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emmaodet:
Please, stop this. You are not a failure. It is the situation of the country and the world at large that has caused this.



W e can't blame our parents. Many of them didn't forecast a world like this will happen. They married for Love and mostly not for money and they were contented with what they had unlike us, this generation.



I will advise against this bro. I know you are angry and somehow getting desperate seeing there is no way out on your current path and no solution in sight. I had been there before.



Smiles........i quiet understand your frustration



It is not uncommon to many young struggling Nigerian men/boys.

About Advice. I am short of words currently about your story.

Give me some time, like a week to ponder on all what you have wrote.

Martinez39s:
Kai. At that point, you lacked some red pill. As I have always said, it is not by decent dressing, nice gestures, wearing christain cover shoes or hijab, speaking in tougues, good character in many aspects, attending Deeper Life church, saying that they are not after your money etc. As usual, a woman can do all these and still be a big hòe and gold digging viper (all women are gold diggers anyway, survival tinz).

The flaw of men is that we look at the outward appearance and make assumptions upon it; making big and hasty assumptions with no room for doubt and suspicion is one of men biggest enemies. This is why men who take the red pill to the fullest are always suspecting and taking all moves a woman makes at the moment with a grain of salt. They play the game and enjoy the flow, but they don't trust or place their full hope on women.


True. We've said this before. However, you missed a red flag. Let me explain.

The Chosen Principle capitalises on LUST (aka genuine desire). A girl that has genuine desire wants to fùck you and get freaky in bed with you, not date you. A grown girl that lusts after you won't tell you that she wants to date you. Dating and serious relationships are reserved for men (blue pill or red pill) that she perceives has the resources; the moment she mentioned "date", you should have known that you were sized financially by her and her friends. You should have known that it was about the cash, not you.

Women will also try to secure rich men, but that is not the "chosen" the Chosen Principle is talking about.

If a girl lusts after you and whats to fuçk you, she will do the following:
(a) make herself readily available,
(b) make it very easy for you to fùck her (she won't stress you at all), and
(c) she will be ready to try many sexual stuffs with you and give her sexual best without you spending a dime.

If a girl you think is choosing you is doing the opposite of these, bounce. Make sure you bring the issue of sex first (as Ubunja would say); if she is not down for it or doing the opposite of the above, bounce. Sex first; you can't know the red pill, think a girl is choosing you and then try to take things slow and look for something serious... sex first! In fact, within a short time of playing the field and digesting red pills, we men should be able to tell when a girl lusts after us from the signs she is giving.

CaveAdullam:
NB: With Green light alone you will get fewer women around you, compare to when you are a pick up artist. The former is highly important when you need to commit and the later when you need to exercise your sexual prowess. It is better you go for a woman that choose you (well armed with the vetting parameters) because she's highly invested and can easily submit, than the one you selected from your "whoring" adventures. Lol!

However, the amount of green light you received is directly proportional to the height of your sexual market value, your stance in the society's totem pole and the place you occupy in the pyramid--upper echelon with top tiers men e.g Politicians, Celebrities, Entrepreneurs, CEOs, Inventors, etc. It is also dependent on the environment you place yourself. Pastors, youth leaders, choirmasters, have access to women because in their environment(church) women are in a plethora.

Green lights are abundant where women are abundant or where your high value is shining resplendently. Green lights can be direct or indirect, but irrespectively, watch out for the following signs. However, these are few and not comprising of all.

She always touch you.

Call you pet names.

Lean on you.

Want to be around you.

Always text/call you.

Respect you in public.

Always listen to you.

Always seek your advice.

Relates her personal secrets with you.

Don't pick offence easily even when you deliberately wrong her.

Always want to play with you.

Bridge: the above can also be similar to the friendzone, then, to be able to bye pass it and fully know if it is a "potential" greenlight;

She allows you to touch her freely or resist slightly when you touch her on her bo*bs and as*.

Allow you to rub her tummy. You can easily turn her on if you are very good with the tummy game.

Uses her bo*bs to brush you.

She makes sexual jokes.

She eager to sit on your legs.

She doesn't get angry when you peck or kiss her.

She eagers to come visit you.

Eager to cook for you.

Eager to want you taste her food.

Eager to share in your work.

She's jealous when you add/mention another woman in the triangle.

She allow you to lift her by placing your hands on her as*.

The key point: if she doesn't reject any of your sexual advances just know she's into you. And you must also be good in the understanding of body language and most especially reading people's intents from their eyes.

Authority: For love/marriage, let a woman choose you, but for lust, you can decide to go fishing yourself.

PS: green light guarantees high investment, high submission, high respect. But it doesn't in anyway guarantees that a woman will stick to you forever, because hypergamy is an inherent female nature. Although, the relationship can tarry for a long time depending on your frame.