Let things b pixd d way there really, dy r nt equal save d equality of allowing each other play their respective roles. It should be noted dat they r not 2b on competing note rather it is complementary.
my mother would not earn4d family just as father would not carry d pregnancy! I'd nt b in kitchen while my 6ta rakes d field or fixes d fence. We all av our roles whch dnt necessarily av to set 4contest but complement instead! All fingers r nt equal- man n woman too!

4rm some comments, I'm starting to feel d world z not save 4rm d threat of dis square folks. Dnt really understand y sm1 wud not just stop at saying marriage z not an achievement, but wud go as far as insulting those who c it differently. Materialism,failure n being square r things u shd chk out 4 in any1 who see marriage not 2b an achievement!

We trace achievements to people which is logical n so let's trace achievers to d institution dat produced them. Maybe if men start falling 4rm d sky, then marriage wud bcm anytin but achievement. We r all products of marriage n dat z mother of all achievements. Talk of d transition 4rm boy/girl philosophy to man/womanhood, 2responsive n responsible thoughts n actions, togetherness n sacrifice n many more! Which other achievement can gv u dat? Infact other achievements points to this achievement! 'e dat findeth a wife, find a good thing' n Muhammad(SAW) in one of his sayings points that marriage gvs a muslim half of his deen(religion) n such muslim shd fear Allah with d other half! Omo! Marriage sweet pass wetin I fit talk fully! Mata of factly, I think of marriage as d solution to d slighest of p I get in xul! Incase any Godfearing lady dey there wey wan marry, dis dude wan ACHIEVE o! 08099417587...dnt want to b sounding like a preach@all! *smiles*

I'm not so pressed on weda d story was cukd up or not...d comments r d tins I watch out 4...n I'm lil bit baffled wt dis idea of 'no 4gvness until confession.' even though we v diff idealogies but God z d only 4gver n we get bk 2dos we wrong only wen we can return dos tins we wronged dem wt n not necessarily recounting our deeds. So if u steal,u return but unlike dis case, there's notin 2tel ur friend save dat u repent n move albeit wit d sound idea dat; u dnt fantasise abt a man, get secluded wt him, drink alcohol n den gv hm d nod 2visit u n not get down wt him. Go marry,no drink again,avoid seclusion wt men n retouch d kind of rapport u kp wt men generally. 4y'all trusting ur husbands wt sm oda women, dre r 2tins involved;either he gets wyf number2 or he commits adultery! Dont send dem or even discuss oda women wt dem. No holy person anywhere...na blood we all dey use ma!

4y'all islamphobs! Smtyms u dnt av 2comment wen wat u've got to say z not too sensible. Pause,read n reflect b4 u type a letter. The words RULE n CHOICE were in that write up as well as ADVISE so u drop d sentiment and dnt let d head do d math n not d heart. Islam 4bids interest in watever form n even facilitating it n wat way would be d best to advertise such oda dan hving wears displaying to peep's. 'My bro z a thief, i preach to hm 2stop, but then I split d money he steals in2' c'mon open ur eyes n stop thinking shallowly! Muslims truly r wrking in interest based banks n even run accounts but then our clerics must say things d way they r. So my xtians bros, make una dey make una point without insults. Manners,ehn manners. Abeg

Al n Ar...articulating words in arabic
al-jabar (the powerful)
ar-rahman (the merciful)
al-wadud (the loving)....

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Allah, Ar-rahman, Ar-raheem, Al-azeez, As-salaam, Al-malik, Al-jabar, Al-wadud, Al-lateef, Al-ghafar, Al-kabir, Al-hameed,Al-hakeem and many more

Many comments n yet again we come up idealistic n not realistic comments or remarks. It certainly takes more than a match stick to start a fire n so I'd not dabble into who's right or wrong. Fuelling provocations n reacting to such extremely is bad n collectively work in destroying the peace we might have (if at all we have). We all know we can do better than pass insultive comments to serve our self-biase ideologies. The 'turn d other cheek' thing is 4gotten just as much as the '...except u want 4ur brother...you all r from adam's loin' is...how about we retrospect,see how much we've aided the damage n reason on just what we can do to make peace real...even if na small.