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Icandream:
What if u breakup with her today and she ends up with more class and higher status than u tomorrow? I don't wanna sound like a Simp because I'm not one but I wanna advice u the way I'll advise any of my siblings or frnds. Most times in life God will never give us anything as ready made. He likes giving us gifts in the form of seed to cultivate. That's why so many times we miss great opportunities because we thought they were never good enough for us. The girl you're about to dump because u think she doesn't have a status may end in a position to help u in the future because u never can tell what God has in store for her. Maybe God just gave her to u as a seed to cultivate so that u can enjoy de fruit tomorrow. My advice is never marry because of class, material gains, physical looks because non of those superficial features can sustain marriage. Marry the content and this is applicable to both genders. What do I know sef.

She deserves the best... I won't forgive myself if I let her down... Thanks for your advice sir

Ixua:
Guy, better settle for what you want as this guy above me has already taken words from my mouth.
If you feel this girl is not up to your status, just don't even tell her anything at all; just ghost her. Stop everything with her, avoid her at all cost, tell her nothing.
Don't ever tell her she is not up to your status....o. She will hate you with passion.
Don't let emotions rule you.
If she were in your position, she would even do worse and so many people most especially females will applaud her.
If another guy comes out to show that girl more genuine love on a more percentage than what you are showing her and eventually proposes; that girl will not even think of what ever feelings you have for her. (Just do some research about this, you would see it to be true) .She would leave you and marry the guy everyday. Why should it be different when it involves you?..You sef reason am.

I dey feel u sir...

Kirkman:
Oga your options aren't limited, have you ever tried asking her how far with her plans for HND or if she has plans to open a hair dressing salon of her own? It's not all about sleeping with her and satisfying yourself. Make plans for her and upgrade her to whatever status that you want.

Definitely she will open a salon... She will definitely also go back to school... Am just so confused... I feel the target set before me by my two elder brothers is what is making me think she's low in status...

I may keep her and fly her out with me, cause my brothers have it in mind to move me out since their wife's are out there...

redstaarx:
Why you with people emotions?
Why make fake promises ?

I never promised her marriage... Her actions makes me feel she wants marriage...

There's that level of love someone shows to you, u don't need prophet to tell u what she wants...

I know i played with her emotions by not telling her I am not ready, this is my mistake in all these

Ocholu:
What do you mean by rank low bros? She no go school abi wetin? Abi na Onions she de sell for street?

Oh! So you get time to chok your penis inside her oil well, but you no get time to marry her abi? Seems both of you rank low after all. But, from my calculations, you even rank lower than her.

Let me be real with you OP;

Good women de scarce now. If you find one, hold am tight. If not, gimme her digits. You can equally, upgrade her social strata. Publish her to the level you want ma gee.

My goal this year is to chase financial stability... And I could still upgrade her with the right money, but I can't chase two things at the same Time

soundOsonic:
You no get money and you dey talk say the babe no dey your status. What other status are you talking about let us know if it is something understandable.
Meself dey do one local girl like this but I no dey mention status because she is young and have time to grow

She does not fit into my plans... I just don't want to be the odd one out of us (3 boys) the other two have standard wife's... Doctor (working in Saudi) nurse (working in Canada)

The fear of settling down with someone not up to the class of my elder brothers wife is so scaring...

I have vowed to use 2022 to upgrade my financial status as well...

soundOsonic:
She is not in your status?
But you two dey thesame compound dey pay thesame house rent? She dey local.
I understand you sir. But the problem be say you think marriage is all about status?

Hmmmmm na me understand wetin I mean by status... On my part my people will see me as someone with low class as well... I just wish I can make all the money I want to make this year, cos it's only money that can stop this nonsense if I must marry her

Ocholu:
What do you mean by rank low bros? She no go school abi wetin? Abi na Onions she de sell for street?

Oh! So you get time to chok your penis inside her oil well, but you no get time to marry her abi? Seems both of you rank low after all. But, from my calculations, you even rank lower than her.

Let me be real with you OP;

Good women de scarce now. If you find one, hold am tight. If not, gimme her digits. You can equally, upgrade her social strata. Publish her to the level you want ma gee.

Hmmmmm it's my biggest flop ever... I am a graduate, my brothers wife are Doctor and nurse respectively... But she's just got only ND and currently learning hair dressing...



Now I wish she can double date and find a guy who's serious and ready for marriage

Kennyprince:
My only advice is for you to marry this girl and be happy.

Bros, sometimes life doesn't work the way we expect. If she is of good behaviour and all, just marry her.

You mustn't make all the money of earth before marriage bro.

To a large extent is not about money, it's about her level, she ranks low compared to my two elder brothers wife... How do I present her to my parents as my wife is my biggest problem here...

fikayormi:
You should have thought about this before getting to this level but you reason with your dick instead of your brain.

Wo just tell her ASAP she will be bitter and cry but trust me she will be fine

Broken relationship is better than broken marriage after all

It's so bad of me man... I just have to let her go... I keep putting myself into deep mess

sirzee1660:
This story too long but eh! You're bad guy and you will b hurt later in future after wasting her time....guys please if u don't want anything serious just end it within 2 to 3 months it can be easily fixed. Well girls are the course of they problem, most of them loves bad guys ...they will strictly tell u I love bad guys with bad vibes ...this gender no get sense

I just tire brother... How I wan do this wan pass now, the matter wan dey enter her church now, pastor go come dey pressurize her

Digitallegendzx:
Do unto others what you want to be done unto you... Find a time tell her you are going out, go to an eatery and give a good treatment, play live and give her a good memories all the day then find something fascinating like something hooge and give her

Thanks sir... I will try my best to do this

Jamieb:
If you have no intention of being with anyone long term, don't let anything you're having exceed 3 months. One person will eventually catch feelings. This is to avoid a "you use me" later.

OP there is no honourable way to end it. You've wasted her time, love, and everything and now you're leaving her damaged.

Exactly my fear... I have deceived her too much... I feel so bad myself... What can I give her as a pay off...

Good evening nairalanders... This issue is one out of many bothering me in 2022...

Let me first of all apologize for all the evil things I have said about women being so cheap, hence the reason they fall into the hands of bad guys... cos am now guilty of a bad guy here

My previous relationship was just about crashing, in fact I was totally fed up with KATE, I vowed to end 2019 with her, and so it was... I never wanted to have any serious relationship with any lady until I have a sustainable financial source of income... I was doing fine without a girlfriend until this one wriggled her way into my life, thinking she have found love...

So me and this girl (in her late 20's) started dating deep into 2019 to 2020...

Truth is she was the one who toasted me, she would come to our house to charge phone's and the rest, from there things started happening... I felt whatever that's going on won't last long, but hell no, she just wanted true Love... Which I have been deceiving her with

By standard of wife material (she's a perfect example to the core), very caring and loving

her limitations is her status... Way too local and not up to my standard...

We started dating and the truth is that we both have different reasons for dating each other...

I decided to keep her because of the services I get from her as I must constantly oil my engine... I felt everything will die off naturally as my previous relationship has, now am hooked up...

I got to know her intention of marriage in 2020 during the lockdown, but since then i have been looking for ways to end everything with her, cos I have no intention of marrying her and I feel I have deceived her a lot, She sees me as who I am not... And my plain character have deceived her a lot...

She did no wrong loving me, her only offense was that she could not sense that am deceiving her... If she was up to my social status I would have married her but she is no where close to who I can present to my people as my wife...

I have been looking for ways to let her know am not ready to marry er... One taught am having is teaming up with a false prophet to tell er this guy (me) am not the guy for her... She really deserves the best in life, but I see myself as the wrong guy for her... She has never given me any reason to suspect she's dating another guy, all her attention is always on me

This year she's expecting our relationship to move to the next level... Like introduction and the rest

Experts in the house, how do I pull this off... I just don't want her to feel so bad towards me...

Help me!!!

Charbriq2022:
Kindly send me your CV at jbcharcoalbriquettes@gmail.com, make sure there is a way to contact you, let's see if we can work together.

Ok sir I will do that now

Odetokun3:
Location?

Am currently in Delta state... But am open to relocating to any part of the country sir

Odetokun3:
Then take it easy and don’t see suicide as an alternative. What can you do?

Am trying to get myself skilled up in ui ux design... But the fear of doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results is my biggest challenge now, where I live I feel too relaxed, and I don't see myself getting to that level if I don't move, I can only move when I get a job... Any kind of job

Odetokun3:
Don’t think suicide. Think solution pls

Getting a job... No matter how little the pay is, is just the solution I can think of now...

I just want go be working with my hands and not sit idle all day

Good evening naira landers... Most often times I read about people who go ahead to commit suicide, many people here will comment that, if u have a problem why not share it with someone...

In my own case I have shared my problems to alot of people offline and they don't seem to understand how depressed and frustrated I am with life now...

I don't know if taking my own life is the next option now, but I feel I should still come out here to cry for help...

I finished my nysc in 2019 just before covid hit us hard... Till now life has been meaningless with no clear direction of what my future looks like... I don't see myself as a lazy man, and I don't want to bow to the pressure of going into crime... Cos the end result is always full of regret... In few days I will be 31 and I have no job, no thing to show for as a man... I feel my life has all but ended, I just don't know why I feel this way, I have searched go job but none is forth coming, 2022 will soon be here and if I don't start something, I will end up not achieving anything again...

I am pleading for those who have connections to please help me get a job, I believe that would ease my frustrations and depression to a great extent...

The thought of me seeing myself as a failure at 31 makes me feel like comiting suicide...

It's well o

rikah:
Try 1global for online or you can do Buying and selling of Big of rice and beans.
People buy food items everyday

Can u give me more details about these 2 points and how to go about it...

Can I get ur Whatsapp number pls

LifeSolutionsTV:
Affiliate Marketing is a good way to go.

However, you don't even need money to start Affiliate Marketing in so many cases.


I can mentor you and others on Affiliate Marketing here on Nairaland and whatsapp if you and a few others are ready to learn.

Please i need ur mentorship sir zero hate zero six six two nine double zero 3 five

Or pls give me urs... Thanks

Omicron999:
Same way your capital might disappear online


Day trading forex, but your capital too is at risk.

what about affiliate marketing... is it something i can go into... do you have an idea!

Please how can I get a daily paid job... Not necessarily concrete or brick layers own o

Please guide me on how to register am new...

08066290035

Am a Ui Ux designer... Though not an expert....

SUPERPACK:
Fried akara and yam business.

Thanks boss... But I don't have that kind of zeal and mind to do these, I actually wanted an online investment... If any

Good day naira landers... Please I just want to hear from the good people of this forum...

It's out of frustration leading to depression that am typing this.... I have no job, I have no money, my life has not started approaching 31... Suicide thought keeps coming every time I think about my life....

I need help, I need advice... If u are willing to help me with advice, I could share more of my life challenges with u....

I have a seasonal job, that can fetch me over 200k within 2-3 months, and after that season I go back to square one, because I have no investment for it... I brought my cry to this forum to know if there's actually any investment I can do that will give me 2-3 profit everyday...

Please help me with valid advice

So madam what do you want social media to do for you now... beat up ur husband and arrest him for you...

i see no sense in bringing ur private life to social media... as if when it was going smooth una inform us...

na people wey give una attention i blame

McTwinkleToes1:
Yes ooo... She has grown well well, and also doing well in dance... Hope you watched the Video Also?

I know nothing about her... i just wan feel among na im make me dey comment

i no kukukma no the movie nor the girl, but she don big o