₦airaland Forum

chrysophem:
Can anyone help me to create a PayPal account and link it to my local bank account

Lifewithme:
It tells me something doesn't look right. It's from Africard

Lifewithme:
Just can't withdraw. Lol

Lifewithme:
Mine is on another levels

Tomidgreat:
That can’t be true, I’ve made a withdrawal today and it was successful

xrayj:
U don fit withdraw?

xrayj:
Damn!
How boys want take dey withdraw na?
Any other method?

Tomidgreat:
Just calm down bro, I’ve been using my PayPal for over a year and errors like this are normal occurrence. It’s just a mere spook in their security system. Anytime you get error messages like this, don’t attempt another withdrawal on the account until after 72 hours, don’t receive or send money either, just keep the account on a low. You can then attempt your withdrawal after the time has elapsed. Try this and thank me later

proclinician:
If you can't log into ur email address then problem is more than I can imagine.

iLegendd:
Silence...

proclinician:
Check you email for additional info

proclinician:
Withdrawal to Africard termination was a valentine's gift to Nigerians from paypal. Show is over.

Kingsdave:
She knows her parents are poor , she still insist on going to sch... Why don't she learn a handiwork or something must she go to sch... She. Just need money for acceptance fee... Hope she will surely come to you for sch fees ... What of lodge fee... Textbook... Wardrobe... Feeding .... Handout fees.... This is one of the reasons girls enter into prostitution when the gain admission...

Kelvin30286063:
Actually, I'd love to advice you but I know you won't take my advice.

NiCurious:
You can pay her tuition as a free gift, as a benefit to her, and to salve your conscience, but do it with the understanding that THE RELATIONSHIP IS DONE, and won't be the same as it was, even if she ditched the bf.

It seems to me she is playing on your emotions, your remaining love, your sense of guilt, to get the money; teasing you by dangling the possibility of maybe getting back together (or not), if you pay. She cheated on her bf to get money for her travelling bag. She'll surely cheat again for the bigger prize of the tuition fee. The verbs in those sentences are play, tease, cheat, and cheat.

Remove yourself from the situation, and look at this as if it was a friend in your shoes. Would you counsel him to go back to her, when she is now just interested in your money?

What if she wanted something that you couldn't afford to give her, but some other guy could? Do you think she would forego the luxury, and stay faithful to you? No? Are you okay with that? (If so, proceed....)

shege45:
i personally wouldn’t mind helping her ooo, but if u start am fot just acceptance, she go still dey come back oooo. Just help her, den ask her how she intends to continue the school. That this is the best u can do ooo

Kelvin30286063:
Let me advice you either way.
If the story is exactly the way you narrated it then I think you owe her and that should be your way of making her feel your importance in her life. Forget the Nigerian girl mentality you are carry around, why don't you just do it cuz you have a kind heart instead of doing it for sexual or relationship reasons.
I paid my wife's school fees all through the time she was in school, she was only my girlfriend then and I still paid it anyway, now we are married and though she works and helps the family now, she still thanks me for all the things I did for her when she had no one.
That is why you should do it. Touch her life positive for once in your life.

mgbadike81:
She's double dating and you want to train her through an institution of higher learning? Bros, you need utari mmuo

midnighter:
You dont owe her anything but if you want to pay it out of kindness, then you can.

But forget anything relationship because shes not stable and she's just trying to hustle her way up through life since her family cant help her. You cant count on her

lefulefu:
better shine ur eyes ooo

lefulefu:
if u want to pay her schools go ahead and pay nau but dont come crying after four yrs that u payed her school fees and sponsored her in school and after graduation she dumped u and married one dubai based big boy .