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this is one of the core truths that turned many men red pill,, while a man hustles in his early years to put his life together, women are having their fun. And when these women are tired they then decide to settle, just in time as hustling guys are getting successful. So now women are ready to settle and men are ready to commit, which is not bad in itself but for the fact that women are serving men secondhand left over coochie but want men's freshly minted coins. That's what men are rebelling against. Its robbery.

A prostitute can't become emotionally attached to her client. If there exists any, it is a facade. By the way, prostitutes have men they love genuinely + freely fvck them.

Guys paying for sex are suffering

Every human being has his or her own frame. Men and women have their own frame. And generally 80% of the Male population (the Beta majority) by default break frame when they deal with women,, as in they leave their own frame and enter a woman's frame, as in they abandon their own dominance of their reality and break their own rules to satisfy/align with/live by, the woman's rules - which is her frame.

This is why, by default, women have control in conventional relationships and hold all the power. It's because women have maintained frame. And men have broken frame.

But, Women break rules for the alpha.....

If a woman perceives you to be Alpha, she's more than willing to "break frame" for you and enter your frame. This is the "women break rules for the alpha" part.

By now it must be clear that women very much want to enjoy dick first before settling down in marriage. The men the women sleep with before marriage are their first and primary choice. Their favorites. IF WOMEN DIDN'T HAVE TO MARRY, THEY WOULD HAVE NO REASON TO DEAL WITH BETAS.. In other words, IF WOMEN DIDN'T NEED MONEY THEY'D HAVE NO REASON TO DEAL WITH 80% OF MEN. It's for this reason why many men are forcing marriage down women's throats. The reason many men want marriage to matter, because it's the only way they'll get a woman to give them unlimited sex.

every relationship one person is in LOVE and one person is in POWER.

The one in LOVE gets the opportunity to date the fantasy and has butterflies in the stomach and lives in a dream world of rainbows and roses. Love here is a feeling. And the things of duty are done out of love.

The one in POWER doesn't get the fantasy, has no butterflies in the stomach and doesn't live in any dream world. Love here is mental. And the things of love are done out of duty.

The one in LOVE sacrifices, compromises, begs and forgives quickly to save the relationship and keep it going cause the relationship is important and valuable to self. The burden to keep the relationship alive is on these shoulders. This leaves this one with practically zero power in the relationship. 80% of men live here and only 20% of women do.

On the other hand, The one in POWER is careless, callous, self-serving, mindless, demanding and quick to call it quits because the relationship is not that important and has little value to self. This is where power in a relationship lies. This power translates to being easily forgiven, having things done your way most of the times, being treated best, your complaints dealt with expeditiously and your wishes being the other person's command. 80% of women live here and only 20% of men do.

To women:
Love, dating, relationship, marriage = security, money and romance, long term mating. (with Nice Guys). Man desires >>> Woman. Genuine desire from man to woman.

Lust, genuine desire = fun, thrills, short term mating AKA no strings attached sex, Friends with benefits, one night stands etc. (with Bad Boys). Woman desires >>>>Man. Genuine desire from woman to man.

Money is the god of men and the messiah of women. Your sexual fantasies as a man can be stretched to the moon and back in a day, week, or month as the case may be; trust my beautiful women, they never disappoint.

If you are a fan of nightclubs you will get my point well. Women can fvck anything and will fvck for anything when cash is on the table. There is no way you will visit the nightclubs once, twice...and still have an atom of faith in women except for the younger ones under the watchful eyes of their parents and are virgins too. But for the record, women of this generation are a lost cause!

Kai

Women love sex, and if they are not giving to you from coast to coast, then you're simply not their first choice. It's sad to know, but the truth will set you free. Next time, marry woman that chooses you, that desires you, and can't wait to finish work and fork you to death.

You don't convince or logically argue your way into a woman's heart, telling her how you'll love and treat her like no other, that's Hollywood nonsense. It works if she already chooses you.

No matter how cheap and easy a hoe is, the sex is never worth the prize, most are single moms to bad boy thugs in their hood, they are damaged and gone, they are worthless entities who just see you as a means to an end, a survival ticket, they are hungry and useless.

Reason why you should not patronize prostitute or be in a transactional relationship with a girl that doesn't like you; typically hoes are
Post wall
Ugly- facially, bodily
Stretch marks
Sagging breasts, wornout skin
No intimacy
No emotional bonding
No experimentation or it's costly and mechanical
No respect
No love and passion
No submission
No Alphaness
Rude and mannerless
No excitement - boring
No passion
Std
They are dirty
No lust, No care, it's not personal
It's time bound not enjoyable
Pleasure after they stress you
You will be disappointed in yourself
You will loose respect for yourself
You would be ashamed
They are combative
They are masculine
They are stupid and damaged
They are criminal
They are hardened and hate you with passion
It's negotiable
It's not enjoyable
No moaning or faking moaning
They rush you
You can't feel safe with them
It's an addiction
It's a bad habit
You join cultist, drug abusers and drunkards

Labadi69:
Go and ask your papa what the red pill solution is. Idiots here actually think this redpill is some sort of ilumaniti cult not knowing that it is ugly broke losers wey no fit get women full am. The scum of men on earth. If you like no go hustle. Dey here dey ask stupid jamb questions while your mates dey street dey find how to put food for table. Yamayama scatter that your bald head there. Lazy youth

Yama yama scatter your head
Dirty looking simp
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Labadi69

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Puccy has its own mind. It can't be forced because genuine desire can't be forced. If it hates you it hates you. And the sex will be the absolute bare minimum that the girl must give to keep you.

This is how Beta relationships are set up.

Guy chooses a girl he likes and uses money as bait. What he gets is a girl he likes who gives him an erection when he hugs her but her puccy runs away from him because the feeling is not mutual.

Gentlemen, even if you've money, endeavor to play the alpha game: Use your BODY as bait and wait to be CHOSEN. This way you get a girl who thinks with her vagina whenever she's around you.

If a woman's pussy hates you you're in danger of raising another man's kids because the puccy gets instructions from the womb: How the puccy feels about you is how her womb feels about you and if her womb hates you it's going to hate to carry your babies. Instead it will push the woman to the men whose copies it wants to make. Remember the womb is nothing but nature's photocopier. Only the genes it likes get copied and passed on to the next generation. Which brings us to telegony, how the woman's body stores the genes of men it considers prime specimen and those genes are called into action during a woman's pregnancy. Which is to say your woman can give you a child that looks like her ex even without sleeping with him after the breakup. This is very Frankenstein stuff.... People should stick to virgins.

Anyways, it is far far better for a woman to hate you with all her heart but her puccy love you. The Pic below is disgusting on so many levels.

In a perfect world we cold approach for sex and hot approach for love. Meaning the girls we salivate for, who are the Spec and who make us go "damn!!" - we don't wait for choosing signals but go in direct cause what does it matter they've no real genuine desire for us, we just wanna hit and run. Nothing big.
Problem here is that where we desire and like, we're eager to SPEND. And a lot of the times spending is the shortcut to success. Which then works against us because we start to get invested the more we spend to succeed, and in no time what was meant to be temporary we end up forcing to be permanent because we've invested a lot into that situation.

Let's say you like a girl and she lives far and requires a considerable amount of money to come to you, that money once you spend it, you won't want just 1 night with the girl. You'll want a whole weekend. Which will lead you to spend even more. Then after that weekend you've spent so much you wanna see her again soon cause you feel the sex you got was not equal to the money you spent. Especially if she limited the sex. When you see her again you once more spend and ask for more from her. In the end you're entangled with this girl because you've been spending and it's hard to let go cause there's this nagging feeling that you haven't got your total money's worth from her. You're invested. Sunk Cost Fallacy has kicked in. You feel you've spent too much on her to just hit and run. SO YOU ASK FOR A RELATIONSHIP. And now you're dating a girl you were meant to pump and dump. You date for 2 or 3 years continuously spending on the chick cause you love her, and what do you know!!! After time passes you calculate you could have bought a car by now with all the cash you've channelled to this girl. And now you feel even more invested. She's now too valuable to lose. You've simply spent too much on her to lose her to some other guy. SO YOU PROPOSE. And just like that your life is joined with a woman who never loved you. Welcome to hell. It's how many troubled marriages originate. How men get stuck in loveless marriages.
It's why I personally don't talk a lot about cold approaching. Cause so much bad can result from it. You were smart enough to deduce the game and refuse to put in that initial investment of 20K. Nice.
this is one of the greatest weaknesses of cold approaching. You don't know a woman's state of mind at that point. A perfectly suitable girl who could have welcomed your advances on any given day may be having a hell of a day she'll coldly shoot you down. Hence cold approaching rarely gets you quick sex (unless you're outrightly paying) the most you can come out with is just phone numbers, and you continue the work later on via chatting.

Amazingly these variables that incapacitate cold approaching turn out to be Chosen's greatest strength. The girl who is otherwise not available to you because of social class, religion, financial bracket, marital status etc, on that one day, at that one hour, just cause she's going through something, or has experienced something - she can be in a mood for a little fun or to be a bad girl. And choose you. A lot of the sexual successes of Chosen is being at the right place at the right time. That's why sex via Chosen can be easily same day and free with NO PHONE NUMBERS EXCHANGED. There'll not be a more superior game.

While cold approaching requires you to search for those girls that catch your eye, hot approaching (Chosen), requires you to keep a watchful eye for those girls looking like they're down to fucc.

Cold Approaching is about getting a woman to want you.

Hot Approaching is about finding that woman who already wants you.

Rihanna is masculine (a giver) and ASAP is feminine (a taker) ,, meaning she's the one spoiling the guy and the guy is basically pïmpíng her. Relationships where the woman has more money than the guy usually play out this way. ASAP is the prettier of the pair, not to say he's more good-looking than her but SHE thinks he's hotter than her. Riri thinks ASAP is the prize and will do anything for him. The guy even said he loves shopping lol presumably with Riri's money.

I have always said it here that IT'S ALWAYS ABOUT BABIES. You know a girl really likes you when she wants to give you a baby because she values you enough to want a copy of you. It's safe to say ASAP makes Rihanna's pussy wetter than Chris Brown ever did.

Also a woman not getting married doesn't mean much cause marriage is not really an investment for women. They can get married every weekend if they want cause they don't even pay a cent towards the wedding and contribute next to nothing in a marriage. Hence women are the ones mostly divorcing men. They're not invested. It's the men.

Now what is a bigger investment for a woman in her dealings with a man is pregnancy. Pregnancy is a far bigger investment for women than actual marriage because for the next 18 to 20 years of her life she has this little human to care for and put first. MeanWhile a man is not invested in a baby and can make baby every weekend with many women and proceed to ghost all of them and live like he doesn't have one kid.

greenlight is how women approach. And greenlights are simply a woman giving you a sign that she likes you or that she "sees you".

Men and women are different.

Men are direct. Women are indirect.

If a girl approaches you directly and comes up to you and tells you straight she wants to fucc you, it won't work cause you'll tag her a hoe and a prostitute. At least 90% of guys will. Hence she needs to be subtle and indirect so as not to scare you off.

Men - direct,,
Women - indirect:

For example,, if a guy wants sex from his GF what does he do? Go to her, start touching her, talk sweet words to her ear, and the rest is history. He initiates.

If a girl wants sex from her BF is she direct like him? Does she initiate? Nope. To initiate is masculine. So she does her thing indirectly. Femininely. She puts on that short skirt she knows always gets BF hot and bothered, then keep doing whatever she's doing in front of him till desire overcomes HIM and he initiates the sex.

That's the female method. Most of the times BF don't realize the sex was GF's idea. Greenlights use the same blueprint.

For example: every lunch hour a guy keeps bumping into a girl at the local takeaway. Every day. And he starts noticing her. Then makes up his mind to ask her out. And she agrees. They click and date. However something funny happens. Soon after the two are an item, the girl stops visiting the takeaway. And the guy is surprised. But No, the girl visiting the place was actually a GREENLIGHT. She was actually chasing him!! And she never knew it. All the while HE thought it was him chasing her.
As they say,,, YOU CHASE A WOMAN UNTIL SHE CATCHES YOU.
That's how indirect women can be. Women will join clubs, attend matches, join churches etc all to get close to their target so he notice and hopefully likes what he sees and acts.

Now, a girl giving you a green light is her doing her best cause she's feminine and has to get you to make the first move cause you're the Man. If she's too direct she upsets the balance of the masculine and feminine energies between you and her.
For example: if a girl comes up to you and kisses you and takes your dicc out,, you'll feel embarrassed and emasculated as a man cause she's too fast for you. That emasculation is you losing your masculine energy to her. Thus the balance of energy is screwed up and you won't perform at optimal cause you're now intimidated.

Some things just don't wish for them man.

A girl knows the first few seconds of seeing a guy if she'll fucc him or not. The moment she lays eyes on you she has decided "this one can get it!" or "pass!" - Even though you never asked, even though you don't even want her, even though you don't even see her, even though the circumstances are not sexual (eg at a funeral) - - - but she has already made up her mind about you. You can visit a new church and they ask you to stand up and introduce yourself, and the moment you stand up women will be deciding if they can let you fucc or not!! Every female you meet whatever the circumstances, she's making that decision about you. Not necessarily planning to sleep with you, but filing you either under fuccable or non-fuccable.

So talking to a girl and getting her to bed is not really convincing her to do something she didn't initially want, but more about her doing what she decided on the first place. Hence a girl who likes you will let you hit without so much as a pick up line.
Blessed is that man who can work out which category a woman has placed him in.

An important reason why being Chosen is best method of getting a girl (without reference to genuine desire) is that whether her desire is true or fake, you as a man ARE NEVER INVESTED. That's the whole point. This means you're not pressed to impress her by doing romantic (costly) stuff and all those over-the-top shenanigans guys do to get a girl to like them. And she won't mind pulling her own weight cause she came to you first. When you're not invested you easily maintain frame and stay cold."ladies admire the confidence",, - - - - no one can deny this. Just like women are impressed with dazzling pickup lines. But converting all that to actual sex is another story. Cause the pussy still remains dry cause you're not her type. A fat short guy can cold approach all day along with all the confidence of a Sparta,, but if the women he's approaching don't like fat short men all that will be for nothing. A light skin fella can be confident, but if he's dealing with women who want dark skin fellas, his confidence will be for nothing. Women like confidence, but from the men they want. If they don't want you,, confidence won't create the genuine desire.

rich women cheat for sex
Poor women cheat for money

That's the summary.

A poor man's greatest opponent is that rich man who can throw money at his wife and unlock her legs.

A rich man's greatest opponent is that broke jobless gym rat who has time, experience and the body to fucc his bougie wife.
Genuine Desire" is another way of saying "Lust".
And Genuine Desire must not be confused with Genuine Love

It's called the Female Dual Mating Strategy. It's been said over and over here:

To women:
Love, dating, relationship, marriage = security, money and romance, long term mating. (with Nice Guys). Man desires >>> Woman. Genuine desire from man to woman.

Lust, genuine desire = fun, thrills, short term mating AKA no strings attached sex, Friends with benefits, one night stands etc. (with Bad Boys). Woman desires >>>>Man. Genuine desire from woman to man.

The men who turn women on are usually useless for solid relationships. Or let me say, The men that women are compatible with sexually they're usually not compatible with romantically. Good fuccers are rarely husband material.


Women don't love the way men love. Women love their own way. Opportunistically - "if you have ABC I'll love you" That kind of love, women reserve for husband-material men (Nice Guys).
Hence the greatest insult a woman can tell you is that you'll make a good father. That means you're a loser and you deserve the heart. Not the pussy. But women say this with the purest of intentions. But it simply means you're a loser.

guarding a woman is fruitless. The guys must know this.

You won't catch a cheating woman cause Men and women cheat differently.

Men cheat "out of rhythm". Women cheat "in rhythm".

What this means is that when men cheat, it's easy to see cause they start acting different. They start doing irregular stuff. They fall out of their rhythm or routine. A cheating man starts to come home late, eat less, go earlier for work, change his dressing, start having money issues etc. He gets out of his daily rhythm.

However, women cheat inside the routine, inside the rhythm. They don't miss a step. They don't skip a beat. They keep doing the same old things the same way at the same time. SHe leaves the house and returns at the same exact time. Her programme stays exactly the same. What changes, is that she cuts THE TIME SHE SPENDS IN HER PROGRAMMES. Instead of leaving work and going to cheat like a man, which makes him arrive home late, a woman leaves work earlier and go cheat and arrive home normal time. If she gets a guy she wanna fucc regularly after work before getting home, she registers for an evening course, eg makeup course, then attend on some days while bunking on others to go fucc. Her man won't see anything. Cause everything stays the same.

A man who attempts to mate-guard is a man who has never cheated with a married woman. Anyone who has ever been with someone's woman, knows how perfectly women play the game.
A lot of the times when women turn down sex at home telling their man "not tonight baby I have a headache" it's because that pussy swollen and full of cum from an earlier hookup.

Same thing different genders

Bad Boy Player = Nice Chaste Virgin Girl

If the Bad Boy Thug was born a female he was going to be a nice chaste virgin girl,, if the nice chaste virgin girl was born a boy she was going to be a Bad Boy Player.

The Bad Boy Player is EMOTIONALLY PURE, AN EMOTIONAL VIRGIN, EMOTIONALLY CHASTE.
The Nice Chaste Virgin Girl is SEXUALLY PURE.

And both can be trusted around the opposite
gender.

What women want from a man is his heart, and what men want from a woman is her pussy. The Bad Boy and the Virgin Girl are both stingy with their assets. The Bad Boy is emotionally unavailable, while the Virgin Girl is sexually unavailable. Both are the cream of the crop. The very best.

Hence at the end the Bad Boy marries the Virgin. Cause they are two sides of the same coin. The same version in different genders

the world will not discourage female masturbati0n cause its a profitable business. Male masturbati0n only benefits pörń sites. But females' own is an entire business industry. The selection of šěx ťöýs that are being sold to women is mind boggling. Because women have multiple pleasure zones there's room to create many products to benefit more from encouraging them to masturbatė. While men are content with just their hand on the dick, women need clitoral simulation (that has its own selection of toys), vagina stimulation (with its own selection of toys), cervical stimulation (with its own selection of toys) and anal stimulation (again with its own selection of toys),,,,.. Its huge business. And the fastest toy at the moment is the Rose, which is driving women crazy.

Downsides to female masturbati0n? They're overstretching their pussy and becoming less sensitive. The damage women used to experience from wwhoring they now experience through toys. And A lot of their pussy have become insensitive to normal sex. Case in point that viral Twitter thread from a few months ago of women expressing how trashy sex feels to them lately. And as usual, blaming men for it. There's a running joke on Instagram that women's bedrooms sound like barbershops every night with all the bzzzzz

while hypergamy is undeniable,, women are first of all emotional creatures and pussy can trump the heart - this the reason a lot of these women's babydaddys are lowlife jerks they always try to hide. I'm forever fascinated by those guys who are clearly losers but who are always getting girls pregnant. That shiit enough to make anyone question the suppossed iron-grip hypergamy has on the female species. But it all comes together when you realize at the end of the day women are not trying to marry those prolific impregnators, they just get pregnant, then go marry the respectable provider in accordance with Alpha Fvcks Beta Bucks (afbb). The balance of Hypergamy with AFBB needs to be talked about more.

Moving on, two of the drawbacks of cold approaching that I really hate is how much work you've to put in for pussy lol,, as your closing statement indicates.. That's just too much work for a wet hole.
And two,, it's with girls they cold approach that guys lose frame more and compromise their standards: If I see a girl who blows my mind and do all I can to get her, after getting her and in the middle of my celebrations I discover she has a kid, was married before or has something that I swore I would never tolerate on a girl (eg tattoos), cutting her off will be hard cause 1)I'm invested and 2)I'm in love. It's always under these circumstances that men drop the ball and seemingly straightthinking men end up with a questionable babe - the guys wanted the girl so bad her shortcomings didn't matter.

Masters attract, amateurs chase.

Attraction is passive. Chasing is active.

If you've read ilegendd posts on Passive Income you'll better understand how attraction works VS chasing.

You can either make money while you work (active) or you can make money while you sleep (passive).

Investing in yourself and letting your new improved body do the work of attracting on your behalf (aka Chosen) is like passive income. Chasing women, spending on them to impress them (aka Choosing) is active.

What is the difference between Attracting (passive) and Chasing (active)?

To understand this consider Wonderwoman and Medusa. Wonderwoman is a warrior princess with supernatural abilities trained to be the ultimate fighting machine. Medusa is that woman demon dwelling away from society with snakes for hair, you look at her you turn to stone.

Who is the most powerful between these two entities?

Easy.

Medusa.

Why?

Cause Medusa's power is PASSIVE. While Wonderwoman's power is ACTIVE.

You only have to LOOK at Medusa and you're toast!! While you can safely look at Wonderwoman and for her to destroy you she has to get up and attack. Yes, Wonderwoman will kill you, but she has to get up, pick up her sword and attack. Meanwhile Medusa kills you WITHOUT DOING ANYTHING.

Medusa's power is passive. Wonderwoman's power is active. Just like how Passive Income keeps coming even while you sleep, Medusa's passive power still kills you even while she sleeps. Look at her and you die. No matter she's asleep.

Now when we talk about the Body Game (gym, fitness, cleanliness, smelling nice, dressing sharp, posture and way of walking) , we're talking the Medusa passive power. You seduce without raising a finger. Girls just look and pussy gets wet. Not all girls obviously. But it's your job to work out whose pussy is wet by looking for Choosing Signals aka green lights. Bottom line, them looking is enough. While Cold Approachers have to physically go up to a random girl, talk to her, get her number, seduce her via Whatsapp over 7 days until maybe one day they manage to turn her on and secure a meetup,,,, with passive power, your looks turn women on there and then. Before you even talk to them, before you even see them. THEY have seen you and become seduced. Your LOOKS do the seducing on your behalf. Without you raising your a finger

security matters most to women cause it's long term. Yes, alpha fvcks is short term. So?

Are you looking for marriage or are you looking for fun with women. Let's begin there.

If you're looking for marriage you'll find this thread off-putting. Cause this thread is about fun with women. It's about short term mating with females, cause that's what benefits men the most since men remain uncommitted yet getting sex. Marriages and long-term relationships, if they occur, must first start as Alpha Fvcks. That part of the equation is the source of everything.

And Alpha Fvcks is NOT hypergamy. Get that right.

And everything in life is about sex. You may hide that under a ton of bs but at the end of the day, life, school, careers, jobs, all achievements are about women and the pussy. Admit it or not. That's why after a man has achieved everything, he seeks for a wife. Remove all women from the world and even yourself who's yapping endlessly about money will find yourself without any motivation to do anything.
Women’s orgasms are useless to nature because women can get pregnant, make babies and the human species continue without women ever experiencing any orgasms, so women's orgasms are not essential - BUT it doesn't mean women don't want those orgasms and won't pay to have them or chase men who give them. Women WILL PAY and treat nicely any man who can consistently give them orgasms. To women these men are Alphas. And women worship them. That's the point you're missing in all your rumblings. The very fact that women cheat so much tells you just how much orgasms matter to women, even though they don't matter to you and nature. To women orgasms are relevant and useful. As red pillers we want to be those men who supply those orgasms because that's how you get the most respect from a woman and get sex free and the sex be the best sex women can give. Which is the Alpha Fvcks.

SUCCESS doesn't make anyone alpha. I don't know how many times you have to be told this. Being Alpha is about getting women. Regardless of your financial status or social class.

You can encourage men to uplift themselves and aim for the stars, which is noble. But that is not going to make any man alpha who is not already alpha. Money magnifies what you are. If you were a broke simp, money will just make you a rich simp. If you were a broke alpha, money will just make you a rich alpha. This is because it all boils down to your sex appeal. Do you turn women on or not. Alpha turns women on so women will deal with him regardless of his money status because he pulls women on a sexual level. AN ALPHA SOLVES WOMEN'S SEXUAL PROBLEMS . On the other hand, Beta doesn't turn women on, so he offers them money to have their attention, his pull on women is social. Never sexual. A BETA SOLVES A WOMAN'S FINANCIAL PROBLEMS.

Having Money and being successful seems alpha until you meet a woman with her own success and money who doesn't need yours and you become stuck. Some time ago, I asked gents here WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO OFFER TO A WOMAN WHO DOESN'T NEED YOUR MONEY? and I didn't get a straight answer. The answer is DICK. Which makes you alpha with that particular woman. You are alpha when a woman has no other reason to stick with you except sex. And you're beta when a woman has no other reason to stick with you except money. Women have two uses for men 1)money 2)sex. If you are used for money you're Beta. If you're used for sex you're Alpha. And one woman's alpha can be another woman's Beta. And vice versa. Depending on what each woman wants from him.

We can look up to great men and feel inspired and consider them alpha leaders. But that's not Alpha in the "alpha fuccs" sense of the word. If men want to be great in life it's fine. But no one must think that will make him Alpha in the sense that he'll turn women on. That shiit is about your body and sex appeal. Money without the body game and sex appeal will only yield transactional relationships and chore sex. First of all be able to turn women on, then use money and success as the icing on the cake. But if you do this you'll become too intimidating to the average woman because you're the total package now. Where most men are usually richer than their woman but the woman stays prettier,,,, you're richer AND prettier than your woman. Next to you the woman feels insignificant and invisible. YOU get the most stares. YOU get the most compliments. YOU are always the center of attraction. This is what being alpha is. You are placed first ahead of your woman. You are number 1.

Alpha has become a confusing word on NL. People are forcing the World Alpha to be the Redpill alpha. And they're getting frustrated because they realize redpill nature that brings success with women will however make them pariahs in business and finance.

Now, generally one doesn't need the redpill to be alpha out in the world. Hit your books, graduate, get a good career going, display leadership skills and you're about there. No Red Pill needed. And you definitely don't need the redpill to be rich and successful.

Now a redpiller who wants to be a world alpha will have to compromise a lot of his red pill nature because the world is very blue pill. Yes in some areas your esoteric knowledge will give you an edge, but you'll generally be forced to tone down your masculinity to fit it and get along.The redpill is about WOMEN AND SEX. So success in the redpill is always going to be defined in the context of WOMEN AND SEX. That's just simple logic.

See, if the redpill was about hunting animals success in the redpill was going to be about how many animals you kill and get.
If the redpill was about sports, then success was going to be defined in terms of how many trophies you win. Do you see?

But then the redpill is about women and sex, so how is success within the redpill defined? As being rich and having a great career?

redpill is for people who want to understand women. Not people who want to put their life in the "right direction" as in become successful. Start from page 1 of this long thread and you won't see anything about investments and business. It's women women women.

Still the redpill will tell you to get your finances in order, but that's not to make you alpha, because Beta Simps also have their finances in order, so what makes your finances special? Especially since Betas by default have more finances!

Thing is, you're expecting things from the redpill that the redpill never promised.

Should you focus on women or focus on bettering yourself first? If you're failing with women the Alpha way is to develop your BODY and SEX APPEAL (gym and self care) till you start seeing success with women. That's the red pill way.

The Blue Pill way is to accumulate money and use it to attract women. Downside being that those women will first have their fun with the Body and Sex Appeal guys until they're tired and start giving you attention. Also, during the relationship those same women will make you pay for what they're giving the body and sex appeal guys for free secretly on the side. These are the painful things that bring many guys to the redpill.

Be successful in life for your own comforts, not to get women because it will hurt you when those same women fucc the gateman who has nothing but a hard body from years of toiling.

P/S this "succeed first, get women after" mindset is exactly why I've been saying ALL ROADS LEAD TO SEX. Because all your plans end with women as the trophies.

you don't need any special knowledge about women to choose to chase success.

Your constant need to be successful first then think about women after is a bluepill approach to the world. And your reliance on hypergamy to bring women to you just makes you a Beta Bucks. I don't even see why you don't see it.


Listen, you came to the redpill to understand women. When you graduate you'll have a thorough understanding of women. Anything else you can get without the redpill.

Alpha Fuccs Beta Bucks means an alpha is the one thrown pussy by women. You don't have to like this or even agree with it but that's just the meaning of the phrase. If you want to be alpha with your money that is only possible in other spaces outside the redpill. I don't know what pisses you guys off so much that a man is valued for his dick in this space. Did you people come to the red pill expecting to be honored for your brains, talents and achievements? Well guess what? Brains, talents and achievements don't make a pussy wet. No matter how much we all would like it to be so. Please,, stop going against Alpha Fuccs Beta Bucks just cause it irritates you and reduces men to dicks. You're corrupting the very red pill you're trying to master. Yes you'll always be great out there with your talents and everything but in women and sex THAT DOESN'T COUNT. Make peace with it already please.Guys women throw pussy to pretty men who turn them on regardless of the men's economic status without marrying these men,,, and then the same women give their pussy at a price to unattractive men who don't turn them on and they marry these men regardless of their looks. It's called the female dual mating strategy: DICK FROM THE PRETTY BOYS, MONEY FROM THE UGLY MEN.
Now between the pretty boys and the ugly men who's getting a sweeter deal? obviously those pretty boys who get sex handed to them free on a silver plater on the daily. Now It's because of this that the pretty boys are considered winners. Or what is called Alphas. We'll keep repeating this over and over until it registers.An alpha can be many things depending on the situation. The redpill is clear and unambiguous about what it considers Alpha: ALPHA FUCCS. the alpha is that guy who gets pussy thrown at him while other men pay for it. That's the definition of Alpha in the redpill. In the normal world that person is usually called the Stud. And is showered with praises. In the redpill he is the alpha.

Guys who find this too low and too demeaning are just disappointed cause they expected more. But it is what it is. Pity anyone who became redpill hoping for world greatness. Sorry papa. Here it's about your dick. No matter how trifling, nonsensical and weak that sounds. Or maybe guys just wanna be a wallet and an ATM? Cause that's the only other option. You can either Be a dick or be an ATM. Choose your poison.

Alpha is having pussy thrown at you. Beta is having to rely on money to get pussy rationed to you.

Because generally ugly guys don't get pussy thrown at them, ugly guys are considered Beta. Cause at the end its about looks and sex appeal.

Money has nothing to do with alphaness so the lack of it or the accumulation of it doesn't change anything. A broke alpha will be a rich alpha,, just as a broke Beta will be a rich Beta if he comes upon money. An Alpha and a Beta stimulate different areas in a woman. An Alpha makes the pussy wet, regardless of his economic situation. A Beta makes a woman feel secure regardless of his looks.

Yes, Pïmpš are not handsome by any stretch. But here the game gets complex. It becomes psychological. That's why in the world of prostitutes and Pïmpš there's no Alpha Beta/masculine feminine. There's Prostitutes and Pïmpš on one side and the "square world" on the other. The reason the game changes is that Pïmpš DON'T FUCC prostitutes, it's the customers who do and it's prostitutes who make the money,, and then hand ALL OF THE MONEY to the Pïmp who turns around and uses it to take care of the prostitutes. Looking at this dynamic with a red pill lens, the prostitute is the Beta Bucks who uses her money to win the dick of the Pïmp, she can't use her pussy with the Pïmp cause her pussy is for every man so has no value. The only thing of value a prostitute has is her MONEY. When prostitutes choose a Pïmp they entice him with MONEY,, where other women entice with PUSSY. If you've watched a lot of prostitute films you'll see them walk up to a guy and give him money, over many days sometimes, and then start calling him Daddy. Making him a Pïmp. If the guy is clueless, the prostitute will teach him the game. And keep giving him all of their money. Prostitutes choose men who LOVE MONEY using the man's love for money as the hook and knowing fully well the man loves the money they bring more than the prostitutes who bring the money. Which is opposite normal male/female relationships where a woman uses sex and choose men who love sex using the man's love for sex as the hook and knowing fully well the man loves the sex more than the woman herself. You can appreciate how the complex dynamics end up being more about psychology than mere looks on the part of the man. Still Even though a lot pïmps are ugly, the prostitutes themselves think pïmps are hot. And pïmps generally outshine prostitutes in the dress department. Women in general are fascinated by pïmps.

When a woman chooses you in lust make the opportunity count. What does she do? Where does she work? What career opportunities can you get through her? Does she know industry insiders she can connect you with? Can she get a business loan on your behalf? Can she get you discounts on things you want that she has connections to? Eg, if a nurse falls for your dick, that's your chance to get expert health advice and service. The women will never say no.

The possibilities are endless.

Sex is the goal of the Beta because his woman is his fantasy.

Sex is the tool of the Alpha because he is his woman's fantasy.

While a Beta will do anything for his woman, a woman will do anything for her alpha.

Beta=uses everything to get women
Alpha=uses women to get everything

Your dick can unlock a world of blessings if you know how.
Guys don't have an idea just how much even 1 girl can change their life in this simping culture of ours. That 22 year old girl who's infatuated with you and has no experience in life and you don't really like cause she's not your type although she herself has a huge crush on you, guess what's happening in her DMs. Guess who's begging her for attention all day everyday? All types of men. Students workers, managers, businessmen, CEOs. They're all in there. Ready to do anything for her. All it takes is for her to pass your name to the right man, calling your her cousin, and your life will change. A woman knows more men than you. And total strangers are ready to do a woman favors that only your very best friends will do for you. That girl chasing you that you're totally not feeling cause maybe she's not your class, may just be the one girl who hands you the business opportunity of your life through some guy infatuated with her.

Next time you're tempted to feel like being valued for your dick is useless, think about what I just said today.