had left me, you and I would still be having this conversation today as I would have married someone else. Yes, it is that simple, would still hurt for a while though!

Hackin:
bros u no say snake go still born snake, have you notice or seen any form of sign in 1 of your boys as a potential or future womaniser? there must be omeka nna ya. (like father like son)

Yes I have, my toddler boy knows the name of all the girls in his class. I'm in trouble!

Emmysteve:
You mentioned being self employed. Which kind of business are you into?

Multimedia

uchdollar111:
@op, when your girlfriend or a lady tells
you that you don't take care of her, what
exactly does she mean? Pls reply asap.

She's trying to tell you that you are not meeting her emotional, financial or $exual needs AND she has (probably) found someone on standby waiting to takeover from you. SIMPLE.