₦airaland Forum

veegirl:
I tink m in LUST wit dis op
Oya all ye tongue lashers save urself d stress cos i know u'll want to preach to me and bla bla bla. Buh hey, i really dont care

LOL

rallymento:
OP well-done oo! U didn't answer the question on under-aged girls. By the way do u have any form of guilt dealing with ladies you know could be within the age bracket of 18 & 19 that is if you deal with them. Secondly have you deflowered any lady b4? If yes can you justify you reason? because I know most flowered gals attach clauses.

1. Young girls within the age bracket of 18 & 19yrs cannot be described as under-aged. Last time I checked, the Nigerian constitution pegged 18years old as the official age for becoming an adult. However, if you get $exually involved with any girl below the age of 18yrs then you rightfully belong to a prison yard where other men will get $exually involved with you.

2. I only got down with a virgin ONCE in my life and it was one of my worst $exual experiences; I think I still have the finger nail marks she gave me on my back.

Lekmusic:
What influence did po*rn have over your s*exual knowledge/powress?

How do you satisfy your urge to unleash what you know and enjoy sexually without involving your wife...as not everything is practicable with the wife

How do you pull off a three*some? Convincing an extra lady to join and making it sound okay to the 1st lady. This is assuming they are not sexually adventurous as you are

1. I love watching p0rn, especially those that involve Black women, I don't like or enjoy watching p0rn featuring white people. I also watch educational $ex tapes,most of which are highly recommended to married couples.

2. Truthfully, your wife may never be able to satisfy ALL your $exual desires (and you may never be able to satisfy hers), but you'd be surprised at how far many wives will be willing to go in satisfying their husbands' $exual desires if he's man enough to tell her what he wants.
You may not agree with me, but in many Nigerian marriages,it is the husbands that are more scared of revealling their inner most $exual desires to their wives, not the other way round.

3. When it comes to three$omes, it is best to allow your woman be the one to go search out a playmate for you guys. Going out of your way to bring two different women together for a playdate might not work out as planned. It's not impossible though but rather difficult.
Hence, the task before you is to find just one $exually adventurous lady and the rest will follow.

calobinna:
I've got gals that re really admiring me...there is one close to my house..don't know how she got my number and she's not my type but as a potential player(for my mind) i still got taste...should i go ahead to woo her?... she's this village average girl,a little bit tooshed, she just came to lagos last year!...jjc u know!..and I've never screwed anybody that makes a virgin i think!...i want to screw lot of gals but i find it time and funds consuming!.... fire me some advice and answers man!

If you are still a virgin guy (as you've said) and you are too desperate to have $ex, I can assure you that all you'll end up with is the 'average village girl' you've just talked about.
You started your comment by proclaming that you've "got lots of gals admiring" you. So, why don't you zero in on one of your 'numerous' admirers and do your thing?

PS: Emphasis on safe $ex please,use a condom.

hugoart:
Op,what's your impression of opposite sex relationships in Nigeria(Lagos).Are our girls/women now more interested in materials than substance,as is generally believed? What's your personal opinion on this?

All individuals both men and women have needs and material needs i.e MONEY, is very important to all of us. I have seen Nigerian men who don't have cars but wield N70k worth handsets-these men acquire such items because it makes them feel good and perhaps stand out. So, why then should some men complain if their women want N50k worth of Brazillian hair? Does it not also make her feel good and stand out in public?
My own conclusion/opinion, Nigerian men and women are THE SAME when it comes to materialism.

hugoart:
TThanks.Na man you be.

Again, you are welcome.

hugoart:
TThanks.You na man.

LOL, you are welcome.

anssy:
am no kid, I am in my late 20s, I have a reason why I asked questions concerning a.NAL sex. Thanks for enlighting me, I am grateful.

That's OK, you are welcome.

anssy:
Pls can orgarsm be achieved for the woman, I mean can a woman cum by a.NAL sex, and c and how can the pain be eliminated for a virgin anus.

Yes, women can experience extreme orga$m during a.nal $ex. As per the 'pain', it becomes an acquired taste.

OK, no more a.nal sex questions from you kid, aight?

kay29000:
Are you really sure about this claims? I find it hard to believe. Unless "Good" is relative and not what I understand the word to mean.

I recall ending this claim with, "Not always though!"

ugwum007:
what of those of us that don't ve time for phone calls, chats etc. I cant even remember the owners of the majority of the phone numbers in my contact list.

If you don't have time for phone calls and chats with the ladies, then it's best you make peace with your small can of Vaseline and Rose tissue paper.
Then again call-girls don't require your phone calls or chats, it's money for hand, back for ground.

It's up to you really.

anssy:
My question is: is there any pleasure in a n a l sex for the woman . A honest answer will be grately appreciated

Many women find a.nal $ex to be extremely pleasurable if/when their partner(s) do the right things before penetration. These 'right things' include (but not limited to) intense caressing and lubrication of that area before intercourse.
I also discovered that many circumcised women prefer a.nal $ex to regular $ex.

TyHadebimpe:
whoa! Thanks

You are welcome dear!

remsonik:
Well there's no wisdom in what I wrote but have you ever paused to think that underages do visit nairaland and some would want to try out op's experiences.
Also have you realised that most guys reading this points are not ready to change but rather improve on their womanizing skills. Have you also stopped to think that married men and women who are not getting enough sexual satisfaction in their marriages might want to take Op's route instead of working on their marriages and relationships. Have you people also considered that so many homes are at the risk of being destroyed and so many relationships are at stake.
Well to each its own
My own is that What works for A might not work for B and what A does and escapes B might do it and meet his waterloo.
Its for the matured to discern!!

I TOTALLY appreciate and respect your views, thoughts and opinions. Cheers!

Nmeri17:
baba that her ex boyfriend go cry gaaan. nawa o

LOL

researchQ:
Op nice thread. I am learning so much. I have cut and paste some very important points you raised on my note. I learnt an important sign of a serious guy here: he takes you out to meet with his close friends and family members. keep it coming

You go girl!!!

Vivly:
I raise a glass to you op.
Thank you for this thread and your intelligent responses.

And to you, I raise an even bigger glass. Thanks for reading.

Aksonman:
WOW, Bros this particular reply is deep.

Thanks man.

kenex4ever:
did u retire because u r tired? Or u retired because u don tire to wire?

I believe I already answered this question in earlier pages. Read!

remsonik:
Op don turn love doctor overnight. Hmmm the concoction wey u mix for this thread na strong one o. Make all of una no go work on your relationship dey take womanizing advice from Op. What works for you might not work for others. Stop destroying lives and leading men astray

I never called myself a 'love doctor', you did.

uchdollar111:
@op I call my girlfriend at least 3 times a week and regularly send her text, there are times she tells me to recharge her phone, buy her things, but I don't. She tells me that I don't take care of her, that I should buckle up unless I will loose her, she never call me, it's me that do all the calling, what should I do?

I'll advice you to indeed buckle up and tell her to go. You were never in a relationship with her to begin with.

kay29000:
Hmm! Good girls do like bad guys for sure.

Most authentic 'bad guys' tend to be very good people on the inside. Not always though!

abdulkayus:
This guy, I mean the OP still cheat on his wife, that y he said he is a responsible husband and a loving father bt nt a saint, we all grab it nah.

A promiscuous person is alway a promiscuous person. They hardly stop cheating.

U even seem confuse, asking God to forgive u bt still advocating and advising peeps to continue sinning.

Na wa ooooi

JUDGING is also a sin, and that's what you've just done right here.

DrProf:
1) A lot of womanisers i know started cause of heart break and subsequent hatred for women. Did U take d same path?

2) Is it wrong to investigate a woman before you date her?

3) List the cheaper means of getting the harvest. (Dates and too much calls can be expensive na).

4) Thank you for this thread.

1. Throughout my primary to early secondary school years, I was scared of/and crazy shy with girls. The first time I ever summoned up courage to dance with a girl was in SS1-let's just say things took up from there.

2. It is not wrong to investigate a woman before you date her. Especially if she's the type that gives conflicting details about herself during your 'get-to-know-her' stage.

3. Cheaper means of getting 'your harvest'? Invite her on outings and dates to events where someone else has already incurred the expenses on food and drinks i.e your friends birthday party, your cousin's wedding reception, your musician uncle's album launch. You dig?

4. You are welcome.

mymz:
My my! and here i was thinking this part of the world couldn't produce men like this one.
and so to you i raise a glass, Finally! a man worth having. it is rather unfortunate he already belongs to another.
Nevertheless, Bravo!
in another life maybe

I'm blushing! I also wish you lots of love and happiness from here on.

Bizibi:
u really have lived on the other side.....i know it. was easy for u leaving that life because u saw someone u could spend the life with....i am still single but still searching fr the right click from the right one,it seems that click happened quickly when u saw her before u proposed......

All i can say is, when you lay your eyes on the right woman,you will know it...most times!

StPete:
As long as a lady is sexually involved with a guy and another girl, she is bisexual in that act. Bisexual is a term used to define the aforementioned.

It doesn't necessarily work that way but you still have a point.

veegirl:
Hmmmm.....ok o.
Another question: u seem 2 b a 3some expert. So if a girl fantasizes abt havin 3somes does dat make her bisexual?

You know what? From my 'little' experience i've noticed that lots of heterosexual women have the strange ability to perform lewd acts on/with fellow girls without necessarily being or turning gay. Same cannot be said for men.
So my dear, I dare say that your fantasies are in order.

itstpia1:
once a womanizer always a womanizer imo.


that weakness will always be there.

it doesnt just go away like that.

You have a valid point.

hugoart:
RedEboe,thanks again for your charity.
Another question :When a guy sees a beautiful girl he'll like to approach on the street. He says "Hi".She replies congenially with "Hi".How should he proceed? Will a compliment on how beautiful she looks be more appropriate or an introduction of each other,as an opening. Simply put :How do I come away with her phone number? In a sweet,easy way.

whenever you walk up to a beautiful lady always have it at the back of your mind that she's an ordinary human being just like you. I'm sure you've had numerous experiences where you've stirred up or participated in conversations (about English Premiership) with total strangers in Danfos, BRTs or Molues- have that same mindset when next you attempt to toast a pretty lady. Go with the flow.

remsonik:
Well men boasting about their sexcapades as if its normal. Woe betides any lady who opens such thread on nairaland!! In short Op was once a stud. Thank God for your life Op

I agree with you, society tends to tolerate us men 'boasting' about our escapades, while women wouldn't dare say a word about theirs.
Yes, i have every reason to be thankful to God.

perez019:
The only Nairaland thread without insults. I hope this thread doesn't get to FP before it gets derailed. @ op I respect ur intelligent response

THANKS a lot.