When two people come together in a relationship, it is important that they make certain adjustments. This helps their bond to grow stronger and fonder. But, always remember that a healthy relationship is a two-way street. A place where both partners are equal at all levels. We say so because when you look around you find that it is the woman who makes more than her fair share of sacrifices and compromises for her men. Especially after marriage, she is the one who is expected to make all the adjustments and changes. Ladies, while you might be doing some things happily, there are some crucial aspects in which you should never compromise evem when you are in love. Here are some things that you should never do for your man

1. Ignore Your Dreams

Just because he wants you to spend time with him or be around him always, should not make you feel guilty into turning down that big promotion or the chance to go for thyuat prestigious conference abroad. He should never ask you to make a choice between your dreams and him. There should always be a common ground to work on. Ask yourself, would you be happy in a relationship where you have to give up your hard-earned dreams? If he loves you, he will understand that your dreams and career are as important as his.

2. Modify your values

All of us have our own set of moral values and principles that we believe in. These values form our identity and individuality to a good extent. Never try to change your morals just because your man wants you to. Even if you two don’t share common values, he should always respect yours, rather than change them. This is not just about moral values; it is also about religion and beliefs. Such things cannot and should not ever be changed just because someone else wants you to do so.

3. Change Your Look

woman should never change her appearance or the way she looks only because her man desires so. Subtle changes are acceptable, like dressing and styling ones. But if he wants you to go for surgeries to change certain aspect of your appearance then never agree to it. He should admire your natural beauty and not work towards changing it. Just because he doesn’t like the way your nose looks or if he finds your ears too pointy, it should not guilt-trip you into going for something as drastic as a surgery.

4. Sacrifice your personal space

Even your family and friends need your time and attention, and this is something even you enjoy, right? So, never sacrifice your personal space and time that you should be spending with them just because he wants you to. Try to divide it and strike a balance. Just because you are in a relationship does not mean that you do not need anyone else apart from him. And, he should understand and respect that.

5. Forget Who You Are

Never try to act what you are not. Do not show that you are less intelligent than him just to boost his ego or only because it will make him happy. Men like independent women, so acting silly is not going to help at all. Also, you should not change your likes and dislikes for him. These things make you unique. So, do not lose your individuality and identity for a man. At least, not when you are being forced to do so

6. Handing over the reins

Never give him the access to be in control of you. No matter how much you love him, the decisions should always be mutual. He should never make the final decision of what you should and shouldn’t do. Always discuss with him, but make your decision keeping your own lifestyles and choices in mind.

Ladies, keep these things in mind. There are certain aspects of your personality that you should not change for a man, even when you are in love. If you are not true to yourself, you can never be true to your relationship!
When two people come together in a relationship, it is important that they make certain adjustments. This helps their bond to grow stronger and fonder. But, always remember that a healthy relationship is a two-way street. A place where both partners are equal

Davido & His Driver Beat Up MC Galaxy, Sent Him Out Of Shizzi’s Studio


SekemcroonerMC Galaxywas attacked and badly injured on Wednesday night April 15th at producerShizzi’s studio in Lekki. According to a reliable industry source,MC Galaxy,Davido(they have collaborated before)B-Red,Shizzi,Davido’s driver, a guy namedLatiand otherHKNmembers were atShizzi’s studio working and laughing when suddenly things turned ugly.
According to someone who witnessed the beat down, trouble started afterMC GalaxytoldB-Redthat he(Galaxy)was more popular than him(B-Red).
B-Reddidn’t agree and they went back and forth. Then anHKNGang member, who is a Ghanaian artist, toldMC Galaxythat he was not funny as a comedian.MC Galaxyreplied, telling him that he was an unknown artist, and they went back and forth yabbing each other. They said all of a suddenDavidocame out from the studio and askedMC Galaxyto leave.
“Davidodidn’t like that Galaxy was yabbing his boys and asked him to leave. BeforeGalaxycould react,Davidohit him on the back. Then his driver,Lati, took over, punchingGalaxyand then hit him on the head with an Orijin bottle.
B-Reddidn’t touchGalaxyandShizziwas very upset about what was happening in his studio and tried to stop the fight.
Shizziwas really upset thatGalaxywas attacked. If you seeMC Galaxy’s eyes now”
I contactedMC Galaxyto confirm he was attacked and he confirmed it but didn’t want to talk much about the incident.
“Yes, I was attacked byDavido, his driver also broke a bottle on my head.Davidois someone I love and I am surprised he did this.
His managerKamalhas called to apologize to me but I would rather not have this in the public.” he said.

fendorf:
Lmao you better call Ambode and congratulate him.you can't even win your polling unit.yeye dey smell

...... lol forgive this guy na

“If a man wants you, nothing can keep him
away. If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.”
# “Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant to be.”
# “If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don’t stay because you think ‘it will get better.’ You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.”
# “Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant, why would
he treat you any differently?”
# “Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.”
# “You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes from within.”
# “Never let a man define who you are.”
# “Never borrow someone else man. If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you.”
# “A man will only treat you the way you allow him to treat you.”
# “All men are NOT dogs.”
# “You should not be the one doing all the bending–compromise is a two-way street.”
# “The only person you can control in a relationship is you.”
# “Always have your own set of friends separate from his”
#“Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.”
# “Don’t ever make him feel he is more important than you are, even if he has more education or
a better job.” “Do not make him into a quasi- god.”
Finally, always remember, You are gorgeous
and awesome. You have to understand this about
yourself cause if you cant, then he wont.

senorova:
This is a very serious issue.... no dey spread unnecessary rumour for here abeg

Which is the rumour abeg? ****dat the kids were missing or they've been found?

Thanks to everyone who re broadcasted our last post on the missing kids.........

The latest news is that all three children have been found and that, they were found in Sagamu......

While we thank God for these kids, please let's endeavour to be more security conscious and cross examine our 'house helps' so well.

Thanks to everyone who re broadcasted our last post on the missing kids.........

The latest news is that all three children have been found and that, they were found in Sagamu......

While we thank God for these kids, please let's endeavour to be more security conscious and cross examine our 'house helps' so well.

dryakson:
I b ajebota... Therefore I have no idea what she's doing

..... Commodia...go siddon for some wia... Dem tell u say ajebota sabi wetin dem dey call ajebota?...... Nor be by mouth

Interesting

Never mind

Jes joking

Are you sure shes not an amaphrodite.....yuk!....terrible look

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My dear,4 real,run 4 ur life.i was also a victim in d year 2008,i payed 2000,they gave me letter,i tuk it 2 d company bt d job never came and same hapnd 2 all d friends i met there, so be careful o.but, there's no harm in trying sha!