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RomanceRe: 5 Ways Men Can overcome the act of Philandering. by refiner(f): 12:31am On Jan 12, 2016
canalily:
...undecidednow i can see a 25yr old widow....angry
hehhehe....I reject joor.....Buh Dats d worst fin I hate in men.....den why do u marry a wife denhuh
RomanceRe: 5 Ways Men Can overcome the act of Philandering. by refiner(f): 12:30am On Jan 12, 2016
sauceTDA:
. It's in us "if my husband tries it....na die sure pass"
. I pity you undecided
lol....just jockin...I can't even hurt an ant....
RomanceRe: Could This Be A Spiritual Problem???ur Opinion Needed Please.... by refiner(op): 12:28am On Jan 12, 2016
Cutehector:
yes of course. I can't see any reason why u should lose interest in someone just as easy as dat.

You babe are just scared to love and be loved bak.. Dat's just it. Until u free urself and let down ur gaurd, this fear will always be there and will hav a very bad effect in ur love life
hnmmm....nt as easy as u fink....av tried my possible best to Lov dear Buh its nt working...I hardly av a feeling for guys and if I do,it Wil all fade away within some weeks....
RomanceRe: Could This Be A Spiritual Problem???ur Opinion Needed Please.... by refiner(op): 12:25am On Jan 12, 2016
aaronson:
This is the answer to your curiosity.

No! Nothing spiritual in it. Psychologically, Its called "Jedi mind trick" (JMT)

Jedi Mind Trick- aka, an attempt by a person (usually futile, but please tell us if it works) to get out of something, by attempting to use the 'JMT' on a weak-minded opponent.

The reason for this according to my research is because, you and the other party don't have a lot or nothing in common so a strong bond can not be formed and even if it was formed, it wouldn't last the test of time.

Solution

"incessant interaction", With Incessant interaction you both would be bonded by things you both agreed to do together and when its done, the outcome or success of it is now another new bond and in process it gets stronger by sharing and keeping each other secret(s).
hnmmm....tried dat dear,wen we first meet and d likeness is dere,I will do everyfin to make it work,he also Wil always try to make me feel comfortable,share secrets,chat,joke and even attempt to do somethings and we Wil come out successful Buh after a week,two weeks,a month....everyfin will Jst dissapear,Wil try to keep away from him....
RomanceRe: Could This Be A Spiritual Problem???ur Opinion Needed Please.... by refiner(op): 12:20am On Jan 12, 2016
sickstars:
U dont av to be av learnt to put my mind at rest no matter wat ok
ok Lov....fanx dear
RomanceRe: Could This Be A Spiritual Problem???ur Opinion Needed Please.... by refiner(op): 12:19am On Jan 12, 2016
sickstars:
smiley av closed it
smiley
RomanceRe: Could This Be A Spiritual Problem???ur Opinion Needed Please.... by refiner(op): 12:18am On Jan 12, 2016
Collinsiweadi:
my sis in have 2 lasting solution to dis ur problem

(1)go to ur village I ask them to give ur tribal mark dis will make u less attractive to ninja men .remember big big mark ...(dizzy angle )

(2)the 2nd solution is dat u stop wearing cloth dat will make u look hot .. go to bendown select and purchase those cloth worn in d 1880s .

wit dis tips u can keep a guy for as long as 20 ,30 years time ... thank me lata ok
my broder it seem u read d post upside down...pls kindly bring up Ur fone and read it more carefully,,,preferrable with am spectacle.......I Wil be waiting for d rite words....fanx
RomanceRe: Could This Be A Spiritual Problem???ur Opinion Needed Please.... by refiner(op): 12:15am On Jan 12, 2016
Seeeeeeee:
If you like yourself leave men alone 4now focus on ur acadamics, before they destory ur sweet pussy...
lol.....Lov am 101% focused on my studies....I only keep female friends more and people keep asking if am a lesbian...I wanna proov dem wrong by aving male friends Buh its difficult for me......
RomanceRe: Could This Be A Spiritual Problem???ur Opinion Needed Please.... by refiner(op): 12:12am On Jan 12, 2016
macdon4all:
your own case is different
mine is nt....most pretty gals I knw are also suffering from dis,,,I just wanna knw whyhuh
RomanceRe: Could This Be A Spiritual Problem???ur Opinion Needed Please.... by refiner(op): 12:10am On Jan 12, 2016
[quote author=Smartguy001 post=41888935][/quote]nt dear am not proud....Hw many timehuh....if I was why den will I be wondering were my problem comes from wen I knw fully well its cos of my pride?I do let down rich guys as well as poor guys,even brilliant guys as well as dose dat are low in brain,cute guys as well as ugly guys,,,,I thought dat proud gals av class,people Dey only move out with Buh am classless....so its nt all about pride dear...
RomanceRe: Could This Be A Spiritual Problem???ur Opinion Needed Please.... by refiner(op): 12:04am On Jan 12, 2016
Cutehector:
very spiritual.. angry
u also fink its spiritualhuh
RomanceRe: Could This Be A Spiritual Problem???ur Opinion Needed Please.... by refiner(op): 12:02am On Jan 12, 2016
sickstars:
looool no let her see dis o if not na she go deliver u nd ur post grin op aint smilling o she dey vex well
lol....am nt angry....am only worried...
RomanceRe: Could This Be A Spiritual Problem???ur Opinion Needed Please.... by refiner(op): 12:01am On Jan 12, 2016
mimicious:
Hahhahahh I wonder ooooo. No be she talk say # spiritual problem. She bera go for deliverance
I was Jst asking if it was a spiritual problem....I never said it was a spiritual problem......


meanwhile no advice for mehuh
RomanceRe: Could This Be A Spiritual Problem???ur Opinion Needed Please.... by refiner(op): 11:59pm On Jan 11, 2016
sickstars:
cry i kno its whitish brown
lol...Fank God u even knw
RomanceRe: 5 Ways Men Can overcome the act of Philandering. by refiner(f): 11:57pm On Jan 11, 2016
lilmax:
We nor wan overcome am na grin
Na by force? grin
lol....kwantinue den....God is watching u...
RomanceRe: 5 Ways Men Can overcome the act of Philandering. by refiner(f): 11:55pm On Jan 11, 2016
sauceTDA:
Dis op sha go dey form saint everytime. I tire for you oo undecided
lol.......are u among dose menhuh
RomanceRe: 5 Ways Men Can overcome the act of Philandering. by refiner(f): 11:54pm On Jan 11, 2016
how I so much hate men dat sleep outside.....if my husband tries it....na die sure pass

lol
CelebritiesRe: Headies: Davido Vows To Do Worse If His New Artiste Doesn’t Win Next Rated by refiner(f): 11:23pm On Jan 11, 2016
poshestmina:
Dude use to be sensible a bit,wonder what happened to his brain of recent
my thought exactly....
RomanceRe: Could This Be A Spiritual Problem???ur Opinion Needed Please.... by refiner(op): 11:21pm On Jan 11, 2016
sickstars:
Awwwwww grin ok baby
Ur teeth tho....
EducationRe: Agbo Odeh-Hillary Of BSU Breaks Academic Record After 17 Carryovers by refiner(f): 11:19pm On Jan 11, 2016
MyFlair:
Pd form
nt yet dear
RomanceRe: Could This Be A Spiritual Problem???ur Opinion Needed Please.... by refiner(op): 11:18pm On Jan 11, 2016
obiorathesubtle:
[color=#990100]absolutely nothing.. That's why I advised you to stop lying! Who you wan deceive? I get grey hair oo..[/color]
pls I Gat no time of urs......I Dnt knw y u guys Lov behaving lik a kid...
RomanceRe: Could This Be A Spiritual Problem???ur Opinion Needed Please.... by refiner(op): 11:17pm On Jan 11, 2016
Maiconyoung:
u sure?
lol...yea,y nt....fanx ones more
RomanceRe: Could This Be A Spiritual Problem???ur Opinion Needed Please.... by refiner(op): 11:16pm On Jan 11, 2016
sickstars:
B ursef live easily be happy be positive trust nd obey God nd live long

Or
U live fast get money die young
D ball is in ur court
fanx luv for Ur opinion.....
RomanceRe: Could This Be A Spiritual Problem???ur Opinion Needed Please.... by refiner(op): 11:12pm On Jan 11, 2016
SedoAlhaji:
Babe Yr Pic Says Otherwise About You.You Are In Btw Being Ugly And Being Beautiful
lol....funny u...I never fink abt dat....is it becos I didn't edit it?well am nt claiming to be beautiful....am Jst ok,
RomanceRe: Could This Be A Spiritual Problem???ur Opinion Needed Please.... by refiner(op): 11:10pm On Jan 11, 2016
AbuadStudent:
But you know there is no solution to this "problem", so why not just enjoy it instead, breaking people's hearts is fun to me sha..at least for this early twenties age
Buh I Dnt share d same view with u....I Dnt like breaking people's heart.....
RomanceRe: Could This Be A Spiritual Problem???ur Opinion Needed Please.... by refiner(op): 10:34pm On Jan 11, 2016
Greycious:
Two things I learnt from the op's story

1. She claim to be beautiful
2. She sounds like the proud type.

My take: Calm ur nerves and u will fall in love with your guy over and over again. And don't be too picky. U can never get the most handsome guy.
swithrt am nt a proud type....and am nt too picky.....u guys should pls feel my pain....I cant fall in lov for a guy for long...wat has pride got to do wif dis nw....
RomanceRe: Could This Be A Spiritual Problem???ur Opinion Needed Please.... by refiner(op): 10:29pm On Jan 11, 2016
AbuadStudent:
Yo! Babe! Abi na refiner! It's not spiritual, it's a phase. When you enter your mid-twenties, I assure you things would change, so have fun while it lasts! wink
m nt avin fun dearie....hw will I be happy wen am breaking d hrt of many...
RomanceRe: Could This Be A Spiritual Problem???ur Opinion Needed Please.... by refiner(op): 10:27pm On Jan 11, 2016
njiasi30:
It is not spiritual, it is ur mindset. U don't go 4 d luv but 4 d fun of it.
fanx dear buh I don't fink its from my mindset.....tried all I could to love someone dat loves me so dearly buh I couldn't....
RomanceRe: Could This Be A Spiritual Problem???ur Opinion Needed Please.... by refiner(op): 10:25pm On Jan 11, 2016
Cholls:
my sister check yourself well that is what people like you say.

you washing car outside, sweeping the road doesn't mean you won't explode when someone splashes mud on the car you just washed or the floor you swept.

Ego always makes you act weird.
my dear am nt proud.... if I am I won't av been asking dis question ...I would av knw d cause of all dis..
RomanceRe: Could This Be A Spiritual Problem???ur Opinion Needed Please.... by refiner(op): 10:22pm On Jan 11, 2016
sickstars:
Babi yi cool down ur blood is hot
Who call u mami water?

Are u dehydrating mentally abi ow is it doing u in ur body
huh
severally by peepz......buh don't u av an advice for mehuh
RomanceRe: Could This Be A Spiritual Problem???ur Opinion Needed Please.... by refiner(op): 10:19pm On Jan 11, 2016
Oktoberfest:
loving someone is abt hw u make him/her happy even when u do not feel cool abt it,has 2go both ways ofcus,anything outside dat is mere attraction cum infatuation
hnnnn....fanx luv buh do u fink I can ever fall in love?
RomanceRe: Could This Be A Spiritual Problem???ur Opinion Needed Please.... by refiner(op): 10:16pm On Jan 11, 2016
cruzita:
unlock ur love and affection by answering this question *DO U KNOW NIGERIA'S FLAG IS GREEN WHITE GREEN?.
lol....be serious sis nah...help a sister

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